>>85127693
Yes, you can become gay

>>85127698
that seems like such a copout though, doesn't it? like ohh, i can't get pussy so i'll gargle on cock instead as a consolation prize. remember what Rorschach said, never compromise even in the face of armageddon

>>85127693
Hit on women online and irl. Find a place where no one knows you and just sexually harass them. Do this to women with unnatural hair colours as they are the most mentally ill. I once got into an argument with some random slut at the bar, called her a cute chubby little piggy and told her to fight me. When she swung i caught her hand, immobilised her and told her that now she is my trophy and ill take her to my cave. I was near blackout drunk so nothing happened but it would have worked.

Realistically, no. Not unless you exert extraneous amount of effort for something that's not guaranteed. Just hang with the bros

>>85127836
now tell me something that works when i'm 5'4''
>>85127843
there are no bros

>>85127872
5'0 girls. Women cant judge height properly so as long as you are a bit taller and dont stand next to a 6'7 chad it should be possible.

>>85127872
my brother is the same height his gf is 5'8 theyve been together for 3 years were spic shes white. youre good looking and have muscles ur issue is autism and bpd

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>>85127907
what if i live in a messed up place where the average woman is taller than me for whatever reason
>>85127926
>tfw no girl to help me mitigate my mental deficiencies in exchange for my undying love and devotion to her

>>85127975
Women get undying love and devotion from better men for free without having to be your surrogate mother. Give up.

>>85127975
You might be smaller but they are weaker. Dominate her "against her will" (women naturally want to be put in their place) and she will be yours

>>85127986
what should i do then? i'm not content with carrying on as an unlovable, gross virgin no matter how much i fool myself into thinking otherwise. and well, autism and bpd are not exactly fixable illnesses last time i checked. i would kill myself but we both know i'm too much of a pussy to pull the trigger.
>>85128011
a one way trip to jail for sexual assault is better than nothing, i guess

What country? It quite matters.

>>85128024
>autism and bpd
getting involuntarily committed to the psychward and rape a nurse.

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>>85128029
Romania, Transylvania region
>>85128036
i was involuntarily committed to the psychward for a couple of weeks as a teen and i was bored out of my mind the entire time. psychwards here are not what you'd imagine them to be like. they didn't even give me the grippy footjob socks

>>85127693
I would pay to watch you have sex with a woman.

>>85128397
that's great and all but it doesn't really change my situation

>>85127693
Make another gay ERP thread like your previous one and make plans with an anon to get topped by him

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my options aren't looking great so far. i wish i could castrate myself painlessly so i wouldn't have to think about sex every second of every day, preferably not by taking SSRIs because i don't wanna turn into zombie. ah well

>>85130029
i'm not actually gay. i just noticed that acting like a manic bpd woman is what gets me the most attention

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i'm starting to agree with the guy who always posts about life being worthless after 25. everything is so dull and uninteresting. nothing gives me any sort of spark anymore. i really dread my birthday. i wish things could've been different.

>>85127693
Why are you so desperate to have sex? Hypothetically, let's say you do, what would actually change? Your life would remain the same, what do you hope to achieve after that? It's kind of pathetic how some people aspire to nothing more than sex. You could aim to be the best version of yourself or smth, exercise, pursue a degree, get a job, set a real goal, bcs, at the end of the day, with or without sex, you'll still be the same pathetic guy you've always been.

>>85127693
Do what I did and fuck a dog.

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>>85131064
maybe you'll find this hard to comprehend because you've most likely had girlfriends in school or at the very least people who've shown interest in you growing up, but going for nearly 25 years without receiving an ounce of affection in your life does irreparable damage to your brain. it make me feel worthless. i have no self-esteem as a person because of it, you know. i don't even feel like a regular human anymore. it hurts to know that not a single woman on this entire planet ever chose to be intimate with me in any way. no matter what i accomplish in life, this feeling will never ever go away. i'll always feel inadequate, like an incomplete person compared to my peers. i've been exercising for militantly for the past 5 years, attempted to pursue many creative projects, tried finding enlightenment in other places like philosophy, theology, history and so on. you know what all of that accomplished for me? absolutely nothing. the feeling of being a pathetic virgin loser never went away, no matter how hard i tried to distract myself with all these worthless pursuits. you're asking me what having sex would change for me, and the answer is literally everything. it would make me feel like i'm worth something to someone for once in my life. nothing would ever compare with the euphoria i'd feel knowing that i've been accepted, needed, wanted by a woman on such an intimate and personal level; knowing that a woman is willing to be this vulnerable around me and give herself to me completely, in both body and mind. that's what i'm after. why is that too much to ask for when the majority of other humans get this daily without having to do any unnecessary societal gymnastics like you're asking me to do. i'm sure having sex regularly puts them in a better headspace, too. it motivates them to do more, makes them more confident, more eager to tackle life at its most challenging, it lifts them up when they're in a slump etc. why is it pathetic to want the same?

