My boyfriend swears at me in arguments. And won't apologise. Even though I always try to be calm and apologize if I say anything rude
>>85140969verbal abuse leads to traumabe careful with that anon c:
people be swearing a lot a sign of degeneracy
>>85140969your boyfriend sounds based, tell him this anon says he's invited to my poker game to talk shop anytime>nice job making the same thread twice retard
Even though I have told him before not to. I just feel that I say I don't like something and have a conversation about it. Only to them it be ignored
I just feel like my wants and my feelings are not respected
Ima just throw it out therebut dump him there's literally other men in this planet to choose from
>>85140969>my boyfriendKill yourself used up whore
I just idk I don't know
>>85140969Is he swearing at you like using them as advjective? "Fuckin' loser"? Or is it like "This fuckin' happens every time!"?
>>85141189I know you don't know you know idk, know what I'm saying?
>>85141229Pretty bad, cuz. Might need to eject out of the relationship. Would be bad enough if he was swearing if you both agreed to not do that when angry. But uh, yeah he's not being a nice dude.
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>>85140971Only if you do it routinely, as if it was part of your standard vocabulary. Swearing on emotionally charged situations is good.
>>85141241Bro doesn't even want to be in the relationship anymore. Just walk away.
>>85141241B-B-B-BASEDthis guy fucks (just not you)
>>85141251Why do you say that exactly
>>85140969i hope he snaps and starts beating you
>>85141241i dislike aggressive swearing but i also dislike people who say shit like "dont talk to me like that"both of you are faglords, and therefore, perfect for each other
>>85140969say more mean shit you dumb bitch. seriously you conflict avoidant pussies ruin everything by focusing on being polite instead addressing if theirs an actual problem you're having. fuck you i hope your entire lineage burns in a fire.
>>85141324I literally talk openly about issues but I don't accept being talked to like that
>>85141337nah your way of talking about conflict is poking at the dudes insecurities when you're losing an argument, your way is saying hes to angry when he calls you out on that, your way is using that language as an excuse to not address what he's upset about, your way is gaslighting changing the subject and making it about that rather then what hes actually upset about. youre garbage
>>85141373I am not reading this because it is blatantly untrue
>>85141376lol fucking foid
>>85141380You just not right
>>85141258Fuck you = personal attackYou're delusional = aggressive communicationYou keep getting shittier and shittier = whatever the opposite of constructive criticism is
>>85141459If he loved you or cared it would be more like "What's going on babe? I feel confused. It seems like we keep moving backwards. I thought you said that you/we were gonna yadda yadda yadda"
>>85141459typical bitch with npd "he just started saying this with no reason idk whats wrong with him :((((" "all he says is insults and im in a relationship trust me this is real!!!!". Youre a manipulative cunt behind the scenes you'll gaslight everyone around you into thinking he's a manic psycho when he was a totally normal dude before you entered his life. He'll probably beat the fuck out of you without even knowing why because you under value his achievements his, get jealous of his accomplishments, isnt codependent on you, and over react for the smallest problems saying it has underlying factors when he forgets his fucking keys. I feel bad for him because he should really just dump you and leave, not that youd want that.
>>85141567The way I see it, if you have to start swearing at someone and call them delusional, you don't like the person any more. Time to end things.
>>85141789yeah confused you with op im not stupid girl boss i think shes done cuz i bruised her ego
