Is there any actual reason you can't get a gf? Aren't you just anxious?
>>85451617No. I don't look good enough
>>85451617i have an infiriority complexXDXDXD
>>85451617Honestly I think my main limit is my social ineptitude and I dont know how to meet people irl
>>85451617I'm broke,no friends and no social skills. Also ugly and way behind socially for my age at 30.
>>85451617I'm unlikeable and boring, I'm also anxious yeah.
>>85451617I've never asked anyone out, and it's probably too late for that. I haven't had the practice relationships other normies have gone through. Any women around my age are probably more career/social status-oriented.
>>85451617Women dont like anxious and shy men. Cant change beign shy.
I don't have any kind of life and I don't have anything to say, I can't imagine trying to inflict my presence on a girl
>>85451617>...can't get...cuz I'm the girlfriend and i need a bf.
>>85451617im autistic and mid looking. no way im getting a gf
>>85451617Don't want one, 2D is superior.
Part of me wants a gf but another part of me understands that I will lose some of my privacy and freedom if I start a relationship which I find unpleasant.
>>85451617i'm aroace i tried dating but honestly i don't feel anything except like shit when i dump them.
>>85451617i'm a male with bpdtismdhd o algo
>>85451617My heart is filled with so much rage that it bleeds into my face and personality. I'm also a weird annoying faggot so that probably doesn't help
>>85451617i don't know where to meet women naturally, everywhere i hang out and all my friend groups just happen to be 99% men or unavailable womeni don't want to use dating apps because it feels like you'd only find hookups and shallow connections there with people i'd never actually get along with, i don't want to "play a game" i want to develop a relationship naturally
>>85451617Why do you care faggot?
>>85451617I'm "broken", anonsLike I genuinely can't feel love, I just do the stuff I do because I've been conditioned to do so from the way I was brought upI've never had a gf but I've had had tons of situationships, flirty friendships, and random flingsSome of them do try to be my gf and they were sincere about itThey'd hang out with me, buy me food or cook for me, and send me nudes occasionally but I genuinely felt nothing
>>85451617I'm like 300 lbs. and struggle with food addiction. I'm also racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, etc., so I have trouble making friends, too, as those who are like me also hate fat people, to which I am. No, I can't change my personality, but I am working on my addiction through meaningful diet changes. It's tough to work through addiction alone. I'm not rich either, so no salvation except by my own hand.
I just dont think I want a gf. I am busy working on my art and sleeping because I have a manual job.
>>85451617I have no self-esteem, no confidence, low affect, self-sabotage issues, a fundamental distrust of people and a very hard time talking and coming up with things to say.I'm multiple layers deep of undatable
>>85451617Day 11 of bed rotting: Things will get worse before they get better
>>85451617im too ugly for onei also just play vidya all day
I just don't think I'm worth it, I don't really enrich the lives of people I know and share with in any meaningful way so I have nothing to offer. Got lucky with family too so it's not like I'm desperately lonely or something like that
>>85451617I can give a few things to motivate it>My personality gives girls the ickThis is the big one and I can't really change it, girls have told me this straight up when I was younger, I thought you were cool/got curious about you from your looks then felt turned off after talking sorta thing. I'm weird, I'm a coward, I'm avoidant, I'm perverse, I'm dumb, I'm submissive and I have a weak fragile ego >I'm balding>My social skills are bad>I am premature and have slight ED
It's been so long since I could ever confirm if a woman ever found me attractive and there is really no way for me to meet women where I live and my hobbies aren't exactly filled with single young womenI've been able to get numbers but they never respond or ever want to do anything with meI need a drink
>>85453567relatable. Life isn't easy for us ugly men
>>85453575I dont think I am ugly but we live in clown world where if you aren't 7+ you wont get anything.Whatever, it'll all come to an end soon
>>85451617Literally doesnt work that way.>>85453584>it'll all come to an end soonIt sure will anon, any good ways you can recommend for heroing?
