What do I need to do/have as a 5'5" male to get a gf? >hardmode No demoralizing
My brother is your height and just got married.He's a high ranking military officer who bodybuilds as a hobby if you want to try that.
Gumption. I live in a country with enormous height diversity, full of both manlets and 2m+ giants.And I don't know any incel manlets. They all compensate the shit out of their height with aggressiveness and personality. When I was a kid, manlets were the meanest kids, they were ready to throw down whenever. As a young adult, you'd always see manlets being the most confident with girls, being direct, not fucking around. So just learn to love yourself and be a man. It's not like there's a shortage of short girls, and MOST girls won't worry about your height as long as they don't tower over you.
>>85579662be a billionaire o algo
>>85579758>shortage of short girlsthey want tall Chads>and MOST girls won't worry about your heightwhy are retards like you still gaslighting everyone? or is this bait?
>>85579662>>85579712>>85579758Like these guys said. You can't afford to be shy as a short guy. You're always going to get told "you need confidence bro" My number 1 advice since I'm an inch shorter, looks max and make your personality about on par with a stoner. I don't mean you start toking up ganja right now I mean be one of the most chill men on the planet and bring out that aggressive direct side when you have to. You'll be surprised that most people even women don't associate that with the "napoleon complex" or short man syndrome or W.E . I see more of my short bros suffer hard from carrying themselves then I see them struggle with making themselves appear more attractive. Looksmaxxing as a male isn't that hard. Learning how to talk and carry yourself, way more trial and error. Take the time to learn how to talk to people especially women when it comes to rizzing/approaching them. Doesnt matter how many friendzones/rejections you get. Take the L or even better, make a friend with them. Get them to hook you up. It may be a rough ride. It does require work. It's possible.
>>85579662>invent a drug that allows your bone structure to be altered after fusion that is heritable in its epigenetic influence>marry the tallest men who result from the process to the tallest women you can find>make coke illegal and replace it with milk, everywhere>kill nestle's CEO at this stage just because it would be funny >manlets no longer exist>competition is now no longer settled by hierarchy alone and we devolve into chaos and violence as every man is now capable of having the same access to resources and women that are finite>earth explodes
>>85579827yea.. I should have mentioned I'm also autistic and shy but I didn't want people to immediately say "it's over bro give up" so I didn't bring it up.
>>85579808can you, as a virgin, not give advice on dating? thanks.
>>85579827>You'll be surprised that most people even women don't associate that with the "napoleon complex" or short man syndrome or W.E .They do they just don't say it to your face.>talk to people especially women when it comes to rizzing/approaching themNever try to "rizz" a woman. If you're a turbomanlet 95% of them will reject you off rip based solely on your height no matter what you say. 4% will give you their number just to get you to leave them tf alone. Maybe 1% will look past your height if she finds you attractive in other ways. But don't approach unless she makes it clear she actually has some level of interest in you. >Take the L or even better, make a friend with them.Never befriend a woman you want to fuck it won't end well. She'll use you as an emotional cumrag after she's done getting fucked by tall Chad. >It does require work. It's possible.It is but focus on things that actually matter not muh confidence bro. Being short is bad enough but being short, poor, and ugly is 10x worse. Just know you can be perfect in literally every other way and there will still always be some women that will choose some absolute bozo over you just because he's tall. I'm saying this as a 5'4 guy who has had some success with women, mostly short hispanic girls who are somewhat less heightist. And that was only after I started dedicating myself to improving literally every aspect of my physical appearance and making alot more money. Still, it's fucking hell as an average man let alone a short man in the dating market. For some guys it is better off to just escortmaxx because you are playing a game that is severely rigged against you and it will only get harder in the near future.
>>85579808Are you trying to date a girl or a woman? A girl (some spoiled whore that spends 9 hours a day on tik tok and instagram) is gonna give a shit about trivial things like height.A WOMAN who has actually matured to the point of being tolerable, will not give a shit about your height if you have literally anything else worthy.
>>85580390>there will still always be some women that will choose some absolute bozo over youyou can't avoid that no matter what kind of physical traits you have
>>85580390NTA but escortmaxxing scares me because I don't want to realise what I'm missing out on. Thanks for sharing your experience, but damn that is way more demoralising than most of those "it's over and here's data/twitter post to prove it" posts.I wanna ask, have you tried meeting women on normie socials like IG or discord? If so, how do those go?
>>85580442Never had any success with meeting online and would not recommend it. Women who are chronically online are usually narcissistic asf and just looking for another simp to give them attention. There are 10 other guys in her dms just like you. I have only had success with women irl not cold approaching them but just talking to women from school/coworkers who don't seem utterly repulsed by me due to my height. And again I cannot emphasize this enough you must be above average in literally every other metric women care about to make up for your short height.
>>85580522Thanks anon. I fumbled a lady I met online but I ended up bailing since I didn't want her to see my face/short stature. I know a lot of guys mention get her into you and then reveal, but that seems like a really bad idea.Unfortunately, I'm very low on most metrics. Recessed face, mid iq, mediocre wage, balding, heart problems. Honestly crazy how fucked I got.
>>85579662i had a 5'4 roommate in college and he spent all his spare time charisma maxxing. He studied books on how to be social and worked with a MLM doing cold calls, not for the money but for cold approach reps. He went to toastmasters to improve his public speaking, and ballroom dancing so he would be comfortable twirling girls around. It worked very well for him, he picked up more girls than I ever did. >>85579827 This anon is right, you absolutely cannot afford to be shy, you have to be the life of the party.
>>85580550>get her into you and then revealTerrible idea. Physical attractiveness is like 90% of all attraction. If you are going to play the online dating game let her know how short and ugly you are as soon as possible and save both of you some time.>Unfortunately, I'm very low on most metrics. Recessed face, mid iq, mediocre wage, balding, heart problems. Honestly crazy how fucked I got. Honestly guys like you really should just escortmaxx. You're not just short you're nerfed in every category. Love isn't for guys like you. I'm sorry bro but that's the truth.
You need to get lucky once and fuck her like crazy. Most men are pretty lame at sex, actually, as women will tell you. Fuck one ONCE the right way and it no longer matters.>fat>short>uglyOxytocin don't care.
>>85579662You have to believe in yourself Anon <3
>>85580639Keep spouting bullshit. Orgasm frequency and intensity in women is directly linked to the physical attractiveness of her partner. It's not that most men are bad at sex, it's that most men are too unattractive to arouse women at all. And the research proves it.https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886915001002
>>85580603Thanks for being honest. But, I don't want to escortmaxx, not even as a matter of pride but I just don't crave it. Something about it makes me bitter.
>>85580639how do you fuck one "the right way"? then? asking for a friend :^)
>>85580720>I just don't crave it.Every man craves sex stop lying to yourself. Sure ideally it would be with a woman who actually gives a shit about you but that's simply not realistic for a guy like you. Escortmaxxing is the next best option. But the truth is you're just a low inhib poorfag who would rather spend all his time jestermaxxing for stupid efoids who would be repulsed if they saw what you look like in real life. Meanwhile some 5'3 blackpilled beaner in Bogota is getting his willy slurped up by a 8/10 big booty latina and treating her like complete shit while doing so.
