Girls I try to date:>never intiates conversations per texts>makes me plan dates>avoids talking about any future plans>forgets what I told them about myself>stares into space when I am talking to them>expects me to jestermax all the time>expects me to pay for dinner>tell me they are talking to other guys and looking for better options>would be perfectly content to never talk to me again if I don't constantly intiates it>cancels plans if something else comes up or if they can't be bothered>ghost me Girl who I am friends with and is in a relationship:>texts me at least every other day>invites me to do things with her on her own initiative >talks about what other things we can do together in the future>gives me direct eye contact and smiles whenever I'm talking>laughs at almost everything I say, even laughs when we just look at each other>says she wants to know more about me>offers to cook me dinner whenever I'm working late>gets in an argument with a mutal friend for making her promise not to talk to me anymore>says she cried at the idea of never being able to talk to me again>breaks promise and continues to talk to me>says she doesn't regret that she broke the promiseI've never felt more loved than I have being in the friendzone.
I'm gonna be honestthat girl's boyfriend should be investigating your relationship with each otherbecause there's no way he'd be fine with that lel
Because you're sowing false hope. It's on you for being retarded though and not treating women like people
>>85575329>not treating women like peopleWhat are you talking about?
Because she's getting the boyfriend perks from you, without having to actually follow through on the shit she doesn't want to do with you.In a few years she will "date" you, and you will find yourself in an open relationship while she shops for bulls and comes home to you to feel the emotional boyfriend needs without any intimacy from her. It's a win for her without any obligation and you're too dumb to realize you're being used in an unfair way.
>>85575329>not treating women like peopleahhh, the age-old question.
>>85575265kinda the opposite for me, most girls that laugh at the shit i say and are interested in talking eventually want to date. but alright, you do you.neither of the types of people you described are really the type of girl you can date or trust imo
>>85575414>In a few years she will "date" you, and you will find yourself in an open relationship while she shops for bulls and comes home to you to feel the emotional boyfriend needs without any intimacy from her. It's a win for her without any obligation and you're too dumb to realize you're being used in an unfair way.Yes it seems women do the chad thing, just with extra steps and a responsibility clause."It's not MY fault I'm sleeping around, you simply couldn't give me everything I need. I mean the money was good but just every once in a while needed a quasi rape from a nigerian immigrant so I still felt ALIVE. And you weren't providing that, so really it was your fault all along. Now I wish those scientists would get to work on creating those 9 ft beastmean I read about in that romance book"
>>85575379your attitude to dates is what's in it for me from the start, so the girls pay in kind.
>>85575644If this were true they would reply as fast as I reply.
