>>85278847
>women posting on x in the '26

Being nice is cowardly, dishonest (we are all scheming apes), and boring. Being authentically yourself requires you to expose the unkind sides of yourself. With respond to the honesty and confidence to do this. It's not about performative meanness because they see through that too

>>85278847
the trick is you have to learn how to scare the hoes.

>>85278879
my authentic self is kind and agreeable, though.

>>85278847
f*male attraction is disgusting

>>85278847
One time when I was younger there was this cute Latina girl who is like 12 years older than me who didn't know my age she was like 30ish

She tried making it very obvious she was attracted to me with eye contact from across the room and I was literally like being actively disrespected by people in front of her and letting it happen I would sperg out about dumb stuff not even to her just around her I would be disobeying every social Norm talking too fast or too loud or too slow or jumping from one topic to the next not keeping eye contact weird mannerisms

She literally didn't care this has happened many times with other females as well a lot of it really does come down to looks

She would go out of her way to touch my hand to make eye contact she would call me a cute goofball she would give me wide eyes and she would grin super wide and go out of her way to run up to me she would lick her lips she would go back after seeing me and put on lipstick and stuff

I was literally acting like the most fucking dumb retard sperg

When I told her how old I was at the time she was like shocked she looked so embarrassed and ashamed I felt fucking horrible dude oh my God it's kind of funny thinking back on it

She was like oh my God I'm so sorry she was on the verge of tears as well I think I broke her heart

But anyways this is one example of many I've acted like a complete retard and have had attractions say the same or grow into something more a lot of it really does come down to looks in human psychology and attraction and stuff once you meet a certain threshold it no longer plays a very important role


With that said if personality doesn't matter why not just try and be a good person you know
Why not try and make people happy why not try and become your best self through building character and integrity and mental strength
If it doesn't matter anyways choose good

>>85278847
Sorry, but I'm not interested in anybody that refers to themselves as a baddie. Lmfao. It's like if a guy had badass as part of their name. Shit is corny and retarded. The only reason women get a pass on this is because of pussy privilege and simps that don't check them on this cringe behavior. Like how far up your own ass do you have to be to title yourself "holisticbaddie" and then spew talking points like this? Holy shit, every fucking person thinks they're on the view or a manosphere podcast these days. It's all so fucking exhausting. Like keep your vapid opinions to yourselves you narcissistic bags of hot air

>>85278898
>my authentic self is kind and agreeable, though.
You don't know yourself if you can't find lots of ugliness in there. Do psychedelics

>>85279057
The ugliness only comes out when people treat me poorly. A first date and making friends is about treating people well and being altruistic.
I have only ever been ugly when my altruism is met with hatred. Also this only happens with women. All my male friends still love me, I have only ever had to become ugly with women because they are the only ones who don't transmit love back to you

>>85278847
Yeah, I can only assume I get ghosted by foids because I'm not dark triad enough. That or they can smell my unattractiveness through their screens. Probably both, me not treating them like shit indicates that I'm unattractive

>>85279057
i think you're frustrated with your own shortcomings and are projecting that onto others, as if convincing yourself it's universal will make you feel better and fill the void.
i choose to believe anon when he says he's authentically good

>>85279316
>>85279299
Nope. "Nice" guys just don't don't own their own manhood

>>85278879
I would never take any advice on getting pussy from anons on here especially anons that post shit like
>we are apes
Probably dropped out of high school and can't hold a job

>>85279371
Don't care, if me being altruistic makes me unattractive, then I will stay as such. All my friends ands family think the world of me, and I know I am doing the right thing when I see genuine excitement in their eyes.
That's enough for me.

>>85279395
Good for you, the bitter incels on here try to convince people being a dick bag is how you get women because they get zero pussy and read rage b8 tweets. I wouldn't listen to them, dudes like that are for sure not actually getting pussy.

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>>85279371
Whether they do or don't has nothing to do with making women attracted to you. A woman will fuck a guy even if they're the most spineless simp imaginable.
What you're saying might be true for interactions between men, but as the other anon pointed out men tend to be kind to other kind people, even when they're masking it.

The post in OP's pic is just a woman trying to mask the fact she doesn't want ugly guys, even when they're nice. This what the "Nice Guy" stererotype is all about.

>>85279379
>Probably dropped out of high school and can't hold a job
Seems to be true, generally speaking. The Chads and Chadlites who come here humblebragging or just to look down on robots tend to be failures in other aspects of life (usually work), hence why they come here to feel good about themselves.

