I miss my youth. I used to have friend groups that would actually want to have fun together. bonfires on the beach, bike rides in the night, smoking weed and drinking in the woods etc etc. Now that we are all older, no one wants to have fun anymore. They're all willing to die without having any more fun. You can't even claim they just moved on, clearly almost no one my age is happy and having social fun any more.They just outright refuse to do any of this anymore. They clearly feel immature doing it. Now I have few friends and I'm hardly making any experiences, because everyone just got all insecure and anxious.
>>85267144>bonfires on the beach, bike rides in the night, smoking weed and drinking in the woods etc etc.Damn, brought a tear to my eye there, I used to do all of that stuff when I lived on the west coast a million years ago. But yeah, back then me and my friends were all either unemployed or working minimum wage shift jobs where you could sleep in till noon the next day. You can't be doing those things when you have a nine to five job, and you especially can't be doing that if you settle down and have kids.
You can catch herpes doing this
>>85267144that's just being a poorfag honestly. Only rich people keep living life to it's fullest with age because they have the time and resources and that's rich people who do have the time, some richfags like doctors and lawyers work a lot too. everyone else has to work and exhaust themselves to end up not homeless. Welcome to being an adult, it's fucking gay and everyone told you to enjoy your youth while it lasted.
>>85267144they focus on their families brainiac, making memories with their spouses/children, we can hardly blame them
>>85267293I own a six hundred thousand dollar house.>welcome to being an adultNot everyone wants to be as miserable as yourself. Enjoy rotting.
>>85267144thats all I want to do
>>85267325So why are you in this thread if your life is so great with your 600k house lmao
>>85267317This would make sense, but none of my old friends have children. The vast majority of people in their late twenties don't. A lot of them still work less than median wage jobs too. They just stopped wanting to do that out of some psyopped kind of psychology
>>85267339Where did I say my life was great? That's hardly an expensive home either, you're the poorfaggot. I can't find any friends because everyone is secretly argumentative and defensive like yourself.
>>85267347They are probably lying to you anon and just don't want to hang out with you. You sound like a manic depressive person and incredibly needy and people find that exhausting. People absolutely still have fun and do things, they just don't want you around or invite you.
>>85267366Oh no, you're wrong about me and you're probably just projecting.I had plenty of friends and experiences, especially with lots of cute girls when we worked together in a fast food restaurant and coffee shop. We had something to bond over and that's what pulled us together. It is very hard to find the same whimsical friends and adventures nowadays in comparison.
>>85267381Then stop making cry baby ass threads like this you whiny pussy. I hate delusional faggots like you who jump to "i'm actually awesome and everyone loves me" the moment someone points out you're fucking annoying and gay. I don't believe you for a second because your posts are exhausting to read so I know for a fact you're an exhausting person IRL. I know plenty of people like you. You're all ego and zero redeemable traits which is why your "friends" don't want to be around you. They probably never actually liked you, you were just too socially retarded to take the hints.
>>85267144i agree, i used to have so much more fun with friends all the time but now everyone is a shut in loser who flags at the last minute and needs a two week advance for every outing. none of that is necessarily bad, but it sucks not having the same fun i once had.
>>85267457>needs a two week advance for every outingI can relate to this big time. My friends stopped trying to put things together years ago because it's always such a performative hassle. But my personal problem has more to do with meeting new friends who want to form actual relationships rather than extremely surface level ones. Yet I pretty much never come across anyone my age anywhere I try, bars, parks, meetups etc. It's all either middle aged people with kids, boomers, or 18 year olds.
>>85267414why the fuck are you so angry? You certainly have no friends lol
It's not about feeling immatureIt's just not fun anymore. Got old, lost its appeal. Now all of that just sounds like pain in the ass. Nothing good remains good forever unless you are autistic (not a jab, that's their genuine superpower).
>>85267144How old are you now anon? Many of those things sound like teenager things that people just tend to lose interest in as they get older. It's not about feeling immature, it's about a change of tastes and what people want. There are still people who like hiking, biking and getting outdoors though. You can find meetup groups/clubs for that. I lament my youth too.
>>85267144America is a very weird place where people think you are not allowed to have fun after ~26 years old.
>>85267381If there's one upside to working fast food, it's that you get to meet young stacies, and if you're not a total sperg thing can go rather well
what the fuck is whimsical about smoking pot just like every other fucking mid 20s californian rofl where the fuck do you livelast weekend i went to IKEA with my friend and we climbed inside of the children's bedroom displays and played hide and seek. that's whimsical.
>>85269034I used to smoke doobies with my friends on canoes in the middle of florida wilderness
