i am probably "chad" by this boards standards, i have over 20 bodies at 22, i have near constant attention from women, i'm 6'1, in shape, big dick etc. but my life is not easy by any long margin and i will explain why.women hate sydney sweeney because she is extremely pretty and successful, and men do the exact same thing to other men who are attractive and probably don't even realise it. i recieve constant belittlement, harrasment, "jokes" that always go too far, my privacy is invaded, and my voice is never respected. i actually started to see it happen in real time to me. every idea i have is shot down. i'm laughed at. guys feel very comfortable insulting my appearance, the way i style my hair, the clothes i wear, or my mannerisms. i've always felt more comfortable having female friends simply because i recieve respect from them. i loathe the fact that i probably won't ever have a standard friendship with other men. and its not even that i can't make male friends. everybody wants to be around me, i have loads of friends. well, "friends". because they love to be in my company, or have me in their corner, but then treat me like a mangy dog that can do a few tricks.it's pure jealousy. they hate to see a guy like me have successes because anything i best them in is a double insult.i'm just here to say that attractive men do not have it anywhere near as easy as you think.
its not like butt ugly people are considered respectable either unless theyre rich
>>85573651Yeah...must be a hard life being Chad.
>>85573668studies have proved that in non-personal and systematic things attractive people are favoured, which i can't argue against, it is proven....... but in social circles, you can bet butt uglies can thrive. people at least feel uncomfortable insulting you. they try to see other qualities about you and don't mind seeing you succeed. and you can become more anonymous, under less scrutiny.
>>85573651Thats because most men are way more insecure than they think they are.And the level at which they are insecure are destroying everything about our civilization slowly by trying to gain "feel good brownie points" from either:1. Women2. AuthoritiesSo most men betacuck and try to climb on other men for those imaginary points that erodes trust, erodes literally physically our infrastructure by sacrifice their backbone to skipfor maintaining our past, the work that is needed without getting praised. Everything is a niggerification because being a loud baby mouth and a backstabber gets you more brownie (social, sexual) points at the cost of real reality resources.
>>85573714yeah, have to agree. as soon as women are a part of the circle, the behaviour becomes 10x more blatant and also much more nonsensical. i remember being on holiday this year and flirting with a girl at the bar. almost every third or 5th word i spoke would get a weird side eye glance from one of my friends to the other. even generic conversational stuff. i'm still unsure if it was that he interpreted things i said in bad faith, or wanted to socially alienate me (make me seem like a weirdo) in order to appear more appealing to the woman. thats the type of situation that does genuinely unnerve me.
>>85573714It's not even just simping, it's men crashing out and ruining the lives of women/other men because they think they need to control everyone so they won't be alone.
Are you telling me men are flawed, dishonest, narcissistic people and not eternal victims of circumstance who are never responsible for their life?
people hate sydney sweeney because she's a dumb sellout who can't act. her being attractive is literally the only thing people like about her. wtf are you thinking op?
>>85573766Yeah so that also called being insecure, which is my point. Cucking out is just one way. Being an ape is another way. Telling other men they are "gay haha bro" is another way."Looking cool" from all ages even since kindergarten is the virus in most men's head and it's killing us all.
>>85573809That's humanity for you. Reminder things will only get worse because fat pedophiles are constantly pushing the needle and everyone is too lazy and placated to care.
>>85573797He is saying if a girl ""somehow"" would be in thr spotlight and do the things Sydney is doing then no one would say outloud how much they dislike her.Which then results in the logic if you add the attractive looks or take it away in a vacuum of her as a person then that's what is causing people to react like that.It's hypothetical but probably true.Women especially hate other attractive women on a biological level since that's their "rank" (their looks) and that's their rivalry.Like men seeing other attractive, tall, strong men and feel that deep insecurity that they mostly of the time can't put their finger on and then just starts to act in wierd ape ways around that man.
>>85573651Honestly you're probably effeminate and have mannerisism that are unapealing to men. Chad lived on our street. Everbody liked him, he fell out with nobody and his opinion was respected. You can get pussy by being an effeminate pretty. that kind of person appeals to women but is not generally respected by men for the very things that appeal to women. I'm not saying this to be a dick and those people should not insult you out of nowhere, that's just being nasty, but frankly it's unlikely to just be jealousy there's probably some of that, esspecially when they see you doing well with a girl; they probably can't clock why you are successful. I would say though Look at masculine successful men you know, they will generally be respected by peers, both male and female.
>>85573651>i recieve constant belittlement, harrasment, "jokes" that always go too far, my privacy is invaded, and my voice is never respected.Aside from privacy I get all that and I am fat and ugly and sexless.
Being CHAD is so hard, guys. My chicken is TOO buttery
>>85573651>men do the exact same thing to other men who are attractive and probably don't even realise ithonestly this is probably a generational problem, i'm a 32 year old sigma with some chad qualities and i've never done this to other men but i'm inclined to believe that zoomers, who are much more feminine than millennials, would do this type of thing
>>85573651i learned this lesson from my college roommates. they were essentially perfect by any metric the average person would use to measure them by - good lookin, charismatic, smooth, party boys, lots of friends, wine, women, whatever you can imagine being a metric you'd use to judge if someone had "made it". and they were just absolutely miserable. they pointed out all these flaws in their life, how people loved to "have them" but never cared about them, how all this blah blah blah long story short i really thought about my station in life more after witnessing people who i thought had "made it" still be just as miserable and empty as anyone else, just with different distractions and toys and things made "easy" for them.
