>>85202965
Incoming desperate retards to beg OP for love

good picrel bad post thobeit

>>85202965
You're going to regret it later because female hermits don't exist. Posting a cat pic is already foreshadowing it.

>>85202970
It wont happen

I dont want it. I saw a video of me smiling before. That version of me has gone, i dont smile anymore. I know that i wont ever be ready for a relationship again, but maybe one day i can learn to smile again

>>85202965
It's hard to be both kind and attractive to women. Kindness comes from being high on trait agreeableness. Women are attracted to men low on trait agreeableness. It is what it is.

>>85202965
Have you accepted this on your own, or through negative experiences with poor quality men?

>>85203017
Edgy ass. How is middle school?

>>85203017
If I could roll my eyes any harder at your post they'd fall of their sockets

>>85202965
I cant commit to anyone right now, but we can be friends. My discord is absolur929.
I'm actually talking to a few girls but like i said we can be friends

>>85203015
What can i do?

I met 6 men, and 6 times they destroyed me. I would be a fool to try for a 7th time.

Imagine that you meet someone, they cause you harm, you leave you try againm 6 times. I should've stopped after 3. Everyone here always says how if people get hurt, its their own fault, no one owes you anything.

Well if thats the case why would i be with someone who doesnt owe me physical safety, not to rob me or not to cheat on me and give me infections. Im not owed these things remember, so why am i risking my life?

>>85203019
Im not attracted to any men. I genuinely dont want it, some guy spoke to me on the street last night and i just didn't want it. I want to be alone

>>85202965
If they haven't found their partner, kind men are killed metaphorically when they reach their 20s and 30s. Either from someone taking advantage, or society as a whole denigrating them. Kind men become either bitter and jaded, or like you resigned to a life alone.
The only way you'll find a kind man now is if you foster his kindness and draw it back out

>>85202965
>I havent met any men who are kind.
Translastion: "i let my pussy tingles control me and go for guys that are bullies and assholes, now I blame men as a whole."

>>85203026
Negative experiences. And i really tried. These were men with good jobs, they seemed nice at first. But they werent nice. I dont understand, why hurt me, why not just leave. I think like hurting others

>>85203035
It would just me be venting about life, i dont think it would be interesting to anyone

>>85202965
>>85203017
Been pumped and dumped by some bad boy, huh?
What'd he make you do before he moved onto his next slut?

>>85203035
lmao you fucking simp loser

>>85203055
>The only way you'll find a kind man now is if you foster his kindness and draw it back out

I havent got the capability for that. Im not a bad person, i wouldn't harm anyone else, but i just dont have the energy to go on dates and work men out. I just dont, someone else will have to do that

>>85203063
You didn't think this thread would be interesting either but you got lots of replies, didn't you?

>>85203046
>I met 6 men, and 6 times they destroyed me
There's a common denominator here and it's not the men.

>>85203063
Be honest, were there really no signs that showed them for who they were before you got together?

>>85203072
Hop in my dms faggot
You wont
Bet you got a nice ass on you boy

>>85202965
meh.
kind men do exist, but if you want to dismiss half of the world's population based on your own negative experiences, be my guest
the kind men who do exist don't have to waste their kindness on someone this shallow

godspeed, anon
may you find peace in solitude

>>85203046
>i loaded a gun with six bullets and it shot six times
Truly.

>>85203095
she won't even take a kind man in that earns good, looks good, etc. she's hopelessly addicted to retarded bad boys.

>>85202965
just grab a naive 18 year old that isn't redpilled on women yet

>>85203078
I guess. At least i can say i tried, i tried to find love, i really did give it my all, but it just wasnt meant to be

>>85203084
There wont be a 7th

>>85203085
Love bombing, cancelling dates at the last minute, not answering texts or calls. I trusted them, and it didnt work out.

Looking back, in all honesty, it wasnt obvious. I dont feel stupid because i didnt realise until the bad stuff had happened.

But i have learnt, and i learnt that it doesnt matter if you make a guy wait 6 months, he just womt care, and will hurt me anyway. I dont think every single man is bad, i think that its a lottery, some are bad, some are good, and its difficult because the bad ones hide it well.

So if i cant tell the good from the bad, why am i bothering

>>85203075
I understand, you are right that is not something everyone can/wants to/should do. But that's just the way the world is right now.
Most decent men have been broken and beat down. The frustration and dissatisfaction with finding the "right' partner is a fraction of what they feel. Just keep that in mind and don't lump them in with the same men that have disappointed you.

>>85202965
Good. You are stripped of motherhood because it's simply not in you.

Kill yourself or cope, it doesn't matter either way.

>>85203140
Too late. She's out of the game, full doom posting. Why try?

