How many times do you get flaked out on before you unadd someone? obviously this is about online friends, it is r9k after all.im thinking twice. one is understandable, do it a second time and ill just automatically assume that you've got no interest in being friends with me.
People get one chance. After that, I don't make plans with them. The ball is in their court, and they can either reach out to me or leave me alone.
if you feel like you NEED to unadd someone for them to pay attention to your feelings that could be a sign they are too difficult to work with or it could just be a sign of you being BPD
