I'm an autistic female, so I become friends, almost accidentally, with other female autists, just to always find out they're trans men. I don't have anything wrong with it but what causes this? I have thoughts about being a man, but I'd never transition and I don't even actually want to be a man, I just want to fill a male type role in a relationship. Is this just something that's happening to me? Am I just attracting this type of person somehow? I always attract lgbtq+ people to me just by existing, I get told I look lesbian, I'm not. I wonder if that's what's happening and this isn't actually some kind of pipeline. Or maybe we're just susceptible for transitioning?
>>85309007HRT really should be illegal to buy, possess, or sell
>>85309014You noticed it too?
>>85309007As an autist, much of your enjoyment of being cis was supposed to come by way of the culture around you supporting it and appreciating you on a gendered basis fairly overtly. That's been gauche and verboten since the 70s, so a bunch of us are just floating around untethered to our birth sexes with vaguely person-shaped self-image. Many of us end up wanting to feel hot or experience real or imagined social perks if being the other gender and just troon out.
>>85309007>what causes this?Trannies and thus society out of political correctness claim that feeling uncomfortable in your gender role makes you trans.Autists always feel uncomfortable because society is built to make neurotypicals comfortable, not autists, and they have issues like alexithymia that complicate understanding their own emotions and where they come from, so it's easy to confuse this general discomfort with gender related discomfort, especially when you have a transbitch in your ear telling you you'll be so much happier as a man.Autists tend to be deeply unhappy in society, again because it's built around the shallow ass shit that makes NT's happy, not us, so many fall into the trap of 'things will only get better if I change'.NT's are also obsessed with conformity, and label anyone who isn't as different.Autist girls dress and style themselves in way that make them feel good and don't care for conformity the way NT's do, this makes them different, and thus, they must be lesbian because they are 'trying' to be nonconformist, or at least this is the NT reasoning. Must be weird for following the herd to be your default state of being.Autists are also prone to assuming other people are as logical, literal, and trustworthy as they are, and thus, easily fall victim to trans rhetoric and take it more seriously than the people spewing it.Then there's sunk cost fallacy for those that already transitioned.Honestly the whole thing pisses me right the fuck off, trannies are basically predators of autists at this point, eliminating them by tricking them into ruining their own life and suiciding.
>>85309007I've been buddied with this balding manlette zoomer I work with for like 2 years now and only recently found out he was a female until like 5 years ago. It actually made a lot of sense though because this dude has tiny ass hands and a high pitched ass voice. Was a trip though when I saw pictures of him as a girl.
>>85309166Not really. You don't need to be "supported" in it and feelings of personal identity are universally vague and somewhat fickle. I'm not a man because I have a specific sense of manliness, some kind of man-being-feeling, but simply because I clearly seem to be with no good reason to say otherwise. This is, I think, part of the issue, the idea that you're supposed to have a strong, specific feeling of Trait X, and if you don't have that the trait itself is to be called into question. I consider the way this is talked about to be actual grooming in the context of gender and sexuality.
>foids are transitionin' coz they cant get a bf>cant get a bf coz they've retarded high standards>instead of lowerin' their standards and gettin' a bf they'd just transition and make themselves the bfTalk about shootin' yourself in the foot lmao
>>85309218I think maybe you're imagining a louder version of "supported" than I am. When I do something manly, I want the women around me to feel glad that they had me, a man, around to do it, and feel free to say so, or just smile at me a certain way when I do, without feeling dirty. When I succeed at something man-coded, I want them to feel like they can celebrate me without having to check with their internal good feminist training first to see if it's allowed, or if they should wish a boss babe had succeeded instead. These feelings are natural, and they are a key mechanism for the natural, innate tendency for gender to emerge at a social level on its own, even unassisted. All we have to do is stop repressing them. I'm not asking for a straight pride parade or anything.
>>85309007I looked like a twink when I was younger, the main interest I got was from gay men, lesbians for some reason, and fat girls.
>>85309294I don't know. It's possible it varies by person, but I don't think I ever really cared. I don't feel more like a man for doing a masculine thing nor less like it for asking a woman to help me with it. Whether I am or not, or to what degree if you believe that stuff, is totally unrelated to what I do and how people think of me or act arohnd me.