>>85131077
why'd you fuck a dog? greentext the full thing

>>85127693
there is no easy way. you need to be handsome, famous, tall, charismatic, know how to flirt, or be rich; a combination of these will get you laid.

>>85131177
It's a long story but technically speaking the dog was the one doing the fucking.

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>>85131250
lemme see how many of these i check
>handsome
my face is completely unremarkable
>famous
i don't even use social media
>tall
lol
>charismatic
mental illness makes me a charisma vacuum
>know how to flirt
i've never had the chance to flirt with someone
>or be rich
i have enough funds to neet comfortably in a remote eastern european village if that's worth the price of admission

overall, it's not looking great. trying my hardest not to turn into a raging misogynist but it's crazy how guys have to check all these boxes and jump through all these hoops just to get girls to fuck them, meanwhile all girls have to do is
>exist
>>85131280
i hope you're not the german shepherd fucker. that guy is an attentionwhore and he kinda pisses me off. but if you're not him, it's funny that there's 2 dogfuckers on r9k, i'll christen you guy the r9canines

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i need some excitement in my life

Go to Asia, many a chud gets easy pussy there

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>>85132363
that's like hiring an escort with extra steps. those women like foreigners for their wealth. or are you gonna tell me your exotic thai waifu likes you for being a nuanced and interesting person?

>>85127693
hang out a bars and make small talk with women while being playful and a little too confident

>>85132505
are you speaking from experience? give me like, a step by step rundown of how it's gonna go

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i'm open to more suggestions from guys who were in a similar situation to me and actually made it

>>85133136
If they actually made it they wouldn't be on this board

>>85133167
you'd think so but i always get flamed by sexhavers anytime i complain about being a virgin. or maybe they're just larping. either way, it's baffling to me that well adjusted people would willingly post here. i'm here because i feel like a societal reject and this is the only place that brings me a semblance of safety and comfort

>>85131164
>going for nearly 25 years without receiving an ounce of affection in your life does irreparable damage to your brain.
Why are you asking for ways to get sex when what you want is attention and affection?

>it make me feel worthless. i have no self-esteem as a person because of it, you know. i don't even feel like a regular human anymore.
This is more internal than external. You are far far far from the only person to hit 24/25 while being a virgin. If you had sex tomorrow I don't think it would do much to change your mental health.

>it hurts to know that not a single woman on this entire planet ever chose to be intimate with me in any way. no matter what i accomplish in life, this feeling will never ever go away. i'll always feel inadequate, like an incomplete person compared to my peers.
My brother in w/e you have just barely graduated from being a child. Your life up until now is a lot less defining than you seem to think.

>i've been exercising for militantly for the past 5 years, attempted to pursue many creative projects, tried finding enlightenment in other places like philosophy, theology, history and so on. you know what all of that accomplished for me? absolutely nothing. the feeling of being a pathetic virgin loser never went away, no matter how hard i tried to distract myself with all these worthless pursuits.
First of all, props on the exercise. Second, I can't help but notice none of those things are therapy. You need therapy a million times more than you need Caligula.

>you're asking me what having sex would change for me, and the answer is literally everything. it would make me feel like i'm worth something to someone for once in my life.....it motivates them to do more, makes them more confident, more eager to tackle life at its most challenging, it lifts them up when they're in a slump etc.
These are a lot of confident statements coming from someone who's never experienced this before.

Would write more but hitting comment limit.

