>>85259301
I keep noticing /jp/ threads on other boards

>>85259330
this isnt a jp thread i just used the touhou photo because i dont have anything else

>>85259301
for saving a trash photo like that you deserve the be dumped

>>85259301
>get more sun
noooo pale is so cute though.

>>85259301
How thick are your wrists?

>>85259330
/jp/ website

>>85259301
>homosexual blog
kys

>>85259370
>How thick are your wrists?
just under six inches
>>85259367
>noooo pale is so cute though.
i kinda think he is right because i have deprived myself of sun almost entirely since i was about 12 because i liked being pale so much. but it led to some depression i think. i tried sunbathing this morning and it felt really good, i was too scared to do it before.
>>85259381
im a woman (i just get mistaken to be a man online a lot)

>>85259343
Touhou is awful, i swear people only pretend to like it. literally just gooks shooting each other

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>>85259411
i dont even like touhou either, but the image i wanted to post (a cute kigurumi photoshoot) was too large. ill try posting it again here.

>>85259393
>because i liked being pale so much
what ethnicity and hair color?

>>85259485
im white with brown hair and brown eyes

im just so sad i wish he wanted to kidnap me

>>85259301
i feel really bad for you
i'm not sure what you're expecting from us though
you're probably not gonna get a ton of sympathy from foreveralone people
i think you need to try to spend time in person with this guy on several occasions and sit down next to each other, hold hands and then take turns explaining your feelings
and whatever happens, happens
but maybe that gives the best chance for him to develop some actual attraction to you
there's lots of guys out there who aren't gutter trash and will be authentic and actually care for you; so keep that in mind

>>85259505
>brown hair and brown eyes
eh I think you'll look alright tan
>kidnap me
eloping does sound nice. sorry it didn't work out for you I guess.

Did he tell you what he's specifically not attracted to in you?

>>85259301
>why don't boys ever like me?
Cause you spend your time talking to weird bdsm moids. Yikes

>>85259529
>i'm not sure what you're expecting from us though
this was just my comfort place as a teenager so im regressing a bit into it
>i think you need to try to spend time in person with this guy on several occasions and sit down next to each other....maybe that gives the best chance for him to develop some actual attraction to you
i like this in theory but he told me he has only been attracted to a few women in his life and i dont think it was women he got close to. it was women he went on dates with. so if he felt attraction to them but not me, someone he's spent a lot of time with, i dont see how more time would help. i think its really something wrong with me or how i am.
>>85259600
he said i dont seem healthy, that im sickly. that i need to move around more and get sun. he also feels our core interests in bdsm are different i think. also he said in the past he was attracted to this tall girl who went outside a lot (i am 5'4"). im really struggling with all this because ive had multiple relationships and all the guys ive dated i think haven't been very attracted to me. i even brought this up, and said that it kinda turns me on a bit, and he said it turns him on too. but when i said maybe im just not attractive to men, like maybe it isnt my path in life, he said im being a doomer and i just need to get healthier.
>>85259542
its not eloping its getting grabbed off the street and thrown in the back of a trunk

>>85259623
this is why i posted here... i dont want to be told yikes... id rather be insulted than be misunderstood.

>>85259661
Being in the siun much isn't even health for a naturally pale person, unless you're in the area you evolved in.
You might be okay with sunscreen applications and hats, maybe sunglasses too if neded. But vitamin d can also be supplemented.
It sounds like you're just not his type. There are guys who don't care as much about height, as well as guys who like pale.

>>85259661
>this was just my comfort place as a teenager so im regressing a bit into it
okay well i really feel that hard i mean i've been on and off but whenever i'm down bad i come crawling back...>>85259661
>like maybe it isnt my path in life, he said im being a doomer and i just need to get healthier.

