my gf got the ick and broke up with me because I have arachnophobia and wouldn't deal with the big spider in her house
hey yo op, fuggin, boo bitch
>>85107300i'm actually siding with her, you're a faggot.
>>85107345Agree. You can't show weakness around a woman. Yes you cam be vulnerable but ultimately she needs to depend upon you, be reliant on you. Yes you can have fears, you can even cry, be vulnerable. But ultimately, you just can't be a fucking pussy. Just harden up, be a strong man. I don't mean physically although that helps I just mean, take your suffering, overcome it, show her strength, like internal strength. Being a faggot pussy over a spider is pussy shit. Imagine some intruder comes to your house what are you going to do cry and be pussy? She needs to feel like you'll murder that cunt, stab him to death, cut his fucking head off, be vicious. There needs to be a part of you that's violent and rutheless. Of course don't be some aggressive psycho but just, deep down there needs to be that within you. And being a pussy for a spider is weak and pathetic. Overcome your fear and kill that thing. Fuck it murder it kill it. I side with your ex gf as sad as it is for you. I empathize with you losing a relationship but learn from this and grow. Harden yourself find some inner strength. Genuinely.
>>85107300if you are an amerimutt, there are like 2 spiders that are actually bad to get bit by. also you are 10000 times their size wtf you afraid of?
Arachnophobia is one of those entirely made up things that are humored only for virtue-signalling reasons."Phobias" aren't a real pathology, they're a label we give to behaviour that would otherwise be considered insane or unreasonable to normalize it.You are not so afraid of spiders that you can't function. You were simply taught that it's OK to act like you are.If you were alone in a cabin and you saw a spider and you had no Internet to tell anyone about it, you would just ignore or squish it.
>>85107553seconding this, ofcourse when big huntsman spider or something like that runs at full speed up to you you can be startled, but man, 99 percent of spiders dont do shit, just catch and release them, or ignore them.
>>85107300i would kill spiders for you anon
>>85107300Deserved, natural selection fag
>>85107300>my gf got the ick and broke up with methats how it goes...
>>85107300sounds like you had a low quality woman. fucking been with my bf for two years set free or killed every spider i came across for him before he cheated on me
>>85108613Wow imagine cheating on a woman who kills spiders for you. This world is so over
>>85107300It depends on where you are, if you're in Australia I can understand, but other than that, the spiders are small. I know someone who had a bad cockroach infestation, so someone suggested he stop killing spiders, and then the cockroach problem went away. They have their uses, if it weren't for them we would be overflowing with bugs everywhere.
>>85107300fuck this board dudemale anon gets broken up with for horrible reason? "man up fag, you're a weak faggot loser."femanon gets broken up with horrible reason? "sorry that happened to you nona, you deserve better :("GOD, THIS BOARD HAS BECOME JUST LIKE REAL LIFE, EVEN THIS BOARD HAS BECOME A WAR AGAINST MEN, I'M SO SICK OF IT ARRRGGHHHHH
>>85108693Man up fag, you're a weak faggot loser
>>85108702FUCK YOUUUU I HATE YOU GAAAHHHHI WOULD PAINT A CURB CRIMSON RED WITH YOUR USELESS BRAIN, SAME GOES FOR EVERYONE ON THIS BOARD
>>85107300Let me be the only one to say I'm sorry OP, I understand how bad arachnophobia can be. Unfortunately what the girl did is completely natural. You have to understand "love" doesn't turn off millions of years of natural programming. When you're in a relationship with a woman in this post monogamous society, you have to be cautious not to trip her evolutionary instincts by doing something that signals you're not strong enough to protect her. Even if it's something retarded like being scared of a spider, you're supposed to go through the uncomfortable feelings to take care of the situation.
>>85108693while i agree with you on the second part, you are part of the problem for empathizing with gf-haver normalscum in the first part.i simply want op to leave
>>85107300>my gf got the ickyour phrasing is not appropriate for a heterosexual man and you deserve this
>>85107509Good post, I've never heard the idea expressed so well about how you can cry and be vulnerable but deep down you still need to be able to handle yourself and be strong when she needs you
OP herethank you for the kind & unkind commentsI already had sex with another woman last night. It helped. >>85108598>>85108613Cute nonas. I'd be your bf. Thank you for understanding sensitive young men, though I'd prefer if you didn't kill the spider. I don't like harming anything in nature.
