>hasn't talked to me in a week, and is mean to me>still hasn't broken up with me Men why are some of you like this
Btw I am talking about my boyfriend if it wasn't obvious
W*men are just a warm wet hole to jack off in
idk maybe you should sit down and talk to him or something
You do have a job other than curdling the list of entities after 30 Rainbows right?
>>85156941What is the point he just deflects or ignores if I tell him. Hey stop doing stuff I find disrespectful and you promised to stop
>>85156956oh my fucking GOD, stop posting this crap already and break up with the nigger
>>85156879anon that is a break up
>>85156965>>85156973Then why isn't he breaking up with me if he is not talking to me
>>85156956I'm sure he suddenly started acting like this overnight for no reason
>>85156981have you tried to text him at all during the week?
Women will chase and tolerate men that will abuse them in every way possible, and friendzone men that will fight the world for them.You all deserve all the pain you get.
>>85156981BECAUSE IT'S AN OBVIOUS SIGNAL TO YOU THAT HE ISN'T FUCKING INTERESTED ANYMORE. DO YOU NEED A FUCKING FLASHING HINT BUTTON, YOU VAPID BITCH?!
>>85156992He told me before not to try talking to him>>85156998He posted this here? I am getting mixed messages
>>85156879>boyfriend won't talk to you and is mean>you still won't break up with himWhy are you like this? Stop venting and maybe hoping he'll change or do the work of leaving for you, and just leave him if he's shitty.
>>85156879Men are really weird. I was edating a guy from /soc/ and he lost his mind and deleted all of his messages to me from the past year and called my a psychopath because I continued to post on /soc/ looking for friends. Some random anon replied to him in the /soc/ thread egging him on by saying I was a psychopath too and he took the word of a random stranger over someone he allegedly "loved". Men don't "love" you, they only "love" what you offer them. Sometimes, they only "love" the idea of what you offer them, with no intentions of following through with any of their promises.
>>85156879In his mind you guys aren't even together at this point if he hasn't talked to you in a week, he's just hoping you dump him so he doesn't have to be the asshole. Classic move. Probably already talking to someone else or just over you.
>>85157026>He told me before not to try talking to himDO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT THE FUCK THIS MEANS?!!!!!! IT MEANS THAT HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU ANYMORE, MOVE ON YOU RETARDED BINT AND FUCK OFF THIS BOARD
>>85157043>>85157040Ok then why did he posted this?
>>85157030>edating >love Lmao you're delusional lady. There is no love in edating. Erelationships aren't even real until you meet IRL bro. I did that shit when I was younger too and it was fucking stupid.
>>85157053Posted what? You forgot a pic i think
>>85157063It's literally the thing I already posted
>>85157053HE IS CURRENTLY TALKING TO OTHER GIRLS AS WE SPEAK, YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A FORGOTTEN MEMORY FOR THIS GUY, HE HAS MOVED ON!!! NOW YOU DO THE SAME YOU FUCKING DUMB CUNT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>>85157074Then why did he posted that here
>>85157069This?>>85157026He's just looking for attention you fucking idiot. Honestly I don't even care, I talked to that retard last in his thread and he comes off as just as stupid as you do. Both of you are mental cases who are just delusional and not even in a real relationship. You guys are straight up just playing pretend and can't even do that functionally.
>>85157094>comes off as just as stupid as you doSo which is it does he not mean it or is stupid. You are contradicting
>>85157109I'm not saying any types of contradictions. He's stupid and also doesn't give a shit about you, both can be true. Like I said, you're not even in a real relationship. You guys are just playing pretend in a chat room and you're all bent out of shape over it while he makes threads on /r9k/ using his choice to not talk to you to get attention lol. Get some self worth ffs, this is how you want to spend your life?
>>85157026anon, from woman to woman, its totally normal to go a few days without wanting to talk to someone because peoples emotions fluctuate and most people here are naturally introverted with minimal social capacity. that being said, unless something bad is going on in his day to day life there is no reason for a man who genuinely likes YOU (not just your presence as a woman and companionship) to go a week without talking to you. at that point, id start having a real conversation with him, not an argument because thats frivolous at this point and will just make him want to avoid talking about it more , about ending the relationship because as he said right there in that post, you evidently arent compatible. in the post it sounds more like hes sad that he isnt retaining your interest and how that reflects on him and his ability to connect with people rather than him actually being sad to be losing you. i dont know what happened to get to this point and whos to blame for losing feelings but thats really not the important part anymore. stop posting this shit on an image board where you both know youre going to see it anyway and actually start communicating, you dont always get someone else to start seeing your way and sometimes you just have to end the relationship making peace with that.
>>85157146You are contradicting yourself. If he means what he said in the thread that contradicts you saying he doesn't care. We literally met stop being patronising
>>85157165He didn't mean what he said in that thread, like I said he's looking for attention. You know what though, keep sitting around being miserable. All I was trying to was help but you clearly don't want help, you deserve all the misery you get. You also can barely speak english.
>>85157074That sounds like psycho behavior. To look up some relationships rules on reddit and immediately assume that the cucks there know what they are talking about. Why are you women so retarded?
>>85157160Ok then why isn't he breaking up with me >retaining your interestNot what is happening
>>85157176Why would you lie about wanting someone for attention? Isn't the sexist thing to say he doesn't want me?
>>85157192you must be pretty fugly to be this desperate
>>85157200Do you have difficulty reading english? That's not even what I said. Just fuck off already, you're annoying. Totally starting to get why he doesn't want to talk to you. I'm already exhausted by your retardation and I've talked to you for 5 mins.
