I've been dating this guy for a couple of months, but lately I've noticed several things that have started making me suspicious and making me question the relationship.When we're out in public, he'll hold my hand for a few minutes and then let go. Sometimes he'll walk ahead of me and just say that I'm walking too slowly. When we went out to eat, there was an attractive woman sitting behind me, and I noticed him looking at her several times instead of me. Another time, I tried to glance at his phone while we were sitting together, and he immediately moved it away. I jokingly asked if he had something to hide, and he said he just wants me to respect his privacy.He's also pretty active on Instagram but has never posted me, even though I've posted us together on my account. I know none of these things necessarily mean he is cheating, but taken together, they've made me wonder if he's hiding something.I was actually planning to bring all of this up with him a few days ago when he invited me over. However, when I got there, he had cooked my favorite food and had even bought something specifically for me. It was genuinely sweet, and I felt guilty bringing up something potentially serious when he had clearly gone out of his way to do something nice for me. I ended up putting my suspicions aside and convincing myself that maybe I was overthinking everything.But now I'm wondering if I'm just allowing one nice gesture to make me ignore concerns that have been building for a while. I don't want to accuse him of cheating without evidence, and I don't want to invade his privacy. At the same time, I also dont want to ignore my instincts if there is genuinely something wrong.I'm honestly conflicted because part of me thinks I'm being paranoid and reading too much into things, while another part of me feels like these things are adding up and that I should have an honest conversation with him about how I've been feeling.
>>85628162oh great, yet ANOTHER thread of "oh em gee my boyfriend is like so fucking like... instagram or whatever and he like liked another girl's post or whateveeeer..."
>>85628162that's a tough one. i cant really say for certain without knowing the dude. just do whatever you're comfortable with.
>>85628162>part of me thinks I'm being paranoid and reading too much into thingsParanoid? There's no such thing as being "paranoid", idiot, nor "reading too much into things. There's a way and a reason behind everything. You don't just see something weird and it turns out "it's just a coincidence, teehee!". That's just something people say to shut down thinking processes because they're too fucking dumb to think for too long.And didn't you read The Odyssey? Everyone who didn't pay caution to things fucking died! All of them! The only one who lived was the one smart enough to heed the red flags. Do you want to die? Or do you want to live.
When I was in high school me and my buddy dated two girls who were ugly. We never walked near them when in public. Only we were pretty enough to walk together.
I can't stand the women on r9k man. If I could press button and kill all of them id use a fucking pogo stick on it
>>85628162>I should have an honest conversation with him about how I've been feeling.>wahh! boyfriend! you m-makuh me feel bad! wy you make me feel bad boyfwiend! plesae make me life joy and bliss! i no have serotonin becuz youIs that what you'll say to him, just phrased to appear logical
>>85628162youre an ugly chick or a tranny and hes ready to monkeybranchi once went out in public with my ugly mid gf and got laughed at. i tongue kissed her and grabbed her ass hardjk lol i just kept walking and dumped her after a month
Have you considered chemical castration?I hear that's very "in" nowadays.
>>85628162he's ashamed of you. simple as that. find a better boyfriend
>>85628162Not reading that. Hang yourself roastie.
could you imagine a world where you can say Voldemort's name?
>>85628162>I noticed him looking at her several times instead of me.Over. Stop seeing him.
yeah, well, your mother is a basketball
>>85628162You are a whore, he's treating you appropriately
