Do you think you are immature for your age? I feel like a kid in an adults body. Everyone seem so "grown up" and stable compared to me
>>85419349I definitely am.I only started feeling like I left my teens me tally when I was mid to late 20s.I think I'm emotionally/socialled retarded. Not retarded in the handicapped sense, but in the literal sense, as in falling behind.
I won't be able to advance till I date a girl of my mental age
>>85419349>>85419354I'm like this because I got raised by a single mom that didn't allow me to do SHIT and I was too passive to push back so I'm completely fucking useless and don't know how to socialize at all because I wasn't allowed to play with other kids because I could get hurt/abducted
>>85419485>I won't be able to advance till I date a girl of my mental ageThis. Its not fair that I should be with girls my age when my mental age and my sexual experience is far lower than theirs
>>85419513Just don't date used goods
>>85419498same here, I have the social experience of a preteen. my mom was neurotic and controlling and didn't let me play with other kids, then by the time I got to my teens other kids were avoiding me. it's very common for people who were emotionally neglected as a kid to have frozen mental ages.
>>85419349I'm 27 and I still even LOOK like a fucking child. I drank too much tap water I guess. Even 18 year olds regularly think I'm younger than them. My mind is completely raped by this, in my dreams everyone towers over me
>>85420151>I'm 27 and I still even LOOK like a fucking childBe thankful that you look young and not be norwooded and have destroyed skin
>>85419349Yes and I have been insulted will always be insulted for it by multiple strangers, family and friends, even partners no matter how fucking hard I try to be more adult. I will always be a little boy trapped in this hideous body and it's embarrassing. The only person I was happy to be this way around ended up getting tired of me and insulting me for this too. May be my aspergers, I don't know, it's not really anybody else's problem but I get really sad and embarrased often, my existence is an entire humiliation ritual Not to mention I struggle to read, do basic academics, mantain jobs..socialize, I never had sex, and the only time I tried did I behaved so embarrassing and most of my interest are brainrot and not intellectual stuff, I am often interesting in reading or learning though but never met someone with patient to teach me and when I try teaching myself my head hurts
>>85420275>partners >I never had sex> the only time I triedWhat?
>>85420285FAILED ATTEMPT its hard to explain
>>85420292But how do you even get to that point and not have sex then? I never speak to women so I dont get it, but shouldnt those things happen
>>85420285I have only edated once
>>85420163I'm not a woman, I don't need smooth youthful skin. There's literally zero benefits to looking young as a man unless you have an insane face card.
>>85420299I edated and we meet then I tried having sex but I only embarrased myself
>>85419349I've been told the opposite my whole life.I still behave childishly a lot from time to time.
>>85419349Meh. "Growing up" in the common conception is to just internalise all the self-destructive normie bullshit and choke any personality a human might develop until you're basically a cyborg monkey. Smarter normies will generally appreciate someone who says it like it is, even if it basically locks you out of the corpo "career" rat race.
yeah in some ways but then i see clips of adult women having toddler tantrums and shit
>>85420440which is allowable cuz they're women. coddled fucks
>>85419349I mean, try being this way and also black. The only people with some semblance of an idea of what you're going through also hate you.An isolated path is simply the one chosen for me. Anyways hopefully I get in the military.
>>85419349I'm this way also, very childish and I can't seem to grow up.
>>85420327Lol you shitted yourself
>>85419349yeah when people talk about getting their degree or applying for a real job that takes skills i feel very hurt and scared
>>85419349Yeah, idk if it is due to my autism but I am 33 and still feel like a kid at times. At work I mask but as soon as I get home I run around stimming and saying things out loud and blah blah blah. So idk I still feel like I am 14 or however young I feel.
I still feel like a teen and sometimes a boy. We dont have the same level of expectations from people, theres so many safety nets/bail outs. Theres also not much opportunity to really go after life. In some ways its good since having an air of immaturity makes life more fun but also there arent many times youre really tested, its mostly make artificial suffering. Tough mature people are usually assholes but im glad they exist
>>85419349It depends. Financially I'm way more mature than most regular adults. I am also way more capable of self-restraint and delayed gratification. However, I am a 32yr old man who willfully lives with his parents and doesn't drive. I have a decent job, but it is only so I can moneymaxx and retire as early as possible. I don't want to be a regular adult. I just want to play vidya, masturbate, exercise, sleep and collect porn. I don't want to have a gf, get married, have kids and own a place, because all of those things cost too much and take too much energy from me. I just want to not have to work. I'm not completely against the idea of having a gf, but it would have to be a woman with a very specific set of attributes that probably doesn't exist.
