I never had a gf (with 30+).In my 20s I asked 3 young women if they wanted to be my gf. They all said no. So I never had one.There have been women who wanted to be my gf, but I didn't felt any love for them, so they were just not an option.I see myself as involuntary celibate. I would really like to have a gf and it makes me sad that I never had one. But of course I would only want a women that I love. Otherwise there would be no point in having a relationship with her.The argument "you're only an incel if you would take any girl as gf" is beyond retarded.
