How many women do incels approach a year? I'm at the age where I no longer care about women but for the younger guys why do they claim they're incels while probably not even approaching 10 women in their life to get to know them romantically?
>just harass random women on the street who only want chad bro
>>85482814In my years when the advice was likeliest to work, I worked on myself and asked out my female acquaintances that from among I had built rapport with and was on friendly terms, if I initially liked them. All of them were my type, and they all turned me down. Keep in mind it takes kind of a while to meet a new woman with whom that kind of relationship begins to be possible, and these women all could have accepted me and it wouldn't have been weird or out of the blue or anything. They all chose not to. This happened 4 times explicitly and maybe a dozen times implicitly where I was on good enough terms with my female acquaintances that if one of them wanted, they could have made it explicit themselves like how women in general do for tall guys or rich guys. After thinking about it, nobody was ever at fault for anything. I had did my best and presented my, not exceptional, but adequate enough self. I was turned down because I was simply unlucky enough to not meet a woman for whom an adequate guy who liked her and treated her well was enough at the moment. Maybe they'll cock carousel for awhile and then settle down with some other merely adequate guy. I'm repulsed by them now. This mostly has been a chronic pain and fatigue to my daily life and my faith, hope, and charity. I can say rationally that I have faith in women, I can hope that I find one, and I can be charitable to their circumstances, but emotionally I've become very distant to the prospect. College is long gone now, and highschool feels like an era ago. I am completely alienated and isolated but nothing has changed, only one girl from back then still messages me occasionally. We don't really have any meaningful exchanges beyond maintaining a snapchat streak (we're zoomers and therefore old).
>>85483298I will never do any PUA shit or cold approaches, it's inhuman to me. It's like how I imagine bugs mate with each other, it's not even mammalian. I am sociable enough to be a cyborg / failed normie. I don't have difficulty talking to strangers. But there is no homogeneity even of culture, we're all nobodies in nowhere-land, with somewhat surly attitudes and nothing but the most shallow small-talk or sarcastic flippant quip gets a fake smile and some willingness to entertain me. Nobody has ever offered ME to share contact info or to continue anything I've started. And then there's the retort, "don't you just have too high of standards?" Like I said before, I can intellectually understand charity. I can understand what a fatass goes through. I was a chubby kid throughout elementary school before I played sports in highschool, and then in college I got chubby again because I didn't know how to diet. It's a lot to learn if you're uninitiated and a beginner and a lot to expect from someone with no exposure to techniques of self-control. The criticism of most men seems to be that they could opt for unattractive self-harming insane and emotional landwhale feminist retards if they so chose. But this is not the case if you go outside. Most women seem like they're trying their best with what they know. And I'm so good at dieting and cooking now (having lost 2/3 of my bodyfat in exactly the way I planned to do so over a period of weeks) that I could probably get a hypothetical obese girlfriend into slim shape.
>>85482814>approach womenAre you talking about at clubs or bars or just approaching random women in the street and the supermarket? Because the latter is pretty much socially unacceptable in 2026.
>>85482814>How many women do incels approach a year0> why do they claim they're incels while probably not even approaching 10 women in their life to get to know them romanticallyThey don't approach women cause they don't want to be publicly humiliatedAny other questions?
>incels>approach 404
>>85483303But I don't come close. I'm just languishing for nothing. I experienced the misfortune of being born in the wrong time and place and living and being in the wrong time and place my whole life so that I just was never liked back. That's literally all it comes down to. While I get denied from hundreds of job applications, my reasonably looksmatched dating prospect goes out with a broke loser because he's tall. While I get rejected from every woman I warm approach, normies get in for free. Frankly some women even take the initiative on them instead. Guys shorter than me have been lucky enough. I've seen it with my eyes. While I am more active than I assume every single advice-peddler and huckster online unless they're willing to prove otherwise, I'm told to go outside. Or to go to some carnival or music concert. As if my problem was impetuousness or small-mindedness. Have I tried taking a shower with tactical soap? It's flippancy. Inane. Just be honest and deride me plainly without the fucking perfidy. >why don't you just approach 10 women in your life to get to know them romantically Okay I'll show you what that looks like. So what's your magic move to suddenly compel a woman into choosing to like you back after you run up against this over n amount of times? PUA shit? Some derivative of PUA shit? Tactical soap? You don't have your ear to the ground and you're not living through my timeline. Just admit you don't know what you're talking about and fuck off back to collecting star wars funko pops or whatever retarded shit it is that you pothead faggots do with your free time.