>i like this in theory but he told me he has only been attracted to a few women in his life and i dont think it was women he got close to. it was women he went on dates with. so if he felt attraction to them but not me, someone he's spent a lot of time with, i dont see how more time would help. i think its really something wrong with me or how i am.
he should be making you feel better about yourself not worse
that's not being a very good boyfriend desu
i think you two need to honestly communicate more to each other
he wants you to make him feel attractive and desired, right?
what if you told him the types of things he was telling you?
so i think you guys just need to empathise more
what i suggested is what you should try
i hope your relationship survives as it sounds like you really love him but sometimes despite our best efforts things aren't meant to be
but you won't want to live your life with regrets whatever happens
>>85259887
yeah the bdsm thing is also potentially an issue
like that is fine in theory but it shouldn't impact so much what you guys' relationship is... relationships built on bdsm are usually very unhealthy; it's better for it to be just something in addition to an already healthy relationship
i think you two should just work on empathising with each other and understanding each other better and prioritising each other's needs
that's necessary to have any chance of a real relationship

You should kill both of them then yourself that would be pretty cool

>>85259951
i know it isnt supposed to be healthy but it is true i havent gone in the sun hardly at all like to an unhealthy extent for most of my life. so i figure a little sun might help. he tells me i look like a nerd. and i thought he was attracted to that about me and thought it was cute but im not sure anymore... i mean he's always told me how im a cute nerd.

>>85259965
>what if you told him the types of things he was telling you?
i dont know. i mean i also was hoping he would get in more shape or something.... for a while i was telling him, you are fat, and i dont even know why i said this, i think our relationship was very like we will just say anything. but after a while i felt bad, and i stopped and apologized for it. and honestly he looks a lot better than he did then, so i dont think calling him fat was helpful and i dont like that i did.
>i hope your relationship survives as it sounds like you really love him but sometimes despite our best efforts things aren't meant to be but you won't want to live your life with regrets whatever happens
i love him so much. i haven't heard from him since this morning. i honestly think he is just sexting with this other person and doesnt really think of me anymore. he just moved to a new apartment and he has been saying lately that it's curing his mold poisoning. maybe he was only with me because he had mold poisoning.
>relationships built on bdsm are usually very unhealthy
i agree but its like we both have these uncontrollable urges i think. im white knuckling rn trying to not find someone to have phone sex with about how much i wanna get kidnapped and terrorized.

>got pumped and dumped by chad again.
Lmfao

>>85260149
we were in the same social circle and he came after me and gave me flowers and said he loves me and bought me lots of stuff and food and took care of me when i was upset and afraid and said im pretty and very kind and sweet. and we connected so much on our struggle with sexual/romantic connection and chronic dpdr. i was okay to just be his friend he came after me.
i just feel so much pain i want to die

>>85259887
You have no standards and are desperate. I understand you just fine

/R9K/
FUCKING TEENAGE GIRLS WHINING ABOUT THEIR FUCKING TEENAGE BOYFRIENDS

KILL YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

>>85260105
>so i dont think calling him fat was helpful and i dont like that i did.
yeah that's a harsh way to do things and ideally it wouldn't happen either way
the healthy way for it would be out of genuine concern you'd encourage him and maybe make healthy meals and exercise together and stuff
>i agree but its like we both have these uncontrollable urges i think
there's nothing wrong with that in itself, it just shouldn't be the foundation of the relationship
it should be something you both mutually sacrifice and give to each other in order to please each other because when you're in a loving relationship pleasing the other person makes you happy, right?
maybe you could plan some ways to make it mutually enjoyable and combine whatever it is both of you like into one experience

>>85260337
>maybe you could plan some ways to make it mutually enjoyable and combine whatever it is both of you like into one experience
we tried doing this i just dont think it is working for him. i struggled with some fear during part of it and i think he felt unwanted and it probably led to this. again he told me he doesnt find me attractive. and now that he is saying he is just going to sext with this other person im starting to feel disgust and idk if thats normal. or if he wouldnt feel that way.
im just starting to get this intense urge to block him but also im scared ill regret it because i really do love him. i just feel like if he's sexting with someone else and doesnt seem to care about my feelings he must have detached from me emotionally.

>>85260439
If he's dating you but telling you he's sexting someone else it sounds like he doesn't care, yeah. Sorry anon you should break up with him. Also what's his weirdly specific bondage fetish?

