Have you ever really tried being your TRUE self? Not the person society feels that you need to be. This girl says you know your not in your true self because everything in life is hard. Before you say "what does a foid know" consider that she is a nerdy black girl that grew up in the hood and now she walks around the city in clown makeup. Have you really lived how you want to live? Ever? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycoNYPd8new
My true self is petty, vindictive, and toxic, and I don't want to be that. Nor do I want to be around people who desire that from me.
>>85424981i dissociate and compartmentalize to such an extreme that i honestly don't know what is real. but im happy with that and just vibe with whatever my brain is doing. i guess in a way thats my "true" self.
>>85425005She addressed that in her video. She says your true self might not necessarily be good.
>>85425017And why would I want to not be what I consider "good"? I like to think I can elevate myself above my base nature.
>>85425028Because what is good or bad is completely dependent on the culture, the class you grow up in, and the ideologies and religions that influenced said culture. Its also arbitrary and always changing.
>>85425044So wishy-washy everything is arbitrary and subjective, nothing matters, yadda yadda nihilism fedora tip hits vapeYeah, I don't need a black girl dressed as a clown to spew that to me. Heard it before.
>>85424981>have you tried not being a larping normie?Do you know where you are, sir?>>85425013Sounds like you are suppressing your "true" self. If a friend of yours from across the world asks to hang out, perhaps you should do it.
>>85425099but you don't act your true self irl. Be honest.
>>85424981Why does she have a white girl accent if she grew up in the "hood" I'm highly suspect of these claims.
>>85425105You're really coming across as an arrogant asshole by assuming somebody isn't their true self because you don't accept their true self.
>>85425105Because the majority makes up the persona and those that do not perform are faced with consequences. I have slowly start to become more of my true self irl. Having been able to be it online has helped accept it, but it's incredibly frightening to lower your mask and you shouldn't act like it isn't.
>>85425099>suppressing your "true" selfthat person no longer exist or is fragmented into pieces. i have no interest in the years of therapy that would take be "normal". i am content being mentally ill. clown girl is a normfag, being herself is just quirky.
>>85424981There is no "TWUE" self, performance is what there is. This vapid chick's clown costume is just as much a curated faked persona as if she were an art hoe, or a gamer girl, or a femcel, or a Stacy. There isn't anything underneath that's more true than the masks we all wear. Even here, under anonymity, the personas of incels, edgelords, and racists will post their hyper-real garbage and then wake up tomorrow and interact with the real world in a different manner. Which is more real and less fake? What is the true you?
How do I get a girl like her? And don't say "be yourself"
>>85425205Be chad. Did you need to ask such a stupid question?
>>85424981those comments helped me understand why america has so many mass shootings
>>85425205>Grow your hair out long>Learn to play guitar >Start doing covers on YouTube >Build an audience >Comment on her videos
>>85424981>Have you ever really tried being your TRUE self?I honestly dont even know what thats supposed to look like
>>85424981i fear my true self. i don't if i am a psychopath, or a pedophile, or something like that.I'm still neurotic, explosively angry as fuck and perfectionistic but lazy/scared of continuing process. I know our "true" selves are not completely immutable , but i wonder how truly changeable those things can be instead of just using coping techniques to mask whats inside
Black chicks like Chris Cornell? That's a new one for me.
>>85425481don't tell me you're some retard who thought black people were a hivemind monolith. i've met plenty of black people who knew about soundgarden and the like. go outside more, anon. stop getting your life experience from graphs on an imageboard
>>85425508I grew up in the South surrounded by black people.
>>85424981yeah? alot of people's true selves would get them arrested i can't ignore society sadly
>>85424981True self to me is the diamond without the rough or refined gold. I'm working towards being that version of me. Naturally, that process involves dealing with the rough and the impurities for a time.My ideal self would require spending money on some purely aesthetic wear and I won't say I'll never have it made, but it'll be after tending to a lot of more practical matters first.
My true self is when I turn the lights off in my room, lean back in my uncomfortable armchair and drink until I fall asleep. I can't afford that now.
>>85424981This bitch is literally black why would I listen to her
>>85426440No, Anon, it's true self is white. Didn't you see the facepaint?
>>85426440Because being and not fitting in is far more severe than it is for anyone else.
>>85426469How do you know she's not just clowning, dawg?
>>85425005>should I explore my dark passions and rethink them into good?>no I'll just avoid them altogether and do what people think is goodGAAAYYYYYYY
>>85425530very true. closest i can get to expressing who i am without ending up in prison is art. sound cringe but the world has too many arbritary "rules" that it would love to force on me if i slipped up
>>85424981My true self hate women and would never listen to their advice
>>85424981>Have you ever really tried being your TRUE self?yeah foids hate that shit. kys now!
if i were my true self i would probably be pretty gay without actually being homosexual
>>85425459JUST LET GO!>>85425481>>85425508BLACK Hole Sun