>>85482830Women don't "only want chad", they want muscular well-dressed self-sufficient men who are self-confident and able to hold refreshing conversation.You don't need to be a chad to be or become that.
>>85483298Approaching women from a platonic angle doesn't really work. You need to create genuine desire. She needs to feel compelled to seek our your attention. If you aren't creating that effect yet, you haven't "worked on" the right things.
>>85482814The only success i ever had was doing the pua borderline misogynist shit. going up to girls on the street works but it is super cringe and chad doesnt have to do it. normies always win and have life on easy mode, if you have to resort to this shit its an uphill battle at best.
>>85482830>act like a mute thinking getting women doesn't involve interacting with them.Kys dysgenic retard.
>>85482814Approaching is jester. Become friends with a girl and let her fall in love with you
>>85483456>jesterkill yourself man. just do it
>>85483459Keep dancing for her attention monkey. Maybe she'll take her eyes off of Chad for a few seconds to toss some crumbs of attention your way
>>85483481people like you are genuinely humourless and wonder why the world is going to shit.
>>85482814I have never done that and I never will. Foids are only capable of being a detriment to my life
>>85483489I have no delusions as to why the world is going to shit. It's because of fags like you
>>85483508alright bro, make sure to do the fluoride stare next time someone tries to make you laugh. youre a big manly man who is so above getting pussy he wont debase himself through... humour? whats the point when you cant even do the cool brooding asshole right?
>>85483527Lmao now you're just making shit up I have no clue what you're talking about zoomie
>>85483557yes its called having original thoughts, try it sometime unc
>>85482814I live in Canada, approaching random strangers is considered rude here. So zero.
>>85483527He's right, you're a jester faggot and probably a cuck.
>>85483614>probablywell atleast im not certainly an incel, like you
>>85483435>xyz doesn't really work.Except for when it does? Then the explanation is what? I thought I preemptively told you to fuck off?
>>85483456>befriend a female and waste months just to find out she doesn't have mutual feeling.Download grindr now faggot.
>>85483791It's pretty obvious within the first week if she's interested in you. I've dated plenty of friends
>>85482814Im 36 and never approached a woman in my life. I havent spoken to a woman in 25 years and have never spoken to a woman, one on one or alone before in my life. I have never seen any signs of flirting or possible attraction so I stayed away. That simple.
>>85483805thats an acquaintance then, friends are usually a few months in. not trying to be a semantics asshole but befriending someone to date them is different than chatting them up for a week.
>>85483818Depends on the person ig. You can become friends in a week or two
>>85482814i've approached two this year, both gave me their number only to ghost me.
>>85483924That means your looks attracted them snd your personality scared them off
>>85483809wait, what? how? like, not even as an acquaintance? or to, like, a coworker or a cashier or something?
>>85483950i guess but why give me a number at all? the second of these two girls could not have been more enthusiastic when she was speaking to me, and yet when i got home, i found that i had been discarded like single-use plastic. how am i supposed to talk to another woman with any kind of confidence if that's how they act when they never want to hear from me again?
>>85482814because women are evil and 90% will not talk to you unless you meet specific physical criteria which are almost never average for anything.
>>85482814>approaching 10 women in their life to get to know themIn what fucking scenario does a man ever need to talk to a random woman? They share nothing in common and hobbies do not overlap. The only way to naturally get to know one without advertising that you only care about the bodily elements, is by forced interaction via sources like school or work. If men and women actually shared interests, then you would see them in non romantic friendships frequently.