>>85260149
The worst part is the endless excuses and mental gymnastics. Just own up to the fact you're a chadsexual slut and move on to another chad

>>85260204
>and he came after me and gave me flowers and said he loves me and bought me lots of stuff and food and took care of me when i was upset and afraid and said im pretty and very kind and sweet. and we connected so much on our struggle with sexual/romantic connection and chronic dpdr
Ya. I know how overt narcissists love bomb their "victims". Lmfao

>>85260204
>chronic dpdr
I doubt you've even been fucked by the tip of dpdr.

>>85260498
>Also what's his weirdly specific bondage fetish?
like heavy bondage, latex, objectification etc. i like it too but its never something i would fantasize about or that i fetishize specifically. im kind of jealous desu, because i wish i could be into it like he is. i feel very insecure for my core interests, of like wanting to be bullied and emotionally abused, kidnap, etc. i have a lot of fantasies of long drawn out emotion abuse arcs where like im a maid and eventually my owner rapes me. fantasizing about how im going to be alone forever and live alone in a shitty apartment. stuff like that. i guess he thinks that is cute but not what he needs. the objectification is difficult for me because i grew up feeling so ugly and unwanted. it hurts because he made me feel so pretty like i finally stopped feeling ugly and unwanted all the time. he helped me get better in a lot of ways.

>>85260572
>i grew up feeling so ugly and unwanted
I already knew ur the vulnerable narcissist in this "relationship". Lmfao

>>85260572
I get that, I think you can take the positive encouragement and self worth he helped you feel and internalize it while understanding it's not working with him anymore. You'll find another guy to be sweet and dote on you. Your fetishes are hot btw I think girls who want to be manipulated and emotionally fucked with are cool. It's just something you have to handle properly.

>>85260572
>heavy bondage, latex, objectification
As in you're the sub or he's the sub?

Either way if he's not attracted to you, i think this could end up destroying you. I wouldn't stay with a man who's not attracted to me

>>85260572
>very insecure for my core interests, of like wanting to be bullied and emotionally abused, kidnap, etc. i have a lot of fantasies of long drawn out emotion abuse arcs where like im a maid and eventually my owner rapes me. fantasizing about how im going to be alone forever and live alone in a shitty apartment. stuff like that. i guess he thinks that is cute but not what he needs.
fwiw femanon i'm WAY more into what you're into than what he's into
what he's into seems kinda cringe and forced and superficial whereas what you're into sounds like shit i would fantasise and write whole psychological stories about

>>85260601
>I wouldn't stay with a man who's not attracted to me
Lmao. That's funny

>>85260592
yeah i have some issues and personality defects for sure. i kinda think ur posts are funny btw thanks for being real
>>85260594
it hurts so bad because there is no one like him.
>>85260601
im the sub. but sometimes it would switch and i would become dominant and he would give me money and lick my feet. i really miss him licking and kissing my feet he looked in such bliss and i couldnt be with a guy who doesnt like feet anymore.
>>85260614
>what he's into seems kinda cringe and forced
i really dont think it is. i think he just has a very unique mind & way of looking at things. i am kind of fascinated by it. i also liked that he was more into dynamics than sex, because i dont like to have sex either unless i really trust the person. we never had sex because i didnt trust him yet. i am kinda infatuated by the way his mind works.

>>85260642
>There is no one like him
Yeah you are in love, it will pass with time. Glad you like feet guys though, kissing feet is very fun and makes my penis into the big penis.

>>85260642
>im the sub. but sometimes it would switch and i would become dominant and he would give me money and lick my feet. i really miss him licking and kissing my feet he looked in such bliss and i couldnt be with a guy who doesnt like feet anymore.
this is so based i think 'dynamics' are kinda cringe if you make it too over-the-top but especially this surprise dynamic and serving each other is peak
>i am kind of fascinated by it. i also liked that he was more into dynamics than sex,
fair enough
well
if he really cares about you he'll be able to compromise and communicate
i think if he respects you he shouldn't be using anyone other than you to gain pleasure though
you should be enough for each other
he wouldn't like it if you were sexting with other guys would he?

