Anons who lost their virginity to an escort, would you recommend it to other virgins? If someone is a chronic masturbation addict in their mid 20s who has never had sex and is confused about their sexuality, would it be a good idea for them to try escorts?
>>85202320Idk it depends on what you look likeI'm sub-5 so I'm glad I did it early because I no longer grovel for womenIf you can get it for free, thats better
>>85202320I lost my virginity to an escort but turned gay afterwards. I don't know, it's a risky path to tread. If you have excess money go for it.
>>85202341I could but some circumstances make it harder to date. No avenue to meet women outside of dating apps. Living with helicopter parents. In all honestly I'm tired of beating my dick to a pulp every single day rotting in my room. I'm hoping an escort would fix me and give me a will to live life. I think being with one would also demistify women and possibly give me more confidence.
>>85202376I really dont want to turn full gay. The porn addiction has gotten bad enough to the point where its what I gravitate to first when I open up /gif/.
>>85202386>I could but some circumstances make it harder to date. No avenue to meet women outside of dating apps. Living with helicopter parents. In all honestly I'm tired of beating my dick to a pulp every single day rotting in my room. I'm hoping an escort would fix me and give me a will to live life. I think being with one would also demistify women and possibly give me more confidence.I beat my dick to a pulp everyday and I've seen hookers a few timesTo me it was good that I did it the first time to demystify sex but afterwards it has a diminishing return
>>85202407Just do it. YOLO. If you turn gay you won't have to worry about women ever again. If you don't turn gay you won't be an AIDs-ridden faggot. It's only win-win.
>>85202320Would foids prefer a virgin man or a man that has only fucked escorts? Imagine that you don't know these facts about either man. The difference in confidence would still be palpable, I think at least. So which one would foids chose? Is there really a benefit to saving yourself for the right one?
>>85202320>Anons who lost their virginity to an escortthis would literally be me if i didnt get cockblocked by that fucking hotel manager. fuck it still makes me mad when i think about it. as well as feeling embarrassed and ashamed.
I fuck the same 3 escorts regularly since 2022. They treat me as a prime client but it dont fix loneliness, only sex urge; we chat a lot but every time i invited them to do stuff like going to a theater, i was declined
>>85202701maybe a restaurant nearby or something would be easier for them to accept?
>>85202320Yes. It will help you fucks to stop overthinking sex so goddamn much. No the world does not open its secrets to you when your dick touches a vagina, yes it feels good but its 10 minutes of some awkward humping a stranger, you cum, feel good, then you realize THATS what the big deal was?
>>85202847>>85202701you aint turning a whore into a friend, stop, they do not want it, they want your 50 bucks, please stick to the fucking transaction and stop being stupidt. 27 year old escort in midwest
>>85202701I've talked to you before. Still not as bad as the anon who went down on the hooker.
>>85202847I invited them to restaurants too lmao>>85202862>>85202886I got the message, i wont try again.
>>85202320Yes. I lost my virginity at 29 to prostitutes in japan. Now I fuck prostitutes all the time.
>>85203798most prostitutes in japan are chinese
How do you find escorts in the US that aren't scams/fake profiles/law enforcement? like what website?
>>85203811that's literally not true
>>85203913I'm pretty sure you don't anymore, everyone acts like ever since onlyfans you're either paying an arm and a leg for a mid bitch or $10 for a crack whoreShame, I guess I'm not even paying to lose my virginity
>>85202320I don't recommend it. It doesn't feel legitimate. You're better off banging a fatty or ugly.
>>85204064>I'm pretty sure you don't anymoreSo this thread is just euros huh...
I'm a 37 year old virgin, I need to get an escort already and lose it. If I make it to 40 I'm going to rope, just on principle. It's hard for me to justify spending hundreds of dollars just for an hour though. Wish escorts had like a first-time discount or something. Also I'm nervous, obviously. Fuck.
>>85205170Yeah the prices can be pretty fucking high. It's like 300 dollars in my city at the cheapest from what I've heard from coworkers and shit that go to them.
>>85202529Most women prefer men having at least a little bit of experience. Having no experience at all means you are undesirable, which is, well, undesirable. But they also would get the ick if they knew your only experience was with whores. As long as they never found out, yeah, experience with whores would be preferable to none at all
>>85202320At its best you might not feel like you are paying for sex. On average it is not going to be hot or a good experience but your mileage may vary. Don't take this grain of salt as pure truth.
>>85205170>It's hard for me to justify spending hundreds of dollars just for an hour though.Make a holiday out of it. Assuming you are American just fly down to Puerto Plata in Dominican Republic and spend some time at Sosua. Enjoy the beach, cheap drinks and food and Latin culture. While you're there fuck some hookers. For $500 USD there you could probably fuck 6 or 7 different girls. Just get a moderately priced room in a guest friendly hotel that's close to the action. Otherwise for a total newbie you can go to Blackbeard's Adult resort which is not too far from Sosua. At Blackbeards you have a safe environment with reasonable rooms, pool and lots of girls to pick from. Some of them are not so attractive and are more mercenary but others apparently are prety good. You negotiate directly with the girl and take her back to your room. Do some research before you go. Other options for you include Tijuana, Mexico. Personally I would avoid Colombia if you are a newbie as it can be risky and lots of guys getting scopolamined there. If you wanted to venture further afield then look into Pattaya, Thailand. Yes once you pay airfares, hotel, insurance etc, this would be more expensive than just hiring a hooker locally, but it is also a question of value. You are getting an international vacation, some life experience and in the process can fuck more than double the number of girls for the same money back home. Also no hassles with law enforcement.