>>85127693
>download tinder
>swipe right on women that you would say are below your league
>sex
>regret it after because it's not just about ticking the sex done box

sex is only meaningful and fulfilling if it comes after an emotional connection is made. casual sex is meaningless.

you need a friend first, then grow your social circle and opportunties for relationships and sex will start magically appearing all around you, and you'll be able to find what you want.

sex doesn't fix everything, even deep affectionate emotional sex with someone you share a bond with doesn't fix everything. most things you have to fix yourself, and it's fucking hard, but trust me it will be rewarding in the end. keep it up with the exercise.

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>>85133237
i'm glad my effortpost didn't go unnoticed. i was getting bummed out about it.
>when what you want is attention and affection?
sex with a person you're compatible with represents the highest form of attention and affection you could possibly receive. the point i was getting across is that the physical act of thrusting into a hole in and of itself does nothing for me. the psychological gratification of it is what i'm really after; a woman feeling so much affection towards you that she's willing to let you be intimate with her in that way all of her own volition. that's really special to me. it's life changing.
>don't think it would do much to change your mental health.
do you really think so? it's quite literally my only major mental hangup and the root of my inadequacy and deflated sense of self worth. i'm fairly content with my state of being in every other aspect except for this one. i'm sure that it doesn't do much for a lot of people, but i'm one of the few exceptions where it would fix most of what is wrong with me.
>less defining than you seem to think.
i sure wish i had some sexual experiences tht could've defined me
>You need therapy a million times more than you need Caligula.
how would a therapist help me deal with my raging sexual frustration other than pumping me full of SSRIs until it kills my sex drive completely? not trying to be snarky, genuinely asking. i had mental check ups before and i know what is wrong with me and how to mitigate it for the most part. exercise keeps my neuroticism in check.
>from someone who's never experienced this before.
i know it's not much to go off of, but every anon in a similar position i've talked to over the years who ended up finally losing his virginity with a girl he was compatible with assured me that sex isn't overrated at all and it really is as good as i imagine it to be. i also noticed they became a lot more assertive and confident after it happened. there has to be a nugget of truth to all of it.

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>>85133303
my answer to you is similar to what i told the other person. you must assume i have some other underlying issue or dissatisfaction with life that i'm trying to fix by having sex. but that's really not the case at all. i feel like i figured myself out and what i want my life to be in every other respect. i just can't seem to lose my virginity no matter how hard i try. that's all that bothers me, really. autism and bpd are things i can live with and control. i've learned how to over the years. exercise helps a lot with my bpd, i'd be an impulsive, spazzing mess without it. all that is to say, getting laid is quite literally my one goal and wish in life right now and it would make me feel happier and more fulfilled than anything else in the whole wide world if i managed to do it even just once. if that makes me seem like a peanut brained normgroid if your guys' eyes then i will bear that cross with pride. i'm simply tired of lying to myself and saying that it doesn't bother me to be a virgin. i've ran out of coping mechanisms. i need this more than i need anything else. maybe my goals in life will change once i've crossed this off the bucket list, but for now i'm ocd fixated on it and can't think about anything else and i've been stuck this way for a very looong time. it's driving me crazy. maybe other long term virgins can back me up if they're not too shy to post itt but that's how i feel at least. completely consumed by this one thing, my existence getting more diminished under its looming shadow with every day that goes by.

>>85133350
(I read the whole post, and I'm responding to the whole thing even when I'm not quoting specific sections.)

It sounds like you're "content with [your] state of being in every other aspect except for this one" because you're projecting most of your issues onto sex. When I read your effortpost post above you do not sound like a 90% content individual, or 80% content individual, or maybe even 50% content individual. It sounds like there's a big part of your life that you're not content with, You're assuming that all (or almost all) of that will go away once you have sex, and I don't think even most of it will.

I'm not saying this to discourage you, I'm saying this both because I think you're not taking the most productive approach, and because I don't want you to be shocked and distraught if things don't significantly improve after having sex.

> how would a therapist help me deal with my raging sexual frustration other than pumping me full of SSRIs until it kills my sex drive completely?
Hopefully talk to you about unhealthy patterns of thinking. See stuff like When I suggested therapy I wasn't thinking about pills, I was thinking that your approach to these problems is probably holding you back. Search for "Unhelpful Thinking Habits" in your search engine of choice and look at the first few links to see what I'm talking about. If you want to try to learn about this stuff yourself, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy is the most scientifically backed, and I feel Narrative Therapy techniques might click with you as well.

