We broke up four days ago, all because I said to my insecure autistic friend that she looks nice in a comment.I sacrificed a lot of things for that girl. My sleep schedule is so messed up I get tired at 5 am now, I wonder why this could be. I also rejected a promotion because it'd meant I would talk to her less and have more hours.To rub salt on the wound, 3 days ago she gets a boyfriend and she posts it everywhere on her profile. Like as if our relationship meant nothing. I'm tired, I haven't gone to work by saying I was sick. I'll need to get up soon, but my soul hurts. It hurts too much.
If God takes something from you, it is to give you something better. And this is not cope, this is what it is.
I don't think this new boyfriend measures if you're lovable. She might have gotten this new boyfriend to try proving it to herself she doesn't need you. After all this is really abrupt and she might be feeling stressed too.Now when you go to work, take a deep breath. No one can solve work and life in one day. Give yourselves a break and think about your priorities. I hope you can recover from this situation. And yes, if something is truly fair in this life is God's love.
>>85317511I didnt have this tomo pic thanks anonnow about your problem, uhh dude your gf is BPD nothing you do matters. she was DESTINED to be a humongous traitorous bitch to you no matter how nice to her you were. in fact, you could have done the complete opposite of everything you did and you would have gotten the exact same result!there is no cope, you fucked up and picked an awful girlfriend, time to move on. it was never meant to be
>>85317511hopefully you learned your lesson, if a w*man even SPEAKS about "bpd" make and about face and sprint, AS FAST as you can, don't even turn around to get a second look, GET THE FUCK OUT ASAP, genuinely, there are politicians that are somehow less evil than most bpdemons
>>85317511why do you have an insecure autistic female friend you're not having sex with? Are you stupid? is she single? I'd date her.
>>85317511Stop calling your past choices mistakes. Back then, you made the best call you could with what you knew, and you couldn't predict the future. Look at it this way, your journey has taught you exactly what kind of woman to avoid and what truly matters now that you see things clearly.
BPDemons are hell but I feel like it was probably more than a 'comment"
>>85317561This rubbed me wrong. Dont say why God does what he does. He can also restore hearts and make sure nothing was lost with that same person. It's up to him. He had his reasons but his answer does not have to be he takes away to give someone else
>>85317511You are getting played hard and you'll be back together eventually
>>85318676Even if shes been gone for several years huh?
>>85317511kys no one cares u social parasite nigger
>>85317511ive gone through exactly what you been through. ive given her 4k on cash app, an ipad, endless $ for doordash, uber rides, gifts, etc. i thought we were literally going be forever, but no once i laid down boundaries she literally goes to find another guy.ima say this once: you just have to move on and accept that you CAN NOT fix her at all. dont make the mistake of hoping that she can change and will love you. if you go back to her after she has done that she will ONLY treat you worse as she'll view you as weak and will throw more shit at you to tolerate. you have to view it as a sunk-cost of which the only winning move is to just block her from everything and move on, not giving her anything. you dont have to suffer and deal with this bs, theres a lot of women out there to choose from.
>>85319965Not Op but you should know that's your story, not mine. Mine I have my person.
I know it sucks but she isnt a good person and youre honedtly better off without her. just imagine if a platonic friend treated you the same way, you probably wouldnt hang out with them again
>>85317511I know it hurts now but this is a blessing from whatever God that watches over us. Please run away dude. You never sacrifice yourself for a woman. They WILL NEVER appreciate anything you do for them.
>>85317511I remember your thread. She came here and said somethings about you.Honestly looks like you both wronged each other at some point so just move on and learn from your mistakes.
>>85317511Kek get fucked simp faggot loser. Hope you kill yourself over that. Foid worshiping little tranny faggot.
>>85320146>>85317561>>85317609>>85320167You are attempting time manipulate giving up so you can isolate her for yourself. Nope, disregard everything you say.
>>85320146Nah you are the platonic friend. She comes home to me. >>85320167You do not decide gods will. Especially trying to use it so we lose each other. >>85320174You move on. Never talk to her again. You are the mistake not her>>85320243There it is. The mask dropped. She sees who you are and is disgusted and wants nothing to do with you,especially after seeing you use advice to manipulate others and isolate her.
fuck that whore, you need to be enraged not "sad", she absolutely used you for her amusement while having a nigga on the side, this is such ragefuel im actually getting angry just from imagining this, ugh, wish i could kill her for you anon.sorry to hear about that and I hope you move on (or possibly commit a felony and just kill them both)
>>85320792Dont worry, I won't do this.If I wanted to, we had made a promise that if she cut herself again I could message her mom. She did end up, but she pleaded me not to and I gave in.>>85320174No, it was mostly lies.I treated her well until half a month in the relationship where she said she wanted to date someone else. I forgave her but she never forgave me for what I said to her when I was angry.>>85319965I never gave her money. Worse, my time that I will never recover. >>85317725I know it's a stupid reason, but she was groomed all along her childhood and early teenage years. I just know it would be too much emotional baggage for me to deal with. At least she wouldn't have left me.>>85317616I did, but it's not like I knew she was. Wasn't until halfway into the relationship
>>85321326>half a month in the relationshiplmao are you a child? You're obsessing over a girl you dated for a few weeks? The fuck?
