How do you cope with being friendless? I am talking about who aren't close to anyone
I don't care about being friendless I wish I never had to be around people at all
>>85566022I never had friends in my life and legitimaly no one believes when I say It and tell me it's mental illness
>>85566034>>85566123How do ypu cope like how do ypu be happy or not anxious
>>85566022>How do you cope with being friendless?Constantly rotating between /r9k/, /x/, /his/, /lit/, /a/, /ic/, etcwasting my time getting into pointless debates on /his/ and such is my fav, i know not much will come of it, but i get really frustrated sometimes and its like a rush. Also, occasionally I will go back on the archives and go back to threads in where I 'won' and or successfully called out samefaging or something to feel good about myself. but all and all its pretty worthless.If I have the time I take extremally long walk around the place like 7 hour walks and forest and such while listing to tiktok fyp in my pocket (which mostly consist of edits) and imagining cool sicarios in relation to the audios, I also within this time I thing of ideas of a comic/manga which I (((will))) fully create one day and become loved and successful from, but only after i fully learnt how to draw ofc.I also just spend a lot of time like a lot of time jacking off, thats a given. I was born with a kinda curved dick, but beause mine is pretty big, small a curve are pretty noticeable so i very anxious that if i ever have a partner she will be weirded out or somethingIn the summer I just sit in the forest and sunbave, i sometimes think that the sun will change my bone structure, though its mostly just cope.I occasionally go to the small yet packed gym, do some curls, and shoulder presses on an easy weight, then quickly go the the changing rooms to see my pump, afterwards i just go to the matts area and just lay on my back listing to youtube for like an hour, the people there probably think I am weird, but oh well, what can you do. I occasionally read books relating to religion and such because it interests me, I sometimes fantasies about being some really cool philosopher which revolutionised theology or something and i have tons of edits.
>>85566134I accepted that I'm never going to have friends because I'm far too fucked in the head and if it's something entirely out of my control I cant change then theres no point thinking about it
does it count if someone has no friends for 9 years, none, 0, nada. but are very close with a sibling and practically "best friends" even as adults (sibling has 0 friends as well i think we're both retarded and/or autistic).
>>85566145Like I'm not that socially awkward, i have some acquaintances but certainly not friends, nobody texts me or goes out their way to talk me, its been like this for a couple of years now, not 1.I sometimes try and looksmax, and by that i just mean bone smash, and it actually worked, but i am never committed enough to lean down, what's the point you know?I talk to myself a lot, just keep talking to myself, it helped with my speech but I think its making me a bit funky if you know what i mean.umm there is more, but i dont want to spam this thread, if you want to hear more i will say it
You fall into engagement bait traps but unironicallyshitty trolling, parasocial stuff, discord harassment, sending money to girls so they answer to you, etc.
>>85566172I am a woman and men or women giving me attention doesn't make me feel less lonely
>>85566148Still how do not go crazy fro. Isolation
>>85566022Ai Chatbots and 4chan
>>85566397It distracts you and it is enough because not being lonely becomes fleeting, like being happy. You know it doesn't last.
i don't i'm very sad. i guess i eat badly? that feels good for a little bit
Comfy solitude is bliss
>>85566134It's a dog eat dog world yada yada better alone than with normies yada yada
the same way you do retard
I wish I knew how to cope. I'm feeling hopeless and desperate all the time. At some point I posted on a local social media app that I'd be willing to invite anyone to a dinner at a restaurant paid by me. But even free food wasn't good enough as an offer it seems because nobody replied. I'm doomed to stay alone forever.
>>85566134>allowing people to dictate whether you should feel happy or notThats pathetic desu
How do I not go crazy from ocd when I am friendless?
Video games and AI chatbots to kill the time
>>85567063meditation helps my OCD a lot<3
Well drop some discord tags anons
>>85566765>>85566784>>85566558>>85566537>>85566397>>85566518>>85566537>>85566545>>85566547Wanna vc anon how old are ypu
>>85567227>>85567227How old are ypu. Not allowed to post mine cause I am op
join this server if you're lonely /R2uG6cg9A
I'm mostly fine during the day playing vidya, watching Ytube, preparing/eating meals but nights are hard. Once in a while I get that feeling of deep loneliness but it tends to pass quickly and I try not to focus on it anyway. Sometimes I think about getting a cat or something but ehh...
