>>85289833
Women are literally worse than getting AIDs for the rest of your life, at least from what I see of gays. It is to be expected.

they don't love the same way we do. just forget it

It's very draining, my birthday is this month.
She told me she had a surprise waiting, one I will never see
All because I had a female friend and complimented her

>>85289833
><Stalking ex
Pretty sure ur the bpd retard

>>85289857
What do you want me to do, not grieve?
It's not as if I am messaging her
Surely you are sociopathic if you think you won't have any emotions after a breakup

>breaking up
Who broke up with who?

>>85289833

>>85289867
What in the fuck does any of this have to do with grieving or emotions? Not only are you bpd but ur also a retard and I'm retarded for responding to your faggot larp

Delete everything of her, dont look up her accounts, pick up a game to distract yourself interact with new people.
Ofc she kbows you know of her account, she WANTS to hurt you. You see her for what she is now. If someone wants to purposefully hurt you, you cannot forgive them. Sure she might have a mental episode but she will never give you closure or explain. There is no closure, get thst in your retarded head. Move on and just remember her as a mean woman

>>85289883
Maybe read the title, "retard"
I don't expect you to be intelligent though.
>>85289871
She broke up with me

>>85289895
Well, I will try
Damn it..

>>85289896
>I don't expect you to be intelligent though
Ok bud

>>85289966
Leave the thread now, shoo
Off you go be mean somewhere else

That is how children act Ougi

>>85289833
She probably did. It's the standard BPD pattern.
>I guess all the time meant nothing
After reading hundreds of stories of BPD relationships and experiencing them myself, all I can say is that you can value the time and find meaning in it.
It is ultimately impossible to know how another person feels especially when it comes to BPD.
She doesn't miss you in the typical way. If her current supply leaves, she will get hit by an avalanche of regrets then scramble for a new supply. They can't stand being alone.
This doesn't apply to just BPD. Women go around looking for pussy tingles and resources but call this "love". For men, being "loved" is conditional. Yes, even for Chad, because women get bored.

>>85289857
No, he's trauma bonded. Getting wrecked by a BPDemon destroys people.
They love to flaunt their new supply online and brag.
>>85289867
Don't listen to that retard.
Normally I wouldn't suggest going on Plebbit but /r/BPDlovedones saved my life

>>85290020
I'll try going there, maybe I will get help
The first step is to stop making threads like these
Already I've tried not to search her up anymore by limiting the screentime I have on those apps
>>85290013
The worst part is, unlike a normal girl, they won't ever go away.
I had one other relationship, a girl with BPD too, though she was already diagnosed with it. The one I was with for a long time didn't have this diagnosis until maybe halfway through the relationship. Anyways, the one I dated for a month still is set out to find me and talk to me for a day until she blocks me, and all she does is ask questions about me, hoping that I'm doing miserable or something

>>85289895
Hey, I'm not OP but I'm going through a similar thing after almost 10 years and I needed to hear this. Wasted my 20s on a bad woman.

>>85289833
Brother she had a new boyfriend before breaking up you were just not informed

>>85290020
Ur an idiot. Op has quiet bpd.

>>85290063
Once you get close enough to see through them, it hurts their ego. At this point borderlines will devalue and discard you.

>>85290560
there's no indication of that, pajeet.

>>85290626
Hmmm. Ur right. I am seeing where I hurt ops fragile bpd ego

>>85290633
I see right thru your bpd

>>85289833
Nobody gives a fuck idiot?
If yall broke up why are you stalking her secret account that shit is pathetic
Hit the weights bud

>>85289833
>I guess all the time meant nothing
i think so
i just dealt with a person who dropped me and am now realizing they probably just come for the novelty and stay as long as the magic is there and then move on the moment they stop feeling it.

>>85290020
>No, he's trauma bonded
what do you mean by that specifically?

>>85291008
its faggotspeak for how he should wallow or something instead of just getting over it and moving forward

>>85291020
nobody asked you

>>85289833
Hate to tell you this OP, but that man was there before you guys broke up. Women that hate being alone will always shop for months and have a guy or two in the chamber before breaking up

>>85291041
shut up dork
>fucks you in the ass

>>85291043
dude felt the need to insert his cuck fanfiction into someone elses baby whining this board is so fucking cringe lol

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>>85289857
lol. Relationships involve strong emotions, anon. They make even normies act weird. Social media stalking an ex is mild.

>>85291109
nah thats fucked
being fucked is just normalized now
dont ever do that shit again op youre acting like a fucking stupid pussy

>A BPD discard is the sudden, painful end of a relationship by someone with Borderline Personality Disorder. It happens because of "splitting". The person shifts from seeing you as all good to all bad. They cut you off to protect themselves from a deep fear of being left.

does that mean there was something i could have said or done, or is there no coming back once they do that?

>>85291632
why are you even worried about it? are you desperate for her back or something? LOL

>>85291693
i'm not the op. lol

>>85291710
Im the OP

>>85291769
He's the OP.

>>85291008
It's basically PTSD + familiarity. Normally this process results in healing and growth, but toxic people never allow the relationship to stabilize in order to wear down your psyche and keep you mired in bullshit while telling you it's love.
Eventually you start to believe that love is stress + problems + constantly feeling the relationship is unstable, and all that reinforces itself to keep you trapped.

>>85291056
That's how women operate retard, if she has a boyfriend literally day one after a breakup wtf did you think happened? She miracled him into existence?

Same shit happened to me. The good thing is that she didnt get a new bf one day after, she had him for much longer than that.

>I keep sticking my hands in the shiny things that appear when I turn on the stove but they keep hurting me. Pity me, /r9k/.
No.

>>85289833
women are already inherently evil. bpd just amplifies it. sucks you had to find out this way, though

>>85293530
It takes zero seconds for a woman to get a dude on her first of all and second of all who even gives a shit? You just jumped out of the aether to be like
>yeah and and and I bet she cucked you too!
like shut the fuck up weird fetish dork

>>85293546
>>I keep sticking my hands in the shiny things that appear when I turn on the stove but they keep hurting me.
yeah don't interact with women unless you are paying her, because that's all she really wants

>>85289833
My friend I need you to wake up and realize she never loved you. She doesn't love that guy either. She will NEVER find love. These people are incapable of it and are so fucking utterly helpless they need to use people to get through life.

>>85289833
Bitches aren't loyal and they will have orbitors even if they're happily married if possible. You gotta be a bit cold about love

>>85293981
I feel for ugly losers like you man I dont have to worry about shit my female knows she lucked out

>>85289833
>date BPD bitch
>surprised she does BPD shit
lol

>>85293888
Sounds like projection to me, quite literally nobody mentioned cucking or fetishes but you. And no, most women arent going to spontaneously get a boyfriend day one. Get laid maybe, boyfriend? Women shop around for that unless they have someone in mind already, its common sense

>>85294188
They don't always go
>hey, I'm a BPDemon
I almost married mine. Don't know what kind of hell that would've been

>>85294378
Hey I didnt read that shit man Im happy for you
Or sorry to hear that

>>85289850
i relate to her. my now ex boyfriend thought it was ok to hug back a woman whom he had helped find her cat. its funny because hes the one still crying a week later. rules were clear. no interactions with other women, let alone hugging a nasty prostitute trying to validate her stupid feelings. needles to say i already had sex with other men and texted him about it

>>85294850
and just desu the sex wasnt even that great. i just wanted him to feel as bad as i felt when I saw her arms wrapped around a body that, until that moment, belonged to me

>>85294850
Lmao I know this is supposed to be satire but women with BPD really do that shit.