>>85157192again, because men dont get opportunities for relationships at the snap of a finger and you are what is here at the moment. i already said liking you and liking the attention and companionship you give are two separate things. he may not be willing to give those up just yet. if you know so well what is happening then why are you even asking in the first place? what do you think is happening?
>>85156956So what did you do to him
>>85157160>totally normal to go a few days without wanting to talk to someoneI don't think this is true. Maybe for randoms but not someone you are supposedly dating.
>>85157229Read her posts in this thread, she probably kept asking him stupid ass questions and trying to one up him and he got tired of it. She's actually pretty fucking insufferable in this thread.
>>85157230thats fair desu for me personally i would not want to be in a relationship like that but i know for a lot of people thats sorta expected for them, so i dont feel like i can call it normal or abnormal
>>85157203Yes i am really ugly>>85157212Answer my point please>>85157225Idk what is happening. Well apparently he doesn't like the companionship since he hasn't talked to me
>>85157283>Answer my point pleaseWhat point? Why would he lie about wanting someone for attention? Because this is /r9k/, 90% of thread on here are made to get attention, bait sympathy and as an excuse to endlessly talk about one's self. I mean take a look around, most people here are massive attenitonwhores.
>>85157305I guess. I don't know what to believe if I .just going to be fed lies
>>85157244Every time man. And you still have the simps here crying and calling these guys abusive with no context
>>85157283>doesnt like the companionship since he hasnt talked to meperhaps its better than being officially single, right now he knows youre there and available when he does want companionship. just trying to help
>>85157268>would not want to be in a relationship like that but i know for a lot of people thats sorta expected for themWhich part? You don't want to have to check in daily or that you don't want to go multiple days of no contact with your lover?
>>85157395dont want to go multiple days with no contact
>>85157026>few days every now and thenI've totally been there. I miss pre-cellphone dating when you weren't expected to respond to texts 24/7 and you can knock out of a day's worth of interacting with a single phone call in the evening if you aren't meeting in person that day. Also if you weren't home you couldn't receive any calls at all. Too bad finding someone that would be okay with that nowadays is nearly impossible.
>>85157458I fucking don't. You just ended up having to listen to a chick talk for 5 hours about her boring ass day and you'd end up missing out on sleep and shit. Much rather have a chick type into an empty void of text that you can reply to whenever you want.
>>85157447>dont want to go multiple days with no contactOhh same. I think it's bad to do and I really don't think most people do that. I need a daily check in or at least every 2 days or It'll mess me up.
>>85156981>>85157026anon just break up with the guy
>>85157230>>85157160I would love a ten day break from my wife and kids. I love them and won't be taking a break, but I would love one. Especially if it was fishing and camping and not interacting with another soul.
>>85157568youd go ten days without even sending as much as a text message?
>>85156996Nah, everyone does this. It is due to how human attachments form. It is easier to stay in a comfy hell, than an unfamiliar heaven. Brains seek familiarity. The longer this sort of back and forth goes on, the hot and cold behavior, the harder it is to break off. It becomes addicting to the brain. I can't blame people for falling into this situations, but I do agree that Nona should break it off. This is clearly a toxic relationship.
>>85156879you're a genuine dumbass or a rage baiter, please do not break up with your boyfriend, not only would I feel bad for the next guy you move on to, but also for whatever chick he slips in to.
>>85158425What did I do exactly?erm
>>85158425You should have seen her boyfriends thread last night. He's an obnoxious attention whore faggot with an awful personality. Dude comes off as a 10 year old. They deserve one another. Two terrible people.
>>85158556This entire post, stop begging for attention.>>85156956You're either super annoying and cut out the parts that made you look bad or you are staying with someone who is obviously using you. in any case you're a retard and in most cases so is your boyfriend.
>>85158622I don't know I know myself that I try to be calm and nice and that is the only thing I can say
>>85158668being nice isn't a good thing it's just what faggots like you say when they don't want to do what need to do
>>85158696You are just insulting me and being bad faith
>>85158709this isn't a debate. and yes, people who do dumb things and post it get insulted, what do you expect on 4chan of all places
>>85158730Well don't claim you are correct if you don't want to substantiate your position
>>85158752actually sub 20 IQ, you're the type of person to fight against someone saying the sky being blue because you think other colors are prettier.
>>85158773You still haven't substantiate your claim
>>85158801use your eyes to look at your own post and screenshots, also stop using substantiate like you can actually define that word without searching it up, you don't look smart for using big words, you look dumb for treating this like a debate, when its answers to what you've provided, if you don't like the answers show something that proves it wrong.
>>85158848You still haven't substantiate you point
>>85158867rage bait, now i know this is a grown man with too much time on their hands.
>>85158888Still haven't substantiated
>>85158585Are you going to give that context or just talk about how bad it is?
>>85157026Oh, that guy. Lmao.Your bf is a faggot and everyone thinks less of you for liking him, even if you're ugly.
>>85159364Don't bully him
>>85156879Is he your ebf or irl bf?If ebf, you should've known better nona...If irl bf, break up with him before his neuroticism begins to affect you
>>85156956Ohhh you're this nona. The guy's a loser just dump him. You deserve better
Drama threads would be much more fun if we still had the IP counter and we could narrow down the few overly invested gossippers spamming dump/marry
If a man >says he wants you but doesn't want you > keeps saying you don't care about them>Is angry easy and often >Has issues with criticism Is that a sign of bpd ?
>>85159448It's a sign of being a loser faggot
>>85159448Those are defining characteristics of pwbpd
>>85159542>>85159542What if they withdraw I thought clinginess was a symptom