>>85309262You could say the same of both genders.Social media has utterly obliterated our ability to appreciate average partners.
>>85309294So you're saying feminism is a major contributing factor to the rise of trannies?
>>85309331I don't know if I described it well, then. I think it's upstream of "feel like a man when doing manly thing." It's about people having innate bonuses to how blessed they feel when you do community together along gendered lines, and that trains you to feel manly when you do the manly thing. It's not that a boy raised in isolation from gender roles would feel manly when he changes a tire. But I think a girl raised in isolation from gender roles would experience a different flavor of joy and gratitude at getting that kind of help from the boy, and upon seeing it expressed, the boy self-trains to feel manly when changing the tire. We have poisoned natural gender roles at the level of the bonus multiplier for gendered kindness and cooperation by training in guilt and doubt. Even when the modern girl does decide to override her programming and express her natural feelings, it feels fake due to the hesitation.
>>85309337Men aint the ones turnin' down average girlz coz they're "not good enuff" Datz solely a female thin'.
>>85309453Why are you typing your accent.
>>85309343Yup. Specifically the attack on innate gendered archetypes. You shouldn't feel compelled to follow them or anything -- I love me a hard-working tomboy as much as anyone -- but when we've trained the girls to feel like defective feminists for not getting the ladder instead of being happy they have a tall man nearby to help, the whole exercise of gender along natural lines kind of falls apart.
>>85309453THIZ POST WUZ FACT CHECKED BY REAL ORKY GITZ>DATZ THA ZOGGIN' TRUF
weaponised porn and propagandaautists, especially young autists, are almost all unconfertable in thier own skin so fuckers have an easier time convincing them that being trans is an empowering identity. Regular women fall under that spell once it becomes mainstream
>>85309007i am going to anwser you in the most genuine way i can:because autistic women have dificulties entablishing relationships with males, they usually go deep down into yaoi and homosexual erotica, wich is basically is equal to porn/hentai for cis men. autistic women have a hard time at flirting because they dont know the etiquette or social cues very well so they catalyze their sexuality into the yaoi subculture and internalize their attaction to male into their own self, developing autoandrophilia or AAP (the atraction of oneself as the male gender). autistic people both men and women are by all means people unable to get into normal relationships, so the fantasy of being the desired gender not only is exciting because the sexual innuendo but basically it gives you a fantasy to live the exact opposite of what society expects you to be, wich is liberating, specially on women in wich historically have lived on a profound self-hate due them being aware that men only recognize them as sexual objects and not intelectual equals (this awareness exist both in autistic and neurotypical woman). you mix this kind of psychological result with a society that basically tells you that your whole notion of self is fluid, and a agressive market that basically weaponized young women into a liberal mindset of being a self-determinate and auto-substained individual and you get the pooners. young women are usually very much easier to lure, adult woman have a strong sense of self, though both zoomers and milenials seem to be existing on some kind of meta-regression of some sorts. of course there is a lot of more nuance and everything i say it can be extrapolated to trans woman as well. god knows how many incels from /r9k/ transitioned because their lack of sexual life made them inverse their sexuality
>>85309453Orkz don't even have wonen, ya git.>>85309649>because autistic women have dificulties entablishing relationships with males, they usually go deep down into yaoi and homosexual erotica, wich is basically is equal to porn/hentai for cis men. autistic women have a hard time at flirting because they dont know the etiquette or social cuesClearly you've never met an autistic woman.Every single one I know, their problem is they can't connect with men on any deeper level (because they're trying to connect with NT men, who obviously do not understand their feelings or struggles.)None of them have a problem getting dates or bfs, their problems are finding a real, meaningful relationship that makes them feel seen/heard/loved instead of something superficial or transactional.
Homosexual spam about trans pipelines belongs in the containment board >>>/lgbt/Fuck off to your containment board, homosexual aberration
>>85309733>clearly you've never met an autistic womanyeah i have>Every single one I know, their problem is they can't connect with men on any deeper level no woman can connect with a man in profoundity because all women lack profoundity>none of them have a problem getting dates or bfs, their problems are finding a real, meaningful relationship that makes them feel seen/heard/loved instead of something superficial or transactionaltrue, maybe i wasn't right about that, but regardless i think the main point is that they are more exploitable
