my only """friend""""group show resentment towards me and treat me like an outsider because it's been 2 months I haven't been abusing substances with them because I'm trying to live a healthy sober lifestyle instead of killing myself slowly. I'll still want to chill with them as I have no one else but they'll treat me weird and will still offer several times for me to join them even if I say no every time.
>>85424149 I think it would be good if you joined them on friday/saturday if you want to unwindAnd buy non alcoholic beer, if you are holding a 0.0% Corona bottle they will get it
>>85424163sorry I should've mentioned what substances I was speaking of which was nitrous oxide and weed. Barely no alcohol
>>85424177You don't get itYou dissolve the situation by lifting up your beer bottle and saying you are goodIt is fine if they offer several times for you to join, and you lift up a beer for them and say "I am good". Or lift up your beer, say it is empty and ask them to grab you a new one from the fridge.The point is not for you to be mentally abused by substances, the point is to be a part of the group experience. To be an insider not an outsider