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>>85133610
>It sounds like there's a big part of your life that you're not content with, You're assuming that all (or almost all) of that will go away once you have sex, and I don't think even most of it will.
i'm fully aware of that. i'm not far gone enough to think that having sex once will magically fix all my problems and turn me into some sort of supersoldier. it's more so that it will finally put me at ease. it will help me "move on" from this stage of my life. i'll be able to focus on other goals, other aspirations without dealing with the low sense of self worth that comes from my virginity, which prevents me from giving it my all when pursuing anything else, because it makes me feel awful about my self and holds me back, like i'm chained up. have you ever wanted something so bad, scratch that, have you ever been so obsessed with something to the point where it consumes your every waking thought and stops you from doing anything else? if you can comprehend even a quarter of that obsessive sensation, then you'll have an idea of how i feel on a daily basis. if i could force my brain to rewire itself and put all of that intoxicating, manic, obsession into something more productive, trust me i would've done it years ago. at this point i want to get it over with just to be freed from this mental prison my brain put me in because it hates me. i want to to do it once and then be free forever, hopefully.
>Search for "Unhelpful Thinking Habits" in your search engine of choice and look at the first few links to see what I'm talking about
i promise i will look into this for you, however.
>If you want to try to learn about this stuff yourself, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy is the most scientifically backed, and I feel Narrative Therapy techniques might click with you as well.
i have looked into CBT before as it's something that has been attempted on me as a teen. will look into other narrative therapy techniques just because you've been so kind to me itt.

>>85133735
Ah, I see, I misunderstood. I thought you were hoping it would solve those issues, not just alleviate a mental block.

Best of luck anon. You're still young and have plenty of time to get where you want to be.

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>>85127693
Think you should try to lose your virginity to someone special rather than something to get over with. Have you exhausted all normalfag options of approaching/having intercourse women?
>dating apps, cold approaching, instagram, bars and meetup places

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thinking of using this pic to market myself, what do you guys think?
https://files.catbox.moe/8kh4td.png
>>85133843
thank you for the kind wishes and for the thoughtful replies!!
>>85134006
if those normalfag options were available to me, then i wouldn't be here crying about my virginity 24/7

>>85134062
If that's your body, you are incredibly autistic. Take one gym selfie, put that on Tinder, and swipe right on any girls near you. You will lose your virginity within 2 days.
Don't use that dogshit or any internet culture at all to advertise yourself. Do not do it.

>>85134062
why are u actually this fucking hot wtf

>>85134141
I can't understand how someone who looks that good resorts to the internet and /r9k/ specifically for attention. This has to be some form of mental illness.

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>>85134062
I know an anon who reached wizard status who was able to lose his virginity using dating apps and a few offers to take using soc(which they opted out of)/after many attempts and before it was the hellhole it is now. He lived in a large city in the US so this information is pretty moot.

>>85134062
If this is the average r9k bot in 2026, I might be more subhuman than I thought. Brutal.

you need to get your own place
you can't fug if mom is upstairs watching desperate housewives

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>>85134085
>Don't use that dogshit or any internet culture at all to advertise yourself. Do not do it.
why not? it looks cool, doesn't it?
>>85134141
you might just be ovulating
>>85134175
i thought we were all mentally ill here
>>85134192
/soc/ would be a good resource if i lived in the US, but there's not that many Europeans to go around
>>85134219
i guarantee you're 100% more human than me
>>85134269
i've got my own apartment. i pay all my bills. don't have a family anymore. am completely alone in there so no one would ever bother us

Whats the problem with prostitutes? I dont get why you guys dont go and hire them. Its still sex at the end of the day.

>>85134302
would you rather experience Phantasy Star Online from beginning to end or pay for an upgrade that gets you to max level level and pushes you straight to endgame?

>>85134338
If it wasnt for hookers id be a 26yo virgin. Sex is good, the "cheating" claim normies do to discourage you from paying for it is just a gaslight

>>85134295
>why not? it looks cool, doesn't it?
No it looks like dogshit and distracts foids from your looks. If you really are independent and can pay your bills, put a gym pic on Tinder and get laid within 48 hours. No one is going to clown on you if you look badass and slay pussy on Tinder.

