What are your red flags when it comes to dating women? I'll start>overweight
Has cheated in the past
>>85628432You compliment them and they say, 100% unironically, "I know"
>>85628432>isnt a woman>doesnt take care of herselfim fine with an obese 4'1 half negress half aboriginal woman so long as she cares about herself and is working towards improving herselfanything above that I would also like
>>85628457You should have some self respect anon. If you don't respect yourself no woman will ever respect you.
>>85628432>datingI don't know what that is.
>>85628465>self respect is saying every woman ever presented to you is mid because a hypothetically hotter woman you'll also call mid could exist somewhere else in the observable universethis board is actually unusable
>>85628477There's a rather large difference between a brown obese midget and a normal woman. I guess it's okay if anon is a brown obese manlet but I'm guessing he isn't.
shit tone of voice
>>85628494no, im around 6'0 blond and from South Africa, im also 185lbs and leanI do have self respect because I want her to be actively improving herselfI could love a woman physically based off of body alone
>>85628432Actively mentally ill from a curable or chronic psychological conditionA chronic psychological conditionUnclean and cluttery but this can be excluded if it's an ADHD symptom and she has a regular cleaning routine Disregard for other people's thoughts and feelings Unapologetically cruel to animals or people as a jokeVaping or smoking or drinking or any kind of drug but this can be excluded if she drinks on occasion for fun or indulges in in an or joint a few times a year Mainstream social media dependency for social validation from a presented identity Mainstream social media dependency for entertainmentPathological lying because trust is obviously necessary for a relationship Any extreme paraphilias or sexual deviancesUnintelligent as in not curious about things or has rigid factually incorrect beliefs Religious in any kind of sense like Christianity or Islam or Buddhism Unhealthy as in she's extremely overweight or underweight as that's a sign of mental illness from a disregard for personal well-beingDoesn't have any long-term goals she's actively working on or wants to actively work onThose are all non-negotiables Here are some preferencesProbably not autistic or ADHD as well Not that being neurotypical is inherently a red flag to me it's just there's going to be a communication barrier and it's not worth the hassle for either person because of incompatibilityExtraversion just because I'm extremely introverted and wouldn't want to be around somebody who is again for compatibilityThat's about it really if I ever meet a female and she checks off any one of non-negotiable those boxes it's over and done withI'm quite confident in my mid or later 20s I'll eventually meet a female who meets those standards and I meet her standards and we can form something good Until that happens I don't really care to want a relationship because I've never cared to want a relationship
>>85628432The girl being into me would be a red flag.
>>85628432>Orbiters>Not a virgin>Has a "boyfriend" she sees once a month>Has a social media account>Has friends/is part of any female social circle>Doesn't split the bill>Wants to eat trash food>Goes out>Is into travel>Tattoos>Overweight>Dead fish in conversation, expects you to be the clown and always come up with something to talk about and basically comfort her sad existence>Dead fish in bed>Non virgin>Over 20 (pushing it)
>>85628606You just came up with this list so you can feel less bad about being rejected by every girl you've ever encountered.
>>85628618I was thinking of the last 5 chicks ive fucked while typing that thokindna sad the list turns into>is a foid
>>85628633>hurr i've totally had sex with girls that's why i'm on /r9k/ whining about girls who aren't virgins
Wearing more than zero Nightmare Before Christmas accessories / articles of clothing
>>85628769I really like her mouth and nose and eyes and face and also her huge tits to focus on when looking at her beautiful face gets overwhelming. I hate that she's so pretty and that some random Italian dude gets to be with her instead of me.
>>85628432>What are your red flags when it comes to dating womenPost nudes online. Support Lindsay ClancyGets free drugs from her dealerDoes drugsHas male friends Doesn't text back
>>85628804i think it's a redflag if a girl even takes nudes. it's just unbecoming behavior.
>>85628643yeahdo foids really think dudes want virgins because theyre virgins too and not because not getting sloppy seconds or thirds or 50ths is the logical choice
>>85628844>i'm le chadso why are you even on here? go have sex faggot.