>>85260703
>this is so based
it is so based. ive never had such an exciting sexual dynamic. what am i supposed to be with a guy who doesnt like licking feet now??? my beautiful feet
>he wouldn't like it if you were sexting with other guys would he?
obviously not but i did tell him about my ex and how i still compulsively masturbated thinking about him and i think it really turned him on but also made him upset. and he told me he was jealous etc.
>>85260657
i just find it so hard to get along with anyone............ i could be so honest with him

>>85260756
>what am i supposed to be with a guy who doesnt like licking feet now??? my beautiful feet
do you uh know any other girls into this because like
i would loooove to do that and then massage and oil and clean her feet and then put pretty sandals on her feet as well and strap them up and she'd stand up to her full height in heels and be just a little above my eye-level symbolising that we had switched roles and she was the one in charge, and she'd put her hand gently on my chest to feel my racing heart and give me a smug grin of satisfaction; that would be the best thing ever
>i just find it so hard to get along with anyone............ i could be so honest with him
don't give up on love like that other guy said; it's good for romantic people to exist in the world
you deserve all that honesty too so don't be afraid to ask for it and tell him directly that you really appreciate how honest you can be with him and you want him to give you that too

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>>85260756
bitch, just shut the fuck up already and end the god damn thread. you were obviously raped by your own parents before, and now you're just a pathetic retard and a permanent loser. fuck you.
>>85260813
faggot shut the fuck up you desperate piece of shit, you're not getting laid now, or ever. pack it up you fucking incel.

>>85260858
you're the type of guy that ruins shit for everyone but i trust her to ignore you and your toxicity

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>>85260863
fuck you bitch. fuckin faggot cocksucker, do you even realize how gay you sound?

>>85260642
>kinda think ur posts are funny btw thanks for being real
Idk if ur being facetious or not

>>85260642
>there is no one like him.
Every narcissist is like him. They all do the same exact shit. You'll find out next week with your new abusechad. Lmao

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>>85260922
how do men act who aren't like this
>>85260911
no im being sincere i looked into it a bit and saw how i fit the vulnerable narcissist traits somewhat. i even took a test. besides, i like when people speak their minds

well i broke up with him over the phone....... it hurts so bad but he is not attracted to me.

>>85260941
>how do men act who aren't like this
How good are you at spotting liars? I'm gonna assume not very good from what ur saying.

>>85261403
>well i broke up with him over the phone
I'm sure an incel will ask for your discord and make you feel better

>>85261490
i guess im not very good
i have communication disorder and im also naive and sort of helpless socially
i found some guys to phonesex now i feel bad about it but im just so uncontrollably horny i just need someone to tell me im worthless

>>85261403
Good for you nona, it was the right move

>>85261505
>so uncontrollably horny
Well you could always post the inside of your panties for us

>>85261558
>>85261533
i just want to get kidnapped and hogtied with black duck tape but im not beautiful enough and he would rather do it with another girl

>>85261904
I'm down to fuck uggos but you wouldn't like me. What's your asl

>>85261914
i dont want to actually have sex i just want to get tied up and be scared

>>85262006
>dont want to actually have sex i just want to get tied up and be scared
Boring

>>85260909
lmao you sound like a 14-year old trying to act cool

>>85260555
In my case I just took care of my person the best I could.

>>85261403
>>85261505
>>85261904
i hope someday you look back on this and realise it is someone you don't want to be
the best way to get over this is not to degrade yourself further but to ascend and become a better person

>>85260642
This is a man acting like he's a girl btw

>>85261505
Kek a man hoping to convince other foids that narcs have admirable traits

>>85262159
please stop everyone always tells me i seem like a guy online. im a ciswoman i grew up on 4chan and funnyjack and transporn.
>>85262153
but why do i want these things so bad

>>85262172
>why do i want these things so bad
you want what they're associated with which is fine but it really needs to be with the right person in an environment of mutual trust and respect

>>85262201
i cant stop crying
i have no one
i love him why cant things be okay

>>85259301
Yeah you both deserve whatever happens to you

>>85262430
You're a degenerate porn addict. Things aren't going to be okay until you get your shit together. Sounds like step one is getting a new bf.