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>>85134377
what if i've never seen a prostitute i felt genuinely attracted to? how do i find the ones who look like smelly, unwashed hikkineets? something like picrel would drive me crazy for my first time.
>>85134414
that seems ridiculously easy if that's all it takes. does it really work that way?

>>85134450
>does it really work that way?
Yes...? Are you a faggot or something? Just a few days ago there was that thread where a guy hopped on Tinder and got 4,000 likes and dozens of matches and lost his virginity.

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if anyone wants to talk off board, my tag is rollingmitsu
no feds, no minors and no narcs though

>>85134062
You look like edgy chad

>>85135351
I'm actually crying because Chad is sitting here larping as an incel. This feels insulting. I come on the internet to escape real life realities and I'm faced with this? The rope is one's only freedom these days...

>>85134062
Dark triad schizochad thinks he knows what being a truecel is like

>>85128061
>Romania, Transylvania region
Step 1: Buy a tent
Step 2: Get in the train and head to Vama Veche.
Step 3: Hook up with the nerdy girls who are also there to fuck
That's it.

>>85134062
>using this pic
If that one is you, then you are a volcel, sorry.
Take that train to Vama Veche this week-end.
If that one is really you, fuuuck, you're cute. Kill the brainworms and just go, man.
Fuck, i wish you were into men 'cause I'd gladly bottom for you.

Losing it to a nice hooker would be much more dignified

>>85135992
how would that be dignified at all

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surprised the thread's still alive. no one added my cord while i was asleep thoughbeit which is disappointing

>>85134062
zased retard

>>85134062
>https://files.catbox.moe/8kh4td.png
LMAO. volcel ass nigga. don't do dating apps, just find some 18 yo girl on discord. discord is a better method for getting them attached to you. do VCs if you can.

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>>85138768
>discord is a better method for getting them attached to you
i did notice this as well. all this dating app talk seems like a cope from neurotypicals trying to project their mediocre dating life onto me while gaslighting me into thinking that's the only way to go. every conversation i've ever had with a woman that was worth something to me was from people i've met directly through 4ch or adjacent places. i'd much prefer talking to a girl who's fun, interesting, eccentric and able to balance out my mental illness with her own, because while i do want sex (and have an extremely high sex drive), i also want to be mentally, emotionally and spiritually connected with the person i have it with.

>>85137575
i added your cord two days ago kek you probably have an issue with your client

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>>85139148
it's either that or i did a background check on your tag and found something i didn't like. i do that to everyone who comes in contact with me. or you had a scary profile picture. or maybe my client is just busted for whatever reason.

>>85139202
how are you supposed to do a background check on a tag? you cross reference usernames?
i have unique usernames for every account i have on every platform.
my profile picture is some stupid satori picture lol

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>>85139251
>how are you supposed to do a background check on a tag?
i input your tag in every existing 4ch archive to see if you've ever posted your tag anywhere before. if you did, i check to see the thread and context you posted it in.
>my profile picture is some stupid satori picture lol
you passed the profile pic check

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>>85139310
ive never advertised my tag on any board lul
satogods do keep winning doe

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>>85139441
>satogods do keep winning doe
she's almost as good as my wife. keyword being *almost*

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>>85139502
all the love for koosh but no love for sato

>>85137398
No nonsense or games that have to be played, just straight to the point. They're usually hotter and more kind than girls you find on dating apps. Good memories for life

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>>85139532
what can i say, i have a type.. it was largely spurred on by this Koishi cosplayer i used to talk to

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>>85139642
makes sense
i can very well tell that you have a type

if im honest i don't really know what my own type is but all i know is that i dislike boring women

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>>85139636
this post was brought to you by the Israeli government. thank you god emperor Netanyahu
>>85139730
>dislike boring women
so do i, really. being interesting is like my one criteria for a partner. i couldn't care less what she looked like physically. like i mentioned in that other thread, all the people i've ever fallen in love with were simply ones that strung words together in a way that made my brain tingle. that's all it takes to win me over. sadly, the gentrification of the internet had corroded a lot of people's vocabularies and imaginations, turning them into indistinguishable, formless sludge that all blends together in my mind. best thing someone can do to impress me is to be different, have some interesting ideas you'd like to share that aren't just regurgitations of whatever you've read on your social media feed that day. i'm not going to settle for mediocre neurotypical love if i don't have to.

