my mother infantilized me my whole life and deprived me of my autonomy, punishing every attempt at self-sufficiency, turning me into a scared blank slate with no opinions and now, a decade later, she blames me for never doing things a healthy person does (taking initiative, having opinions and interests, speaking up).
Yeah that was a woman's first shit test, you failed. You are supposed to do it anyway, use her coddling as a drive to get further independence, stay away from home longer and longer. But instead you let her win and now she hates you for giving in.
>>85269790>my mother infantilized me my whole life and deprived me of my autonomy, punishing every attempt at self-sufficiency, turning me into a scared blank slate with no opinions and now, a decade later, she blames me for never doing things a healthy person does (taking initiative, having opinions and interests, speaking up).Thats hot. Gooning rn
>>85269790yeah it is called the devouring mother. It's a common female psychological archetype. Based on their own narcissism and neuroticism. Sorry that happened to you.
