Diaper/ABDL thread. Threads are alive and popping. Lets keep it rolling.
Blushy anon, reply here. I don't care that much if you have a dong I just want to know the truth of what I'm getting into. We can RP in this thread if you get back to me
Fuck, forgot to do some shit. TQ: What's the most embarrassing moment you've had related to this?Old and stinky: >>85170804>>85170804>>85170804
>>85175618nope dont have a pp and never had im just an emotionally stunted zoomer raised by the internet so i type like a retard
>>85175589Yeah my wife doesn't really get it so I never bothered to push it and slowly over time its kinda fadded away. I do still like the practical use of being padded tho. A weekend with an empty house, diapers and games all night with no piss breaks is nice. Thanks for the input, its neat.
>>85175655>emotionally stunted zoomerOh how much of a zoomer? How old?
>>85175622Umm... Most embarrassing moment for me is probably when I impromptu went to a party at a friends place.>sitting at home chilling, diapered>friends asks if I want to come over, few other acquaintances there.>debate for a bit. decide fuck it, I'll just go over and say hi at least>Only planning on saying hi so go over with diaper still on>Stay longer than planned, have a few beers.>Pee>Stupid dumb idiot, ABU Preschools have ass absorbency. >Feel myself leak a bit. (shut ut Indo)>quickly say bye, leave and head home.I don't think anyone noticed, people were pretty drunk. I never heard anything about it at least. But yea, that was pretty embarrassing and dumb.
>>85175678i'm 22 and ill be 23 in a few days
>>85175533Threads seem pretty alive at this point, hopefully it'll live. Thanks for keeping it up yesterday, again.
>>85175622>the most embarrassing moment you've had related to this?I feel like a couple years ago I would have remembered a good answer but now I don't really have anything.Said last thread as a teenager I had to put my head around a door to have a conversation with my dad while in a wet pullup. The knowledge of that is pretty embarrassingMy room mate went through my shit and found my diapers and didn't tell me until months later. I guess I'd be embarrassed about that but I kind of wanted to be able to talk about it to the people I was living with. We didn't really, after that, but not for any particular reason.I guess before that, there was the time I was diaped the fuck up in a communal space and room mate came back unexpectedly and I had to lock myself in the bathroom and say I was naked. That was kind of embarrassing.Wore in front of former co-worker I had a crush on but that's literally the whole story.I did a bunch of stuff in public but nothing of note. Just having diapers on outside, no one noticed, I didn't really enjoy it, end of story. I did that covid trend of putting a paci under my mask. That was kind of fun and silly, I went grocery shopping and did have to interact with staff at one point, but got away with just nodding and making a noise instead of having to try and lisp behind my paci.
>>85175707So young ;_;And you're into pussy as well as diapers then?
>>85175754yeah i like both a lot i think diapers are my top fetish. i think i feel out of place often on 4chan because im so young and everyone else is much older ;;
>>85175743I kinda wanted to do the paci under mask thing. But with how small my village is if something happened it would have basically been gg's,
>>85175622I've forgotten that I wasn't wearing pants and opened the door for my roommate before even if she knows it is still a bit embarrassing and I have also had someone open the bathroom stall when I was changing my diapers in public.
>>85175841Why wouldn't you lock the bathroom stall?! DitzI've seen a video where a person was standing in a stall showing off their diaper and the door opened. But they probably left it unlocked on purpose for exhibitionism reasons.
>>85175864the locks weren't working at least it was a pull-ups style one so the person probably just assumed it for my period.
>>85175889Brave to change yourself in a stall with broken locks. But you had a good out at least in that case. I've seen quite a few posts about women using diapers for their periods.
>>85175802>i think i feel out of place often on 4chan because im so young and everyone else is much olderNewfag reporting in. Also don't feel bad there are a ton of young people on here
>>85175802And you're into Scotty then? A "lesbian fling" you said? Why don't you tell the thread what she makes you think about? Do you want her to mommy you, is that it?
>>85175889Oh yeah I remember you saying you recommended drynites to other women for periods a long time ago
>>85175815Where do you live? Eastern Europe?
>>85175931I think you're mixing up your girls?
>>85175937Nah Swedenistan. Like 10k pop village if even. Hey! That diaper has stretchy tabs! God, it looks so nice.
>>85175596Should these threads be numbered. That gives the feel of a "general", which might get the thread deleted.>>85175802As 31 yo senior citizen, this hurts to read. That's it, I'm giving up diapers, it's high time I potty-trained.
i have an opportunity to make this handsome rich normie my bf but like i think hes too normie to let me indulge in diapers, the subject.. has not been broached. its a dilemma crinklers
>>85175977ease into it, admit to some more palatable kinks first, which I'm sure you have
>>85175976Why would it get the thread deleted? I mean we can skip it if you guys want. Just though it'd be fun to keep track of how long we can keep this going.Noo don't give up diapers... You're still baby and smol... promise...
>>85175815Travel somewhere you wont be remembered>>85175944Were all Scotty down here
>>85175977Yee probably what >>85176000 said. I feel like most men have some inherrent desire to be dominant, just play into that in some way.
>>85176010I have thought about moving. But I don't really want to. I like my village. My g-ma's also 90, so I'm probably staying and helping her out until she passes. But I do feel like my window for ABDL is closing, but that's not really a thing. I hope.
>>85176010>Travel somewhere you wont be rememberedThis. I once accidentally left out an entire package of diapers (medical ones, not ABDL thankfully) on my hotel bed in Hong Kong, and ran into the housekeeping lady in the hallway just as she was exiting my room. I'm sure my face was red as a cherry but in retrospect it was pretty hot. The actual embarrassment in the moment is brutal though
>>85176056You don't have to live somewhere else to be somewhere else dingus
>>85176081Oh... Guess that's true. I've diapered for long drives before. Would/could be kinda fun to do a diapered weekend in Stockholm or something.
>>85176080I've thought about going on vaycay someone and being diapered but always thought/felt like diapers take up too much space in a bag. How'd you deal with that?
>>85175444>Ultimately insight into the origins of a fetish requires introspection.i agree, on an individual level, that if you want to know the origins of a fetish, it requires a deep level of introspection. and you're also right about getting 100 different answers if you asked 100 different abdls where they thought it came from. no two people have exactly the same reasons for desiring this, just as no two people are exactly the same in general.i still think, however, that there's at least a trend (or trends) that can be identified. even if there are a wide variety of people within this space, for whatever reason, they're attracted to this space over others. there is some amount of overlap of the desires people within this space feel.empirical data would definitely be helpful, but i think, due to the nature of eroticism and sex in general, it wouldn't provide a complete picture. it'd be helpful to learn more about the nature of sex and eroticism abstractly to determine how this kind of thing develops.>So as a result most public personas in ABDL circles instead concern themselves more with things like acceptance, embracement, and community support, since internalized shame is a common problem that many need to address. If you want to see the failures of people that couldn't handle that, check out r/quittingabdl. That's the binge-purge cycle at its most extreme.this is where i think i differ from most people within this space. the binge-purge cycle isn't the result of shame itself. when you're engaging with it, you don't really feel shame necessarily. the process is: you engage with it, you lose interest in it, you struggle to remember why you liked it in the first place, feelings of shame, purging. this is also why i have a problem with simply embracing it: whether you're embracing it or trying to purge it, you're locking yourself into categories that you don't need to lock yourself into. sometimes you'll be really into it, sometimes you won't.
>>85176177...bring a bigger bag? Every time I go anywhere I put diapers in my suitcase
>>85175920Yeah i think Scotty is really cute but i also have a thing for white women i will admit. i think i think similar to most when i see cute diaper girls just "ah, she's so pretty and cute". I do like being mommied but i also think mommy'ing a much older woman sounds really good
>>85176216Fair nuff. With my normal travel bag (which I thought was pretty big) I felt like I couldn't bring very much.
>>85176230Are you only into women Indo or are you into boys too?
>>85176261I like everything even if i still feel great shame admitting that since growing up i was told how evil and bad it was to do so!!
For those of you who wear outside for long periods, how do you carry spares with you and how do you deal with changes? I don't really like wearing out and the few times I have I paced myself so I wouldn't need a change.
>>85176273Is that the social norm over there? Or was it just your parents? I have no clue about how culture views that stuff over in Asia.
>>85176285I have brought spares before. And I have also paced myself. I think the longest I've worn out is like 8 hours, a back and forth drive to Stockholm. Brought 1 spare with me and changed in a McDs bathroom somewhere.
>>85176285I just wear a megamax and change when I get home again
>>85176328Oh shit, that person. Were they trans or were they just a sissy? I can't remember. That video is fucked. Persons in a car crash and you just go up filming them.
Wow, I never expected to see two threads capped. Not sure how you two managed it. Is this where we're setting up shop instead of /b/ now? Should have done this seven years ago.
I'm a little sad that no one commented on my ABDL Safety Dance lyric attempt >>85171163. Maybe it wasn't obvious enough, or maybe I'm just a dummy who thought it was funnier than it was.
>Looking at other ABDL paraphernalia from other companies because why not>One has enamel pins, I like pins>Most are of diapers, while I like them I can't exactly display them>One pin is of a diaper being microwaved>Uhhhh>They also have neon signsThere sure is a lot of stuff out there!
>>85176358I mean that's what I hope to be doing. /b/ was good while it was good. But I do really like this place a lot too. Slow enough, forcing conversations/chatting. I think it might work.
>>85176285Just pack a spare in a backpack or bag, whats the issue?
>>85176379>micrwaved diapersPlease no god. Why would you make a pin of that. Surely there can't be a market? Please tell me there's not a market. We have so many other cool things we could be making.
>>85176341I think it was just a sissy guy but the media assumed he was trans lol. Wild that he just kept going afterwards; was obviously drunk or on something
>>85176390Wow, I can't spell huh? Guess I'm getting sleepy. I should be heading off to bed soon.
>>85176399Yea I think it came out that he was both drunk and on something. Didn't they have like a YouTube channel that had a few k followers or some social media presence at least?
>>85176390It looks like just a raunchy joke, there's other stuff there like babyfur, inflation, a fork being stuck in an outlet, and whatever. But I sure wasn't expecting to see it!
>>85176416oh really? that part I didn't know. would love to see his socials. what a legend
>>85176289Yeah it is pretty frowned upon by most there and seem as pretty bad
Have any of the usanons tried the lettuce messing trick yet?>>85176364>Safety "Pants">>85176379>>85176379>One pin is of a diaper being microwavedlink, I need this for my work bag.>Potty Dance (too on the nose)
>>85176429That's sad. But at least you're in Canada now right? Canada's pretty gay. :D
>>85176442>Have any of the usanons tried the lettuce messing trick yet?It's not funny, it's never been funny, it's never going to be funny.
>>85176442What the fuck is the lettuce messing trick?>>85176467Is it a joke? Like a ligma thing?
>>85176358I am once again lamenting the fact I do not fit actual baby pullups
>>85176442>>85176467lettuce? I don't even know how the banana one is supposed to work and now you guys are shoving lettuce up your asses?
>>85176484>>85176494American diarrhea parasite traced back to lettuce. End of "joke".
>>85176484>>85176494I think the joke is eat more fiber
>>85176512Ohh. Ok. I haven't read too much into that thing but I heard there was some diarrhea going around.
>>85176364I liked it, anon.>>85176491XXL goodnites will have to do, brother>>85176381Yeah, I like the discussion. It's nice. I generally just lurk here, but I would chat in the /b/ threads on occasion. Also hard to post because I don't always have computer access and my carrier and isp are both rangebanned.
>>85176080>>85176216I've thought about taking diapers when I visit hotels but I'm always too busy lol I'd probably never put it onI also have the paranoia of a schizophrenic without the delusions. I don't believe that my hotel room DOES have cameras, but I have seen enough hidden camera footage from AirB&Bs and hotels that I'm not going to live as though it DOESN'T have cameras
>>85176384It's not an issue, I was just curious. Although when I wore to shows before, carrying a spare would have defeating the purpose of wearing in the first place
>>85176088There's a kids indoor play area a couple hours from me that does 1 night a month where they let in adults and alcohol and for the longest time I toyed with the idea of going there diaped up but never got around to it.I doubt I'd be the only one there padded and it's far away enough that (particularly back then) I wouldn't have cared if anyone noticed I was. I think the issue really was not having anyone to go with. I had friends to drink with no problem, but none I could see wanting to run around indoor playBut the point is, just go somewhere you won't be remembered and do what you're gonna do anon
>>85176553>XXL goodnites will have to do, brotherNah we discussed it last thread. I neeeeeeeeed it to be a pullup. I neeeeeeed to be reminded that these are for toddlers and I've failed so badly I'm back wearing them
>>85176585There needs to be an ABDL takeover of one of these indoor playground places
>>85176426Hmm did some searching around and couldn't find it. The person recording is a youtuber with 500k+ subs. I do remember seeing socials of the driver as well, but that might just have been a twitter and I got it mixed up.