>>85482814>How many women do incels approach a year?none?
>>85483446Only time i had a girl interested in me was at a job i no longer gave a fuck about and acted like a sarcastic asshole. Real sobering shit towards the nature of the femnoid.
>>85483809>i havent spoken to a woman in 25 years Those must have been a very relaxing 25 years.
>>85482814waste of time and effort, 2D is superior in ALL aspects.
>>85483417They want CHAD. It's not what you do, it's how you look doing it.
>>85483456>Become friends with a girl and let her fall in love with youIf that fails, how is that any better than cold approaching? I'd say it's worse since you wasting all that time trying to make a woman stealthily fall for you only to be rejected in the end. I don't necessarily think cold approaching is a flawless method, but at least you're upfront with your intentions and can move on quickly since its all on the spot.
I dont approach women.
>>85482814I made an attempt at a woman I worked with and she just played with my heart and used me for attention while orbitting some married asshole in another dept., so I cut it off. I'm done approaching women for the rest of my life tbqh.
>>85482830>hate women>still feel obligated not to "harass" themYou kinda dont deserve to breed
>>85483417>they want muscular well-dressed self-sufficient men who are self-confident and able to hold refreshing conversation.
Women do not want me and so I do not approach them
>>85482814>the younger guys why do they claim they're incels while probably not even approaching 10 women in their lifeThats litteral harassment and women despise that.Never did that and never will. Dont push people to harass women in the street or commit any other misdemeanors
>>85483489>waaa waaaaWorld is sinking dont get mad at people learning to swim.
>>85484775You are in a prison of your own mind and deserve slavery.
>>85483489Jestering can only achieve a clown world, well we live in one, happy?
>>85484339If you can pull out cold aproach you have top tier looks, therefore you would be full in female attention without cold aproach. It's catch 22.
>>85484784>>85484794well there you go, more witless complaining. no wonder girls dont like you, you cant even disarm them with a shitty joke. come to think of it i dont think i've ever heard a brown person say something funny before, maybe thats where the whole "jester" thing comes from, it also reads very anti white.
>>85484790Not really youre just either delusional or baiting people into breaking the law. I go out all the time and have never seen anyone muh heckin approach. Thats not a thing outside of the US and when you ask any woman on my country shell tell you that hitting on random women in the street is creepy and harassment
>>85484775Approaching != harassment.
>>85484857Talking to people in public isnt harassment you freak. Your rightful place is mining lithium with your hands
I have never approached a woman or even thought to. However, women have sometimes thought that I was approaching them, or that I was thinking to do so. How can I tell? Because they suddenly, for what seems like no reason, turned distant and cold, excusing themselves and giving tightlipped smiles, only replying when forced to.
>>85482814>How many women do incels approach a year?0, never approached>while probably not even approaching 10 women in their life to get to know them romanticallyNo point in doing that unless youre uberattractive. Because that never works, thats not what women want (they want to be left alone) and especially not have ugly or average men trying to talk to them in the street
>>85484881Talking women in the street is textbook street harassment. The street is just for going from point a to point b not harassing/bothering women.Dont quote me on that, thats litteraly what state backed womens right group say in my country
>>85484892>Dont quote me on that, thats litteraly what state backed womens right group say in my countryWell they're wrong, as that's what any court of law says in any country.That's just female hysteria.
>>85484900As a follow up to this: if she expresses no interest / disdain, and you continue anyway, then yes, I can see an argument to be made for harassment. But otherwise you're literally suggesting:>excuse me miss, but->AAAA HELP ME POLICE I'M BEING RAPED>...I was just wanting to ask for directions>OH phew sorry you're just ugly so I assumed otherwise>police get there>What seems to be the problem ma'am>THIS MAN WAS UGLY NEAR ME, ARREST HIM>Bosnian scum, how dare you!