>>85203086
Naw I'm good, you seem like another weirdo

>>85203106
Lol funny. I need a man that literally has never had social media either.

Ive got so many bad stories. Ok so i matched one guy on tinder. We agree to go for a picnic on a nice day. He picks me up in his car. Hes a teacher, he tells me about his career, the students etc ok, seems normal.

We drive to get the food, i go in to get the food, i come out and he has driven off. Why did he do that? Why not just say "sorry im not interested", or even just "i have to go, its important", and end it there.

Why drive me 2 hours away from my home to ditch me. I didnt say anything wrong or weird. Why did he do that? I dont want to be with any guy

>>85203131
>i gave it my all
> a handful of attempts
I guarantee you didnt spend any money on them.

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>>85203131
How many of these guys did you fuck?

>>85203165
>my match on tinder ditched me
Yawn.
Anything else?

>>85203165
>We drive to get the food, i go in to get the food, i come out and he has driven off
No way this happened lmao

>>85203183
I swear to god, this happened. It took me 2 hours to get back home. I was so upset and scared.

Why is it funny to you?

>>85203165
>dating apps
next youll say theyre black guys

>>85203192
It's a classic way to ditch your partner especially if they pissed you off. People will tell them they're getting food, let them grab it, then ditch them, usually a long way from home.
Guess you didn't look too appealing or you pissed your tinder date off

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>>85202965
Living alone for a while is good to learn what you really want. The ability of being alone without being lonely is kind of the requirement to not get pressured into a relationship you don't really want so... Godspeed, Nona.

>>85203213
On that note why are you in the car with some random stranger anyway? Youre begging to get abducted dumbass.
Shouldve brought your own car

>>85202965
>I haven't met Chad
there. now go away.

>>85203221
This is wise. I need to do things alone, for a while. I know that im a very different person now, so i just want to heal, i dont wanna be with anyone for the next few years

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>>85203223
>>85203213
>using dating apps in the first place

>>85203165
shut the fuck up and go blogpost somewhere else you dumb attention-seeking whore

>>85203147
I'm not trying to convince her to not give up. I don't care if she gives up. I just want her to not blame men as a whole. The problem arises from her primal desires (assertive, aggressive, power) conflating with her companionship desires for a kind compassionate man.

>>85203250
>dont blame men
>but her tinder dates are men leaving her stranded, hurting her repeatedly 6 times in a row

>>85203238
This. Tinder is for hookups and free dinners.

>>85203192
>Why is it funny to you?
Because it's fucked up. I've gone on dates with chicks from the internet who weren't as pretty or great as I thought from their profiles but I'd never ditch the 2 hours away. I need to be less beta.

>>85203357
Don't do that, its very cruel. If you dont like someone, just end it. Dont need any more broken people in the world

>>85203263
>I just want her to not blame men AS A WHOLE
Is what I said. And you know, the whole aggressive/assertive thing. Which that guy probably checked those boxes for her, she just didn't like the repercussions of that kind of guy

>>85203371
You stick out the one date at the very least, then you say you didn't feel any chemistry and stop talking to them.

>>85203371
lol I'm clearly joking, I'd never do something like that to anyone.

>>85203165
Something happened here, whether youre aware of it or not

From my perspective it seems the guy had a "what the fuck am I doing" realisation and had to dip immediately because of it.

Options
>he realised he didn't want to date random Internet women (unlikely but not impossible)
>he felt he had been catfished and was too pussy to call it out (only you will know the likelihood of this)
>you somehow scared him/ poor hygiene to the point of he needed to cut all contact (again, only you can assess)

If you are clean, as attractive as you portray yourself in profiles and not completely dry in conversation / completely terrifying in a bad way then you are a victim of a very strange event

>>85203615
I didn't do anything qrong. I met a guy a week later, the first thing he said was "you're gorgeous" when i met him. Same pics, same energy.

He was actually nice but really mentally fucked up from the army, and im fucked up too lol so it didn't work out but i dont hold any negative feelings towards him at all, it wasnt a healthy time, as we both drunk a lot to cope, but all in all, i do miss him, he definitely is not one of the 6, he liked playing xbox, and watching these gangsta movies, i mean whatever.

But the guy in the car, i dont get it. If i thought "this feels wrong", i would've said to take me back home or just get out the car and be glad he drove off, but oh well.

Saw an instragram reel of a woman, she went hiking with a date and abandoned her alone, so i think there's some manosphere thing where men ditch women miles away from home, and then men wonder why i just want to be alone

>>85203652
Ok you sound way more like a mess than you originally let on, things are making more sense now

>>85203381
Thats fair enough, no ends up hurt then, but that requires a baseline level of decency that i think is very uncommon.