>>85176494Still better than the petplayers and carrots.
>>85176617An ABDL ball pit sounds like it could be the most gross place on earth
>>85176442>Safety "Pants">Potty DanceThat's great. I love it.>>85176553Thank you! Yea my phone also used to have the rangeban but it doesn't anymore. Idk if they changed masts around here or what.
>>85176617That sounds like fun, but with no diaper involvement. I don't trust the spergs in this coummunity to not screw it up (Rainfurrest)
>>85176560Idk if I would care. If I'm at an AirB&B or hotel in some other country and they secretly recorded me. Whatever. They can show their friends the fucked up Swede who stayed over and wore diapers.
>>85176617I don't know that that's the best idea.I can also say, having played in one as an adult but in a non-ABDL non-drunk context, they're kind of a fucking pain for adults. Maybe when I was in my early 20s I could have been running around and climbing over shit to get from A to B. I'm very glad that I'm not at a stage where I have chronic pain like all my elders keep telling me I will one day, but crawling around is harsh on my knees and I'm not as active as I once was.The one I was at had sort of a one way system and at one point you literally had to climb from platform to platform to get up to the next floor. I said fuck that shit and dipped
>>85176585Like one of these >>85176617? Yea, I don't even know what I wanna do though. xdd I would love to visit a kink bar or something, I should check if there's one in Stockholm that does little's nights.
>>85176607There are size 9 pampers in the UK, just wait for fat kid idiocracy to continue, and you'll probably be able to fit in a pullup eventually
>>85176617That seems fun as fuck. But I think I'd have to agree with >>85176672. Even being on my knees for a short while during work is painful. And I'm also just in pretty bad shape.
>>85176672>>85176713Y'all need to exercise more. I play in one of these with my son like every other weekend. It's the size of a warehouse
>>85176442>Have any of the usanons tried the lettuce messing trick yet?You don't want that, anon. You shit pure water. >link, I need this for my work bag.Okay, fine. https://poofypins.com/pages/enamel-pinsThey sell their own brand of diapers too.
>>85176702>Like one of theseYeah exactly that. I mean fuck it I'll just show you idc, it's nowhere near me I would have had to travel.https://www.theplayzone.co.uk/home-swansea/adult-night-swansea/>I should check if there's one in Stockholm that does little's nights.Yeah may not be. There was a fetish event night local to me and I did once attend diaped up but I didn't tell anyone or do anything with it. They pretty much did ropeplay and impact play, and it was fun to be in "kinky" situations and conversations with people but it didn't lead to anything more for me and even if it had I doubt I would have found other littles.I have checked the local fetish scene on FetLife and that was it, I met most of them at that event. There were a couple of diaperboys but I didn't have an interest in knowing them, and 0 diaper events.
>>85176617Oh god there used to be this MASSIVE indoor playground near me that had a huge ball pit and suction tubes for putting balls into a hopper above to cascade them down, slides, a jungle gym, you name it. It was so much fun.
>>85176705It's not going to happen. Size 7 was like, 5 years ago? People are saying size 9 are pretty much the same size. I joked but we need them to skip straight to size 20. If they do baby diapers that fit older teens I'll be in with a chance. Thighs and ass too big
>>85176732Yea I know. Work is helping me along a bit. But I need to do some exercise in my free time too. Just been sitting at home on the computer the last 2-3 years.>>85176763That's pretty sick. I wonder what kind of people go to those.
>>85176754>>85176754what's the stairwell diaper in reference to lol. some con shenanigans?
>>85176754Oh, I have seen those before. Wouldn't bought some to, but their style is shite
>>85176799The description says it's just for ambiguous stories about left-out diapers, but I figured it was about one specific one that I was unaware of.
>>85176797>I wonder what kind of people go to those.Students. You can see it in the photos. It's just people in their late teens to early 20s reliving childhood with alcohol. It's not an ABDL thing at all.I think one thing I've learned as I gone through my 20s and known "kinky" people is that we really are a rare breed. I have known people I would have at least expected to have been aware of ABDL who didn't. I'm sure ABDLs do go to this event, I know I fucking would have if I could have justified it to my friends, but 99.99% of people are just normies treating it as a bit of fun the same as they would treat Disney World
>>85176823Feels strange to me that normie students would go to a playland. But I guess my opinion is very coloured. I would think it's fun as fuck, so I guess even normies can too.
>>85176799>>85176809Is that not Rainfurrest? I'm gonna pull up the fucking IH video...Yeah it ishttps://youtu.be/GmULc5VANsw?t=2233:43, I know youtube doesn't embed with timestamps. Diapers in the "gardens and stairwells" picture of a fursuiter posing with an abandoned diaper on the stairs
Anyways, I'll switch over to phone, I gotta eat something and get ready for bed.
>>85176850I don't know, I guess if you're not British? UK has crazy drinking culture, it actually makes me laugh because Americans seem to be addicted to everything and treat addiction very taboo, but the entirety of the UK from the ages of about 16-22 meet the medical definition of binge drinkers. Don't drink most of the week, and then exceed weekly recommended limits of alcohol in a single night. We really don't have concerns about alcoholism, and it is somewhat rare in the UK to actually know an alcoholic whereas Americans ALWAYS know someone who was addicted to drugs alcohol or gambling.So there's loads of club culture and search for noveltyWe call our first year university students "freshers" and a really common event across the first week of uni will be an event where attendees come dressed in school uniforms. Again, not an ageplay thing, just drunk young adults fucking around. I can't really think of anything else ageplay adjacent in drinking culture, except pacifiers and beaded bracelets used to be really common at raves, again with no ageplay connotation. The pacifiers were to counteract the effects of MDMA...But yeah point is it's just about novelty. I think maybe for you it's like understanding why people would watch women's volleyball if they weren't attracted to women. People do. Normies aren't thinking about ageplay or diapers or any of that shit, they just want something fun to do
>>85176907Drinking culture in Sweden is similar to UK. We have hazings for first year uni students. I've just never heard of that kind of novelty drinking. Member I am also from a small town. I don't know how it is in bigger places. I know about rave pacis. Looked it up back in the day after I saw several pictures of cute rave girls wearing/sucking them. I just expected people to be too ashamed to go hang out/play at a place like that.Did anyone know the bump limit btw? Is it 500 on here?
>>85176907>We call our first year university students "freshers"I don't think that's too unusual. Here in America first-years are "Freshman", second-years are "Sophomores", third-years are "Juniors", and fourth-years are "Seniors".
>>85176988>I just expected people to be too ashamed to go hang out/play at a place like that.Yeah I don't know if I'm conveying it well enough but the British really do not give a fuck.There's an annual tradition on /b/ and I think sometimes /pol/ to read articles about and post images from New Years Eve in the UK. Media outlets will literally send photographers out late at night to photograph people in the street in drunken moments of shame.So there will be pictures of women who have fallen over drunk and passed out in the street, vomited on themselves, completely dishevelled unconscious with half eaten take-away, people with their clothes falling off, people pissing on shop fronts etc. It's a really crazy time.But yeah the bottom line is when it comes to alcohol Brits feel absolutely no shame for anything. I don't really think anyone would find it shameful to go to softplay as an adult if kids weren't around anyway, but the absolutely wouldn't think it was shameful if alcohol was involved>>85176994What is your take on American's culture of addiction? I personally think that a lot of it is like hyper awareness and fear of addiction, which creates negative feedback. Like someone maybe abuses something but isn't really an addict but people will tell them that they are so they act more like an addict because it's almost become permissible now someone has excused bad behaviour as actually a chronic addiction that they're not at fault for having.Your Alcoholics Anonymous 12 step program literally begins by declaring yourself to be powerless against your addiction and needing the help of a higher power.I don't think it is healthy. In the UK, as I say, it is very common to drink underage, it is very common to massively abuse alcohol for years, but then people just grow out of it and stop and it is very uncommon to personally know an alcoholic
>>85177066I see. I feel like Swedish young adults try hard to act/seem adult. But I might just be wrong and projecting. Alcohol does change things though.Anyways, imma go ni ni now. Good luck keeping the thread alive until the morrn. Goodnight guys/gals/nb pals
>>85177066>>85177111Why, I'm going to drink and smoke and piss my diaper right now. My night is just getting started
>>85177126It's going to be on us to bump this thread anon. I hope you're prepared
>>85177066>What is your take on American's culture of addiction?They say moderation is best for everything, but personally I've never liked alcohol. At family parties it made my uncles say things that would probably get them on a terrorist watch list nowadays, I really didn't enjoy talking to my friend when he was drunk, and I've personally always been afraid that if I get drunk I'll wind up revealing that I'm an ABDL in an inopportune time, or think I'm wearing a diaper when I'm not and piss myself silly. I know alcohol is a social lubricant but I like to enjoy things while I'm in control of my faculties. One of my other friends started buying a beer every time we met up even when I didn't, and when I visited her she wound up dragging me to bars, where I felt VERY out of place cause I'm not into clubbing or getting drunk for the aforementioned reasons.It is kind of weird hearing my peers now talking about how they don't drink anymore or that it was a mistake to drink so much and they broke themselves of the habit when like, I never drank. I can't relate to that feeling. I know this is just general human experiences, 30's are about the time when the wild experimentation of the 20's winds down, but it's still uncanny to actually witness in real time.But addiction is everywhere and it's really not good. Gambling is rampant, there's very few safeguards and even modern video games target gambling habits, caffeine is extremely common through coffee, and only extreme examples that have their lives collapse on them actually get help for it. Otherwise "just deal with it bro, just don't buy the thing, it's not hard".
>>85177254I was a very anxious person so alcohol was an excuse to not be anxious. I could order drinks even though I was shy to talk to staff in stores during the day time, I could dance like a retard and not care, I could talk to total strangers and bond with them and then the next day it'd be like it never happened.It was all very liberating. I had one night where it was literally like The Hangover. Me and a friend went to a club after the bar we were in closed, and we were already very drunk and got more drunk at the club. The next morning we both had dozens of photos of us with this group of people and we had dozens of photos of us with these people, hugging and having a good time and laughing. I'll never know who they were or what we talked about but that makes it fun, because it doesn't matter.>I've personally always been afraid that if I get drunk I'll wind up revealing that I'm an ABDL in an inopportune timeYou're still you when you're drunk. The sort of things people slip up and say when drunk tend to be more emotional, like how they really feel about other people. Whether that's love or hate or whatever. It's not a truth serum, it doesn't make you spill your secrets, unless if for some reason you got super fucking emotional and sad about being ABDL I could maybe see someone talking about it because of lower inhibitions but it's not likely.I have a partial memory of being reeeeeeal drunk in a pizza place getting food before going home. I cannot remember who I spoke to, I cannot remember what was said, all I know is that while I was waiting for the food I ended up in conversation with them and revealed my power level a bit too much and began explaining the "billions must die meme". Its not something I particularly believe, but drunkenly I thought it would be funny to deliver the explanation as if I subscribed to it, full chudjak modeI cringe at that one, but at the same time it didn't matter, blame it on the alcohol
>>85177314>You're still you when you're drunk.I know, and that's what I was worried about. I know it's not a truth serum or hypnotism, but I still didn't want to take that risk and have to explain something REALLY embarrassing, especially to a friend that I've wanted to tell for years. I was actually so afraid of losing this friendship that I repressed anything that might risk it, positive or negative, to stay at a status quo. It wasn't healthy and I wound up wearing an armor of lies rather than tell the truth about anything, causing us to stay at a distance from each other, connected through pleasantries and nostalgia rather than a real connection.Eventually I tried to break the ice but it was too much and too overwhelming and she decided to cut contact with me for a while. That was two years ago, and devastating for me cause I dug my own grave terrified of that exact thing happening.So like, I don't need alcohol in that too. I considered diapers my 'vice' for decades, but now it's more just a quirk of my personality. Took a long while to acknowledge that.
