So i have the opportunity to go to China and work as a foreign language teacher(german) to chinese college students. Believe it or not but i actually don't have trouble finding dates in my homecountry, i just would find it a nice adventure to live for some time far away before i get a boring job(am 24). Should i be careful with how i approach relationships with students/other teachers? will that stuff get me deported quickly? i wouldnt do it just to rizz them but if it happens i kinda want to be prepared.
>>85268985Don't shit where you eat
Do not sleep with any students. Meet people online. Keep it discrete. They will want to see a white penis, so I've heard. I'm not attracted to Asian girls. Cursed preference for a white guy
>>85268985>ChinaThey only care about African penis.
>>85268994that's a little difficult in asian bug apartments
>>85268985The age of consent is 14 in China. Is that influencing your decision in any way, shape, or form?
>>85268985 Why dont you just find dates from other girls who are not your students? If you get the reputation that you date your students, it might be bad for you cuz its seen as unprofessional. Like a therapist dating their patients. Maybe your license can get taken too.
>>85270396wow is it now? you're telling me for the first time.
>>85270576Will you take advantage of it?
>>85268985>So i have the opportunity to go to China and work as a foreign language teacher(german) to chinese college students.one of my friends did that, in Xiaman. she loved her time in CHYNA actually and had a great time I guess. Granted she was teaching engrish which is more popular I'd imagine but still.
>>85270591I'm not OP but now I'm going to china for sure right xd
>>85270675As a foreigner, you have to register with the government for any place you live. Hotels do that automatically for you. Fake names and such are illegal. And hotel staff will call the authorities if you're with a minor without good reasons, despite it being technically legal. So, realistically, you'd have to have an actual place of your own and hope no one snitches on you.
>>85270591Child sex tourism is illegal dipshit, whatever age of consent in OP's home country still applies
>>85270825That's an interstate thing in the US, not an international thing. God damn 'ricans, thinking they're the center of the world again.
>>85268985>will that stuff get me deported quicklyLol, Chinese send Nigerians over to have sex with their college students, many of these vids are circulating on the internet. You'll be fine even if you're known as Mr. White Cock.
>>85268985when i was an ESL teacher in China, one of my dates went like this:>she is constantly complementing my appearance, calling me handsome, etc. while we eat dinner.>She's very self-aware, thinks that people are looking at her, and judging her.>I invite her up to my apartment after we've walked around the city a lot.>She says "no">I offer to walk with her back her to her apartment>She refuses>I offer to walk her back to the subway station>She gets upset that I'm trying to "get rid of her">I tell her that I'm going home, and that she can come with me if she wants.>She wordlessly follows me back to my apartment (it's very close). >When she comes inside, I start kissing her.>She says, "no! stop!" and pushes me away.>I step away and apologize for the misunderstanding. >She gets upset. >I think she's upset that I was kissing her.>She's not.>She's upset that I stopped kissing her. "Why did you stop! You think I'm ugly!">Oh. Does she want me to rape her? Is she just crazy? Is this normal? >I'm scared that I'll go to Chinese prison, but a bit too horny, so i go back to kissing her while she fights me off with a closed mouth; and eventually gives in and kisses me back. >Every time i try to round one of the bases, it's the same ordeal. She starts fighting me, I stop because maybe she just wanted to kiss and not go further than that, then she gets upset and says that I "think she's ugly"; then i power through my fear of going to prison and assault her with dubious consent. >We fuck, with a condom, and it's not very good. She makes sure the lights are off; but i still see she has very dark and long labia. A bony body that looks more feminine and sexy while wearing clothes. >I tell my boss, a 45ish married Chinese woman who looks like the pic, about my date. She says I was very very bad for not just raping the girl. Apparently, when she crossed the threshold into my apartment, that was her consenting to anything I wanted to do (within reason).
>>85271341>I tell her that I'm going home, and that she can come with me if she wants.Calling out her bluff was baller.>I think she's upset that I was kissing her.I've heard East Asian women call this a virgin fumble. Well, to be more precise, I heard white guys share experience like yours, including being confused and asking some lady friends and them saying they fucked up by not "raping" the girl and that only a loser virgin would stop when the girl asks to. Idk if this is real or some sort of psyop you're all trying to push on me so I end up in prison when I inevitably make my way to that sweet sideways pussy.BTW, did the girl have any aspiration to have a real relationship with you or did she just want to try out a white guy for exoticism?
>>85270865>That's an interstate thing in the US, not an international thingIt's an international thing. Australian, New Zealand and British citizens can be prosecuted back home if they have sex with a person under 16 years of age in another country. It is an extra-territorial offence. I'm pretty sure the same applies for Canadians. For Americans they cannot have sex with any person under 18 years of age while in another country. This is regardless of that the age of consent is in that country. So if I go to Brazil where the age of consent is 14 I still cannot have sex with anyone under 16. You will find several European countries have similar laws.
>>85271468I stand corrected. White nations truly are the most cucked of them all. We won't hold foreigners to our standards when they come to our lands, but we'll prosecute our own citizens for partaking in activities that are fully legal on foreign soil. Thanks for taking the time, anon.