>>85566022Being friendless is great. People are fucking annoying and just try to take advantage of you. I always get hangers on and people trying to be my friend even though I'm not a friendly or social guy. Never had a real/close friend my entire life, just girlfriends/lovers. I'm working toward living in the woods and if I never had to deal with anyone but a wife or two and kids it'd be perfect.>>85566034based.>>85566134By being a complete, healthy man. A man should be perfectly content being alone, because that is the default experience for a man. He should be self-reliant and comfortable with himself. He should not need others.
>>85566022I was able to connect with a few people because of my hobby (well to a very limited degree. We chat like 2 sentences a month maximum)
>>85566022I don't cope. I just suffer. I don't have the ability to talk to anyone anyway
>>85566022whoa black bettyget your cheeks slicked up and your asshole ready
>>85566022I don't cope cause I don't give a shit about it
>>85567405>>85567496>>85567493>>85567368>>85567347How old are ypu wanna vc anons
>>85567542roz spottedit's easier if you just outright mention you wanna talk to 23 or above desu
Friendless fucks always have a reason to be friendless fucks.>rude/evil>avoidant>envious>selfishThere's ALWAYS a reason. Never forget.You did this to yourself, and you will die alone.
>>85567605nta but who's roz
I discovered a new hell dimension of friendless. When you become genuinely nice and people suddenly flock to you like moths to a flame but you eventually realize it is all shallow. And a lot of them are using you. But i think i will escape this eventually.
>>85567619weird girl that lurks this board trying to sift through anons for a new bf after her ex dumped her. She is very picky, her words, not mine.
>>85567542I'm 35 and unless you're a sub-20 year old girl with a quiet, submissive, feminine personality and traditional values then no, I do not want to vc.
>>85567618Not really. I'm neither of these, my reason is because I can't trust people easily. I've been fucked over by people who I perceive as friends or allies at least, but they turn around and get me into trouble or something.
Does anyone want to vc
>>85567640we can play vidya. you have marvel rivals?
>>85566022overshare with strangers
>>85566022I love being alone. the peace and tranquility is marvelous. Time alone is time well spent, and time occupied by the noise and tedium of other people's bullshit is time wasted. Most people are animals completely without morals. They scramble around in the dirt trying to gather resources. SAD!
Manifesting a cool friend
>>85567710I don't play competitive multiplayer games.
Does anyone want to vc fml
>>85566022i dont. not well atleast. i smoke weed until i forget how much my life sucks and how bad i am at socializing until i pass out. then i wake up miserable replaying events from my past and do it all over again.
>>85567618i've known people who have all of these traits except for maybe avoidant and do just fine. the avoidant ones have a few close friends and a girlfriend too
>>85567948How old are ypu wanna vc
Bumping so I can read
>>8556799643 if thats a problem.
For me, all a "friend" is is someone I have to mask my true self around. So I'm much happier with no friends.
>>85567230i dont think they let white people join the viet cong
>>85566022oneyplays
Everyone ITT>teehee I totally have no friends>I mean I do hang out with people but they're not reeaaaal friends they don't care about meAlways like thatNo point talking about being legit friendless with you normies
Lately in the past 5 years or whatever, the last remaining friends I had, which were friends from middle school btw, they would do nothing but lecture me, draw me into lectures or I would end up getting a lecture from someone else due to them. It has been very damaging to me emotionally. No I basically am afraid of all people because they really don't do anything but try to give baseless, shitty lectures and they're very solipsistic also, it's like they think they're only people with life experience.I don't want friends like that. I want friends who just coexist and try to have a good time.
>>85566022I prefer being friendless
>>85566022I don't need 'friends' when I have you faggots to keep me in-line. Also, of course, my hobbies and interests.
I think I actually want friends
>>85570188Me too anon. When do all these normies get out of the way so we can hang out again?