>>85177492>I considered diapers my 'vice' for decadesAmerican guilt complex yeahI don't think I ever regretted being an ABDL. It's my absolute number 1 main kink so it's been difficult being with people and not feeling able to be honest about it, but I don't blame myself for that I blame other peoples smallmindedness. Idk I was raised with 4chan and while I'm completely normal and functional I am sometimes surprised how little of the world even people I've known who don't consider themselves to be normies actually are. If they'd had my experiences growing up I think the world would be a more cynical but also a more laissez faire place
>>85177567I mean I haven't regretted being an ABDL. I can't and never could imagine myself without it, it just wouldn't be me. I just figured that meant I just couldn't share it with other people. It was something like a curse, but it's MY curse. I was just afraid of my friends thinking it was disgusting and not wanting to be friends with me anymore because of it. And I know the usual advice for that is "they're bad friends, go make better ones", but that's really hard for me! I only recently realized I might actually be making new friends for the first time in 20 years, so I didn't want to risk losing the few ones I still had.
I kinda think there is no real reason to share your fetishes with others that aren't involved in such ways with you.
>>85177911You're wrong but thanks for the bump
>>85177911I think you're right, but I think it's not a bad thing to want to share a hidden aspect of yourself with people you feel close to and really trust. But that also depends on the person.
>>85177948Nah fuck that, he's not right.The human experience is seeking connection and common interest. What, just because people are sometimes whacking off to this shit suddenly they can't discuss it, dick firmly not in hand, like they would discuss video games or books or other shit that they occupy their time on this Earth with? Bullshit puritanical christcuckery
Here is how the unpotty training has been going. I did a month and a half of wearing diapers 24/7 where every time I needed to pee I'd pee while I actively avoided the post pee clench. I used more discretion when it came to poop but I still pooped in my diapers. After about a month the volume per pee was noticeably smaller and by then I was able to maintain the unclenched sphincter while moving around. I'd feel the pee pressure then I'd start automatically peeing about 1 minute later. It went from 3 pees to the diaper being full to 4-6 pees for the diaper to be full. At that point I went a week without diapers to see how it was. I could hold it about 10-30 minutes after feeling the pee pressure. But suddenly, and without warning, the pee pressure would get intense and I'd start dribbling and pee myself. There was enough time to get to the toilet if I got up immediately but my underwear was still wet from the dribbles. The severity decreased over the week. I was seeing how reversible it was. Then I went back to wearing diapers. It's been about 3 months since the start of this stint.
>>85177987What's the endgame here anon?
>>85177987that's pretty crazy anon!!! I don't think i could ever do that honestly!!! it seems like it would become a lot less fun
>>85177987Having fun with it? How was getting used to sleeping, or wetting while asleep?
>>85177997Is it really a game? >>85178016In the past I'd go through binge purge cycles where I'd get over them after a week or two but this time I haven't been feeling that way. >>85178028I've been enjoying wearing my diapers. Sleeping in them has been good but there hasn't been any bedwetting yet.
Holy yap why are these threads going crazy all of a sudden
>>85178459I think it's probably a matter of a few anons making a concerted effort to keep these threads alive
Any married anons have advice? My wife was okay with me wearing and even bought my my first bottle when we started dating but we got married last year and once planning started so did the abdl stuff. At this point it's been about 2 years since I've really worn with her, I've worn to the movies a few times and she'll sometimes put on/take off that diaper for me but that's pretty much it
>>85178459Diapers are very serious business with very deep convos related to them.
>>85178231I just struggle to see the goal here. I'm the sort of person who won't get a tattoo because I don't know how I'll feel about it in future, especially (if) when I'm 70 or something. So I just can't imagine unpottytraining not knowing what the future will hold for me
*balls fists and squats*
>>85178918THAT ISN'T HOW YOU BUMP ANON!! WHAT THE FRICK
>>85178926Don't tell me what to do! I can dump and bump at the same time!
>>85178935you better have actually pooped your diaper!!
>>85178703Either wearing more diapers or repotty training.
>>85178976I did...and fucking heavily, I might add.
>>85179082good boy/girl! don't get a rash make sure you use lots of powder or oil
>>85179097Thanks anon! I'm a boy, though I wear frilly pink stuff from time to time. And don't worry, I always use plenty of powder (because I love smelling like a big baby) and almost never have issues with rashes despite regularly pooping my diapers full.
>>85179082Now sit.
Thread's alive! Good morning!>>85177254>>85177314>>85177492Alcohol is a strange drug. I also don't enjoy being around drunk people, at least not when I'm sober. But I drink myself, mostly for the same reasons you do. Social lubricant. Too anxious/shy to really go and hit the town if I'm not at least a little intoxicated. I used to drink a lot more when I was 18-24, but I had some bad experiences of day after regrets and embarrassment. Living in a small town you don't really get the luxury that you're speaking of with meeting people who you don't know and talking about anything and it not mattering. You can meet people you don't know, but everyone is basically at most 2 connections away from someone you do know. I still drink now, but I always do it in a more prepared controlled way. Always eat before or in connection with my first drink, stick to beers/ciders with an ABV around 4,2-5%, make sure to stay hydrated. I almost never have headaches anymore after I go out drinking, my stomach and body can feel slow and bubbly from the hangover but my head is almost always fine.>>85177567>>85177718That's interesting that neither of you ever really regretted being ABDL. I still think that if I could push a button and get rid of it, I would. But I'm also content in the fact that I can't and I have accepted myself for who I am by now.
>>85177911As someone who's done it. I would tend to agree. Not because it's really that bad. Having friends know more about you strengthens bonds. If we can all be honest with each other I think the world gets easier. But it doesn't really give you much more than getting it of your chest. You can't really talk that much about it or discuss it with someone who isn't interested. At least I can't. It just doesn't feel fun.
>>85177987I could never do this myself. Personally I think I like having control. Using my diaper is a deliberate choice. I could hold it and go to the bathroom instead. But I choose to be a babu and use my diaper. Although I won't lie and say the fantasy of unpotty training is also very hot.>>85178016>Diapered Drow Ranger :3
>>85178459I think people have finally grown tired of trying to make /b/ work. And we're still only a few days in, plus it's the weekend. Also what >>85178459 and >>85178632 said.
>>85178576Not a married anon. But I would echo something that we talked a bit about last thread. Communicate. Sit down and talk with your wife about it. People are bad at communicating, but even so you'll still get a lot more out of a poor conversation with her than asking anons on here. I believe. Good luck!
>>85179082Stinky! That reminds me, might as well do a morning diaper check!Are you padded? If so, are you dry?
People seemed quite interested in the goth/alt diaper girl look last thread and when it's done right it's the absolute best imo
>>85179727I myself am not padded. Ended up not re-padding after lunch at g-ma's. Now I have people coming over later today and work tomorrow. We'll see if I pad up later.
>>85179728It's suck a dichotomy. Cool, hard, sexy goth girl. Actually wearing diapers, being baby. I need to go through my collection and see if I have any good pics.
>>85179742got some decent ones but I don't have anything to say with the image lol
>>85179749Hahaha. Well then you better think of something! Or you could just stand with answering this: What's up? What're you doing besides posting in here right now?
>>85176328quite the fucking fit he's got on there
>>85179767Dude the commentary in that vid is just... Some of the comments on the reddit posts are also great.
>>85179754Not much at all just posting before I go to sleep as I'm on the east coast of the U.S.
>>85179727Changed out of a wet and messy one. I've been having gastrointestinal issues so I hadn't actually messed one in 20 days. Exhausted from the euphoria and cleanup and may just pass out.
>>85179782Ahh, what time is it over there right now? Past midnight something, right?
>>85179789Don't hurt yourself! Sorry to hear about your issues, and congrats on your stinky fun.
>>85179794Don't worry, the 'hurting myself' part already happened. Don't abuse laxatives, kids. If your body is out of sync don't get anxious about fixing it, just let it go back to normal on its own. And if that doesn't work see your doctor.
>>85179772Such a unique feeling when you see shit like this when browsing the internet normally. A blend of existentiality as a reminder that you kind of lead a dual life with a sort of voyeuristic joy in seeing people react to this thing that you are which they have no idea of knowing>>851797904 AMI highly recommend checking out chinese ABDL twitter. Some of the cutest pictures there
>>85179822I was just thinking, don't pass out in a bad position. I've never tried laxatives. I tried suppositories before, but I think I did it wrong/didn't wait long enough. What kind of laxative did you take?
>>85179825Yea every time I see ABDL shit or ABDL adjacent shit on the "normal web" I always have to do a double take. It's almost like when I was watching the Adventure Time islands miniseries. I usually watch cartoons in English, and the little old lady in one of the episodes speaks Swedish. My brain short-circuited, I couldn't figure out what was going on. Took me like a solid 10 seconds before I realised that she was talking Swedish.That's pretty late. Don't stay up too long desu.The fact that everything is auto translated now on twitter is so good. Getting more Asian girls in my feed and understanding at least the gist of what they're writing is amazing. Kawaii culture is great.
>>85179828A bunch of different ones over the course of like three months. I don't want to get into it too much.Just like, be aware of what you put into your body. Don't abuse the poor thing.
>>85179899Ohh, thought you meant you took one now. You've been medicating with laxatives. Yea that sounds like a bad idea. You only get one body, take care of it.
Alright, lunch at g-ma's. I'll lurk on phone to see if anyone stops by.
I so often wish I could be 24/7 they are really just the best undies to be wearing just from a comfort standpoint even.
>>85180222They are pretty great. I wonder...Another TQ: What the longest stretch you've worn 24/7? I wore 24/7 for around 3 months a few years ago. I still used the toilet to poo, but all peeing done in diapers. It was pretty amazing.
Pretty dead today, huh? Is there no one here or is there nothing that engages the ones who are here to post? :(
>>85180640It's 8:30 where I am, so I just rolled out of bed. Coffee, shower, and then some errands
>>85180667Hmm I see. I checked the last thread and while it was slower around this time then, there were still some people around. Maybe the EU's are just busy. Good morning anon. Hope you had a good nights sleep.
>>85180682Undiapered, but slept like a baby, hah.
>>85180693Good to hear. :) Hope your errands go well so you can come hang out later!
>>85180701Gotta have a cup of coffee or two first, but thanks. Hoping to find some cool stuff in the asian supermarket nearby
>>85180807>Asian supermarketWish my city had one, visited a huge one elsewhere in the state and it was sick!
Good morning I just pissed and shat my diaper in bed. Will probably change after I cook breakfast. Gonna need a shower for sure
>>85180807What kinda cool stuff you hoping to find? I recently tried Buldak noodles. They were realy good. Bought the carbonara flavour as well, but I haven't tried that one yet.>>85180912You don't have any place to buy Asian groceries? Even my small village has a small place that sells stuff. But we do have a lot of Thai people that live here.
>>85180931Stinky. What you making for breakfast?
>>85180941Bacon and eggs, the breakfast of champions
>>85180964Wrong .mp4 lol
>>85180934Some instant noodles are always good, especially since they have them for way cheaper than regular grocery stores. Other than that, I need more chili crisp, and I'd probably like to buy some other things. Canned stuff, bulk spices, kimchi. Gonna go, grab a fun drink, and browse.
>>85180964Nice. I don't eat breakfast, never really did. But used to also get up really late.
>>85180973I mean, it works for me. I would call it ABDL adjacent. xdd
>>85180974Hope you find what you're looking for! We have a store here that's basically like a corner shop, but it's self serve and open 24/7. They import all kinds of drinks and snacks from different places around the world. It's always fun to go in there, browse and try something new.
I like diapers a lot. Going to bed now as I am a night shifter, but I appreciate the return of /r9krinkle/.
>>85181066Thanks for the bump! Hope to see you around in the future if we manage to make and keep these threads constant. Have a good nights rest anon!
>>85180934>You don't have any place to buy Asian groceries?It's moreso an aisle here and there at more standard grocery stores and like an Asian 7-11 size shop 40ish minutes away.