>>85278847
Being attractive is essential, not being dark triad. Those guys get to act like assholes because they're handsome and a woman will put up with anything to simp for men that have a million options. If you're handed everything in life and spoiled in every single way no matter how badly you act, there's probably some novelty in treating people like shit just to see how far they'll go to cater to you

>>85279404
In their defence, I currently don't do all that well with women. Acting sagaciously and having a knack for prose isn't even remotely conducive to getting laid (i got laid more in high school when I was a pushy skater douche than now).
But life's not about that, right?

Part of me misses it... So I do sympathize with incels. Most Ragebait is slightly rooted in truth.

>>85279431
even ugly abusive guys get laid easy

>>85279442
man why are you worried about that during an alien invasion???

>>85278847
The worst thing is shit tests. In case you don't know, that's when a woman gives a request not expecting you to follow it, but expecting you to refuse, thus showing that you are assertive and are capable of setting boundaries, because she doesn't want to be with a pushover. It's legitimately impossible to tell when a request is a shit test and somehow I always end up guessing wrong.

>>85279546
>In case you don't know, that's when a woman gives a request not expecting you to follow it, but expecting you to refuse, thus showing that you are assertive and are capable of setting boundaries, because she doesn't want to be with a pushover.
being heterosexual as a man is a fucking curse

>>85279057
Well yeah, we're all capable of horrific violence. The entire reason laws exist is to prevent us from giving into those urges.

>>85279546
Same reason women are more attracted to serial killers than shy nerds. A man who's killed before has proven that he's strong and aggressive, and could protect her. Same reason women stay with abusive husbands. This isn't any fault of their own, because this doesn't come from their conscious mind. It's deep rooted instinct that cannot be overcome.

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>>85278847
"nice guys" just compensate with niceness, because they arent as good looking.

People always try to frame it as if nice guys are pussies or unauthentic, but the real truth is that women are simply more attracted to evil abusive men. Even if the guy was a black black sharp shooter navy seal, they would still choose a handsome criminal over him if the first guy treated them too well.

Then guys like >>85278879 internalize this female preference and rationalize it by acting as if being an asshole is somehow more natural. While we all have good and bad in us, why the fuck would a first date require you to act like a ape? Just be honest and say you're doing what you must to make the pussy wet.

>>85279584
very necessary trvkenvclear post

>>85279584
guy on the left is bald now

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>>85279584
>"nice guys" just compensate with niceness

>>85279442
Yes they're either tall, or they're black, or they're in some kind of brown person arranged marriage

>>85278847
What they mean but won't admit is that being a decent person is secondary and at best they want it in a guy they're already (physically) attracted to. They don't want to outright say this though because it makes them look shallow. Just treat whores transactionally. You get nothing, you give nothing.

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>>85279584
but if they put on a bad boy act that would make them more attractive, imagine if the guy on the right was an actual gangster or ran his own business with a BMW, a suit and always on his phone, he'd be much more "interesting" than some random dweeb

>>85279404
No, they're correct in that asshats get pussy far more than doing the right thing does. The other anon is based for caring more about righteousness than female opinion and approval though.

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>>85278879
nah, I've always had an autistic sense of fairness

>>85278847

Wrong, you absolute retard.
And for anyone reading this, if you are mean to women in real life, you are a fraud.

According to blackpill theory, success with women is mostly genetic, so being mean to women won't do anything. Its worse than nothing, because also according to most blackpill theories, women have a lot of power in society and hate all men by default, so by being mean to women, you are actually putting yourself in danger. You can get arrested if you creep out a woman, so you have to be nice to them.
Also according to the theory, personality is mostly ingrained, so being mean to women is actually against your nature, so you may as well be nice.
If you disagree with any of this, or are mean to women in real life, you are a blackpill denier and a fraud and you don't belong on here or in incel communities.
Just keep your head down and be nice, for fucks sake.

>>85278847
I get platonically turned off women who are instantly nice and too agreeable it feels uncanny
So why wouldn't I feel the same way towards men I'm trying to date?
Being respectful is one thing but acting too nice almost comes off as the person acting familiar when we haven't established that closeness yet. It gives me the heebie jeebies

>>85280422
this whiplash is the natural result of a generation of men being brought up to 'be nice' and being totally emasculated and vilified at the same time as a result. not that it's your fault specifically.