>>85453592>HeroingAnon, I'm saying is that this clown world shit will end because people are going to get tired of this crap or everything will break down because the men have decided to check out of everything
>>85453604You are right but heroing is also a check out way.
>>85453612I refuse to die by an heroingIf I'm going to die, it better be either by old age or combat
>>85451617I am 6'1, probably like a 6/10, I make good money, I think I'm pretty chill and not an annoying faggot however I am also autistic and avoidant.A lot of women hate me as soon as they meet me. I just don't think I'm really compatible with the normie world. Women want expensive things, status symbols, displays of aggression and confidence, travelling, I don't really value any of those things.I have asked out a couple of girls before who I felt like I had chemistry with and they basically just stopped talking to me afterwards. I don't really have any confidence left in my ability to give women what they want so I just stopped trying.
>>85451617I'm not the best looking man in a 250 mile radius and I don't have money for foids to steal, so I don't exist to foids.
>>85451617>any actual reason you can't get a gfYeah. I'm ugly, depressed, and young divorcee with a kid.Believe it or not that combo isn't a huge hit with the ladies
>>85453676Believe me, women are so shallow when it comes to travel
>>85454538>young divorcee with a kid.You should probably focus on the kid's development, you already got to reproduce anyway
>>85454551>should probably focus on the kid's development,Why do people just assume the kid somehow isn't my main priority. Kid comes first, obviously. I still have the capacity to be lonely though.
>>85451617mentally illuglyi will die alone
>>85451617Yeah. Being poor.My shitty wage is barely enough to keep me afloat and I don't really feel like cutting expenses and investing time into trying to find a woman and then pour money into that relationship. I would rather jack off that participate in the money sink that is dating.
>>85454644I dunno, your post kind of implied that.But I just think you should just forget about women and focus on your kid, maybe you could find a 2nd wife
>>85454684>forget about women>you could find a 2nd wifeYou realize those are contradictory statements, yeah? I'm not barhopping or scrolling tinder or whatever. I just wish I had a woman I could be with. A support system is good for the soul
>>85451617I have absolutely no issues with women. I just refuse to date again until I meet the perfect one to have a life with. Until then I can just hook up with girls I find attractive and hang out with close friends. I have all my emotional and physical needs met.
>>85454705What I'm saying is that dont try to find a new wife, let her come to you
>>85454721Kinda where I been the last few years
>>85454741Good, then take that energy that would have been wasted on trying to find a new woman into your kid's lifeSet him up with a childhood friend, get him super socializedFuck man if that was my kid, thats what I would do
>>85451617>am very skinny>black>kind of old (late-30s)>don't live up to the stereotypes and social expectations related to my demographics>introverted/laconic demeanor>don't drink, smoke, or vape>can't really be 'controlled'That's what mostly comes to mind, anyway.
>>85451617>5'4 (163 cm)>poor>scrawny>live in the middle of shitsville nowhere where 80% of people are boomersI think about having a real gf the same way I think about winning the billion dollar lottery. Just something to fantasize about before passing out at night because it's just as likely.
jawline & height
I'm an alcoholic and I'm almost always hungover to some extent, which makes social interaction harder without any alcohol
>>85455499Consider quitting alcohol via a 12-step program
>>85451617There's nothing about me that's appealing to women
>>85452277>bpdtismdhd o algoFucking kek i love you anon. Im using that from now on
>>85451617Im too spergy, freaky and reclusive to satisfy a woman. Plus im not even straight so i just assume every woman will lose respect and leave me for it
I had a gf that became my wife. We ended up getting divorced though. She was the only woman that I ever loved, so I kinda just gave up on dating
>>85456464nightmarefuel anon. How did the relationship deteriorate?
>>85456479Just your typical woman stuff. Growing bored and wanting something else. Saying I don't give her enough attention blah blah blah
>>85451617I have a specific type but I'm not my type's type and I refuse to settle for the dregs and being alone has its merits that are far superior to being in an unsatisfying relationship.
