after i checked up on her and she humilliated me by showing messages of her new boyfriend and her flirting with him i blocked her and she messaged me on an alt, where she apologized and said she didn't want to do that but was told to, the whole day we talked about the past and how she would have never broke up with me if i didn't compliment my female friend, I asked her to be my gf again beecause i was lonely but she said she already had a bf and that after our relationship she doesn't wanna depend on someone againidk what she wants
>>85426573Why you are entertaining a female who has a severe personality disorder is what I don't really understand just don't engage If you can get one girlfriend from your genetic material chances are you can get another more stable one I understand it takes time to heal but give it that give it time to heal don't jump into anything too quick and work on yourself and your own well-being
>>85426589im lonely and i had depended on her for happiness, I know you are right but it's hardAnd i've been regarded as an inceel, even by her, she would joke how she could hav 1000 men message her
I have BPD. I say she needs therapy and so do you. She doesn't know what she wants and acts reckless because she doesn't know how to act. It's not her fault to be born like this but it is her fault to not do something to change. Having a relationship with a BPD person is hard, and not so many people are prepared to do so and not so many BPD persons are ready to have a relationship either. I would really recommend therapy for both of you. Do not stay in this relationship it will only end up bad for everyone. She is not ready and either are you
BPD women chase wild emotions, she's just playing with you. Do you even care about the advice you're going to receive? If you are with her because you are lonely, and you don't want to leave her, then you're going to keep suffering.
not OP but my bipolar gf ghosted me and I have no way to contact her again, should I give me dad her phone number? he wanted to text her himself after I confided in him about herIt's been a week since we last talked and I'm pretty sure she'll never contact me again so I just wanna throw the hail mary and give up on happiness
>>85426835>>85426826I want to listen to the advice, but I love the girlI can make this work>>85426865Wait one more week2 weeks is all it takes for these girls to move on, sometimes even a day like for mine who got a new bf right after breaking up
>>85426573She sounds like a terrible person and you shouldn't waste a second more on her. She humiliated you because she wanted to, and wrote you again blaming her bf because women despise responsibility for their own actions. Sorry to chud out on you like this, but you deserve better and you'll find better if you look hard enough.
>>85426605>you have an addiction>I know but it's hard ;(>k. get over it anyway faggotall you need to know.>what's going on with my ex?It doesn't matter anymore.She broke up with you.>>85426826The BPD person needs therapy to change, anon needs therapy as a victim. Just clarifying it's not his fault.>>85426865No. Stop being dumb. It's over.Getting over people involved just makes it worse. Stop doing this to yourselves.
>>85426971What if I don't care what you think? My dad offered to message her himselfGiving up is what faggots and niggers do
>>85426573>I asked her to be my gf again
