1. you're not a woman
2. dating someone who is stable is the actual antidote to traumatized people you fucking retard
3. your self-loathing disgusts me

>>85570792
op is a gay faggot by the way

>>85570802
>you're not a woman
i'm a cis woman and i couldn't give less of a fuck whether you believe me or not bitch
>to traumatized people you fucking retard
those are my preferences bitch i do whatever i want i can't help feeling jealous
>your self-loathing disgusts me
what am i supposed to do with that information?

>>85570802
You are a child with zero real life experience

>>85570792
i dated a guy who constantly talked about his ex and i developed deep insecurities about everything about her including her relationship with her father and her having an alive mother. u cant even date orphans either, you have to make sure hes an orphan WITHOUT any past relationships

>>85570840
spoken like someone who's still living with their parents.

>>85570832
they are not your preferences you fucking idiot, they are your patterns and defense mechanisms. stay stuck, coward.

>>85570832
you will never be a woman stop it brother

>>85570845
i tried to be with them and suppress that feeling that was burning me up inside but i just couldn't. it was destroying me i felt this immense hatred and i even tried to keep them all to myself. but there's nothing you can do about someone's family i'm so afraid of being abandoned and it's true that these are defense mechanisms because deep down i'm just so scared and hurting so much that's why i don't think i'll be getting into another relationship anytime soon

>>85570844
yeah i forgot to mention that an orphaned guy with no past relationships virgin, not particularly interested in women or men, gentle, empathetic, and with genuine emotional intelligence

>>85570913
yes, you are afraid of being abandoned. you got it, woo, amazing. that's why your defense mechanisms want somebody broken like you, so you can be co-dependent, instead of having an actual relationship with actual trust.
and you would never stay with an unstable broken simp anyway. you'd feel lost, and there'd be no growth.
but you had it! you fucking had exactly the cure you need, and you threw it away. amazing, you get to be unstable and retarded for another year.
wasting my fucking time here explaining basic psychology to pieces of shit like you

Families don't matter so much even though I appreciate my nice family a lot.

I think genetics do most of the heavy lifting. I have a rich family and have done nothing in life.

>>85570933
>Families don't matter so much
>I have a rich family and have done nothing in life.

He types away at the interwebs, still able to eat, shit and sleep, not recognizing he could instead be fent leaning or dead in a ditch somewhere simply because he didn't have a roof to sleep on.

I love the chans.

>>85570931
you seem really fucking pissed do i owe you money? did i beat up your mom? did i scam your dad? idk... i guess you're just tired of seeing tards who wallow in their own fear, but i'm well aware of all that i've actually got quite a bit of perspective and self-awareness... my last relationship completely fucked me up i was in a situation i wouldn't wish on anyone...

>>85570982
keep your fucking bait for the khhv incels, i'm out. you owe me nothing, cuz you never deserved a word i typed here in the first place.

>>85570989
NTA but trvthnvke.

>>85570989
listen anon i'm sorry i triggered you that wasn't my intention. if you wanna explain why you're so worked up maybe it'll make you feel better or something idk either way i didn't make this thread to piss anyone off my bad

uhh can i have a good relationship with my older sis? or will u compare yourself to her?