>>85484900>theyre wrongTheyre not>any court of lawCourts of law agree with them. >Remarks or behavior of a sexual or sexist nature, or which undermine a person's dignity due to their degrading or humiliating character, or which create an intimidating, hostile, or offensive situation for that person.So if a woman ever feels intimidated or threatened by you talking or looking at her thats street harassment
>>85484911No more like>excuse me miss, but>AAAA GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME, POLICE HES CREATED AN UNSAFE AND INTIMIDATING SITUATION>police get there>What seems to be the problem ma'am>THIS MAN WAS HARASSMING ME CREATING A HOSTILE AND UNSAFE ENVIRONMENT >*guy gets fined, fired, blacklisted from any job and possibly detained*
>>85484916eh, seems hard to prove, if cops bother you just dont admit to anything.
>>85484932>seems hard to proveTheres no need to. Her simple witness is enough. Believe all women is a law in my hyperfeminist shithole
>>85484892>my countryWhat country, you lying freak?Besides even if you were correct, slavish
>>85484928That's not how that plays out (via streets).However I do concede that's how it plays out in the office environment.Either way women have made things grim.
>>85484937where do you live? im in canada and even this libtard hellhole isnt that bad
>>85484943fr*nce. The above posts are litteraly quoting legislation. I work in another city and thats the most liked post of women saying they hate being approach and never to do it
>>85484946>thats not how it playsThats exactly how it goes. Same with intrusive staring btw.>>85484950france.
>>85484962lmao doesnt france have brown people running around pulling scams? are you sure you wont be ok?
>>85484962>FranceAh. I was thinking it was south korea or something.Yeah france has the added demerit of algerians, moroccans, and other such bullshit that it's sadly actually safer for them to take such an approach because the governments are allergic to being seen as racist, but pro-woman is fine. My condolences.
>>85484954Your country is full of migrants running around raping women and injecting them with hypodermic needles and your too much of a pussy to try to chat one up in the street for fear of the cops coming after you lmao. Your country is exactly the shithole you deserve
>>85484972Yes but browns are exempt from all of that shit since they will kever face any repercussions, they claim racism not to get arrested, will never face trials and cannot get fired (if they work at all which is rare).Also all of our anti harassment campain say only whites harass
>>85484979damn wtf is wrong with your country? and i thought canada was bad, white people are targeted here too with brown people being let off the hook, but not to that point.
>>85484977Yeah but thats what they want, they hate being approached or having french men try to talk to them pic>chat one upThats not what they want. Also they despise itPicrel most popular comment on my citys plebbit
>>85484991so clearly lots of men are doing it and facing no repercussions? i get the brown people racism angle or whatever, but some of those guys must be white.
>>85483994I don't know but I'm guessing they gave their numbers so you wouldn't get mad or abuse them if they reject you to your face. If you're going to approach women that's common and understandable if you're in their shoes. They don't know if you're going to snap after being rejected, they don't know you. So cut them a bit of slack and up your numbers of approaches if you want to get anywhere. Do you give up ina computer game when dying after a minute? No you recognise you must practice. But it takes many approaches, maybe 30 before you're acting normal and unnervous and you'll go through hell before you arrive there and even then you probably won't be totally comfortable doing it ever. As far as PUA stuff goes, this is how I go about it being mid aged - don't care about it, she probably won't be into you, and don't go for a number or anything other than to have a good few moments together. Sometimes she'll ask for your number. If you're young and starting out you should ask her for it, but act natural, and be someone you'd like to spend time with yourself. There's too much to say.
>>85484979Browns get away with that because they are braver than you and cops know they risk getting hurt if they enforce the law against them. You self police so hard that the cops dont even need to put the chains on you.Freedom isnt given its earned, you are a slave
>>85484991>I hate women so much>but I would never ever ever risk making one uncomfortableYeah man shitty situation but thats on you for being French you do deserve it on the genetic level and clearly the personal one going off of this thread. Do you think we should be holding disfigured genetic cripples hips and sliding their penis into a vagina for him so that he can get a woman pregnant and pass on his genes? Similarly you cant even make an attempt so what good are you?
