Can you somehow gain "confidence" and become social all of a sudden? I wish I could be social and get along with other people but I just cant. I either stay mute and cant talk or get really frustrated with other people.
>>85420277not all of a sudden. but you need constant exposure. you know the answer you just dont wanna do it.>I wish I could be social and get along with other people but I just cantyes you can faggot. talk with other humans. there's no magic trick
>>85420296>yes you can faggot. talk with other humans. there's no magic trickBut how!? Every time Im in a social setting I feel like an outcast
>>85420277Have you tried alcohol? Not saying you should, but if you have, does it make you more sociable?
>>85420309>Have you tried alcohol?Yes>Not saying you should, but if you have, does it make you more sociable?It has helped in some situations I think, but then I maybe drink too much and become depressed.
>>85420308Anon I can actually help you with this but it's really not worth it, you learn to be funny and sociable but you still feel bad on the inside because you know it's just a performance
>>85420323I don't know anon, I think socialising is like any other skill, the only way to get better is to practice, and practice more. Drugs and alcohol can give you a temporary boost, but it will only increase your pre-existing skills
>>85420335This anon is correct, for practicing I tutored my neighborhood kids and try to entertain them (people in their twenties are easily entertained just as kids) and I went to public park to practice while larping as someone else and telling people that I'm from a different major Honestly, now that I think about it, I got better at socializing by becoming a better liar
Not "all of a sudden" but you can go from bad at it to good at it with practice and exposure.You have to deliberately try to be better, and assess periodically if you're doing good or not (you can tell by the reactions), and adjust when needed.Talking is a skill, making people laugh is a skill, making people trust you is a skill, it's all learnable.
>>85420277I can be funny and sociable with other men as individuals, but I remain basically mute in groups of normies. I don't know what it means except that the autism is strong, but quite frankly I don't think I'm missing anything. Normies are overall a bit retarded and I would generally rather keep them at arm's length.
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