>red flags>hurr durr I'm the prizelol.
>>85628880>you aren't allowed to have standards lol.
>>85628917>standards include basedjakspass, lol.
>She likes meBiggest red flag there is. Like what the fuck is wrong with her>not that it have ever happened lol
>>85628880female standards>be chadREEEEEEEEEEEEEEE/r9k/ - delusion city
>>85628928i've never heard of a basedjak. are you okay?
>>85628432orbiters are worse than a high body count.
>>85628432High body count
>>85628935>/r9k/ having standards despite being the bottom feeders of menlol.>>85628937>being this newlol.
>>85628947i don't think anyone knows what a basedjak is desu
>>85628954>cannot conceptualize>has autismlol.
>>85628970do you look like this? will you be my girlfriend?
>>85628988>I chuckle as I take off my fake breasts and put my dick in your mouth to reveal that I really am Gary Oak>Pokemon Master
>>85628432>Doesn't understand personal boundariesAn ex took a photo of me once in my underwear, which is fine for fun and games. She posted it on her Facebook, though. We both worked at the same place, so all of my coworkers saw me in my underwear. She honestly didn't understand she did something wrong. I think this might be a sign of autism in women, idk.>Punishes me out of spite/revenge"You can't come over? I guess I'll hang out with my male friend you never met.""OMG you won't do X??? I hope I didn't get pregnant!"Clear sign of narcissism.>Wants to move fast/impatientAlways fails, usually a sign she's rebounding from a pervious relationship.>Long list of health/mental conditions before we start getting seriousThis is just another way of saying she's difficult and high maintenance. Not really a red flag for me because we all have problems, but it always happens. It feels like I'm buying a used car.
I think if a girl doesn't know how to dress that's a pretty big red flag
I have none. All women are beautiful angels made in image of a goddess. They are our queens and the only grace and light in this otherwise cruel black world. They deserve so much better than us, because each and every one of them is truly special.
>>85628432>fat>has kids>has stdsThat's it. Anything else I'm happy to work with.
>>85628432verbally never says i love you out the blue
>>8562843218 or older
feels like you don't know why this is a thing. but that would be silly of me to say because you already have this second sentence explaining it
They speakThey're in the same presence as me without my consent They're 3d
>>85628432>picky eater>into celebrity culture>unmotivated/uneducated>doesnt exercise>smokes weed or uses nic regularly>says shit like "im just a girl">virgin (i don't want someone who's bad at sex)>wears clothes for the brand>wants a provider or princess treatment (i love to spoil my partners but i find it repulsive when its an expectation or demand)
>>85628432>What are your red flags when it comes to dating women?Dating itself is the red flagIf you were her Chad you wouldnt have to date her and if you arent you are better of being free.
>'content' creator>tattoos>septum piercing>sanrio>rap or nu-metal, any wiggercore>anime pfp>negging>30+>uses 'narcissist' or any facebook tier pop-psych
>regularly stoned/drunk>aphantasia>tiktok addict>cutslut and/or institutionalized
>hideously leftwing and feministI notice younger women aren't toxic in this particular way. This is a millennial harpy thing.
>>85628432> Sanrio> Promiscuity> Smoker or vaper> Litters> Uses "I'm silly" speak or baby speak> Influencer or addicted to social media> Onlyfans> No hobbies> Interests are completely based on latest trends> Sticker sleeve tattoo> Pseudo psychiatrist> Self proclaimed femcel
>>85628450Oof, the fucking "I know", fuck all that. Cuntiest thing to say in response to compliments or any positive feeling offered to them. Just block instantly if you ever get that. It's not going to go well for you and there's no righting that ship.
>is interested in me
Has dated outside of her race.
>>85630520>tattoo immediately discarded
>>85628432For me it's>career
>>85628432Fat, ink stains, piercings, non-virgin, dressed like a whore, smoking, druggiescum, alcoholic, vapid.
>>85629642How is it a redflag? Why is it a redflag
