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I think I'm losing attraction to my bf. I haven't felt aroused by his touch in awhile. I feel quite frankly just BORED with sex.
Idk what to do I don't want to leave cause I am still attached and he is still my only friend in life. He personally doesn't even care about absence of sex, he has always been low desire, but I feel wrong.
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throw in some kinky stuff or something to make it interesting
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It sounds like you're getting friendship from him more than sex or romance. I dunno. Moids are often really boring when it comes down to it
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>>85267592
this is fine as long as you provide courtesy sex instead of turning him down
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>>85267592
Tfw no gf to worship
>Why live
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>>85267592
idgaf whore
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>>85267592
So you've already friendzoned your boyfriend and don't wanna leave him cause of the benefits he provides to you?

You foids are like vermin. Just go get fucked by the BBC bull you've been eyeing on social media already you filthy skank
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>>85267592
Let me guess
You came off birth control and realised he was a soft icky soi bitchboy that grosses you out because he's effeminite and has no virility in his body or soul
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>>85267617
I don't think I will going forward, it's really lame and also scratchy
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>>85267723
let him cheat then or at least be honest about it never happening again so he can know to leave you
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>>85267642
I didn't friendzone him, I use the word friend here poetically. Like, kin, twin flame, et cetera. He doesn't provide me any benefits in material sense.

>>85267649
I never used birth control
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>>85267592
>tfw have to randomly choke gf or else she gets bored
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>>85267732
I feel like if I don't do anything he won't even notice
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>>85267754
I am not into chocking but kabefon would be nice
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>>85267592
What do you want us to tell you? We don't have sex. What the fuck would we know? Ask your boyfriend.
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>>85267735
>I never used birth control
He's never bareback ejaculated in your made up cunny in this larp? Lmao
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>>85267773
I want you to be mad and seethe and to insult me
Not sexually but more existentially
Im starting to find some sort of identity in being a bad person
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>>85267851
He has ejaculated into me during safe days either before menses or few first days of it
idk what birth control has to do with it i dont take it cause i dont want to get even fatter
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>>85267592
do the thing that every woman does and antagonize him until he hits you
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>>85267592
Theres more to attraction than sex. Kissing. Cuddles.
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>>85267592
>foid notices the honeymoon period ending and contemplates monkeybranching
sad! many such cases!
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>>85267896
Stool packing?
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who is going to cheat first?
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>>85267924
I'd fuck ops fat little pussy. Dump a load in her and dip out. Lmao
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>>85267889
I dont think he is capable of that he loses his shit even when his nail just brushes my skin slightly unintentionally, he is immediately scared that he scratched me

>>85267896
Yeah, thats all fine but you described "attachment" not "attraction". Kissing and cuddles are deep platonic affection.

>>85267910
I hadnt said I am considering anyone else.
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>>85267866
I'm not seething at all, all fembots do is post for attention. They make it evident that they are women through their typing style, avatarfagging, or just blatantly telling us to extract as much male attention as possible. Doesn't it get boring being such the weak link of your gender?
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>>85268024
>weak link of your gender?
What do you mean by that
Didnt you just state that all women are like that
Or did you meant specifically fembots and that I am a fembot? Well I was always a loser and honestly being admitted as fembot feels nice, its like having a home. I dont relate to general female populus, so i dont care if I'm a weak link to them
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>>85267947
>Kissing and cuddles are deep platonic affection.
What?
>>85267592
If you're both low libido then what exactly is the problem? Maybe just talk with him about it if sex is something you want.
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Every time I think this I make him gain ten pounds. Usually sneak extra butter in his food. Usually only takes a week or two. He gets so embarassed when a new pair of pants don't fit, and he's far too fat to be secure finding anyone else now.
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>>85267592
Why do you think you are losing attraction to him? Is it only because of the sex or did something else happen?

why is the sex boring to you all of a sudden? what changed?
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>>85268040
> What?
Before I had a lover I were kissing and cuddling with my mom and I did that a little but with a certain classmate too no homo though. I also kiss and cuddle with cats
Its just normal thing you do with those you love regardless of romantic feelings
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>>85267592
Sounds like lack of love and only lust, and with lust he is underperforming, not compatible with you
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>>85268056
well too bad i dont have any fetishes

>>85268095
i just cant get aroused and excited for sex. and honestly my sight doesnt stop on him as much and I dont think to myself how handsome he is anymore
Its not sudden, he has just become too mundane for me. Like a houseplant. I know everything already. But its also unvoluntary like I cant force my body to care and cant pinpoint
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>>85267592
Hes jerking off because youre ugly have you tried hitting the gym to get a bubble butt you dumb lazy bitch?
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do other bitches want to fuck him?
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>>85268181
Man...
I think often about how much it just doesnt matter.
I have a body that other anons have literally drawn hentai memes to. I cant even find a single dressform pattern for myself because they all scale the waist too wide.
My face is ugly and masculine though and thats the most brutal pill, only face matters.

>>85268188
i have no idea we are both shutins
i think when he was in college girls sent him flirty anonymous messages, though he didnt get the hint
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>>85268037
>all women are like that
I actually didn't say that, I said all fembots.

You having no relation to the general female populus is surprising because you act exactly like them, attention seeking. I think it's a bit annoying, why don't you gain attention through something of merit instead of milking GOTIS.
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>>85268251
I dont have any merit, I grew out of such silly delusions of grandeur. Leave merit to career women. I am literally mentally disabled with a certificate
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>>85268276
You're autistic??? Kek nvm then, maybe you don't have anything else. I forgive you for being an attention whore, but you obviously have something if you have a boyfriend.
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>>85268325
Yeah I have big tits
That's what I have
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>>85268158
Nothing at all? Not veins? Not hair colour? Not sound? Nothing? Exclusively when you watch porn or think of an ideal sex scenario, the only single factor is the penis in vagina? Not a single action which is not penetrative penis in vagina sex which turns you on? Not a touch somewhere? Not a word? Not a single muscle on the male body which is not the penis? Not a single thing? No fetishes or kinks? None?
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>>85268462
I have kinks I guess but it's a contextual thing.
Like if I daydream about sex the physical qualities of men I imagine can wary a lot, though the scenarios are repetitive.
I want to be seduced and manipulated real bad but it's never happening anyways and not something I can control in any way.
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>>85268118
>I did that a little but with a certain classmate too no homo though
...
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>>85267592
If you both have no libido, it's a health problem. Get more sleep, reduce stress, lose weight, stop doing opiates, and check if anything interfered with your hormones (birth control, new medication, lifestyle changes, etc).

Even if you're not attracted to your partner sexually, your sex drive should still exist. Celebs, workplace crushes, porn stars, vampire/werewolf/billionaires from women's erotic novels, cis-AGP, etc. You don't necessarily need to have a crush on a specific person, but a healthy adult should still be getting horny periodically, until you're an old fart. For women, it could be hormonal, so wait at least a bit over a month before panicking; when you get to the horny part of your next cycle, and no hornyness happens, you've got a problem.
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>>85268396
How big are they femboto?
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>>85268534
>I want to be seduced and manipulated real bad but it's never happening anyways and not something I can control in any way.
well it is; you just have to ask him and talk about it in a communication way. If he's not open to it, it's likely time to move on - you aren't compatible for some variety of reasons that appear to be dealbreakers.



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