>>85275072
I feel the same way, anon. Especially about the looks. I've been talking to a girl online for months now, and it's been going well, but I can't help but feel like it's a waste of my time because I know it's going to end the second she sees what I look like.

>>85275094
It's always brutal when they keep asking to see what you look like. Then you show them and there's that deafening silence. Then it's either an immediate rejection or a gradual weening off from what you had in the beginning. The most agonizing feeling ever. That's why I just rot alone at this point. I don't believe I could ever be loved

>>85275144
Well, the only saving grace i can hold onto right now is that she hasn't asked and hasn't shown me a picture of herself. I'm hoping that maybe we're both 4/10s that are trying to hide it as long as possible.

>>85275158
I hope so. I don't wanna demoralize you btw Im just sharing what I went through. I might be miserable but I don't wish that upon others

>>85275168
Don't worry, you're not demoralizing me. I just keep thinking in my head that I'm dumb for even trying this, but I can't get rid of that tiny sliver of hope that maybe it will work out. It probably won't because it never has before. And I don't even blame the women that have turned away in the past. Like you said, I don't really have anything special to offer, so I'm just hoping that I can find someone with low enough standards where that won't be an issue.

>>85275094
People talk to each other for months at a time without even knowing what they look like?

That's crazy to me. How do you even know your investment will pay off?

>>85275191
Im glad I haven't. I don't think that it's bad to try. I'm way too weak for it, a bit too worn out. Hold onto that slice of hope you never know what might happen. There's only rot without it

>>85275193
>How do you even know your investment will pay off?
I guess I don't, right? But I'm lonely, desperate, and not very attractive or outgoing. It's a gamble, but I know what I'm getting myself into.

>>85275072
I'm unemployed so I'm not allowed to feel loved or card for by women in any way.

>>85275072
>I'm an average height, average looking, average income, boring, plain guy.
So you're like most guys, better than half even. Women all want prince charming, but realistically they can't all have him, because there aren't that many to go around. But they still want a boyfriend. I've been in several relationships where I could tell they didn't really love me, they just wanted someone to fill the part. It's okay. There's sex and intimacy, and you don't have to be alone on the weekends.

>>85275482
what if you're tall, good looking, but have average income + boring to normgroids?

>>85275072
I asked a girl out in high school and she was a lesbian (which I obviously didn't know) but because she was very socially awkward she couldn't say no and pretended to date me for a couple months. I tried the best I could to be loving and to be a good boyfriend but I could tell she wasn't into me at all and I didn't understand what I was doing wrong and it was the worst feeling ever. Years later I found out she was a lesbian which helped "explain" it, but it didn't make that awful feeling go away that no matter what I do I'm not going to be appealing to women so I shouldn't even bother trying.

>>85275482
oofydoofymaxing
rip

I don't feel good enough for a wageslavery. I feel like it's something reserved for somebody with actual value. I'm a below average height, below average looking, boring, plain guy. Coworkers and customers don't give two shits about guys like me. They want adventure, charisma and above average looks.

>>85275072
>>85275094
You're correct in identifying yourself as a generic Low Value Male. You are a worker drone.
Now please leave women alone.

>>85276410
I will you're right, I am not worthy nor will i ever be worthy of having a girlfriend.

>>85275072
>I'm an average height, average looking, average income, boring, plain guy
You're an Indian.