Being a British woman is awful. *Most* culture and people are lesser and trashier than continental counterparts, British people but especially women are known for ugliness and treated as gross jokes, there is no sense of beauty here and going outside makes me depressed seeing the sheer ugliness of towns and cities. I should be grateful living somewhere that is first world but I feel so miserable knowing I cannot escape this. I can't bear being related to these people, being one of them, and living in such a visually unattractive place. I genuinely feel I am inferior and even if I could move countries that would not change who I am or what is in my blood. I look very British and despite eating decently and staying fairly active I cannot outrun my genetics or what I look like. I feel so disheartened knowing I was just destined to look like this from birth and nothing I do can change these genetics unless I cheat with surgery. What is even the point of being a woman if you are ugly in looks and most look at your culture as something of classlessness and inferiority, and it just part of your essence as a person, I hate my British features and the thing in the mirror. It makes me want to transition. I truly do feel like I am cursed. I can't count the amount of times I have dreamt about a mundane life just being someone else somewhere else only to wake up desperate to not leave that dream. If there was an easy and pain free way to go I think I would have done it over this.
>>85424376Recently I met an old autistic British female who was on internet forums before it was cool it was the second British person I ever metThe only two British people I have ever met have been this year which is interesting
>>85424392They were also both old people and I don't mean old as in like 60 years old these were like 70 or 80 year olds
>>85424376>What is even the point of being a woman if you are ugly in looksOne day I will find a woman who actually wants to be loved and not treated like an object of lust. I won't give up. I must have faith that she is out there. There must be one woman on this planet who wants to be loved...
>>85424401They were also both homosexual which is an interesting coincidence as well was there an influx 30 years ago of old homosexual British people immigrating to America
>>85424376My answer depends on whether you are northern or southern
>>85424392>>85424401>>85424410That's kind of weird I've never met an elderly gay person but most LGBT people I have met are also autistic especially autistic women. The only other autistic woman I met who was straight was hardcore Christian. >>85424408I would like to be genuinely loved but I have always wanted to be pretty. I don't think that is vapid as most women (and people in general) do. I would lie if I denied wanting to be somewhere nice and look nice. Probably my biggest desire is to just live somewhere pretty and be able to go out and just spend time in the town looking nice. >>85424420Southern. It's even more pathetic because I have it easier than half of the country but I still feel so despondent looking at the state of things and the world around me. I've tried hard but ultimately can't help how I feel.
>>85424454>southern You probably look mint the dwbi, at least you are not Welsh like me.>state of thingsWe've been down the crapper since 08' and it only gets worse I share your sorrow. Honestly I wanna take advantage of some commonwealth agreements we have and buy some land in Canada or Australia when I finish uni and live a simple lifestyle. Its a shame I do love our little island but we are branded as ugly or morons with a government that just perpetuates that idea
>>85424492>You probably look mint the dwbi, Sorry I don't know what that means>at least you are not Welsh like me.1/4 Welsh actually... but I was under the impression Welsh people were a bit less dysgenic looking in that uniquely 'Anglo' way.>Its a shame I do love our little island but we are branded as ugly or morons with a government that just perpetuates that ideaI was quite harsh in the OP but I needed to get this pent up frustration and misery out. I want the best for our home and there are still a few things I do like such as our humour, small villages and countryside usually being rather nice and our food despite its rep. But I also can't help but compare us to places like mainland Europe just in terms of the quality of the towns or how their people seem to have not completely given up and combined with the decline it paints a bleak picture and makes me feel bad for being from here.
>>85424558I meant you probably look fine dont worry about it. I think the harshness is warranted given our situation. I hate how people clap like seals at some random Swiss or German villages as gold standard without even considering places like the cotswolds just cause they saw a shithole like Birmingham. I was being a bit hyperbolic about wanting to leave, I think we got a good fight in us and if you step outside of a city you can see the beauty and kindness of us Britons. Don't listen to the doomer propaganda we are a good people with amazing culture.
>>85424578Oh well thank you. I do agree to an extent, there are some lovely places in this country but on average the German/Swiss village will be better. From what I have seen of lower class places in continental Europe like French banlieues at least most of those have some attempt at aesthetic appeal compared to the average council estate or a road of cheap square terrace houses. I want to see the good in most people in this country and I won't look down on all Brits just because of my self-loathing but there are some types that seem unique to this country that make it so hard not to dislike them.
>>85424376do you have british tits and a british pussy? what does it look like
>>85424454>I would like to be genuinely lovedYou want to be desired, not loved.>I don't think that is vapid as most women (and people in general) do.Just because most people do something doesn't make it less bad. Most people doomscroll, have irregular sleep schedules, are bad with money etc.
>>85424704Hm I would say its an unfair comparison since we are probably comparing centuries old villages to new builds (post 1945). Almost all old villages have a charm that is on par with continental stuff. We have a bias towards romantic/hellenistic architecture which continentals have whilst we have our own. People who have not seen this like you and I have are not to be listened to. Btw I am sorry you are affected by the "ugly" stereotype, I forgot to say earlier specifically. IMO we are no better or worse than anyone else and (maybe im biased cause I am Welsh/british) I think they are beautiful and unique (both for me and you). Dont listen to foreign retards who hate us cause of some political reason
>>85424454>>85424843My reply sounded mean, so I'd like to add that I acknowledge the psychological toll you have of needing to be constantly desired to feel secure, and how this prevents you from feeling truly loved for your intrinsic self. I want you to acknowledge this too.
>>85424870That is true. I can't deny a grass greener mentality even in areas where we have it good. And thank you. I am pretty thin skinned so all of the jokes and vitriol against us does make me quite sad sometimes. And >>85425019 don't worry you have been super nice, way nicer than I was expecting anyone to be. I appreciate the advice greatly and hope you can feel better about this too.
>>85425123> you have been super niceRight back at ya. It's a personal soft spot because I've loved a few women who fell short in the looks department and their insecurities being with a conventionally attractive man always ruined any chance at something. It is impossible to love someone who doesn't love themselves. Your love gets doubted all the time and it hurts. Please love yourself. Oh, and I love British accents.
You don't know what you're talking about. I'm a Brazilian reading this.I also hate my country, but I'm just going to leave it and accept the fact that I can never stop being Brazilian.
>>85424376If you are a british woman and want to know what love is then hit me up. I want to get to know you and love you