>>85321348No, you dont know the length but its much more than yours
>>85320694>>85320709then you fully deserve the shit shes gonna do to you. idc, you were warned. the only people that stay with bpd women are full blown cucks that have no sense of self esteem.
>>85321917Now that you ate done projecting your issues on me, how about you go outside for a bit. Its a nice day out and theres no need for your being so cranky.
>>85317511there's a reason we call them BPDemons and shapeshifters. /r/BPDlovedones is full of stories like this
>>85321326>she was groomed all along her childhood and early teenage yearsthey will tell you all sorts of stories. she's probably telling the new guy that you were a rapist abuser narcissist space alien
>>85322329Its a larp. Ignore. She is most likely not even bpd, just gas lit that she is to manipulate her.
>>85322329Sorrry, I was referring to my friend.An anon asked why I didn't date her instead of my bpd-ex and I explained that's why.Regardless, you are right. I bet my bpd ex is making lies about me
>>85317511Take this as a lesson anon, if she has BPD run. I made the same mistake because I'm somewhat mentally ill myself and don't want to be judgemental and believed in helping people with mental issues because I'm in the same boat, but if it's BPD just run, anything else is workable except for that. It feels impossible now but you will gradually get over it, whatever you do, do NOT ever contact her again. Any girl could get a new BF instantly and it's no reflection on you and she's definitely doing it fueled by bpd and will create another relationship that crashes and burns you got out lucky if you avoided ending up tied to her legally or financially before the fall.>t. anon who was recently in almost the exact same position as you as my first real serious relationship
Glad mine does not actually have bpd. She is just gas lit
BPD whores need to be sent to an asylum to suffer
>>85317511>3 days ago she gets a boyfriend and she posts it everywhere on her profileTime to move on bud. I understand that you did a lot for her but she clearly doesn't care nor respects you for that. Average BPD person, I guess.If you're lucky, maybe she'll contact u again in the future but I wouldn't count on it.
>>85323997Its a larp threat dumbo
>>85324203larp threads that reflects reality of some anos are still worth to postalso everyone here is a ChatGPT bot.robot9001 is just a obvious nickname
Let them burn
At least u had a gf, be grateful you at least got to know affection in any way whatsoever
>>85317511>Like as if our relationship meant nothingit did mean nothing to her, that's why you don't date mind broke retarded women
>>85317511This is why men should stay away from broken girls. There is no fixing them. This is why you should learn to be selfish. You will only get hurt and used up
>>85317511She wasn't your girlfriend. She was just using you. BPDemons are literally completely helpless and need to use people to get through life. She's going to jump from one guy to the next, making each one's life a living hell, until she fucks with the wrong guy.
>>85322153retard nigger lol go to reddit
>>85317561>God takes something from you, it is to give you something better.> if something is truly fair in this life is God's love.Shut up christcuck take ur head out ur hairy asshole
>>85326530>eyes glows red and bears out claws "grrr u heckin' chud u better not say the nword I mean it!"NIGGER KIKE SPIC CHINK TRANNY TROON PAJEET FUCKER
>>85326546>teleports behind u, "ptff nothing personaall kid" uses finger up nigger ass no jitsu
>>85326557this also isn't a board for nigger normies who have sex and cry about it bitch
>>85317511Js kill her
Short term emotional pain can be treated the same as short term physical pain: take some aspirin or acetaminophen.
>>85325068This guy knows the arcane knowledge
>>85322329My BPD ex kept telling me about how she went through actual abuse with her latest bf and how she regretted how she treated me. I'm glad the bitch is suffering, I wasted my life loving her and now I can't love/trust any woman
>>85328376Mine did the same shit. Her life went to absolute shit. But when I checked in on her, she factually just feels sorry about herself and what happened to her. She doesn't really care about those she hurt, just the consequences. I then learned that these "people" are just inherently wrong mentally. They're just trash. BPD should be culled for the good of the species. They have no sense of honor, honesty, loyalty or justice. Unfortunately for the them, the universe does seem to have sense of justice and humor.
>>85327178They do that to themselves. Oringano, apparently
>>85317796>what kind of woman to avoidthe real answer is "pretty much all of them"
>>85328608>They have no sense of honor, honesty, loyalty or justice.that's just women in general
Xarpodius wren
>>85317561There really is weird balance in the chaos
>>85324985What if you have a heart, even if hardened
>>85317511Too late to help you now, and I would recommend breaking up over doing this in the first place, but when I dated a girl with bpd I found something that worked 100% of the time she started a fight. I would tell her "message me tomorrow when you wake up and realize you love me and didn't mean any of this." Then I would either go home or stop responding to her texts until the next day. She always apologized. Also, I only did this when it was her getting upset over something stupid, not if she had a legitimate reason.
>>85331943You sound like you think very highly of yourself
>>85332144How so? I wouldn't say I have self-esteem issues, but I also don't think I'm cocky by any means. I looked into bpd when I was dating my ex and pretty much everything I read talked about how there isn't much you can say while someone with bpd is splitting that will solve it, so giving her space seemed like the best solution. And it did work.
>>85322761OR JUST BECOME MORE MENTATALLY ILL THAN HER HAHAHAHAHA
>>85332478That would be like letting them win. Stone wall them