Ive done that, dated a guy before and thought not my type, but i still listened and made the most of the evening and then you go seperate ways

>>85203386
At least you're nice

>>85203223
I dont have a car, but yeah, i won't meet any more men, whats the point

>>85203199
No, im very ashamed to say this as a left wing woman, but every guy that hurt me was a white guy. I actually had to go through this again in my head. Every guy was a white boy. Yeah, every guy was white

>>85203179
Lots of bad things, that i think it would be unwise to share, given how little empathy ive seen, but it involves violence

>>85203167
I dont understand

>>85203671
Yeah you should probably switch to burning coal, you sound like trailer trash so white dudes are going to keep bailing on you

>>85203145
I would make a great mom, kids should be put first, but being a single mom is cruel, i really would need a husband to be there, i cant do it alone

>>85203663
This was ages ago, i dont drink at all now

>>85203683
Id date anyone as long as they were decent, but yeah i need to heal first

>>85203689
>i would be a great mom
>cant even tell when a date feels off
Well, you are pretty dumb. Maybe you would.

>>85202965
this is the logical result of being chad's pump and dump for years, femcels ruined their ability to pair bond

>>85203652
stranding a woman in the woods is different than leaving you at a restaurant, presumably in a city or town where you can get an uber
>muh manosphere
lol. why do women believe in this "manosphere bogeyman" without understanding what it actually is? A grift, obviously, but it focuses on male self-confidence and not putting women on a pedestal. Not training future psychopaths. You girls date those guys just fine on your own.

>>85203700
Did you like get raped? What did the rest do that is so horrible? Mean words dont count

>>85203718
They are always the victim. It's the guys fault even though she cant pick good men.
This leads to her getting dropped off hours away since she gets in stranger's vehicles. Great logic. This is some single mother shit.

>>85203735
Replies like these remind me never to trust men again

>>85203718
Oh thank you, how kind of him to ditch me 2 hours away from my home, how kind, it could be worse

I know those horrible things influencers tell men to do, im done. Men aren't lonely enough

>>85203864
>she listens to influencers and uses tinder

>>85203165
That's insane. I can't imagine just abandong someone like that.

What were you two talking about before he dipped?

>>85203956
Just work really, hopes for the future. He seemed normal too, just a random normal man, who teaches. He didnt say anything violent, or creepy, or sexual. Just general chat about life.

That isnt the worst one, but it just shows what its like trying to date, so why do i bother, i can have my own nice food without worrying if someone will harm me

>>85203968
>what it is like trying to date
Never had that issue on my dates.

>>85204014
Well i have

did your (idk how manyieth) swedish bf dump you again roz?

>>85203864
I didn't say it was kind, just not the same level of danger. It is still an asshole move. And I'm not defending influencers, but women don't have a clue about what they actually say.
But I'm beginning to think that the reason you haven't found a kind man is that you go into every interaction presuming the worst, and create a self fulfilling prophecy.

>>85204021
>i always hear the tree in the forest so that means it always falls

>>85203055
>The only way you'll find a kind man now is if you foster his kindness and draw it back out

How can i do that?

>>85204030
I know that you can go online, on instagram and tiktok and it tells you to harm women, i know.

So things like leave the date half way through, or just love bomb then block. Stuff like that. It really should be called out, if it truly was a minority of men, then the majority of men would call it out, but they don't, they say "its your fault it happened"

Well if thats true, i cant trust anyone. I can treat a man so well, he can harm me and everyone says "its your own fault", so am i bothering, why is anyone bothering

>>85204037
You got a point? No? Just being a moron? Ok. Dont reply, it's unwanted

>>85204083
>ignores the point entirely
Woman.

>>85204069
Find a guy that has been overlooked and downtrodden, but not been fully blackpilled. Accept the fact that he is going to be flawed, but stay away from the psycho ones. Then pour into him kindness and sincerity. Don't try and change him, but inspire him to change, both for his sake and yours.

>>85204075
>men please help me
Lmao women are pathetic, you go and make shit decisions chasing chad dick and then come here and rant about how we should call chad out? Bitch what

>>85204185
So the difference between men isnt that one will hurt you, and one wont, its that they all want to hurt me but only some will act on it

>>85204244
>every male that exists wants to rape and kill me
Fuck you. You deserve your loneliness. Is this what you said to that teacher on your ride?

>>85204244
I don't want to hurt you I just don't think it's my job to police other dudes you choose to be with. Women need to take care of themselves, welcome to being an adult in 2026.

>>85202965
>I havent met any men who are kind.
Translation:
>I have only hooked up with abusechads

>>85204323
This makes you part of the spectrum of bad men.

