I've been friends with this girl for a few months and while I think she's alright physically, has a girl next door type charm and a nice, fat ass, but nothing incredible, I'm very attracted to her personality....she's bubbly, no nonsense and very funny....reminds me of my very first girlfriend.So one day, while I was having one of my mysterious, unexplained crises I made a mistake: I declared my reomantic interest to her, like a 5 year oldAmd while I may even have had a chance with her had I waited, I surely didn't like this....love should happen organically and grow over time, so she kindly rejected me, but there were no hard feelings whatsoeverRecently she texted me again and said that when she comes back from her trip we can hang out, but I'm not at all sure....it may sound cliche, and it very much is, but I would have a hard time treating her as just a friend, plus we even talked about sex sometimes and I wouldn't want to hear her occasional escapades, that would bother me greatly.What should I do, people?
>>85264501Also, why doesn't 4Chan allow me to use quotation marks, hyphens and other symbols, so I have to type like an uneducated 5 year old?
>>85264501>What do I doSend her my info and tell her to contact her future husband.
>>85264501Well don't think about what you should have done focus on what you can do I guess not that it didn't exist yeah it happened but you can learn some stuff from it First off don't declare feelings unless you've had sex or unless she's like very adamant about her trying to make it obvious If she was attracted to you before she's likely attracted to you still but just much less it could probably be reignited but she's likely moved on She's also right yeah good things take time you can't rush connection so just go see her go have a good time go have fun don't take yourself too seriously we all make mistakes
>>85264516This is serious, Anon!
>>85264521>If she was attracted to you before she's likely attracted to you stillThat's the thing, it was kinda hard to tell, though I have a suspicion that she may have had a physical attraction towards me...she gave me some signs, nothing crazy, but still. She even mentioned how she "wants to have fun" now.The problem is, I don't want to just have sex with her, because even if she did she once told me she isn't really looking for a stable relationship (which makes me look even dumber for declaring my love), so even if we did have sex then we would just go back to being friends and each having their own sex life, whereas I wanted to share mine with her....it still wouldn't be satifying
>>85264521PS: not to mention, she seems a bit promiscuous and not very serious about relationships, so I don't know if it would've been a good idea anyway....
>>85264546Take her up on that have fun see where things if you don't want sex and she tries to initiate it to say hey nah go out don't overthink it. Don't be an unthinking asshole either but don't overanalize things I do that too I know how it goes it sucks If it's not a good fit it won't be and that's that there's probably other females out there who would be more into you and be more of what you want to know in a person
>>85264509That's why you don't use iPhone lmao
>>85264603Yeah, well...I don't knowI mean, it's not that I would reject her sexual advances lmao, but at the same time I want more from her, I don't want her to just be another one night stand or friend with benefits. I could actually see myself with her, but apparently she has a different view on the situation.
>>85264637If she has a different view then there's probably no way to change it if she doesn't want a relationship she doesn't want a relationshipDoes that mean it's permanent no but you don't know when that could change or why it would so if you want a relationship you should try meeting other people it's good to know that you still have it in you to catch feelings for female humans
>>85264672Oh, I'm always meeting other people, don't you worry about that hahaI'm not the type of guy to obsess over a girl and I even take breakups pretty damn well, it's just that she finds a way to creep back in my mindAnd every single time I think of her I feel this rush of desire...like I've said, she's an averagely cute-looking girl but whenever I think of her she comes off as the nost beautiful woman on the planetI'm in love!....sigh
>>85264501did she say anything specific like why she doesn't want you as a potential bf?
>>85265168Well, she told me that she's bisexual with a strong tendency towards girls, which was all fine and dandy and the main reason why I didn't really try anything with her right away, but then she tells me about her dating history with a couple boys and about guys she likes, she also seemed to have some sort of interest towards me and she REALLY likes Korean menSo the whole bisexuality thing is a tad confusing....I almost wonder if she does it to seem more trendy and interesting, the whole "preference towards girls" thing
>>85264509>why can i only use ASCII on the board that explains that it only allows ASCII?i don't even know what to tell you. this isn't even 'lurk moar' it's 'read the goddamn website'.(best of luck to you with this OP, legit sounds rough x)
>>85264509"it's because you are a ------ faggot"
>>85265223I don't spend my days here, pal
