cant make frends in one of the biggest cities my existence is a joke
>>85426638Why not? Do you do anything to try to make friends, if so, why do they fail? NYC?
New yorrrrkkk new yorrrkkk
big cities are worse for relationshipsthe sheer amount of people desensitises and creates hypercompetitionyou're just a number at that point
>>85426651san diego guy is that you?
New yorrrkkk new yorrrkkkkI miss the people watching
its even worse if youre some form of NDi just wanna go somewhere that has open space vegetation, not a lot of people so i can sit around and feed the animals and be in nature
>>85426662No, I also don't know what anon your referring to.
>>85426638Big cities are alienating environments where everyone is in their own bubble and talking to strangers in public is something only teens and elderly people do, everyone else is glued to their phones and only associates with their social circles. Even at mixer/meetup events supposedly for meeting new people, it's just everyone who already knows each other talking together.
>>85426694NORTH DAKOTA OMG I NORTH DAKOTA MENTIONED!!!
>>85426723i meant neurodivergent
>>85426726WRONG its spelled NORTH DAKOTA
>>85426723ND means "No Dick"
>>85426729pleasespare me
>>85426739NEVER!!!DID YOU KNOW THE STATE FLOWER OF NORTH DAKOTA IS THE PRARIE ROSE??? IT DOESNT EVEN LOOK LIKE A ROSE!!!but of course you knew because NORTH DAKOTA!!!
Are you doing anything productive OP? As an adult man you generally need some kind of shared productive endeaver to meet and appreciate other adult men. Sports, business, the army, whatever it is you're not gonna become close to dudes who you arent building something with.
>>85426651old ugly menhera autistic>>85426661works fine enough for everyone else here? thinking its just me>>85426714its like this in every city desu. ive been to a wide range.>>85426750i work remotely and everyone in hobby spaces is closed off already. everyone i once knew, men and women alike, are closed off in their own bubbles with their own family
i would prefer to live on the outskirts of the city with easy access to nature, but my finances demand i live within iti hate it
>>85426723I used to work in Fargo. I liked it there.
>>85426792 get out of the hospital again?>>85426796Really?? What did you do?? Did you get to see all the beautiful sights and smell the smells of our great 39th state North Dakota?
>>85426792How old how ugly? The mental health is also probably downstream of or at least worsened by the social situation.>works fine for everyone elseIt really doesnt the cities are full of others suffering you just don't notice them the same way most people dont notice you.>everyone in hobby spaces is closed off alreadyWhat does that mean? Surely you aren't expecting to show up to a gamestore and be issued a set of friends? You have to put time in, understand that you're coming from behind here. Did you used to have friends? Do any kind of social activity prior to this slump? What do you do for work and do you have any kind of interests?