>>85483383The 1st girl in your flouride stare series is basically every girl on /soc/. Dry texters, absolutely zero personality, fielding 100s of messages popping up at them. Technological society was a mistake
>>85485003>braverthey are not brave just stupid. there are rituals in countries like africa where they just walk up to lions "with chest" to scare them off. animals arent brave they just operate on instinct. also posing as a threat to the police is fucking stupid and you know it.
>>85484975Also picrel are our harassment campain. They say only whites do it.>>85484988Its a disgusting shithole and is also hyperfeminist, it hates its own population and celebrates its replacement >>85484997Yes, immigrants are doing it, but women complain about whites because its safer for them>some of the guy must be whitesNone. Again i have never ever seen a white man approached.
>>85485050ya we have that shit in the states/canada too, dont worry about it i stare women down when i go outside and dont face any issues.
>>85485016>i hate womenShow le where i said that in my post>but i would never harass one and get fired from my job + blacklistedYes>Similarly you cant even make an attempt so what good are you?Approaching isnt an attempt, its harassment and illegal.The rest of your post reads like personal resentment mixed with pseudo eugenics
>>85483298>I was turned down because I was simply unlucky enough to not meet a woman for whom an adequate guy who liked her and treated her well was enough at the moment. Rings true. Similar experience to me but it was 3 women not 4. I don't hate women but the whole experience is still crushing. What I found also depressing was that the women were probably also asked out by other men but stayed single. A friend's wife tried to set me up with her friend who I knew and got on well with. After we met quite a few times and she seemed interested I asked her out and she said no. 2 years later she's still single (although I don't know if I'd feel better or worse if she was dating someone shortly after I asked her). I don't know if it's a standards thing or what.
>>85485060A friend of mine has gotten fired for asking a colleague out for coffee. And another one is going to hr for staring at women. Dont want to do the same thing.Luckily i live in a town with zero young women anyway
>>85483459>>85483489Why must we be the ones who provide personality? Because foids have nothing going on inside?
>>85485038>posing as a threatPolice rape you because they know from experiance that you and everyone like you are docile slaves. A poison frog isnt eaten by the snake becuase the last time a snake ate that kind of frog it got sick and it dossnt want to do that again. You are a tasty nutritious frog and everyone knows it because the last 100 frogs they ate went down easy and tasted good. Anyways make all the cope you want, you will continue to suffer and you will deserve it, because you are fr*nch
>>85485136im not french, im not op. in america for instance most of the prison population is black or brown, you guys dont win in civilized society, and eat eachother alive and then complain about whitey keeping you down. nigger brown people are a threat to you too, even if youre also brown, actually especially if you are brown, there is literally no benefit to your behaviour besides attracting trashy foids and getting cheap drugs. also theres an entire subsection of the white population that mirrors your behaviour, its not even race you people are just stupid and low inhib.
>>85485109yes, foids are retarded, and have nothing going on inside their heads. thats why they laugh at my jokes and yours dont land, because humour isnt based on intelligence or whatever.
>>85482814if you have no legs do you really think it would be a good idea to attend a marathon? yeah, I don't think so
>>85485136>brooo just lose your job commit crime and harass women, they will never say yes but broooo just do it brooo
>>85485050All political, social, and cultural discourse, ideology, acceptable opinion, etc is about making white men poor, broke, stupid, fat and humiliated. If you get unsolicited advice, if you ask questions, if you want to know why life is this desperately miserable, you will notice that whatever form it takes, feedback is always hushing and nannying you back into being poor, broke, stupid, fat and humiliated. >literal psyop warning you to stop talking to women>stop being interested in women >stop being civil and forthcoming to a woman you desire It's all so tiresome
I got banned from my local gym for complimenting the woman next to me on a treadmill on her fitnessI have to drive an extra 10 minutes now
>>85485206So basically, always do the opposite of what they say?