>>85181101Yea ours is the front room of a Thai take away place. Just like two shelves and 2 freezers. But they have most of the normal basic stuff. Our supermarkets usually don't carry the "real" Asian stuff. So the Asia isles are pretty bland there.
>>85180324For about 3 days (only wetting), but I learned my skin can't deal with longer even with a lot of cream/powder/care.
>>85181480Oof, that's unfortunate if wearing 24/7 is something you want. Did you develop rashes? I think I got rash once during my 3 month period. Honestly pretty incredible considering how long I spent in wet diapers.
>>85181489Super bad rashes! Miserable stuff. My partner was really into the idea of us trading off wearing for a week each; but I had to cut it down to diapered weekends instead. I'm big time jealous of other people's ability to go longer there.
>>85181549Do you know why it's so bad? Just sensitive skin?
>>85181618Yep, I've tried witch hazel and such that's supposed to help but no dice. Oh well! I also stick to cloth-backed for the same reason, but there's only so many of those to choose from.
>>85181662I generally like cloth backed as well. But I feel like you get micro leaks from them if you're really wet. Do you ever get that? Like moisture just pressing through the backing.
>>85181480That's something I notice when I start wearing diapers again. The skin gets sensitive the first week due to the adjustment to being in a diaper then it clears ups.
>>85178576A good thing to remember is that this fetish is basically an addiction and that you are thinking about it much more than she will ever be. You need to rewire yourself to be happy when you are instigating and she is engaging, which it sounds like she is fine with. "Hey, after work today can you get me changed?"Don't expect her to push the engagement forward, that has to be on you.
>>85180667East coasters rise. You in NY area?
>>85182086Nah, I'm in PA
Almost moved into a new flat on my own again. Fucking itching to get back in diapers so bad.
The visit I was expecting today has passed. I am now a cat dad for the next week and a half. >>85182164Nice! Congrats anon. You got any laying around or are you gonna have to order some?
>>85182189Have some leftover from when I had to move out originally, but I'll be ordering a shit load as a move in gift to myself lol
>>85182205Sweet. What are you planning on ordering? Are you NA? Do you guys have some sort of diaper reseller like EU does DiaperMinister and Nappies'R'Us?
>>85182215No idea what I'll be getting desu. I'm not knowledgable about brands and styles but I'll be checking out NRU as I'm in the UK. Any recommendations?
>>85182254Haven't checked out their stock in a while. Went in and looked now and it I seem to recall them having more options before. Or maybe the icons were just bigger. Anyway, I've heard good things about their own brand. If I were to make an order right now I would get: NRU's, Kiddo's and MegaMax's. Not sure which ones exactly, but I've wanted to try all three of those for a while. Tykables are also good if you haven't tried them before.
>>85182254Check out DiaperMinister as well. They have more options. They stock ABU as well if you did want something from there. IDK how the shipping is to the UK from them. Probably more than NRU. I seem to recall they are based in the Netherlands.
>>85182164May as well give yourself a homecoming gift hehe!!!
>>85182307I know it's impossible but I wish there was a standard answer to "most absorbent". My vibe is that Trest > Rearz Inspire+ > NRU Str8Ups but that's just from my own testing.
Did you guys ever see any of bite_xo's stuff in the diaper world, she plays up the age shit on her fansly so she seems the type to do it
>>85182770Yea it's a shame that absorbency rating are all over the place. But from what I've heard that sounds about right. Have you tried LNGU? Their cloud ultra white claim a 11000ml absorbency.
>>85182808If you're the anon that asked before then I think one of us checked it and found nothing. The old threads are still in the archive so you can go check what they said.
>>85182821Not yet, no. I pee A LOT so I need thick ones in general but I prefer the type of thickness that Inspire+ has over the type that Trest has. I don't like feeling like I'm sitting on a balloon. Same reason I don't like Kiddo Premium Nights are much as everyone else.
>>85182873I haven't tried any of them. I think MegaMax had like just came out around the last time I bought diapers. And they were getting gigga hyped. Then Trests came later and people cheered even harder.
I enjoy the middle to high absorbency medical diapers.
>>85182914Tena Ultima's were perfect for me during my 3 month stint. Also a lot cheaper than ABDL diapers.
>>85180640I use Brave browser on my phone and 4chan won't let me post. For some reason Brave on desktop is fine
>>85182164>flatAngloid detected
>>85183080Does it say anything when you try? If you're doing it on cell data it might be a range ban on the ip.
>>85175596Ur all a bunch of weird pedophiles I understand liking loli drawings but this is too much
Did scotty get scared off again?
>>85182821>11000ml absorbency.Realistically you are NOT pissing this much unless you wear the same diaper all day. The human body only takes in 2000-3000ml a day, and if you pissed it all out you'd die of dehydration in under 24 hours.If you're having problems with leaks it's going to be your positioning
>>85183109See I'm into diaper girls but cartoons of kids is creepy to me.
>>85183109Calling people who enjoy a certain garment on adults pedos while saying you understand attraction to drawings of children. ICANT
>>85183110Who cares?>>85183120>>85183122How about we don't reply to the obvious fucking bait? Do you think you're going to change his mind? Do you think he's even going to stay to read replies? If he did how do you think that's going to go? You can see it's going to derail and ruin the thread, surely?The fucking autism in this fetish sometimes, I swear to god.
Reporting in! Spending my Sunday in PeekABUs with two stuffers and my clitty cage, looking at censored pics of my crush! Hopefully everyone is enjoying themselves this weekend!
>>85183137Hehe, sorry anon. I hope you'll forgive me. I'm just bored.
>>85183153Sounds fun! It's about time for me to start prepping for bed. Work tomorrow.
>>85183090Well la-di-da nigger, what should I call it a fucking pied-a-terre?
>>85183174Apartment. There's even a really fucking annoying song about it that normies loved because it had some k-pop or j-pop bullshit in it
>>85175622Hey everyone! I'm this anon: >>85183153, I didn't realize there was a main thread question at first! >What's the most embarrassing moment you've had related to this?>be me>young teenager>parents gone for the afternoon>don't have access to diapers yet>doing that typical young-abdl thing where you create makeshift diapers>multiple pairs of tighty-whities stuffed with paper towel layers and socks>goodenough.jpg>wet the makeshift diaper>it holds up decently well>wear makeshift diaper until about an hour before parents come home>time to clean up>use parents' shower to strip makeshift diaper off>think I collect all of the evidence>don't notice a single piss-soaked sock in tub>parents come home>have to come up with a story explaining to my parents why a piss-soaked sock was left in his bathtub>"The dog peed on the floor and I didn't want to go get paper towels, so I used a sock. I was going to wash the sock in the tub, but then I got distracted and I guess I forgot.">parents seemed to buy it>cringe every time I think about it
>>85183203But it isn't an apartment, it's a flat... because I'm a poorfag
>>85183109I can't speak for others but I'm into this because I've always wanted back into diapers since I was taken out of them. The sensory experience is electric and this is what is projected onto other adults when viewing images. This fetish doesn't manifest as an extension to pedophilia.
>>85183225>gifReminds me of these, I'll post the set>>85183227Holy fuck STOP REPLYING TO BAIT, HE DOESN'T CAAAAAARE
>>85183225>>85183283Forgot the image now because that dumb baby pissed me off
>>85183289I think I have 5 of these
>>85183297They're very old like from 2018 or so
Can mods do anything about these porn generals that keep on spawning, just move this shit to b along with the mom stuff. Just go to a porn board or soc you retards
>>85183304We really should think about making ABDL memes. Shit works, the furries get away with it all the time. I see furry shit in my feed all the time>>85183307Where's the porn? This is a discussion thread. Free to leave any time
>>85183316Did you have a 5th one? I only had the first and last one. So thank you for the additions!
>>85183413Oh yeah got distracted
>>85183526Nice! Thank you anon. I have these which are similar but not from the same series. Maybe you don't already have em.
>>85183537Hmm I can't seem to upload the 2nd one for whatever reason.I do have some ABDL memes. But I don't know if they would really function to post on normie sites. Actually now as I wrote this, I remembered that I saw an ABDL meme on Facebook. My Facebook is completely normie. Let me see if I can find it.
>>85183574Ayy. I found it! This was posted by some normie meme page, I can't remember which one, it was 9 years ago.
>>85183587That art is kind of horrifying to be honest
>>85183596Ya it's not the sexiest art ever. But I'm pretty fucking sure it's from an ABDL artist.
>See an opportunity to upgrade my diaper pail to a bigger one>Measure its dimensions>It won't fit in the cabinet I have my current one inSad. Oh well.
>>85183731I've been thinking/dreaming about getting a pail. Is the one you have now made for adult diapers? How much did it cost?
>>85183742I've got a Janibell Akord Slim. Costs about $73 USD, got it on Amazon. It does work with adult diapers, and stores at max 4 before it's full. I also seal my used diapers in BOS bags to contain smells even further before putting them in, since I don't want my room stinking like soiled diapers. There's a bigger Akord model too, and there's other comparable competitors like the Diaper Dekor Plus. These ones use custom continuous liners that let you cut out just what you need, and for me that contributes to the experience, even if it's more expensive than just using regular trash bags (which they can also use). Ubbi also makes an adult diaper pail, which doesn't use special liners, just regular trash bags. It was a gamechanger for me and gave me the freedom to wear pretty much whenever I wanted, since disposal was always a concern for me and I used to only be able to wear on Wednesdays or Thursdays, since Friday is trash day for me. Never Fridays or Saturdays. But I've heard people have success with just a regular sealing trash can and regular bags, nothing special.
>>85183864Yea a close lid trash can would probably be enough. But there's something special about having an actual diaper pail. I think I've only seen one's with the continuous liner. That's the kind I would want.
Alright guys, bedtime for me. Got work tomorrow. Good luck keeping the thread alive. It's gonna be interesting to see how it goes during the week. If we can keep it alive on work days. Ni ni everyone.
>>85183934Yep, that's what I have. I adore it and don't regret it.
>>85181662Zinc oxide as well? That stuff is absolute magic for skin. It's what we use in the hospital for pressure ulcers.>>85182770Kiddo Extreme if you want a very absorbent cost effective pamp. 11500mL. Plain white, though.
>>85183958Are these the dead hours? I'm EST and once I'm off my travel contract I'll be around more to post, but that's two weeks out.
Good morning oomfies!!! I hope you have been having a good day/week!!
>>85184645I havent! >:( I will not explain.
>>85184995Poop your pants about it, will surely help!
>>85184995but now i wanna know!!! tell me about your day!
>>85185021Don't assume I haven't thought about it
>>85184554this entire thread is being kept alive by one guy in Sweden
>>85185519Hey!! I bump it sometimes tooo stoopid
>>85185519Not true, there's angloids too. These threads are doing pretty damn well, it's just a relatively fast board and our traffic peaks and dips. We haven't actually 404'd yet.
>>85184499real talk are you a nurse?
>>85185550Hey how come when I post AI stuff I get yelled at? It's just jerk-off material I'm not stealing food out of a kid's mouth or anything
>>85185670Wait wtf? i don't think what i posted was AI i've seen the artist post a lot of normal stuff unless it's just based off the artist.
>>85185670>Hey how come when I post AI stuff I get yelled at?AI has no soul and nor do you if you post it.It's like if we had a thread about youtube videos and you started posting those fucking retarded AI vegetable soap opera videos. They're low quality, meaningless, and if you enjoy them you should be so fucking embarrassed about it that you would never tell anyone lest they judge you for it>It's just jerk-off materialWe're not trying to jerk off here. There's already a diaper thread on just about every porn board other than /gif/ and /hm/
>>85185726>you enjoy them you should be so fucking embarrassed about it that you would never tell anyone lest they judge you for ityeah because the art on /d/ is so stellar lol
>>85185670If you aren't trolling it's because it looks really weird. If you consume a lot of art you can tell ai art immediately and if you see it posted all the time it gets really annoying to see.
There's something extra comfy about doing chores and cleaning when only in a diaper and t-shirt.