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>>85139810
you possess such a romantic view of things don't you desuuu

for i myself id have to say that looks of course still count but personality is just as important. i know i am in no place to bargain given my current disposition, yet, i don't think i could ever be interested in women if they didn't meet my strict criterion.
but anyways, quite frankly, i can say that from my experience talking to normie women, and normies in general, it's quite an exercise in my patience. all i yearn for someone is for them to actually be able to think for themselves, have independently thought world views and drives, and also to have unique, interesting passions. for me this makes quite a lot of women simply impossible to talk to given that the sheer reality of the matter is that most women you meet are not driven by long term goals or ideology or an existential or intellectual pursuit, they only exist to follow whatever other people are doing right now, they are purely driven by the social consensus and the norm. no matter how much women like to debate it, most of them are simply the same old vessels for others to impose their will upon.

personally, im not going to attribute this to the internet as many other people do, as i simply believe the internet was a medium through which these people could connect and be even louder together than they already are in reality. but the atomization of reality has also lead to an easier abundance of hermits to be able to find each other.

i think my favorite people to talk to are the people who feel like rabbitholes in themselves. people who feel like they have such a profound degree of introspection and understanding of the world, people with very unique points of views, people who feel like they have many stories to tell, which as to their contents they only lead you on, so that you'd have to talk to them to be able to uncover the depths of their mental headspace

i think that's what id desire in a partner, but ill never have any, so.

>>85139810
Is prostitution legal in Israel? Lots of jews oppose all sorts of sex work, even porn. Plenty of western countries with jewish influence are against it as well. Update yo script

>>85127872
>i'm 5'4''
say you got a gf who is taller than you, when you cuddle would you be the big spoon or would she?

>>85127693
seriously, nigga, do this >>85135721

>>85134085
>>85134141
>>85134175
>>85134219
>>85135738
attractive virgins are just autistic people. this is the very brutal NTpill that everyone seems to forget. yes, "chads" can be virgins

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>>85131329
>i hope you're not the german shepherd fucker. that guy is an attentionwhore and he kinda pisses me off. but if you're not him
He's not that guy but I am uwu

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>>85139954
>if they didn't meet my strict criterion.
what's your physical criteria? you made me genuinely curious now, as someone who's essentially faceblind when it comes to people's appearance.
>personally, im not going to attribute this to the internet as many other people do
notice how i said the "gentrification" of the internet. i don't believe the internet itself caused any harm. on the contrary, it's as you said, it allowed neurodivergent people, shut-ins and those with different schools of thought to connect more easily. the problem stems from how currently, the spread of information is mostly relegated to a few major platforms which leads to many people blindly adopting the same ideas and absorbing the same stream of information, losing their own sense of self in the process, if there ever was any at all.
>but ill never have any, so.
give me a few good reasons as to why you feel that way
>>85140175
i haven't looked into it, i just think your post was extremely jewish coded for some reason.
>>85140225
i often imagine myself wrapping my arms and legs around a woman who's super tall and super soft because it helps me fall asleep. i'd hold onto her like she's my giant plushie. it'd also make it more fun to grind myself against her or dryhump her a little bit if i wanted to tease her. but i'm not opposed to trying to be the little spoon if she was into that. being completely, physically overwhelmed by a taller woman and losing myself in her softness sounds fun too.
>>85140245
have you done it before? greentext your experience itt
>>85140287
that's the problem with the commodification of mental illness. everyone inherently assumes that when you say you're mentally ill, that just means you're a little quirky and rand00m or whatever and it doesn't register in their minds that you might actually have serious issues.
>>85140356
great, now there's two dogfuckers in my thread!! go away ahhh i know you have a humiliation kink and you get off on being exposed ughhhh

>>85140429
I'm just fucking with you that's just a random shepard picture from Google I'm not that weirdo.