>>85271341Then I asked my cool "boss" if she'd come have a meal at my apartment. She laughed and said that she can't, because "Chinese women only cheat a lot before they are married, but after that, only Chinese men are allowed to cheat". I only had the confidence to say that, cause she wasn't technically my boss, more like a client of the company that I worked for. The company execs even told us that we should flirt with the female teachers.>>85271451I don't think that she wanted a long term relationship. The way that we broke up is: >I was far from my apartment in the suburbs>drinking downtown with other male ESL teachers. >It was so late that the trains had stopped running.>I get a text from her, telling me to open my locked door. >I tell her I'm downtown.>She insists that I'm at home, with another girl, and that's why i won't open up. >I tell her that she's wrong; I'm in a taxi with my male colleagues.>She doesn't demand a photo as proof, and I don't think to send her one. >By the time i get back home, she's already gone. >She texts me a very long and angry message the next day; accusing me of cheating, racism, first-worldism, and being a helpless spoiled child who gets treated well just for being White. >I don't text her back, cause we have only been out together a few times, and she's not hot enough to act this crazy. >She doesn't text me again. I don't think that she wanted a real relationship with me. I even suspect that she actually had a Chinese cuck bf who she was cheating on (with his consent) with me. A few months after we broke up, I saw her together with a tiny Chinese guy, at an English Corner type meetup (the same org where I originally met her, but a different location). I remember her taking a shirtless photo of me in bed "to brag to her roommate"; who i thought was another girl at the time, but now suspect that it was a Chinese cuck bf. I didn't speak to either of them, and they didn't act like they recognized me.
>>85271628>The company execs even told us that we should flirt with the female teachers.Chinese culture is bewilderingly based.> I remember her taking a shirtless photo of me in bed "to brag to her roommate"; who i thought was another girl at the time, but now suspect that it was a Chinese cuck bf.Why would she care if you're with another woman then? I think it more likely that it happened to her before. You were not her first white guy, though you may have been her last. That or she was cheating herself (hence the paranoia) and hoping to monkeybranch (hence the jealousy).
>>85271341>Apparently, when she crossed the threshold into my apartment, that was her consenting to anything I wanted to do (within reason).I mean honestly, that's not a bad system.
>>85268985OP here. idk why people bring up fucking minors when i specifically pointed out it will be adults. okay well actually the offer said the students will be 16-40 but obviously i wont start anything with kids.and i've heard often now that chinese girls like to act like you are doing things against her will, i don't know how i will handle that yet but we'll see. maybe act dumb and respectful at first but once its clear that she's desperate act on it and just kiss/fuck her.i texted with some girls that i met on rednote(chinese tiktok type app) so i know that when it comes to relationships, i really dont like the chinese culture. i will probably avoid anything serious.
>>85272387>when it comes to relationships, i really dont like the chinese culture.They are more honest about women's superficial expectations instead of pretending that women only care for love; and it's some grand coincidence that they reject men over height, wealth, and status. But this honesty can also make the demands feel a lot more oppressive and hopeless.
>>85268985How did you get into CHYNA?
bumpeded for interests.
>>85272929Well I'm not in chyna yet. i have a teaching degree and know basic chinese, and basically theres lots of jobscouts on chinese websites like rednote, i got in contact with one, didnt hear anything for a while but they sent me the offer. i would get working visa.
>>85274333how do you know its not the chinese mafia trying to harvest your organs?
>>85268985idk that's morally bankrupt and disrespectful to the institution that you're planning on teaching at because you're utilizing an opportunity that you are granted in good faith for sexual desire. if you do it don't sleep with any of your students or any students on the campus. is it worth being deported or even jailed in a chinese prison / publicly humiliated for all of china and possibly elsewhere to see? it's not.
>>85271341Ya'll that kind of behavior isn't normal. If a girl does shit like that DO NOT engage with her. That's fucking insanity. This is how normal women get raped, it's not normal to cnc without saying shit about it first.
Chyna seems funMsybe its bad of me, but id like to experience a jbw feeling where people look at me like im chad.
>>85271341>>85271451>>85274616That's entirely normal in East Asia anon. In Japan, the entire dynamics of sex are based around what the West considers "rape", it's just culture.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1NPf-g0ZigY
>>85274616It is normal for them in China. You are being a cultural imperialist, Western chauvinist, and an anti-Asian racist. Stop.
>>85275219You should never turn a blind eye to problematic cultural traditions. Excusing it as "it's just part of their culture" leads to people dismissing public stoning and child brides.>>85276327You can read the above message to, but it would be better if you did a cannonball into a shallow pool first
>>85275219Also the American dude in the video offers sound advice, he was exactly who I was thinking of. If she's into cnc or rapeplay or whatever the fuck, cool but it should be established first. NEVER proceed without explicit consent let alone if she is prying you off her or expressing discomfort.
>>85275219That's also one of the guys I was thinking of in the second post you're replying to. The others were anons here. Seems like we all saw the same video before, lol.>>85277441"Raping" her sounds so hot, though. It wouldn't be the same if we establish it beforehand. It's like fucking with a condom and pretending it feels just the same as without.
>>85271341>>I tell my boss, a 45ish married Chinese woman who looks like the pic, about my date. She says I was very very bad for not just raping the girl. Apparently, when she crossed the threshold into my apartment, that was her consenting to anything I wanted to do (within reason).women are nuts man
>>85277664How? They don't want sex with you, they don't enter your home. Seems pretty straightforward. When's the last time you brought a woman home that didn't want to fuck you (outside of family)?
>>85274505they dont punish the gweilo, just the local woman whos "breaking chinese morality" or somethinglookup "cs zeus shanghai university student"