>>85185670I think it looks pretty bad for the most part, I don't really have any ethical qualms about it. No offense to you, either, but in my experience most people that prompt AI just don't have any creativity or sense of taste. I do think it can sometimes be interesting, but not enjoyable, as pornography when someone who is truly not right in the head makes something obscure and grotesque
>>85185948AI seems only kinda useful and funny for shitposting
Upset tummy :(
>>85186065uh-oh I'll pray for your diaper anon
>>85186101No diapers when this happen
It's too hot for snuggling with plushies, send help
>>85185988Maybe there's potential, I dunno. I use it quite a bit at my job, but my job isn't creative in the slightest. I've seen some interesting stuff done with AI, mainly physical AR stuff, but it still just doesn't get it, in a fundamental way. Dunno what it is.
So much great ABDL content and still feel stuck in the past.
>>85186350the drool pull is so peak and cute whew
>>85186350Man I still really want a Fixx paci but my options are Rearz site which forces you to make an account, or Amazon which is an obvious nope
>>85186358I wonder if any ABDL folk have tried out drool mints? They're meant to increase saliva production, and apparently they can increase it to the point where you basically just can't talk because you're so spitty. I don't think I've ever heard of anyone taking them for ABDL kink, though
>>85186629>drool mintsWhat the fuck is this? How do you even hear about this shit?
>>85186676I just heard about them from twitter, or something, I have no idea. I know they're mainly for dry mouth, but I think that they're also for oral sex
>>85186629I feel like that's moving into dangerous territory. I've already messed around with the natural processes of my body enough.
Most I've gone 24/7 is for like 2 weeks i really want to go for a few months someday.
>>85187022Hey you were bitching about the thread fork on /aco/ lol
>>85187051? I wasn't i just robbed the picture from there
>>85186934Based on what I'm reading, they only last a half hour max. I'm sure just hydrating is enough to offset any side effects
>>85186378Are adult pacifiers safe to use? Kinda paranoid that it'll break when I'm sucking on it so I never bought one
Good morning! Gotta get dressed then head to work. I'll try to catch up in the thread if I have any downtime.
>>85187423What the fuck are you asking?No you nailed it anon, the product sold by dozens of companies, including one which literally makes medical pacifiers for snoring or some shit, is actually incredibly dangerous and thousands of ABDLs die every year because the teat is coated in arsenic and if the poison doesnt kill you it detects when you're asleep and disintegrates to choke youLike what the fuck are we talking about?
>>85185618I am. Horrible job, by the way.>>85185925I can't wait to have my own place and be able to do this.>>85186629100% trying these at some point.>>85187423Yes, and they won't break. Get an orthodontic one to mitigate tooth alignment issues.>>85187446Good morning, anon. I'm about to go to sleep.
>>85187478Have you ever encountered ABDL diapers in a clinical setting, other than your own use?
>>85184554Time zone wise it shouldn't be that bad. But in the first thread I think it was, the late night hours for me were pretty dead. But we were also less people then, I believe. The worst dead time should be next upcoming 9. While it's work hours EU and night for the NA crowd.
>>85184645Almost 7 hours late.. but good morning Indo! Hope you slept well and had a good start to your day!
>>85184995Hope it gets better for you anon! Maybe try >>85185021's advice and see if that helps.
>>85185519Noo... while I try my best to keep thread engaged and what you're saying might have been true for the first thread if you include Indo. Threads are pretty alive and popping by now. I've just been hanging out a bit harder than most others.
>>85185670I don't think what you replied to was ai. Or at least, if it was, it looked decent. Most people don't like the more generic AI art like the one you posted. I would say post whatever you want, but if you want to keep people happy and the threads alive, maybe skip the ai art.
>>85185925Diaper + t-shirt is pretty peak outfit for anything while chilling at home.
>>85186065Hope you feel better soon! Tummy troubles are never fun. >>85186269For singer reason I never want to wear diapers while sick. Even though in my mind it sounds awesome. Maybe it's cause I don't have anyone to take care of me.
>>85186326Get AC or power through it! Plushies deserve snuggles, no matter the weather!
>>85186350Hot damn, I was about to post basically word for word what >>85186358 said. That really is fucking incredibly adorable.
>>85186378I have some. Not sure they are the Fixx ones specifically. But they are the same/similar size. I have to say that the really large ones are a bit too much for me. You can't really suckle them, they just fill your whole mouth. For solo play I think the medium/only slightly larger then "standard ABDL pacis" are the best.
>>85186629That sounds fun. Never heard of them before. I think spit/drooling is a weird area of ABDL for me. It often looks adorable, but I'm not much into deep mental regression stuff.
>>85187022It was pretty sweet when I did it, but it was also a special set of circumstances that allowed it. Just started uni, living in a different town, covid hit so all classes were done from home. Just sitting in my room all day.
>>85187423Yee of course they are. They take some getting used to, it's not as automatic and immediately soothing as one might fantasize. At least it wasn't for me. But during my 3 month diaper stint I slept with a paci most nights, woke up with it still in my mouth a few times and that shit was peak.
>>85187714Maybe I have a big mouth but standard ABDL pacis aren't enough for me. I think I've usually bought from LittleForBig and on the adult paci scale that's like a size 6 or a size 7, but the Fixx is a size 10.What I'm looking for is a paci I could sleep with without it falling out
>>85187478Hope you sleep well anon, I'll try to keep an eye on the thread during work. Gotta keep the train rolling!
>>85187787>it's not as automatic and immediately soothing as one might fantasize. At least it wasn't for meYeah that sounds like a you thing. I've found pacis to be exceptionally soothing. Oral fixation is real, would I be right that you've never really been into smoking, chewing gum, or overeating?But the drawback I usually find from using pacis is that suckling squishes the flesh of the inside of my lips against my teeth. I think a longer teat would probably help
I just accidentally deleted my entire post, fuck me. Don't have time anymore to write it out as thoroughly. >>85187789Like I said somewhere above, the giga ones felt more like a gag than a paci to me. But you much just have a giga mouth. As for sleeping, I don't know if a larger pack would necessarily help. I just used the ones I had a lot during my 3 month and sometimes woke up with it still in. >>85187801I chew gum pretty often, even more so then. I vape now but didn't smoke any back then. Idk I just expected something to click and my baby suckling reflexes too kick in, but they didn't.Ok all caught up. Now I actually have to do some work. Sorry for the spam. Talk to you guys later.
>>85176732There's Waldo anon
TQ earlier was what's the most embarrassing thing that's happened to you, but how about the most embarrassing thing you realistically WISH would happen?A room mate walking in on you diaped up? Someone you know seeing you in the baby aisle at the store? Offering your phone to a friend for them to look at a meme and them swiping into your diaper selfies?Nothing too far into the realm of fantasy, but the sort of shit that would mortify you if it happened and yet sometimes you almost wish it would happen
>>85175622TQ: Package delivery fucked up and got a text from the business cross the road saying they had my mail. Had to quickly get it from them while diapered
>>85176491The only upside I've found to being thins af is fitting into pull-ups other than that idk because medium sized adult diapers are a little to big for me>>85176617As long as people are able to keep things clean, sounds super fun, would totally go. Although My back will be sore for days from crawling around >>85176702That's the good thing of living in the cities, the niche communities are bigger and gets easier to plan things. Where I live there's a group of babyfurs that does a meet in a gaybar from time to time. I've been wanting to go but for some reason the universe hasn't allowed me to, either work or something else comes up :(There was one time I could've gone, but I chickened out>>85175622Getting caught by my mother>be me>home alone after school>knew I was going to be alone until late at night>I padd up>heat my regular after school meal and do homework as fast as I can>I finished every other chore I have pending>have time left before mom comes back>decide to put on paw patrol on the TV and print some coloring sheets>having the best time of my life>was in the middle of colouring Skye>hear the door key starting to turn>notice mom came back earlier than expected>also notice the mess I have on the livingroom floor with my coloured pencils and all that shit>sprint to my room>hey anon, why dis you leave all this mess in the living room? And where you watching baby cartoons???>in the middle of me telling her why she opens my door>sees me trying to take the diaper off>closes the door slowly>I finish changing and sprint to the shower>an hour later we have dinner>so anon, will you now explain why you were in a diaper, colouring on the floor while watching baby cartoons>no>ask her to not speak about thatat least she held up her promise... until it happened again
Its storming out, and I swear it sounds like it's parked over my house.. atleast I'm comfy..
>>85187948I'm not sure there's anything embarrassing thing I'd wish happened to me. My creativity is bad and the scenarios you proposed would short circuit me. Maybe less so the baby aisle one. Anything embarrassing would have to be followed by fascinated acceptance after. And that's not realistic.
>>85188058Are there still companies making small ABDL diapers? I know people have been complaining for ages that there's not enough smalls around. Yea I wish I lived in a bigger city sometimes. But I also enjoy my nice quiet small village. And I don't want to move before my g-ma passes, she's 90 so I want to stick around until her eve of life. Although that bitch is a hard cookie. She might still be around for another 10 years.Your mom is a good mom. And you're an idiot for letting it happen again. xdd
>>85188276ABU sells three lines with small sizes: Simple Daytimes, TinyTails, and Little Paws.
Another slow day at work, not even had to drive myself yet today. Getting to be passenger princess to my colleague.>>85188486At least some options to choose from. I'll take not fitting pull ups to have medium ABDL diapers fit any day.
>>85188276Its not that she EXACTLY caught me in the same situation, but she caught me diapered up when I thought my door was locked
>>85188566So then you had to come clean? How'd she react? What'd she say? I think my mother would be accepting of it, but I would never want my father to know.
>>85175622>Hey, Anon, you got a package in the mail!and then my mom hands me the unlabeled bag of diaper samples I had ordered. They arrived three days early.Unless she googled the return address, there's nothing about the package that screams "diapers" but it was still felt mortifying.
>>85188909God. I know my parents are nosy enough that they would pester me to know what it was. At least it was just some samples and not a box of actual packs.
>>85188761Not fully, I only had to say to her that I liked wearing diapers because they are comfortable. I never had to explain why even though she pushed to take that info from me>>85188276Not fully sure, although I don't fully mind that they are little big, I like it actually, makes me feel smaller :)
>>85189400Ehh that's not the worst ever then. Still not great. That's good then, as long as you can still fit then you can still get whatever diapers you want. While being a small twink sounds fun, if it meant I couldn't wear 80% of ABDL diapers because they don't make smalls I'd be sad.
Good morning, diaperpeople
>>85189802Good morning anon! Hope you slept well. :)
To non-diaperfags, how would you feel if this was a regular general? I for one am glad the pisspants club is attempting to convene once more
Alright, back from work. Thread was pretty active during the day. But I was also able to hang out quite a bit and chat since work was pretty dead. Anyone hanging out right now? What are people up to?
>>85190275Are you a non-diaperfag? If so, nice to have you! I don't know if there's anywhere else better for you to post your question, but why do you think non-diaper fags would enter the thread and see it? As soon at it's past whatever the amount of posts displayed in non catalogue browsing mode is no normie would see it.
Damn, thread's dead around this time? I didn't expect this to be a bad hour. Guess we're mostly NA folks and they're at work right now?
>>85191033I work remote, but I'm bad at just dumping images in threads. Haven't been this active on 4chan in a long while.
>>85191033Yup, tending to work drama unfortunately. I do leave this contract soon, though, so there's that. Ten more days.>>85190275I'm a diaperfag, but I'm glad to have a place to chat again.
>>85191066I don't expect you to dump images. I don't really know what I expect to be honest. I thought I would get some sort of response to saying I'm back. But now typing it out it sounds needy as fuck. Just something to kick of conversation if there's people around I guess. xdd
>>85191102What kind of drama? Good for you that you're getting out at least.
>>85190275Also a diaperfag, I don't think you're going to get any non-diaperfags to weigh in, lol. Regardless, I like how laid-back these threads are. The ones on /aco/ can sometimes devolve into shitflinging, /hc/ is nice but too slow, and the threads on /b/ are almost always ruined. >>85191116Nah, I get it. We all want these threads to do well.
>>85191127Yea, it's really nice that we've gotten as many people and as much engagement as we have. I'm a little scared for next week though since work starts up proper again. I'll be more busy during the day and also in a location with no cell service. Dunno if there's enough/any other people around to keep the threads alive duing EU work ours.
>>85190436I actually am one, just never post and rarely see non-art AB/DL discussion threads. Good point though, average users probably aren't clicking onto these threads nor staying for long if they do once they get the gist. I sort by image count 90% of the time.I do think the OP images for these threads should stay relatively "tasteful" (by AB/DL standards, like no loaded diapers in OP) even if the in-thread discussion devolves into filthy degeneracy. Past 2 have been good.