>>85202862The term is sex worker you chud
>>85202320>Anons who lost their virginity to an escort, would you recommend it to other virgins?Yes.>in their mid 20s who has never had sex and is confused about their sexuality, would it be a good idea for them to try escorts?If you graduated college as virgin then do it. Availability of girls after education plummets extremely hard, if you couldn't do it then you will never do it after "naturally". So just do it. I personally only regret I didn't do it earlier (on the other hand I was so shy and anxious so had difficulty even to go to a hooker).
>>85205375Pure logic and reason.Yeah, this is how it is.
>>85202529Uhhh 100% prefer a virgin. I am a virgin in my 20s as well and my bf is also a virgin. I absolutely love that we will be each others first. I wouldnt like to be with someone that wouldnt be a virgin. Now that I met him, I wouldnt want to be with a non virgin ever. If a guy had sex with escorts, I would be extremely put off. You would throw that special intimate first time moment away. You should have that with your wife. Dont waste it on some whore.
>>85206240Damn this is actually a lot of good info lol. Don't know if I'll ever actually fuck a hooker but I'm saving your post for if I ever do.
>>85206640Why would a guy ever tell you if he did? Like if I fucked a hooker and then met a chick I would be like "hey I used to fuck hookers babe" lmao.
>>85206649I wouldn't tell her, not would.
>>85206649Yeah guys, if you didn't get the point never ever tell girls that you fucked hookers, they get extreme ick from that. Any girls, including those who you didn't plan to sleep with or have as friends, girls talk.
>>85206649Sure, great foundation for a stable long term relationship or marriage. Just lie about that you are a virgin.Must be a wholesome relationship with a foundation based on lies.And if it is getting serious that this would obviously be a topic that comes up. So you are just going to lie to your woman? How respectable of you.
>>85206660Such a cope I hope you are happy when you have to look at yourself in the mirror. Just lie and deceive to the most important person in your life, absolutely disgusting.
>>85206661>Just lie about that you are a virgin.Why? Say you had sex, just omit fact that these girls were hookers.
>>85206671People prefer sweet lies instead of bitter truth not gonna fight them on that.
>>85206661I don't fuck hookers I'm just saying if I did fuck hookers I wouldn't tell anyone about it, certainly not a woman I was dating. It's not a lie, it's an omission of truth.
>>85206680I mean they will probably ask if they were gfs or what your connection was with these girls lolI hope you will do a std test as bare minimum. I just find it pathetic why cant you just save it for someone special? But if you dont care about it then sure I guess, such a waste
>>85206690 Bullshit if you have to lie about it you know the answer yourself
>>85206691What if they asked you? Then you are still going to omit? Yeah thats called lying anon.
>>85206708Why would they ask me if I fucked hookers? Have you asked your boyfriend if he's fucked hookers? Bet you haven't.
>>85202320if you lose your virginity to an escort its a nuke to your ability to have sex with a regular woman. once you do it you can either never be honest in love and you will suffer because of it or you have a permanent scarlet letter for the beginning of your dating history. escorts are for married or previously sexed men ONLY.
>>85206734>once you do it you can either never be honest in love and you will suffer because of itAre you 14 or something?
>>85206734>you can either never be honest in loveI could never be honest in love already, that ain't loss.
>>85206717Lol, he is a virgin. He never had sex. I will translate that for you: it means he never fucked hookers. What are you, retarded?
>>85206700>I just find it pathetic why cant you just save it for someone special?Because there would be no someone special. If you couldn't pull out girlfriend on tutorial difficulty in school and college you would never do it on real difficulty after. And gap between your abilities and expectations of potential romantic partners would only grow larger.
>>85206798So you've never asked? >What are you, retarded?Are you? you're the one acting like women ask but then also acting like if a dude says he's a virgin then he's a virgin and there is no reason to ask.
My favorite part about sex is the making out, eye contact, hugging, cunnilingus, and naked cuddling. Then I stick it in raw, and cum in 20 seconds. Would most prostitutes accommodate that? I think not. Most media representations of prostitution i see are always BJs, doggy style, or cowgirl. No foreplay, cuddling, or other intimacy stuff. I think i'm doomed to be a non-whoremonger.
>>85206883some hookers will let you do that, but if you're expecting to do it with a White woman in america who isn't some disgusting old hag, expect to spend at least 1.5 to 2 thousand dollars. and that's not counting porn stars, because most of them would probably charge about 5 grand for that I'm assuming. you're better off just buying and fucking an android.