>>85485213What exactly did you say?>Hey there, nice ass, a lot of work went into it, and probably other things too amirite?>Name's John, I'm somewhat of an expert around here>*farts loudly*>Yep, let me help to be of coachings you baby and you too can lift this 30 lbs of weight
none in person, 2 girls from this board. both said yes, one was a cute girl with mental issues (mainly bpd and schizo) and the other one is my current gf. i am ugly and balding, but got lucky. most women wouldn't even look in my general direction
>>85485206>donate to israel>support ukraine>diversity is our strength>there is no God>eggs bad
I guess it's a city/demographic thing. I can't count how many women I've interacted with positively. I've probably been "approached" more than I've approached lmao. Literally just bee yourself :)> I'm at the age where I no longer care about women Are you 90? How can you not care for great conversation with something that looks, smells and even feels good?
>>85484892Retardo
>>85484813Yeah, people overplay how effective it truly is. But once again, at least it's quick and easy to move on from compared to the slow-burn approach which will inevitably keep you in the friend zone.
>>85483417>they want muscular well-dressed self-sufficient men who are self-confident and able to hold refreshing conversation.So....Chad? Lol
>>85485357Women only keep in friends zone men they don't desire and this is catch 22 again, these men will not pull out cold aproach success.
>>85485307>reality doesnt exist because I said so
>>85483983I work in heavy construction, 98% male industry and the only women are in the office. Ive been getting groceries and food delivered and basically whatever I need off amazon. Only time I even hear a female voice is through a screen or a robo-call. Dont know how bad I truly am because I dont even interact with women anyway.
>>85483809>>85485762Kurosawa, I kneel
>>85485372>Ughhhhh noooo, I said we don't want CHAD, we just want a muscular dude with a big fat cock and a billion dollar self-made business and five supercars and a mansion and his own horse ranch and-kek foids are so fucking ridiculous, what a bunch of clowns
>>85484014>he thinks you need to have the same hobbies as the woman you're dating.Are you looking for a butt buddy or a gf? If you're a guy who stays at home 24/7 shitposting and jerking off to cartoon figures you're 100% not going to find a woman that has the same hobbies as you. You sound like a giant retard.
>>85484775I can already tell what type of physiognomy you have.
>>85482814This advice always felt like when I was in school and other kids would use my naivety to get me to do things that embarrass myself, approaching women on the street or anywhere but a bar would never work surely
>>85482814>sir it's very important that you engage in the act of woman-ego-inflating>sir i know women dont have interest in you, but it's important you continue to hopelessly feed their ego>what do you mean you wont approach them when it's clear they have no interest in you? you must inflate their fragile egosgotta say the MGTOW movement really brought up some funny shit, years of telling "creepy men" to fuck off, then a movement that is basically just men peacefully leaving the dating scene becomes a problem
>>85486508I can already tell you eat with your hands and do not know what toilets are
>>85486550>then a movement that is basically just men peacefully leaving the dating scene becomes a problemWe have millions of women who spent their 20's and early 30's whoring around, are suddenly walling out in less than a year, and there's no longer any milquetoast loser pay-pigs for them to settle with to emotionally abuse while they refuse to die alonethis terrifies them
Approaching random strangers in my country is not a thing. I also have zero friends and I meet no one. No new people, nothing, none, zero. It's not that I don't want, I just have zero opportunities to try.
never met anyone who got a gf by approaching strangers
>>85485225I only said that her fitness was impressive, her speed on the treadmill was high and her distance ran was also high.She says thank you, and runs for about another 30 seconds and then takes off, comes back 5 minutes later with the manager and he tells me to leave.2 days later I come back and my card won't scan, I ask what the issue is and they tell me i'm not welcome back any more.
I'm curious, for robots who approached women and got rejected, but for some reason know where these women ended up, where have those women ended up now? Are they living it up with chad, dating someone similar/worse than yourself, single post wall hags, or something else?>>85486517This is the quintessential autism experience. Sorry anon
