I had more of a libido when I was khhv gooning to yaoi fanfics than now with my bf. Irl men honestly aren't very good, they're always whinier than you expect and kinda act too much like babies to truly make a girl feel horny/wanting to have sex.
>>85573894dark triad manhwa chad here I'm gonna choke you and send the pics to your bf
>>85573932korean comics are cringe.
>>85573894porn distorts your perception of relationships and sex?Who would have known?
>>85573894does this mean my future gf will love me more if i beat her
>>85573945no don't go to either deep end (act like a baby or be violent). it's not like i've ever read (or done lol) anything where the other person gets hurt/beaten or even choked by the other person. not my thing. things like sexual tension and flirting which may or may not lead to sex are much more interesting.
>>85573982what does it mean to "act like a baby" though? is he just bitching at you or something? i'm asking because i'm trying to figure out if i act this way. i kind of BPD out at girls when i love them but i don't know if that's the same thing> things like sexual tension and flirting which may or may not lead to sex are much more interesting.pretty normal. atp it just sounds to me your boyfriend is probably a boring ass dork or something. isn't what you described normal in a relationship?
>>85574013yeah just complaining about anything and everything. when you offer help/support, just more complaining (about small things) lol. at this point i think men are actually the complainer gender instead of women.
>>85574053> at this point i think men are actually the complainer gender instead of women.as much as i feel like a cuck for admitting it you're kind of right. i feel like, despite only really being with one woman, she was more emotionally mature than i was, and i get that impression from most women. not like i know what's going on in their heads though so i could be wrong. i think guys are somewhat coddled more and so they end up like this. in my case i'm emotionally immature because i'm an impulsive and selfish retard. it ends up the same either way.but also maybe everyone just sucks and is evil desu
>>85573894>fucks a gay man>he's whiny and annoyingwow no shit
>>85574091i think 99,9% would not admit it so good for you anon you're one of the real ones.based on my very limited experience it feels like men "trick" you by coming across as more mature than you, then eventually a flip a switch eventually and you realize you may have been wrong. and you start to realize you're just constantly coddling them, making sure they're not upset at things you didn't know someone could be so upset about etc. stressful situations later down the line reveal it.i do think there must be some men who aren't like that but i've always been unlucky and likely will never have one.
>>85574186>based on my very limited experience it feels like men "trick" you by coming across as more mature than you, then eventually a flip a switch eventually and you realize you may have been wrong.from what i hear secondhand from a lot of girls, i'm not sure if its entirely true that they outright and willfully try to "trick" you or if they're legitimately too childish to realize what they're doing. i think in this case a lot of them are just stuck-up and lack self awareness and act childish as a result. the coddling doesn't help though, you're basically inadvertently appeasing and enabling them. though, i doubt most guys would react well if you outright told them that their behavior sucks. >making sure they're not upset at things you didn't know someone could be so upset about etc. but also tbf i've heard guys say this about girls too, so again my point really is a lot of people lack self awareness, tend to be arrogant, and are deeply immature. at the end of the day our experiences and view on people is like informed on the people we're with, so if you're straight you'll be more likely to see men as being this way etc. etc. >i do think there must be some men who aren't like that but i've always been unlucky and likely will never have one.i can't say for sure either. for example, i like to think i'm not a total piece of shit because at the very least the girl i was with never coddled me and was able to tell me how she felt to my face even if she thought it might come off as harsh, but that is still a very low bar desu
>>85573945Oh hey Takumi nice seeing you on here
>>85574649he's just like me desu. real pic of me at my pc... Fuhihihihi
