findom is an even faker fetish than femdomyou might find a woman who is sexually dominantbut youll never find a woman who gets sexual gratification from getting moneyits so obviously a fake fetish
>>85601829I think maybe you're misunderstanding the fetish? While some findommes pretend to get off from it, it's the minority of dommes and I usually assume they are new / inexperienced and they think this is what subs want to hear. Most subs aren't looking for the girl to get sexual gratification from the exchange, they just want to degrade themselves for the woman. In some cases it is even hotter knowing she doesn't see her sub in any sexual capacity. t. spent over $30k on findom
This is why I combine findon with cuckolding. She takes my money, and then I watch her get sexual gratification from getting fucked by another man. We all win this way.
>>85601880This. For me the appeal comes from a woman knowing that she can use her sex appeal to make me give her money. I don't expect her to get any pleasure out of interacting with me.
>>85601880>>85601886I honestly think it would be better for society if you killed yourselfimagine dedicating your life to making hypergamy worsemore foul than scat fetishists
>>85601886hey that's really smart man you must have quite the IQ
>>85601898"dedicating my life" is a reach. I was making almost $300K that year from stacking multiple fulltime software jobs so I was working around the clock and findom was my one outlet to get dopamine hits after the long hours. the cost was pennies compared to what I was saving, and the pleasure was immeasurable
>>85601880This image perfectly captures what kind of dynamic I'd like with a woman.
>>85601928please fucking dieyou should die
>>85601880I just don't get it at all. How the fuck do you get off on this? Do you also get off on giving money to homeless people? Would it be hotter of the girl didn't even acknowledge your existence at all or do you appreciate her calling you a dumb faggot cuck more. Like if you gave some stupid whore 50k and she didn't even look up from her phone you'd get off more? If thats the case, why not just give your money to hobos? They might thank you but you can get off knowing that they actually don't give a shit about you or what you did for them and in fact think your a sucker because they're about to use your money to go buy drugs.
>>85601829People pay for sexting or whatever out of desperation the idea that you're getting off to sending the money itself is just retarded and every "findom" that makes that their whole shtick is a financially illiterate whore even by egirl standards who is cucking herself out of more customers by being standoffish and greedy instead of just showing tits
That shit is a cope lmao. It's just the only way they can interact with women so they rationalize it and say it's a fetish to feel better
>>85601976>Do you also get off on giving money to homeless people?Nah. Even if the homeless woman was a hot girl, I would feel bad if she genuinely needed the money. Findom is only hot if you're just sending to a girl for fun. It ruins the fantasy if she's poor and desperate.
You what's even better than degrading yourself to be exploited by whores? Having pride and dignity and finding a woman who actually loves
>>85601928You think and articulate your thoughts like a parody of the type of person you are. No internal reality at all, you look in the mirror and do not see the person who used to have dreams. Even other people who get off to being cucked and sapped of their money at least have their ability to feel shame, you don't even have the ability to grasp that the line of questioning is about why you should be ashamed. It doesn't even occur. You make your dignity sound like it goes on your quarterly report.
>>85601829I swear this board gets further and further from reality by the day and you fucks sink deeper and deeper into a made up porn world
>>85601898My life has no impact on how women act, but if it did, I'd be happy. I would never find love. The old system never would have benefited me. People who would thrive in that kind of world would happily laugh at me and look down on me. So if me being a paypig cuckold actually harmed you people and brought you down to my level, I'd be just fine with that.
>>85602010he's going to jerk off to this nowtheres no getting into his headi dunno get his mom to read this thread or something
>>85601976I need to have a decent level of interaction with her otherwise I'd literally be throwing money away.
>>85602010>>85602029brokies getting sour grapes, how typical. I'm euphoric because I'm enlightened by my own intelligence.
>>85601976>How the fuck do you get off on this?I've never in my life been into "sex". I don't know why. I'm wired differently. It actively turns me off when a girl expresses that she wants to have sex with me. I get off on the idea that a girl is much better than me and doesn't want to have sex with me, and I get off on doing things that materialize that idea in reality. I like getting kicked in the balls, I like drinking women's piss, I like licking their shoes clean, I like being called a pathetic faggot, and similarly, I like paying them money just for existing and being hot.>Do you also get off on giving money to homeless people?Homeless people aren't attractive, and they're usually guys. This is a strange question. This is like asking if you like having sex with hot young women do you like having sex with homeless people? No; they're dirty and gross.>Like if you gave some stupid whore 50k and she didn't even look up from her phone you'd get off more?Yes to an extent being ignored is hot. However I typically prefer that she interact a bit bc the reactions are the best part. Often I would find random hot bitchy-looking girls on tiktok instead of girls that are already findommes because they have more organic reactions. If they laugh at me and find it absurd/pathetic, that's extremely hot. If they demand more money, that's extremely hot. If they're nice and thank me profusely it's a huge boner-killer.Also, sometimes it goes beyond "getting nothing in return". Although findom in itself is super hot, it tends to ramp up in that you need increasing amounts of money to feel pleasure. Once you've given Stacy $1000 a couple times, giving her $100 feels like almost nothing. So for me it also involves things like buying a girl's socks or shoes at an overpriced price, which she mails to me, and smelling/licking those while sending her more money.