>>85140429
>for some reason.
Not used to having certain narratives questioned? Seeing a rare take? Not sure how that's jewish

>>85140429
>greentext your experience
Uhm....
>got in the train
>got off at vama veche
>set up the tent
>show up at the rock/metal bar
>meet some new people (guys and girls)
>one of them tells me a girl at another table kept on looking at me insistently
>i refuse to believe him
>he goes "go talk to her. next round is on me if things go wrong"
>i go with the lamest pickup line
>it works
>2hrs later I was fucking her in the tent
Repeated the experience for a week (I only had money for a week, I was poor). Fucked two women and got fucked by a guy over that week. Never saw the women ever again. I did stay in touch with the guy tho.
This was in 2019.
And I'm uglier than you and 166cm.

>>85140429
that's pretty cute, would you be able to cuddle without getting turned on? like nonsexual just spending time together being close.

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>>85140429
well, despite me saying it was strict, all i really demand in someone is to be at least above average in terms of looks. i dont have any particular demands as to my girlfriend should look, but it wouldn't feel good if she wasn't at least an 8/10 in terms of looks to me.
> which leads to many people blindly adopting the same ideas (...)
Yeah, I see your point now. Ted Kaczinsky talked about it as well, and though I don't agree with him about everything, I do think he has a point about over socialization.
However I personally think the truth lies in that these people never truly had a sense of self or really had such an important sense of self that they'd feel strongly towards anything, or any individual thoughts until the internet came along social and redefined the social pressures which determines the way in which most people in society behaves, and this effect I believe can target anyone as it is an insidious and subconscious process, but it particularly targets those who are more strongly socialized and who let social norms define their internal world rather than those who are deficient in social functions and thus unable to adopt group thought on the same level. That, or perhaps it is the strong sense of individual thought that overrides the social mirroring of ideas, or both.
But if there's one thing I can say about this phenomenon, it's that it's made people much harder to talk to, since the ever so abundant oversocialized individuals must always verify their internal thoughts with the internalized group think, and thus anything suggested outside of it is swiftly rejected as a self defense mechanism of the social mechanism.
>give me a few good reasons as to why you feel that way
I'm so autistic that my sensory sensitivities cause me to be unable to tolerate people. That, and daily interaction with people, especially the extremely frequent and recurrent interactions required for a relationship, I cannot tolerate.
Also I'm too ugly for my standards.

>>85131280
Oh my god, greentext it you fucking faggot

>>85127693
CLASSIC BEYBLADE AAAAAGH
lol we could be good friends guaranteed

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>>85140449
should've known.. that guy only ever posts pics of german shepherds wearing glasses. my opsec is getting weaker.
>>85140541
it's not that, it's more so i'm bewildered because i've never seen someone advocate for prostitution while rejecting the idea that women could be worthwhile beings to converse with to such an extent before. i'd like some more insights into why you feel that way if you'd like to win me over.
>>85140600
is it seriously this straightforward? that is encouraging to hear if so. did you go there all on your own? did you ever find it awkward to start conversations with new people? or does socialization sort of come to you naturally and it's not something you put much thought into? i'm curious to know.
>And I'm uglier than you and 166cm.
most life-affirming thing i've heard in a long time
>>85140643
>would you be able to cuddle without getting turned on?
absolutely!! i'd love it if we could fall asleep in each other's arms all bundled up together, and then wake up the next morning still tightly embracing each other with neither one of us willing to let go because we find each other's embrace too soothing and comforting.
>like nonsexual just spending time together being close.
i value sweet, tender, romantic moments like that shared with my partner just as much as everything else. but as i said previously, i do have an extremely high sex drive so i'd like for my partner to be able to handle it or at least put up with it for my sake. then, when i'm all exhausted and sweaty and out of breath, we can balance it out by being all cute and caring towards each other, with lots of kisses and cuddles and hair ruffling.

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>>85140677
>Also I'm too ugly for my standards.
"ugly" is subjective at the end of the day. one person could consider someone ugly, while to another they might be the most gorgeous person they've ever seen. for me personally, if i'm attracted to someone, then that person instantly becomes the most attractive person in the entire universe and the only one i ever care about. i understand the majority of the population will not agree with me, but i believe you can have more fruitful relationships if you fall for someone's personality rather than their outward traits and vice versa. a relationship based solely on looks and physical attraction can only take one so far until the flame of passion burns out and you're left sharing a bedroom with someone who might as well be a stranger to you because your views on life are so different.
>>85140693
he'll never do it, once a dogcel always a dogcel
>>85140706
>CLASSIC BEYBLADE AAAAAGH
AKA the best Beyblade. if Kai's character arc and journey of redemption across 3 seasons didn't move you as a kid, then you've got no heart.
>lol we could be good friends guaranteed
you promise?