>>85191220Yea, I doubt we'll get any answers on your question. I think the answer would be pretty bland anyway. Doubt most people care and the ones who do are annoyed/dislike it.Thank you for the compliment on the OP pictures! I fully agree with your sentiment and picked through my collection pretty carefully to find ones I really liked.
>>85191149We'll just have to see. If the thread dies once or twice, I suppose someone'll just have to keep creating it.
>>85191695Yee, I mean it's really not a bigger issue than that. But It feels nicer to make new threads because we capped them or hit bump limit instead of letting them die.
How many of you consider Goodnites to be a diaper or AB/DL worthy? They're at the very least "Pull-Ups" and they've gradually been improving for AB/DL usage in the past decade in my experience. The newest standard XL are a decent fit since I typically weigh only 2-3 pounds more than the guideline. I like the current prints for both the boy/girls too. My primary padding usually consists of them, they're mighty convenient. Also no they do not hold 3 full bladders we all know this I guess I'm more or less asking what people personally consider the definition of a "diaper" in this kink
>>85191713I would call them a diaper, but I wouldn't call them a DIAPER if you understand what I mean. I would say they're a pull-up. But someone wearing a pull-up is diapered. 110% ABDL worthy. If you're wearing a pull-up that means you aren't trusted in adult underwear.
>>85191713Pullups are fun but less practical than diapers except when exercising or for those with only minor leakage. >>85191737Both pullups and briefs are diapers. I prefer to call briefs diapers and pullups pullups.
>>85175841Actual nightmare fuel. I really hate changing in non-family bathrooms for that reason, though I have been forced to do so more times than I like to think about
>>85191923>Both pullups and briefs are diapers. I prefer to call briefs diapers and pullups pullupsIsn't that basically exactly what I said? xdd
>>85191968The way you said it was convoluted so I rephrased it to be straightforward and to show that my metric is the same in this scenario excluding the external actions you implied.
>>85192015Yea, you right. You smart. You loyal.
Haven't had one of these in a while. Might be a low odds shot on workdays.Diaper check!
>>85192053My diaper is currently wet although I changed into a fresh one recently. And I usually pee for about 5 seconds sometimes 10 seconds at the most so still a while before a change.
>>85192095Damn, you've gotten pretty far in your potty un-training. How many times do you usually wet before you change?
God dammit I just wanna wear more..i just struggle putting one on every damn time and get mad at myself :/
>>85192168:( In which way do you mean you struggle? Like with the shame aspects of it or physically struggling with putting the diaper on?
>>85192186Yeah more so the physical ascept, I make every excuse in the book and overthink it except when im drunk sometimes and do it quickly
>>85192153Depends on the diaper since I use the middle absorbency medical diapers as well and there is dribbling in between peeing. I said 4-6 earlier but the bulky highly absorbent ones are more than that. It only takes about 2 months to get to that point. Then the longer you go past that the less reversible it is. They're still muscles that are undamaged so atrophy is technically reversible no matter what but reversing muscle atrophy is a difficult and long process.
>>85192241So what does that mean exactly? You fuck up the tapes? It's hard to say "just don't think about it" I'm sure you wish you could. Just force yourself through it and you'll get better with time maybe?
>>85191713They're pullup-style diapers. Good for regressive AB immersion, bad for DL wear. It's funny how there's some cultures that favor them over tape-on briefs, which are better for incontinence.
>>85192289Yea I thought you had answered the question before but I wasn't sure. And I couldn't be bothered looking for it. Well good job anon! Are you hoping to become completely incontinent? Are you trying for faecal incontinence too?
>>85192320Noo I don't mess up the tapes or anything, I Just mean sometimes..like last night I wanted to wear to bed and never ended up putting it on and just put it back in the drawer or even ends up on my bed overnight. I've tried to force myself through it for years
>>85192394That sounds more like a shame thing or something other mental rather than physical. I dunno how to help you. Maybe we have a better therapist anon in here somewhere.
>>85192417Yeah it could be i guess, that's alright thanks anyways
>>85192430Hope you can get over it/work through it anon! Hopefully someone in here has something smart to tell you that might help. Mental blocks always suck.
>>85192442Yeah ive tried all different shit, reminders, leaving it out all day to see etc etc
>>85192053Wearing big boy undies today sadly
Is there genuinely anything that gets you out of the binge purge cycle or am I just going to hate myself forever
>>85192620For me it was acceptance. My binge purge cycle was never that intense to begin with to be fair. But I did have a few times where I threw all my diapers away. The purge never comes anymore. But there's definitely still the binge/not very interested in wearing cycle.
>>85192341The goal is to wear diapers which I am. So if incontinence happens then it happens. Or I change my mind and start potty training again.
>>85192620Check this out: https://understanding.infantilism.org/binge-purge_cycle.phpThe way it describes ABDL interest as something that continuously builds over time, and you vent it by spending time engaging with it. But if you're ashamed of it that desire builds up until it gets too much to bear and it explodes in a binge. After that the desire is vented and the void that follows feels hollow, exacerbating the shame. Further desire is suppressed, worsening the cycle.So the solution is to vent the desire before it explodes into a binge.
>>85192633Idk how to accept things though
>>85192763Idk if that's how it works though, it's kind of bad no matter what
>>85192847For me, I mean, idk about other people. I guess it's likely because I struggle with sexuality in general
>>85192764Well maybe what this anon >>85192763 posted will help you. Otherwise you'll have to learn somehow. Try to surround yourself with more confident and accepting people or something. Or - if we manage to get these these constant - just come here. Hang out and try to learn from others in here who have accepted themselves.
>>85192865He needs to look inwardly first before seeking the assistance of others.
>>85192901This is why I'm not supposed to be giving advice. This is better.>>85192864Do what he said. Understanding yourself is pretty based. Makes it easier to accept yourself as well.
Anyways, time for bed. Have a nice few hours without the spamming Swede. Preemptive: Good morning, Indo! Hope you slept well!Hope to see the thread alive in the morning. Ni ni
>>85191713I consider them to be the hottest and most shameful ABDL wear.If you wear a diaper, you are expected to pee and make pushies in them, right ?If you wear an actual underwear, at least even if you had an accident it's what it is called : an accident. One time event, whatever. I mean it's shameful sure and yeah it's the path back to diaper but hey you were a grown up long enough to be trusted at least ! Pull ups ? oooh... You are supposed to stay dry and clean, as you can pull them down easily. But you are still not a grown up, we EXPECT you to pee in them. You are not supposed to mess tho, it's not designed to hold such an accident and yet.... you did...? ugh... Yeah it's the most embarassing thing ever, we had little trust and now it's forever gone sweetie, back to diapers i guess. Idk if it's clear.
>>85192901Idk what that means in practice desu
>>85192962It means to work on understanding yourself. Who are you to you, to others, and to the world is a start in order to orient yourself. Then branch out from there. You were paralyzed with the idea of putting on underwear to the point of inaction. Other people's advice won't help with that. That's a you issue that you need to reflect on.
>>85192995Well I understand why I'm like this I'm just not sure how to change it
>>85193057Oh then I misunderstood the situation. Why are you unable to change it?
>>85193112Honestly idk if it's even a problem with abdl or just with women. Probably both ig. Having an embarassing kink doesn't help but the main problem is that I just don't like the fact that I experience sexual attraction at all
>>85193132Why do you have this issue with yourself? Because that's what it seems like is happening, that you're rejecting yourself.
>>85193246I'm rejecting sexuality because I don't trust women
My tinder date is okay for me to wear and changing my diaper. What a life. She'll wear too.
>>85192620Man I haven't binged-purged since I was a fucking teenager. This shits expensive and if I don't feel like wearing or doing anything it can just sit in a box in the closet.I have a play mat, coloring books, blankies, a potty, cutlery, baby bottles, baby toys, stuffies, and of course diapers. I'm not throwing it out every time it's not in useGet out of the Amerimutt puritanical self-hatred is the only possible advice.>>85193641Gay dating must be so easy
>>85192960This but only for actual baby pullups. Goodnites are somewhere inbetween
More and more often nowadays I wind up in diapers spontaneously rather than it being a planned thing. I used to be able to go>Okay so I've got free time on Thursday and can drink tea and completely soak it and load it with a HUGE mess and have a ton of fun and try not to get overstimulated and cum too quickly because I wanna enjoy it!And now it's more like>...>...I need to pee. I might need to poop later...>...>.......Should I wear?And then 5 minutes later I'm sitting in a newly wet diaper. I'm wearing more often and still enjoying it, but I guess this is normalization?
>>85194047So it is possible to eventually chill out? I was thinking of using a cage to stop the pnc
>>85194047I view diapers as more of an inconvenience which puts me off wearing a lot. If I wear and don't use, it's a total waste. If I mess it's gonna mean clean up, but if I just wet I don't feel like I'm getting full value. Same for baby accessories like toys and bottles where if I get them out I'm gonna have to put them all back again.I think maybe if I'd ever been lucky enough to live in a place with a room I could make a nursery I'd maybe wear a lot more, but it's just not on the cards. I'm a rentslave so having spare rooms is already rare, and in my country inspections of rented property are super common. In fact I moved from a place that only did 1 a year to now 1 every 4 months, fucking annoying.
>>85194180I don't know if I'd ever make a full-blown nursery, I'm still mostly DL-leaning, and can't really get into littlespace. But having a changing station and a dedicated cabinet to stock my diapers and wipes in addition to my diaper pail would be nice.
>>85194322I can't help but think being DL would be so painfully boring.Idk when people say this shit to me it's like I'm hearing "oh I'm not really into petplay I just like eating dogfood and sleeping on the floor"
>>85194001Different anon here. It's funny how, growing up as a literal American Protestant I never felt any real shame about ABDL, my adolescent logic was simply I want to do this = I'm going to do it and enjoy it. I was really heavily into BDSM in my teenage years as well, confided in my high school girlfriend, who it turns out was into it as well (she was Goth so go figure, mind you this was back when Goth was a real subculture), but for the life of me I could not understand why she felt shame about desiring BDSM play having been raised by literal liberal atheists while I, the Church-every-Sunday kid felt no shame in it at all. Ironically, now that I'm an adult with a wife and family I'm more insecure about being ABDL than ever, because I feel that America is having some kind of puritannical revival where fetishes are being re-evaluated for how "problematic" they are or whatever. Reminds me exactly of my high school girlfriend who hated herself because according to her if you get off to hurting people you must be an evil person, and I had to be the adult in the room and say look it's just a fantasy, calm down. Am I crazy in thinking that fetishes were actually more tolerated in the 2000s in a way? Also when people call us pedophiles it actually bothers me a little now, as opposed to when I was in my 20s such comments had literally no effect on me. My two cents
im stopped up and my tummy hurts pls send help!! ;w;
>>85194349I mean there's a lot of things from typical littlespace I didn't experience and have tried since and I'm not really sure they suited me. I didn't use a pacifier or suck my thumb, but instead had a blankie (which I still do, my parents tried to curb that habit and failed miserably), I don't remember sleeping in a crib or wearing onesies (I have four onesies now and they're both nice and useful but I don't always wear them and my legs tend to get cold when I do), and so on. My ideal littlespace mindset age is like 4; old enough to have graduated from most dumb baby things, but still young enough that wearing diapers isn't seen as terribly unexpected.So the ideal room I want to have is something like that, with maybe a potty training chart on the wall and a changing station stocked with diapers. And being a DL is still great, diapers feel great to wear, when they're wet it stimulates my dick and balls all over, when I mess the exertion is stimulating and it feels great on my butt. The squishiness, taboo nature of the act, and smell all contribute to the all-over eroticism, and I can never forget I'm wearing diapers once I'm padded.