>>85602060>However I typically prefer that she interact a bit bc the reactions are the best partFor me the best part is seeing her talk about it to other people. Like if she told her friend "omg this guy just sent me money..." It's rare to be in a situation where you can organically see this but it really excites me.
>>85602010I'll admit I don't really feel ashamed. As far back as I can remember I've only been into femdom. I've had sex many times and "I don't enjoy it" is an understatement. It feels like I might as well be having gay sex. And I've also tried gay sex, I didn't like that either. It's like I'm only tuned to the frequency of being dominated by a woman who doesn't desire me.What can I do in my position, seriously? Why should I feel ashamed about who I am? This may seem like rhetorical questions but I'm genuinely asking. I'd like to hear more about your viewpoint. I get sad about the way I am, because it has seriously impacted my ability to maintain relationships. I lose attraction to my partner once I see she's sexually attracted to me. But I don't particularly feel shame.
>>85602076hell yeah brother. I went into a tiktok live one day and it was two reasonably hot girls drinking and smoking and chatting, only about 5 viewers. I started sending them money with requests for them to show me the bottom of their shoes and they were cracking up laughing about it, telling their friends who were occasionally joining the live about what was going on, telling me if I want to see the next shoe I have to send more money, increasing the price every time. It was unrealistically hot. I spent an hour in there and screen recorded the whole thing, then spent the next year finsubbing for the girl that was mostly driving the demand for more money. It was so exhilarating and hot seeing a girl naturally pick up the findomme vibe right away and start using me in a raw organic way.
>>85601880This sounds like paying taxes with extra steps
>>85601998>It ruins the fantasy if she's poor and desperateYou should know that only poor and desperate women accept money from men that get off on it.
>>85602076>>85602136theres no way youre 2 different pplyou are replying to yourself
>>85601829>>85601880>>85602060I want to start finsubbing but i am a NEET on NEETbux and i would rather spend the little money i have elsewhere. i also have an encouragement fetish that i don't think a lot of women would be comfortable with
>>85602173I'm not him, but after reading >>85602136 I wish I was. I've never had that kind of luck.
>>85602177we need more blackpill threadstheres no way you actually believe women deserve respect
>>85602111>Why should I feel ashamed about who I am?Because there's obviously something deeply wrong with you that causes you to make your life and society as a whole worse, and instead of trying to fix it or at least suppress it, you indulge it. That's what degeneracy is.
>>85602177Save your money. It's not even worth it honestly.
>>85602136>organicBruh they knew exactly what they were there for
>>85602202literally making hypergamy worse like imagine knowing the girl you have a crush on is taking money from weird strangersat least donate to charity you weird fucks
>>85602223>like imagine knowing the girl you have a crush on is taking money from weird strangersOh sorry. I should leave her alone so she remains pure for you and you can date her and laugh at me for being alone? Get fucked.
>>85602239yeah you fucking idiotdo you WANT all women to only date high earning chads? do you know what hypergamy means?
>>85602261>do you WANT all women to only date high earning chads?Why not? They were never going to date me anyway. Might as well ruin them for other guys.
>>85602239Maybe if you stopped being pathetic you wouldn't be alone. What woman is going to want to date a man that gives his money to strange women for sexual reasons? That's basically dating a john that doesn't even have sex. Quit one of those full time jobs and hit the gym, some testosterone would do you good you whiny cunt.
>>85602267you know women would never date a corpse so maybe you can try killing yourself ^_^
>>85602177>encouragement fetishExplain
>>85602281We all know those are empty words.
Any of you want to finsub for a twink?
>>85601880Give me all of your money and then kill yourself.You're a pathetic waste of fucking space in this world.
>>85602223>>85602202>make your life and society as a whole worsetrue desuI've always refrained from finsubbing from women who I'm friends with IRL, or ex-lovers, for this kind of reason. It is an extremely hot fantasy but I just can't bring myself to do that to them. Some lowIQ might say giving them money doesn't hurt them but it's about putting them in a position where they're profiting by hurting someone. It damages both parties even if the damage isn't as obvious for the receiver. >instead of trying to fix it or at least suppress itit's a bit of a pendulum for me. i've tried and tried to fix it in the sense of conditioning myself to like normoid sex, and that seems impossible. Over the last 6-7 years I actually do suppress it for the most part, but I have periods of time when I engage in it. Right now I'm in a relationship for the last 8mo and I haven't done any findom. Unfortunately for my gf, I'm not attracted to her at all and our sex life is a boring chore for me, but she doesn't know that.Anyway, I guess I agree that it's a harmful practice and it's generally best to be avoided. But such is the nature of vices.