>>85140901
>you promise?
yeah i don't ghost people or anything i like the pics you post
haha that Kai vs. Brooklyn match ... >__<
if you wanna drop a tag or smth i'll add you
been a while since i saw such kino posted

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>>85141005
my tag is riiight here!! >>85135004
we can talk all about beyblades, i know a lot..

>>85141044
aww thx well i g2g but dw comrade we're all gonna make it if we keep on spinning

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>>85140901
are your thoughts are truly as original as you think. i think everyone to some degree knows that personality is an important factor for a mate and do in fact filter for it. of course, i don't disagree that a large part of the population will prefer frivolous sex over long term sustainable relationships, but that could possibly speak more as to the content of the characters than how they necessarily conceptualize relationships.
but there still comes an individual degree for tolerance to physical attractiveness as a barrier to personality, depending on your own individual level of sexual inhibition. i am quite an inhibited individual. if i were to happen upon an unattractive individual or someone who simply doesn't meet my criteria with a great personality, i think i couldn't ever possibly fathom them as mate. i think id have a hard time empathizing with them because that's simply in the shallowness of my attraction. but i could not consider someone who i don't find attractive a mate; at best i could possibly simply consider them a companion.
you seem to be a very romantic individual, and personality seems to be a much greater factor for you than attractiveness. however, i might go so far as to argue that since you're a hikki, your conception of people as being physical entities separate from their social presence is quite underdeveloped. and if you talk to people online, it is quite easy to detach yourself from their words to simply attach yourself to the pure idea of the individual. however, you'd have to consider the transition from the online, to physical relationship as well. and who knows, perhaps you are as sexually uninhibited online as you are in real life, i couldn't say so myself.


anyways, besides all this, id really have to say that the biggest issue for me isn't anywhere near being personality, it's simply that i cannot very much tolerate people over the long term. too much exposure to someone makes me grow distant. im just solitary.

>>85140901
When your choices are so bad you keep looking back to your exes while chud says goodmorning to other girls

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>>85140901
So anyone that likes you for any amount of time. The pajeets will love this!

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>>85141098
do you think a girl would hate me if i pulled anal beads out of her butt while larping as Kai and shouting "let it rip" as they came out
>>85141125
>your conception of people as being physical entities separate from their social presence is quite underdeveloped
you're completely right in that assessment. at the same time, this has always been one of my favorite aspects of the internet as a whole; you know, being able to judge someone based off their words first and everything else second. i've managed to have way more fruitful interactions with people throughout my life that way. it actually irks me how shallow most people are sometimes. the second they're attracted to someone, they're willing to put up with a lot more from that person, which often leads them to put up with increasingly abusive behavior once the attractive person realizes they could get away with it.
>perhaps you are as sexually uninhibited online as you are in real life, i couldn't say so myself.
it's honestly hard to say at this point as i haven't interacted with people in real life on a regular basis in god knows how long. but back in school i was a very shy kid. i always kept to myself and tried to make myself invisible to others so they wouldn't bother me. i'd like to think that these days my shyness has mostly washed over me, at some point i just stopped caring about most things. it's like my neuroticism cannibalized that part of my brain like a stillborn and now i act purely on instinct, hence my lengthy, stream of consciousness posts.
>im just solitary.
i am as well deep down, i only really need one person to keep my social needs satiated.
>>85141133
are those the lyrics to your new incelcore rap
>>85141235
why would the guy who cancelled Apu fall in love with a Romanian boy

>>85140814
that's very sweet, if it gets cold where you are I bet it'd feel comfy to fall asleep holding someone during the winter months. thanks for answering my silly questions anon

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>>85141669
>if it gets cold where you are
i'm far east so it's very cold here nearly year round. i sure could use someone else's heat to keep me warm at night...
>thanks for answering my silly questions anon
pleasure is always mine. i'm currently this board's greatest dweller because i lack a person to keep me occupied, so i'll be here all night if you come up with more questions.

>>85134062
The lion roar is tripping me up

>>85141710
don't you live in romania? do you think it would be safe for an american to solo travel there?