is this a good way to finally get TOPPED on grindr? serious thread with serious answers only>trim my body hair instead of fully shaving, it's so much easier and still looks okay>don't bother with makeup or tryharding to look feminine, just wear normal dude clothes but slightly effeminate>check my ass to see if it's naturally clean every day, avoid enemas since they take too long and are too much trouble. light douches are okay>when my ass is clean, hop on grindr and find someone to fuck me. ask for a dick pic, then when received send an ass pic>always make the guy wear a condom even when sucking him, not taking any chances. and don't kiss weird looking mouths>ask the guy to become fwb's if the sex was goodi've repressed myself for so long, i can't hold it in anymore... i wish i wasn't like this, but i can't lie to my own body's natural instincts and urges. internalized homophobia isn't enough to contain myself anymore when i now fantasize about being manhandled while being pounded in the ass every day, it's actually a problem
>>85429072sure, mango ahead
>>85429072Yeah but I hope you know it won't be as hot as that webm
>>85429161that's what i feared for a long time, that i was just porn addicted and wouldn't experience arousal in irl situations. so i quit porn for about a month and that's when my libido got out of hand, i realized it's the context of being used and abused by a big strong man that's at the core of my attraction. if anything most porn fails to encapsulate the feeling fully, which is why i better like to erp with AI now since it directly delivers on the context
>>85429188with the right guy that you really have a connection with, the sex will be BETTER than that videoalso, if I was the guy getting his cock sucked in OP video I would be getting my tongue up in that bussy as soon as that little slut turned around eating a boy out as he goes down on your is almost as good as topping him imo
>>85429072>trim my body hair instead of fully shaving, it's so much easier and still looks okayDoesn't matter that much.>don't bother with makeup or tryharding to look feminine, just wear normal dude clothes but slightly effeminateIf you're not agp, then yeah, sure. I am agp and dolling up is better for me.>check my ass to see if it's naturally clean every day, avoid enemas since they take too long and are too much trouble. light douches are okayYES!!!!>when my ass is clean, hop on grindr and find someone to fuck me. ask for a dick pic, then when received send an ass picYep, that works.>always make the guy wear a condom even when sucking him, not taking any chances. and don't kiss weird looking mouthsYes. Although sucking without condom is much safer than the panicards online claim.>ask the guy to become fwb's if the sex was goodYep.Would also add: Only meet guys first in a public space with a lot of people and cameras around. Even better if you have a friend that know where you are. Don't be turbo paranoid but don't be neglectful either. Plenty of dangerous weirdos out there.I hope you did some anal training (if not, you should - try to coom from anal only at home) so you can fully enjoy being used a guy without pain.Once you gain some confidence, switch to dating for a relationship. It's way more comfy to have your high libido bro around you to cuddle.Good luck, anon!
>>85429221ew i'm not into getting rimmed but you do you>>85429256thx for the advice. meeting the guy in a public space first is smart but idk where, and what's the point if we go to my place right after. and yeah i did plenty of anal training, it was too good not to do despite my coping lol. i wonder if i should even skip grindr and go straight to dating, it'd probably be safer and more reliable
>>85429356>meeting the guy in a public space first is smart but idk where, and what's the point if we go to my place right afterMost abusive weirdos give plenty of clues from the first sight that you can pick up while you're still in public and just change your mind.>wonder if i should even skip grindr and go straight to datingIf you can, then YES, do that.I live in a very safe country and was more afraid I wouldn't like the sex IRL so that's why I went the grindr route first. No regrets, all things considered, but I could've gone straight to dating, for sure. But at least I found out beforehand that it's not just a fantasy and that I really like being sexually submissive to guys.The reason I'm telling you to seek dating is because finding love as a fag is a bit different than finding love as straggot. Gay dating is rife with hook-ups but once you find a guy to commit, it's way more comfy and totally worth it.>did plenty of anal training, it was too good not to do despite my coping lolyeah, it's "over"go date a strong guy and enjoy life.>webmscrew you, anon. My bf will be home only 3 hours from now. And I still got some work to do. How am I going to do that when I know yearn to be fucked? :(