>>85202862Yes it does happen. I'm friends with some escorts that I've been a client of. In fact this weekend I'm going on a date with one. Yes, I still pay her, but we do have a good time together.
>>85202320If you're confused about your sexuality, I have no idea if escorts are much help.All I know is that when I had intercourse with an escort for the first time, it was a very good experience. Having a person physically there changes the whole experience and I found it to be significantly different from masturbation in terms of tempo and the feeling throughout my body. It is not a good habit to have long-term, and you will enjoy sex much more within a loving relationship than you ever will with escorts. Trust me, this is true.
>>85206823Lol you are clearly retardedI asked, can you even read? Go back to elementary school faggot
>>85207223And I answered why. Can you read?
>>85206823I get your point anon, but I disagree. I never met anyone special in school or college either. I only found someone when I actively tried doing so and through an unconventional way. It may not be easy but you have to invest energy and effort in it. Youll have a much higher rate of succes that way. Giving up and just having sex with a hooker doesnt seem like a wholesome, happy outcome to me at least. Unless you are not looking for long term commitments or marriage, then you do you.
>>85207229Omg my brain hurts from this level of stupidity. He doesnt even understand the post I made lmao youre so clueless
>>85207238>It may not be easy but you have to invest energy and effort in it. Youll have a much higher rate of succes that way. Giving up and just having sex with a hookerGoing for hooker is exactly opposite of giving up. It's following "go outside and touch grass sort of advice". It needs much investment of energy and efforts, I am so shy finding confidence even to go to a hooker was a big problem. Also first time was comple humilating failure of me not able to maintain erection. But good thing about hooker it's stays between you, and she will not reject your next visit. Can't imagine how bad such would look with girlfriend, suicide inducing.
>>85207369Yeah that is just putting energy and effort in the wrong thing, unless you dont want anything serious and long term.Ehhh anon, if you have a gf that actually loves and cherish you, they are not going to care about that. It can happen. Id only cherish that. Youd learn together and get better together. If you have some shallow roastie maybe not but a girl who actually loves you is really not going to care.But thats why waiting till after marriage is better in my opinion. Your wife isnt going to make fun of you or leave you because of it unless its some shallow bitch lolSounds like you just need to work on your insecurities
>>85207238The men who go to hookers are not incel losers. They are chads and normal men who can also get women other ways. They simply pay for the convenience.
>>85207423Ive seen plenty of men who go to hookers because they cant find a woman to have sex with. Its both chads and incels. Dont be clueless, many such cases on these threads too. I see it all the time.
>>85202529Do NOT tell them you are a virgin its basically loser status for males, ALSO NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER admit you had sex with a whore or escort.
>>85207416>Yeah that is just putting energy and effort in the wrong thing,Wrong thing would be trying to find girlfriend been hopeless incel. It's self reinforcing spiral of you as incel staying behind more and more, while people around, including your potential romantic partners move forward with romantic experience and expectations.>Ehhh anon, if you have a gf that actually loves and cherish you, they are not going to care about that.I am not gonna find such in my late 30s.>Sounds like you just need to work on your insecuritiesWell going to escorts was the best decision and therapy. I can actually have sex, not some theoretical possibility (doubt) , but doing mating press to absolutely real girl, thats can't be denied.
>>85207447Men can always find a woman to have sex with if they want. You are objectively wrong.
>>85207501Not in the current year.
do male escorts exist or should i rub a pus with a female one. how can a nigga get sex if i dont even know what i want
>>85206643No probs anon. For all of the shit that normies talk about travelling, sex tourism is probably one of the few legitimate reasons for a guy to travel. If you want more info or suggestions let me know.
>>85202320All young women are escorts, either officially or unofficially. They arent interested in pure wholesome disney romance until theyre around 35. Movies lied to you.
>>85206640Wow thats really problematic. I met my wife when she was a prostitute. Are you saying she didnt deserve love, that our first time together wasnt special and magical, that she is not valid marriage material? Escorts are just like any other woman. Stop slut shaming you dumb bitch, go to hell and die
Would you rather fuck a guy with 10 girls under his belt but has a 5~ inch penis vs. a virgin with a 7 inch penis?
>>85206640>You would throw that special intimate first time moment awayMeanwhile the average woman goes off the college sterilized on birth control and gets fucked by 50 guys her first two years L O L
>>85208400You phrased that in a way you wont get an accurate answer. Ask if theyd rather be fucked by Jason Momoa's 5 inch dick or Elliot Roger's 7 inch dick. You need to put actual faces to the virgin and chad labels or women wont understand your point.
>>85208478that's dumb, that just introduces more factors into the equation and dilutes the original question entirely
>>85208478>Elliot Roger's 7 inch dickHe had 4" dick.
>>85208617that's average thouhg
>>85206640I think my plan is just to hold off on going the prostitute route until I'm mid-30s and all hope is officially lost. Really I would be mostly fine with dying a virgin but the idea of never knowing what sex feels like (no matter how mundane it really is) feels so depressing