>>85422029nothing too embarrasing like this lol, it was more of me being well very ugly as expected, but also very unresponsive to the topics they wanted to talk about during our date, very fidgety...anxious, trying to cover my face with my bangs and sleeves the entire time I was beside them, I dont think I even dare to make eye contact, and when we got to the point of trying to have sex I was very confused with what to do and tried different positions but nothing worked, they were a bit disgusted at me, perhabs frustrated and seemed like they wanted to run away from me after thisHumilliation ritual, maybe it would've been better if I wasn't so socially anxious, but I don't have friends irl and never had someone like that close before
>>85422087good to know im not aloneCute sho...picture who are these guys?
>>85422305You cant have been that awkward if they still wanted to have sex with youI dont think anyones good at it the first time
>>85419349I live alone and have a decent job but I spend most of my free time doing drugs and playing Oldschool RuneScape at the age of 36. I wish I could find a wife and have kids but idk how I'm going to combine that with this lifestyle.
>>85422338maybe..either way it's not that important I guess, just an embarrassing memory of me trying to do something adult. I don't think I'll ever do something like that ever again. I wish instead of that I just cuddled with them and played some stupid roblox while we chatted, either way I never felt enough as a person or partner because of this, I have nothing much to offer. Maybe they weren't disgusted at me but bored
My dad said the first time he ever felt like an adult was when he had his first kid. I think childlessness has a bigger consequence on peoples' personalities and motivations than we like to admit.
>>85419349I don't earn enough money to buy fancy stuff and I've always been a late bloomer, so I always feel left behind; judging by my age, by now I should have a car, my own place and different sources of passive income, but I've been lazy and I never cared about getting a better job, saving money or even investing it. My financial situation alone makes me feel like I've just graduated from high school with how little I have to show for, despite being in my 30s.
I used to kinda think this way but now I realize I'm fine and the world is full of annoying busybody peacocking faggots that always have an axe to grind or something to prove. People think they're better than you because they pumped and dumped some whores or ate exotic street food overseas that gave them food poisoning or took a bunch of drugs and saw God or whatever, but they all still eat and shit and piss and sleep like everybody else at the end of the day, they're all the same obnoxious retards with the same core flaws and you're not suddenly better because you read some faggy book and looked cool smoking a cigarette while doing it. Sure, I didn't learn how to drive until relatively late, and there are some skills that would help me assimilate better in to normalfag world that I don't particularly care to learn, but that's separate from "maturity" imo. All this comparison and diminshing myself and putting myself down because I'm not doing muh big "important" things has just stunted my own development towards things I'm actually interested in and trying to be myself
>>85422484You're right anon..I'll stop being so miserable about this and enjoy my day playing Dandy's world. Although the seek of knowledge..experiences and growth as a person aren't bad. I wish to experience those eventually, it's just the rush that people have put on me that makes me feel so disgusted and embarrased, but being too self hating leads to nothing
>>85419485>I won't be able to advance till I date a girl of my mental ageThere's no evidence that this is a thing. You just want to date young.
>>85419349I do not correspond to any human age. I have matured on an entirely different axis.
>>85419349I don't think I'm mature emotionally or mentally. I think I've spent a lot of time suppressing a lot of stuff. I don't know how other people do it.
>>85422666The evidence is the impossibility of the contrary now shut up baka
>>85422658You can still seek knowledge and experiences and growth, I'm just saying you don't have to feel bad if they aren't the normalnigger approved ones
>>85423128Yesyes Sorry I meant to say that, not disagree with u or say u are agaisnt seeking of knowledge or experiences yes I will not care about normalgafafags Although curious enough a lot of alienated people have gotten more frustrated with me than the average normie because of the way I am, maybe because they need extra stimulation or they are too smart
>>85419349i/m 27, yet i dont think of myself as a man. feels like that word doesn't apply to me
>>85422735>The evidence is the impossibility of the contraryThe absence of evidence is not evidence of absence, though. What's your mental age, what's your actual age?
because they're fake soulless npcs who already have their pretend face for everyone they meetonly authentic people can be awkward