>>85204309
And there it is, the mask slips. I was proven right

>>85204369
Thats because i tried to give you a chance. All you do is reject the advice we give you. How can you repeatedly say "Every man that exists wants to kill me" and "i give up" and keep making excuses for yourself without even trying?
You are belligerent.
Please, please take a moment and think about this.
I don't even take the bait that often but you got me fuming here lady.
And if this is on a screen i can only pity the poor fuckers sitting across from you at the dinner table

>>85204369
>This makes you part of the spectrum of bad men.
Whatever then, not like I needed your approval anyway.

>>85204075
>tells you to harm women
Again, not defending them, but you are missing the bigger picture. Those grifters are speaking to guys that have been hurt. By women. Men don't "call it out" because everyone with a brain knows it wouldn't matter. Guys don't get good boy points and win the girl by calling out an asshole. The asshole gets the girl, hurts the girl, and then she complains about the men who didn't... stop her from being an adult?

>>85203171
More than 6, that's for sure. The other men didn't count so she didn't mention them.

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>>85202965
Likewise, foid. To grace your kind with kindness is tantamount to self-injury.

>>85202965
I work in a care home and we've got tons of unmarried older folks just waitin round to die

The unmarried men keep to themselves, usually just sit and staree
The unmarried women though, they're just annoying

>foid comes to /r9k/ to complain about men
>it's all about how she's been pumped and dumped by normies and men from dating apps
lol

>>85205683
It's actually fucked how they don't have a suicide booth for those people. Painless injection and eternal restful slumber. Keeping the old around just to suffer is madness.

>this thread
Kazakhstan

>>85202965
Good, fuck off out the dating pool

>>85203017
>>85203046
Oh no no no no...

Used goods alert! Used goods alert!

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>>85203235
You'll be alright. Just give yourself time to reflect and learn from your past, focus on education and put money into an index fund when you can. That way you'll be financially more secure and less likely to end up in a relationship without choices. I'm investing in an ETF that focuses on real businesses instead of tech as it's going to be a wild ride in tech in the next years. You have time on your side so take advantage of compound interest. You'll be fine, Nona. Have a good life.

>>85206600
>You'll be alright.
No she won't, she's obviously the problem and terrible at choosing men and can't admit it. Lol she has 6 bad experiences looking for kind normal men on Tinder of all places can't make shit up stop validating these useless whores she's the problem and she knows it if she's this ignorant and allergic to responsibility she deserves to be alone forever god forbid and someone like her reproduce and gave children she'll fuck everything up like her kids and marriage and blame it all on them I've seen her ilk a thousand times

>>85203689
>I would make a great mom
Obviously you wouldn't, you can't even maintain a relationship. You're not meant to be the center of a household. You're a sterile interchangeable worker drone and when you die, it will be as if you never even existed.

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>>85202965
Grim. Hope you find happiness and peace and contentment. It sounds like you need therapy because you clearly are bad at picking partners. You probably are attracted to what you hate, and just don't know it. Until you learn to reconcile your shadow self in you that accepts this treatment, and seeks it out, it will dominate your life. You will call it fate, but it is your own actions.

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>>85206638
She could be one of the good ones so I give her the benefit of doubt. You've been hurt by a bad egg but don't give up on half the population yet, frustrated anon. When you find the one you'll regret being so hateful.

>>85202970
>101 replies
Like clockwork

>>85202965
Set up an OnlyFans account and start making money.

>>85206650
Women are just sterile interchangeable worker drones, and when they die it will be as if they never even existed?

>>85203046
>I want to be alone
That's why you came here, with other men, to seek attention and conversation.

>>85203131
>So if i cant tell the good from the bad, why am i bothering
>>85203671
>im very ashamed to say this as a left wing woman

Left wing women are notorious for not having good judgement.

>>85204075
>if it truly was a minority of men, then the majority of men would call it out, but they don't, they say "its your fault it happened"
There's no point in "calling out men", because men do not adhere to the sort of "oh no OH GOD THE HERD DOESN'T LIKE ME" that women do. When a man sees an asshole, he goes "that guy's an asshole", and that's the end of the exchange. There's no virtue signaling on faceberg, no rallying the sisterhood. We acknowledge that there are bad men, it's why we have police and whatnot.

>>85204369
>This makes you part of the spectrum of bad men.
No, it means you are an adult responsible for your own self now, like men have been for millennia. When women were the property of men, and a man had to look after his daughters and sisters, we did so. You all wanted independence and responsibility, and now you have it. Welcome to the world of agency, a world that men have lived in since time immemorial. If you want to be taken care of, you have to accept a submissive role.

>>85204460
>Thats because i tried to give you a chance.
You're just as much at fault here as she is.
Think about it.
You know what women are like.
Yet you continue to make the same mistake of allowing them the same freedom as you give men. She is unable to take accountability due to her nature. This is not a flaw of hers, it is the intended design. She is a woman.