>>85194397>Am I crazy in thinking that fetishes were actually more tolerated in the 2000sYou're a little crazy but there is something else to it.I don't think fetishes were more tolerated in the 2000s at all. I think if you came out as a furry or ABDL or absolutely anything at all people would regard you as a freak. You seem to forget people were bullied for being into completely non-sexual subcultures like emo back then. Hell, it was only just in the advent of videogames being cool and not a "nerd" thing.The best thing to be said about reception of fetishes back then is that the internet was a lot more devolved. People were spread across literally thousands of image boards and interest-sites so it probably felt like shit was more tolerated then rather than the highly censorious half dozen social media sites we have now.But at the same time there has been a political schism. People are polarized on politics more than they were in the 90s and 00s and what happens in polarizing political climates is that people have to choose a side and they have to convince others to join them by arguing that their enemies are the worst people possible, not only to persuade people against joining the enemy, but also to justify their own radical rhetoric. If your enemy are literal evil incarnate then whatever you're arguing for is justified.For the left they settled on calling everyone who opposes them "nazis" or "fascists", and for the right they settled on "pedophile". The right will call trannies and even just regular gays pedophiles as well as diaperfags.In both cases what used to be the absolute most serious thing you could accuse someone of being just became a first resort rather than last
Generally, my little side is nonsexual and my dl side are separate, but occasionally they will cross over, especially when I'm sleepy.What do you all do if your little side gets huffy? Does being horny while little bother you?>>85194459Overnightting you one (1) suppository. Hold on, I'm cumming.
>>85192620Acceptance/practice
>>85194478>there's a lot of things from typical littlespace I didn't experienceI don't think this is a prerequisite. I think when I first had the opportunity to explore ABDL what I wanted was exactly what was around when I was a baby. I think, was it SuperDryKids or something like that which did one of the earlier ABDL diapers that literally had this 90s teddybears with balloons print?? Whatever it was it was one of the first diapers I ever bought. And a shit load of old Barney is available on Youtube and I went back and watched that I enjoyed that stuff but I just sort of drifted from it over time. I think if I could have like a full 90s revival nursery I'd be quite tempted but ONLY if it had everything from back then. And that's just not feasible really. It'd be so much work and I'm not so attached to my actual infancy that I could be bothered to do it even if it were possible.As I've continued in my ABDL journey I actually find more modern baby themes appealing to me. I have a big kink for an older woman regressing me and being her baby NOW rather than the baby I was when I was a baby. But aside from that, I don't think I ever wore pull-ups (were they even a thing by the late 90s? I remember seeing ads for them in the mid 00s), but I love pullups and padded training panties and shit like that.Electronic toys were also less of a thing when I was a baby but I like them now.Oh! Baby bottles that have teats that are meant to resemble real breasts, I love that shit and I know they didn't have it in the 90s.ABDL diapers that try to look like modern PampersI dunno, there's just so much about what I like about being little now that is not as relevant to my actual infancy. I don't think there's the connection there that you think there should be
>>85194536Jk my body lost to me i gave a few pushes and a ton came out
>>85194887Thanks for keeping us updated anon
>>85193457Forgot what board I was on for a while there
Are we really in the quiet hours already?
>>85185925I don't think I'd enjoy doing chores in a diaper. Am baby, no chores!
>>85195712*crickets*>>85191125Boss "not wanting to single me out" addresses the group with things that she appears to be blaming me for. I'd rather just be told directly. I've also been quite frustrated because things seem to get pinned on me that I'm not responsible for. It is what it is, I can't expect to get along with everyone perfectly.
>>85196406>I've also been quite frustrated because things seem to get pinned on me that I'm not responsible for.Your coworkers are conspiring against you to try to get you to leave or they're incompetent and know you're leaving so they're shifting the blame onto you.
>>85196419Well, people in this area seem to want to sugarcoat everything in general and never be direct. Not sure if my coworker and boss are just dickheads or if it's cultural. Either way, their contracts are up at the same time as mine.I don't know. Sometimes you have to wonder if it's you or the others. At least I'll get to see my wife soon.
>>85196406Women managers are hell t. womanI had one who told me she wasn't happy with my work output (we were very prone to ups and downs in terms of workload and imo this was quite a low time), so she set me a bunch of tasks in the morning to last all day and said I had to check in with her as I did them. I asked what she planned to do if I finished them before lunch, she said I wouldn't- I did.So aggravating, just demonstrated that none of this shit was actually serious or urgent, she just thought she was going to prove a point.Reminds me a lot of interactions I had with teachers in school actually. Maybe we live in a simulation but I had a near identical interaction with a teacher where I got detention for not doing my homework, she set me a bunch of work to do, I asked what would happen if I finished early, she said I wouldn't, but I did and I didn't want to go fetch her to tell her so I just spent the rest of my time on my phone
>>85196072Cleaning is super fun dress up like a maid and diaper super fun
>>85196494>Women managers are hellOh, man, is that an understatement. Nice to know it's not just me. I do get that impression from some of the guys up here as well, but much less so.>>85196530This guy gets it.
>>85195397Fuckin kek'd
>>85196530If I'm in diapers then I must be a baby. A baby can't be a maid, silly!
>>85196564I could go on for hours. Our work didn't have cleaners, so we had to maintain the space ourselves. I once stayed late (unpaid overtime btw) to clean the place from top to bottom hoping to show that I could go the extra mile since she was always complaining that I wasn't meeting standards. I come in the next day to see her with the vacuum in hand, she said she "noticed it needed doing."That was the point that I realized I wasn't actually falling behind she just has a constant list of bullshit tasks that in reality she wants to do herself so she can tell herself she works harder than anyone else.
Morning anons! >>85194047That's similar to how my wearing has progressed as well.>>85194171Yea it's possible! I used to get bad PNC when I was younger. Never really get it anymore. At least not in a bad way. I do still jork it and start planning on padding up and doing all kinds of dirty things and then end up not doing any of it after I finish. But I never feel bad about it. At most I feel sad because the things I was planning sounded fun and now I don't feel like it anymore.>>85194536It kind of used too. But not anymore. Also I have a wand now that I can use to cum in my diapers to alleviate the huffyness. And it's amazing.>>85194887Stinky babu.>>85195397xdd>>85196406That sounds annoying. I'm very happy that my bosses are reasonable and nice. But I kinda feel like that kind of stuff can't happen at my job. What do you do for work?>>85196530That does sound fun. But I'd have to agree with >>85196072 on "Am baby, no chores!"
>>85196664>I used to get bad PNCWhat the fuck is PNC? Penis non-compliance?
>>85196668"Post nut clarity" Off to work. We'll see how dead it is today. Hopefully I can hang out a bit.
>>85196679Oh right. I always assumed that was just bullshit from males who were raised to be ashamed of masturbating (intentionally or not).
>>85196687It's hardly made up
>>85196664I'm a nurse. Appreciate the sympathy. It's definitely a pain, but again, I can't expect to get along perfectly with everyone. By the way, it's actually the middle of the night here in God's chosen time zone, so good night, anon.>>85196687I assure you, it's not just bullshit. It hits some guys harder than others, though, and depends on what you spank it to.
>>85196687Hmm, I don't think that was the case for me. Never felt ashamed of masturbating, more so about what I had been watching as I did it when I hadn't really accepted myself yet. I'd imagine it's pretty normal. Would be interesting to hear from other anons their experiences. So you've never had it?
>>85196744Oh you're the nurse anon. I see, yea in my mind that field can probably be pretty hostile and in-fighty. Sleep well anon!
>>85196741>>85196744>>85196756I just think boys have complicated feelings about erections, and worry about being walked in on while masturbating and shit so some of them develop feelings of shame around masturbation in adolescence and it has commonly become referred to a "PNC" when really it's like sobering up from arousal.I've had guys tell me about it and I've never had any reason to believe my view is incorrect.Women have a similar thing when ovulating. Some women feel really really hormonal at that point of their cycle and will do shit they wouldn't otherwise do. I guess she'd never really say it to a guy, but you might hear from a woman that a short relationship or a one-night-stand she had with someone she now doesn't like may have been because she was ovulating.But women aren't really shamed for these feelings, so women don't talk about it in the same way men talk about "PNC"Even aside from that, I've said and done shit while aroused that I wouldn't do "sober". I mean that's the entire point right? If we all acted like we do when we're horny 100% of the time society would be anarchy for both sexes. I don't think you're going to find a woman who is proud of the household objects she's tried putting in her pussy before she got a dildo, but she's also not going to talk about it like men talk about "PNC" because she doesn't feel the need to otherize those feelings
>>85196687It's the refractory period after orgasm/ejaculation. From what I understand girls don't experience it. For me it just means a temporary complete loss of interest in anything sexual. I close all my porn tabs and want to be changed if I'm wearing. It usually wears off after like an hour or so.
>>85196820In my mind substituting a dildo is a universal experience for anyone seeking penatrive masturbation. Maybe that's why there's less shame around it? Also what >>85196863 said. That's how it is for most people. And if you're watching some sick nasty perverted porn then shame can also be hand in hand with the disinterest.
>>85196820Yeah retard its precisely sobering up from arousal.
>>85196687I usually just hits me like "Damn, this messy diaper is so great, I'm going to wear this for hours", then I jizz, and pretty quickly go like "Yeah, lets not" and go get cleaned up.It's not a shame thing for me. Kind of just the horny brain switch turning off and becoming more rational.
>>85196863>From what I understand girls don't experience itIt can depend. Maybe for vaginal sex it's different, but I can't cum from that so I've never really tried PiV back to back. But for masturbating normally it depends whether you hold onto the feeling or not. The clit isn't an "on switch" like a lot of men think. It has as many nerves as the whole penis and I don't think men would like getting their dick prodded and poked when they're not aroused. So the clit can become sensitive if you start to lose arousal and then you won't want to go again after orgasm. But if an orgasm was really good or I'm just still mentally horny there's like a minute or two max where stimulation doesn't feel as pleasurable, but it builds again and I can go again. But no I can't imagine orgasm and then just instantly not being aroused, that sounds like insanity. Like saying your body temperature just dropped in half in an instant>wears off after like an hour or so. Holy shit that makes it sound even worse>>85196876>In my mind substituting a dildo is a universal experience for anyone seeking penatrive masturbation.Like up your ass?>>85196888See above. Instantly having no interest in sex and it taking up to a fucking hour to come back is incomprehensible. That is not just sobering up from arousal in the way I meant it, which is why I say it always sounded like bullshit to me>>85196903That sounds more reasonable. While masturbating I've said and wished for things I know I won't actually want once I've finished. Inhibitions are lower while aroused, but men always talk about "PNC" like they're a different person while jerking off
>>85196943Yea or vaginally. First time I stuck something in the pooper I definitely didn't splurge money on buying a dildo just to try it out.
>>85196820There are actual measurable differences in brain chemistry before, during, and after orgasm. The results manifest in different ways depending on the individual.
>>85196965I'm really not sure what you're trying to say
>>85196977I imagine most people who have shoved something inside themselves to masturbate have used household objects. Because of that I believe while not wanting to take pride in, it's not very shameful.
>>85196991>most people who have shoved something inside themselves to masturbate have used household objectsBut all men masturbate and yet genuinely seem ashamed of some of the stuff they get off to. By your logic they shouldn't be ashamed if masturbation is common and normal no?
>>85196943It's not really a rational thing. Like you said when you're aroused your inhibitions are lowered. There's lots of posts about men having a tough time continuing to wear after cumming because they want out so much, and the advice usually given is "Either fap before you pad up or just sit and ignore it, your desire to change will pass and you'll get used to it."
>>85197018They shouldn't be ashamed if they masturbated to more normal porn. I don't think any man has had post nut clarity about the masturbation itself. I've only ever heard it refer to whatever depraved thing was being watched. So maybe if fetishes and sexuality was more normalized it wouldn't exist.
>>85197021Weird. If I want out after it's because I wore with the intention of getting off and I achieved my purpose>>85197053>They shouldn't be ashamed if they masturbated to more normal porn. I don't think any man has had post nut clarity about the masturbation itselfI have absolutely heard from men that they feel bad for jerking off even to normal porn because it was like a waste of time or they had other things they needed to be doing etc
>>85197077Oh okay. I've never heard/felt that myself. But like other anons have said, it can feel like getting a bucket of cold water thrown on you. You cum and all your horniness vanishes in a second. That's just how male orgasms often work. And it sucks.
>>85197120>it can feel like getting a bucket of cold water thrown on you. You cum and all your horniness vanishes in a secondInsanity. Does not sound healthy
>>85197224Well that's just how it works
>>85197224Please feel free to become a brain surgeon or biochemist and find a way to make make it not like that. I would appreciate it, and I think other men would too.