>>85602185I only had that kind of luck once, and it came from many many hours and many many dollars of scrolling tiktok lives and testing the waters with $50 sends. Not to mention I'm in Canada so I could only target girls with PayPal, can't use venmo or cashapp. (I refused to use tiktok live gifts because tiktok takes >50% of the money, it's just not sustainable at all if I want to send a girl 100s-1000s). It helped that I was on ADHD meds so I could hunt for hours without getting bored.One tip is to look for lives where there's sub-10 viewers. Those typically respond/engage more, but it's difficult to find a hot girl with sub10. Still, just keep scrolling. And larger amounts help too, so make lots of money; since I find hot girls don't even blink if they're gifted 20-30 sometimes even 50.
>>85601880>t. spent over $30k on findomYou should hang yourself
Im what world do genuine dominant women exist? Women are only dominant if they get paid for it.
>>85601880>spent over $30k on findomHow?? In person? On prostitutes?
>>85602239>I should leave her alone so she remains pure for you and you can date her and laugh at me for being alone? Get fucked.that's exactly your fetish though? you love it
>>85603567No? I want a girl to cruelly take advantage of me and drain my wallet.
>>85602195I made a blackpill thread this morning and it died with 4 retarded repliesthis board doesn't need anything; get off it and go somewhere smarter
>>85602202Why does it feel like often when someone has a fucked up fetish they just deny that it's fucked up.
>>85601829i straight up downloaded this bitch's shithole to my downloads just now
>>85603648Because you don't choose your fetishes. I'm not saying that they're innate but when you find something hot, it seems perfectly natural to you. The fact that other people are literally vomiting every time you talk about seems like they're all insane.
>>85601880Absolutely based Anon. I've personally also spent 40k plus on Femdom clips which I regret. I recently met a woman who by every metric might be one of the most unique people I've ever come across, her skills in Femdom, findom etc. Are literally out of this world. I won't say who since she has a fairly big presence in the niche on websites like Iwantclips, Manyvids, C4S etc. but when you find the right person this fetish which to me really is just part of femdom you can't have one without the other is the greatest feeling ever. Already spent over 15k on here in a year. Zero regrets, once you find the right goddess it's wraps.
>>85604530not dropping the name is criminal dude wtf
>>85604530Hang yourself simp
>>85603285Vast majority online-only, but ~$4K of that is buying girl's used socks and shoes. The only in-person I've done: I spent $800 on an escort once (was a huge letdown), and then about $3K on another girl who I met in-person multiple times. Actually with the $3K girl she stopped charging me after the first meetup. We ended up meeting another few times and doing femdom shit but I never paid her and she even bought some stuff for me like food and sex toys. Crazy world.>>85604530>part of femdom you can't have one without the other I feel you man. It really feels like getting off without paying is like the light version of getting off. Paying just makes it feel better on another level. >once you find the right goddess it's wrapsHappy(?) for you; I didn't find anybody like that and I'm kind of out of the game for now since I'm trying a vanilla "serious" relationship tho idk how long itll last. That sounds fucking sick. Some of the dommes on clips are clearly on another level, but I've never really tangoed with those types of gals
>>85601829my favorite part of hentai is the pink-shaded pussy area. i've seen girls with pussies like that irl and it looks so good
>>85604612why did she stop charging?
>>85604633We had developed a pretty intimate friendship by that point. We talked every day, and we were both at a place in our lives where we didn't have many other people around us. I told her how I was trying to quit findom, so she helped me quit. But we still played online the same way we did before just without the money, and met up two more times (lived in different countries so it was an ordeal). We even talked about starting to date, which was a bit unrealistic in retrospect for some practical reasons including the long distance, and eventually we just kinda stopped talking.
>>85604648damn, sounds like a pretty cool person. kinda sucks you drifted apart and couldn't keep the friendship but it's likely better not to force something like that.
Findom is just an useful version of femdom, everyone can use money.
>>85604763That's why I like it. It is real submission, not lip service.
some findom accounts retweeted me and were angry at my anti-findom posts lol
>>85604844Oh. I don't know what post you are talking about.
>>85604829anyone talking "real submission" in the kink community outside the context of time wasters and people who refuse to listen to rules/boundaries is insufferable man, im sorry. nothing against findom but every person thinks their brand of kink is "real submission/domination" and it's fucking trite shit.
>>85604850its on twitter lolzI just find the timing of it to be really weirdI said findom was fake, and today 3 accounts retweeted me, I made that tweet like a month ago
>>85604859I'm just saying, it's easy to say "I wanna serve you" but it's another to actually give something a tangible resource that directly improves their life.
>>85604865yea, that's a fair clarification. but even if we are talking online femdom only things like tips and monetary expressions of service are common and expected without it being findom.
>>85604552I wouldn't want her to get bad attention or any hate messages.
>>85604899fair enough, but if she has presence on those sites she's dealing with a bunch of shitty subs regardless lol
>>85603660No, it doesn't to me because I still have a functioning rationality part of my brain. What I don't get is that others don't. It seems to be that they are purely driven by instinct. Like they're unable to separate how they're feeling from what is actually beneficial.