>>85280431
also I agree that trying to be an asshole on purpose is pointless. people just get desperate when nothing seems to be working for them.

>>85278847
>literally written by a disgusting slut with triple digit bodycount

What a surprise. But yes, all sub 5 men should approach women in order to make them disgusted.

>>85278879
This only works for chads.

If you really want to fuck with women don't be mean be indifferent. Being mean is still giving them attention, indifference on the other hand starves the fire of their egos of oxygen.

>>85278847
>How many times has a girl ghosted you for asking her how her day was?
Never. I don't care, so I don't ask. Some have ghosted me regardless, though I ghost most, so I guess you have a point.

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>>85280389
this. if you're autistic you're literally unable to be unkind or unfair, and therefore are unable to attract women. goes to show how evil normies are
>if you're a logical and sensible human being with no negative behaviors, you're weird
no motherfucker, you piece of shit evil normies are the weird ones. stop gaslighting us that we're the aliens, motherfucker you are the aliens, the normies are the aliens. neurotypicuckery never ceases to amaze

>>85278879
God I hate pseud posters like this

>>85278973
>Calls things corny

You're just as bad

Nice people can't flirt.
To flirt you have to challenge, provoke, inflame, joke, counter & rebuke in a playful fashion.

Niceness is an asset in the same way that punctuality is.
Sure it's helpful but it doesn't prove anything on its own.

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>>85278847
> Being a dick to foids is essential.
Not really. Correlation vs causation.

>>85281174
idk what you're trying to imply here, your post contradicts your pic

ok, but if i tried to be a dick it wouldn't work.

>>85281203
>life experiences cited: 0
ok buddy, keep living that life of comforting and predictable mediocrity, i'm sure you're not malcontent at all

>>85278847
I know. I find that women are less dismissive of me when I act like that. I just find it really unenjoyable and tiring to have to play this character. I already have a low social battery.

>>85281209
same desu, if I have to pretend to be someone I'm not to get attention, how's that going to translate into a relationship? only reason I'd do it would be to use someone for sex, and if I did that I'd blame myself for being a piece of shit.

>>85281209
>I just find it really unenjoyable and tiring to have to play this character.
This is the problem with it, its really just fake meanness you have to do in order to make women like you more. Yeah we all need some backbone and the willingness to bite back a little, but most situations simply don't call for these behaviors. Even in disagreement you can be calm and friendly about it.

>>85278847
>attraction is more complicated
No it isn't, you're chadsexual, end of story.

>>85278879
>It's not about performative meanness because they see through that too
No they don't. I tried it once and they fell for it hook, line and sinker.

Nothing makes up for not being antisocial. You could be the tallest man in the world, own ten corporations and a hundred yachts. But if you aren't a bad person women will always pick the 5'6 person with poop skin color over you just because they have a criminal record.
Worst part is there is no gym for this. A weak man can get strong, skinny man can gain weight, but nice people never turn mean and mean people never turn nice. If attracted primarily to how evil someone is it must be very comforting. People get old, weak, lose weight, become forgetful, but the baseline demeanor and tendencies stay set for life.

>>85281319
>but nice people never turn mean and mean people never turn nice
look up how cult leaders brainwash people, you'll quickly be convinced otherwise

>>85278847
True, honestly i think the main reason for this is because the more aggressive/psychopathic a man is, the more successful he's likely to be. Basically it scales upwards until it hits a certain level where you end up broke and in prison.
Just look at all the celebrities and rich people etc. they're are selfish sociopaths.
Successful people figure out how to manipulate people and the world around them to their will.

>>85281208
if you think any person can adopt any personality and get uniform results, you're mistaken

>>85280230
>imagine if the guy on the right was an actual gangster or ran his own business with a BMW, a suit and always on his phone
Yeah I see local kebab shop owner like that making visits to check his shop.
Greasy manlet looking like Italian pimp, with golden chain, rides BMW of course.

>>85280422
Besides blackpill there is redpill though many consider redpill outdated but still.

>>85278847
The thing that hurts women the most is showing indifference or just dropping casual misogyny and not flinching when they bitch and moan, bonus points for gaslighting them about "equality". Women are children in their minds, they cannot compete. Freud was right all along.

>>85278879
It's literally true. Obviously even disagreeable aggressive niggers can behave when it is required of them at a job but always being a nice guy to EVERYONE is revolting

>>85281644
because it doesn't make you feel special?