>>85197224That's just how it is. I personally try to limit my masturbation to only in messy diapers, which is like once every few days to allow arousal to build, and spend the refractory period in the shower cleaning up. And men can cum without reaching orgasm too, which is just decidedly unfun to me cause it's not pleasurable at all while also inciting the refractory period.
>>85197237>>85197277>>85197285Do your emotions just stop in an instant too? Like what if you just instantly decided you don't love someone anymore?
>>85197295Do you not stop being hungry pretty quickly after eating?
>>85197295I'm autistic, I don't understand my emotions very well. Especially not love. But I've never had that happen towards people I care about no.
>>85197333Uh no? It literally wears off over time as I'm fucking eating.Can you imagine being hungry throughout dinner and the instant you put your fork down that's when you're not hungry anymore? It'd be completely retarded
>>85197349Idk about it but for me eating is usually a petty quick process
>>85196991toothbrushes are what I used for both holes before i got toys
>>85197489>she didn't discover deoderant in a sock in a condom
>>85197513there is no way i could've gotten condoms in the country i was living.
Got my boyfriend half a case of ABU diapers for his birthday. Feels like a real relationship milestone. Also, all this talk about jerking off is once again making consider if cumming at least once a day, every day (in or out of diapers) is maybe too much for me.
>>85197523Oh you're that south east asian one?Sucks to be you I guess. My school gave free condoms to over 16s>>85197527Do gay boys feel post nut clarity?
>>85197295when I had a gf, who I actually did love, she got mad I didn't want to cuddle after. because usually I had the instant inescapable urge to get up do something else. it's like a flipping a switch and it takes about an hour to reset, a clear chemical indication that free will is an illusionAlthough as I got older I've come to terms more with the fact that being around anyone "drains my batteries" so to speak and I need hours of time completely alone, every day. Preferably like 8 hours, it's kinda like sleep. I can go without it for a while but eventually I'll do whatever it takes to get it, and have a deficit by that point. I suspect most people are similar (with lower required alone time) but aren't honest with themselves about it. I call it "spending too much time together"
>>85197295Uh no? I don't generally feel a lot of strong emotions, so when I do they tend to be overwhelming and last for a while.
>>85197489That pic is adorable. Were you like that when you were playing Dotes? xdd
>>85197559I mean you just sound like a borderline autistic to me. I know someone whose husband is a lot like you and she thinks he's slightly autisticBut who am I to judge? I am BPD and I cling to my favourite person and always have done. I only want to be apart from them when I'm mad, and it's nothing about social battery
>>85197527I definitely jork it too much. I do it whenever I'm bored and can't think of anything else fun.
>>85197589noo i don't get very mad at video games honestly.
>>85197621Damn, no Indo gaming tantrums. sajj
Question, when you go to sleep/work do you guys go back in these threads and read the backlog up too where you last were? Do you respond to any general questions that were posted while you were gone or do you feel like the moment has passed?
>>85197656I do actually backread where I was but I don't typically answer the super old questions
>>85197656I pretty much always reply to someone who has replied to me unless we're going in circles
>>85197536>Do gay boys feel post nut clarity?We do, though mine usually just amounts to 'hm...should probably change out of this shit filled diaper now.'>>85197617Yeah, I feel it. During my work week I basically make it a priority to jerk at some point before go to bed, but some of that is because I work in customer service and don't want an extra reason to feel agitated on the job.
>>85197595Yes, I suspect I am but I don't believe in medical diagnosis or treatment (only for injuries, infections)I also suspect my ex was similar to what I hear from you. Wanted to spend every waking moment together. The thing is that when you do that with someone you will inevitably start having them get on your nerves, and you get on theirs. People refer to the "honeymoon" period but my theory is it's really just spending too much time together and building up a deficit of alone time. It happens with all people, including male friendships and even family.I just happen to realize it because I have higher requirements than most people so it's more obvious.
>>85197687Ok, why don't you answer the questions? :(>>85197741That's fair. And you reply/answer general/thread questions that have been posted? >>85197757There're days where I'm engaged and entertained the whole day after work. Usually if I have some new exciting game that I'm playing. Then I might not jork it and I don't really feel any difference the next day. But you notice it?
>>85197767>my ex was similar to what I hear from you. Wanted to spend every waking moment togetherSometimes it's a woman thing>The thing is that when you do that with someone you will inevitably start having them get on your nervesMy previous FP from when I was a teenager did tend to get annoyed with me. The one I have now doesn't. It's me that has BPD episodes and tries to create distance when I'm angry or sad.Again, nothing to do with social batteries>>85197881>you reply/answer general/thread questions that have been posted?Yeah when we need a bump. Thing is people tend not to reply to replies to TQs
>>85197881It feels weird to answer questions to lots of people that might not even be in the thread anymore!!
>>85197902Hmm i haven't thought about it but that might be the case. Do you think that's cause of the TQs?
>>85197951>Do you think that's cause of the TQs?I think people view replies to a TQ as a conversation they're not part of. Slightly higher barrier for them to want to interject compared to them spontaneously posting something to announce that they're here, or getting replied to themselves
>>85197945But they'll hopefully come back right? And I would be happy to read your replies. :)
>>85197958Hmm might just be my autism speaking but I almost never feel that way when reading posts. They're there and anyone's free to ask follow-ups / give insight if they have any.
>>85196943>Instantly no longer arousedThis is accurate, though Anon's estimation of a full hour recovery is not what I've experienced. I'm more or less back to normal arousal in 15 minutes. It does take time, though.>Instant no-arousal would suckNot as much as you think. You instantly stop being aroused, but you don't become dispassionate. There's more to sex than arousal. For me, the excited, horny feeling is replaced with an equally intense urge for closeness and a spike of affection. Like unless you really fucking hate the person you're having sex with, you don't stop wanting to be with them in that moment. Quite the opposite. You just aren't specifically aroused anymore and won't be for 10-20 minutes.As you might guess from my being a guy on 4chan this has never been directed to a real person so I can't really speak to the details of how it works in practice, but after I cum I'm left wanting to hug something and rest. Usually a plushie.
>>85198040I diagnose you as a bottom
Unironically how do I get an abdl gf?
>>85194001she is a real woman. To be honest, i managed to get 3 tinder dates to wear for me. When you don't give a fuck about rejection, make it fun and don't be a huge creep about it it's quite easy honnestly.And no, of course, i don't date 10/10. They were mid 4-6/10 girls. But hey, i'm not brad pitt either so it's fine.
Went shopping padded and wet myself during the trip yesterday and I needed to ask for a bathroom key so I could go change with my spare, finished wetting myself on their potty. Made sure to clean up after myself and sanitize though. Twas my first time doing anything outside my house so it was definitely exciting x3
>>85198138kek>>85198195Do what this anon does >>85198248. Convert someone.
Range ban kicked in again for whatever reason so had to verify mail. :(>>85198471Nice! Were you nervous? What kind of diaper did you wear?
Just gave myself a boo-boo at work. xdd Cut my finger unscrewing a street light. Nothing too bad. Basically a paper cut but from a plastic edge. This is why you should use gloves folk.
>>85196406The diapered housewife stuff she did is insanely hot. Also, good morning, diaperfolk
>>85199076Good morning anon! I can't tell who it is on my phone, is it Fae?
>>85199242Pretty sure that's sugary little, if you mean who the girl is from the post I replied to
>>85199260Yee, I assume that's who you meant did housewife stuff. I dunno if I've seen it. Sounds pretty based though.
>>85198248Honestly same experience. I'm 4/4 on getting IRL girls (without the kink) to wear for me REGULARLY. But also I've dated a few girls who I knew probably never would. It's about self selecting a bit for kinkiness and then exploiting that.
>>85196494>Women managers are hellRemind me of when I worked at a dog salon/daycare (fav job but the pay was trash).Manager/groomer would send any poodle back to be further dried, regardless of how long you spent drying it. Eventually it became a game of drying 90%, do the song and dance, then finish drying instead of even attempting 100% the first time.Like that one guitarist who had the 'producer' whammy bar that didn't actually do anything but soothed producer's ego
>>85197559It's called being an introvert, if I don't get like an hour or so of 'no one fucking talk to me' time I start going insane.
>>85197656I read/skim the backlog, will respond to yous even if they're archived
Back from work one boo-boo richer. Right on the tip of my right index finger too. Shit sux. >>85199471Sounds like that is what most people do. Do you/have you answered the TQs? Not trying to pester people about it, you don't have to if you don't want too ofc. Just trying to get a grasp of how many people are actually posting in these threads.
>>85199722*Left index finger. Apparently being out in the sun all day has made my brain fired.
Pretty dead around this time today as well huh?
>>85200428haha I think the Euro is asleep and some ETers are working. Supposed to be massive flooding on the East Coast on US today. I keep my diapers in my basement so not sure if that makes it better or worse if my basement floods lol
>>85200468I'd be surprised if my fellow euros are asleep. It's 6:27 pm here. xdd Oof, hope nobody in here is going to be affected. Well, I guess it depends on how much it floods and how many diapers you have. I would not want to waste good diapers on soaking up flooding water though.
>>85200468anon!! that's not how you're supposed to flood your diapers :3
>>85199722>Do you/have you answered the TQs? Sometimes, in regards to this TQ nothing in particular jumped to mind/the thread was pretty underway at the time
>>85200428Babies gotta work too I'm afraid
>>85200539I understand if you don't have an answer. But don't let the thread being active / already going stop you though!
>>85200550Yea, I still haven't quite gotten the grasp of where most of the thread goers are from. Seems to be very NA heavy. Thought we had some more euros.
>>85200688Central time bab reporting in, could set up a tag map like the trash diaper thread maintains (or just piggy back off it maybe?)
>>85201064That would be fun to do our own tag map it would be everywhere
>>85201064Sorry for the late response, was just in the start of a Dota game when you posted. Tag map sounds interesting. Is that something people would like? I don't know how it works. Is it prone to getting griefed?
>>85201190Think it's something you'd like haha, no clue as to griefing
>>85201273Fun to see where everyone is at
>>85200468>massive flooding on the East Coast on US today.Sorry, that was me.
Won my Dotes game :)>>85201273Hmm. Maybe I'll look into it. This thread is reaching capacity. >>85201332Big wetter over here.
>>85201190do you have more of this girl ? If so, please feel free to post some she looks so cute it tingles my brain. The little back pat is always something that i find real cute, especially after the girl made some pushies
>>85201407Unfortunately I don't sort my pics by models as you might tell from the filename. So I don't really know, and I'd have to go through each one individually to check.
>>85201387Alright! Got the tag map up. Lets try it out and see if people enjoy it! I'll have it in the OP for next thread. If it gets griefed or people think it's cringe we can just drop it.Here it is: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fr9k%2Frinkle
>>85201484I personally would never use tagmap
>>85201654Sad why not
>>85201654Yea I would assume it's not for everyone. We'll see how it goes. It'd be cool if at least some people used it. Get some idea of our spread.
The diaper fetish is epic until you realize it's primarily just obese bitches into this shit.Total boner killer dudes.
>>85201670I'd say it's primarily men. xdd Personally I don't mind a bit of chub on a woman. If I got to craft my perfect partner they definitely wouldn't be some skinny supermodel.
>>85201659Hey! You say that but I can't see that you've tagged yourself on there?! Hypocrisy!
>>85201670hey man i'm like 100 pounds that's rude
Anyone got any suggestions for the next TQ? I'm terribly uncreative and boring so I'll just use AI to come up with one otherwise.
>>85201934Jesus, that's nothing. Are you also very short or are you just skin and bones? Not that I should really be talking about height, I'm only 5 8
>>85201484Huzzah!>>85201690I don't mind when people don't have a perfect body, but I prefer smaller.>>85201934Are you a guy? If so, that's tiny. I used to be between 125 and 130lbs until I started working out. 170lbs now.The rangeban is back. Wonderful.
>>85202015Oof, yea mine did earlier today at work as well. I dunno why it comes and goes. At least you can still post if you verify email.
>>85201979yeah im really short>>85202015no im a girl
We hit bump limit! >>85202083Do you like it? I sometimes wish I was shorter for fetish reasons. The thought of being so small that a person could easily lift and carry me is peak.
Alight. Time for a change. Come on everyone. Lets go.>>85202297>>85202297
>>85202123mm it is okay!! it is normal for girls to be short and small!
