>OP makes sincere personal post on the longish side>try to actually engage with him>no replieswhat the fuckwhy are you pretending to scream into the void when i'm in your face, talking to you? pretentious assholes
>>85699100Maybe some people just vent and leave?
blogspamming should be banned. If you are not going to reply fuck off to tumblr
That OP wasn't me I just jumped in on it, sorry. But in general if someone stops replying on 4chan they might just not have anything more to add (because you did such a good job with your post!)
>>85699112but they shouldn't. this is a board. a forum. i'm another human person that they uploaded their message to. if they want to be so faggy about it they could write a nice cursive letter with a heart over every i to make a poignant scene when cast into the fire. vent. eugh.>>85699125i'm fine with people talking about their lives or themselves as long as they actually have something to talk with people about and do talk.
>>85699132>But in general if someone stops replying on 4chan they might just not have anything more to add (because you did such a good job with your post!)This. I'm not very good with my words but I'll try to acknowledge ones I've read instead of leaving them hanging.>>85699157Shut up.
>>85699132i'm sure that's it. it's like when that girl insulted me and stayed away, because she secretly liked me so much.>>85699165shut up.
>>85699157>but they shouldn't.There could be many reasons why people don't respond. But yeah would be nice to get replies when replying to others.Bedtime for me now.Nighty night.
>>85699181>shut up.I'm sorry.
>>85699100i understand how you feel, but anons are right. some people just post in a fit of rage or anxiety and then leave and forget about it. i'm sorry it happens to you anon, here have a (You)
>>85699233>>85699214reason and right, ehh. i understand how they feel, doing it. i'm just saying it sucks, especially considering the rest of the board is hardly any better for sincerely interacting with anons. but i concede that actually caring about this is due to deficiencies in my own person and life.>>85699231i'm sorry. actually i had no idea why you told me to shut up in the first place other than writing in an annoying manner, unless it was humour about not talking.
>>85699263I read your comment, got frustrated, and then remembered all the times I spent attempting to engage with a venting OP only for the thread to be archived. Sometimes I would bump it with some more questions and such to further a possible conversation.
>>85699263Caring about things is good, and I get the over caring due to things missing from our lives. I'm the same. And there's lots of anons out there that are the same.
>>85699263>considering the rest of the board is hardly any better for sincerely interacting with anonsi can relate. i've been looking for a better board, but honestly they all suck. tried bant, int and s4s for a while but they're full of... weird people to say the least, like not in the outcast sense but a mean, arrogant way. and, caring about this doesn't mean you have deficiencies. it means you have some empathy left in your heart and you take the time to read and understand the person behind the screen. i think you're a good person for that anon
>>85699274i see. i understand that. i'm kind of neurotic so i assumed you were playing with me, there.>>85699284>>85699314thank you. first anon is right about over-caring though. using this as an outlet for social impulses warps my experience of it and makes me care a lot about things that don't make that much sense to care about. i sometimes browse the hobby boards still, but there's enough rot that you can't spend too much time there anymore. and i think we weirdoes do tend to become hostile, especially since it's the easiest way to get attention and engagement, the currency of this place.
>>85699379i don't know anon. i think caring is not that bad, but you certainly know what's behind that care better than us. and i think there's a small difference between being a weirdo and being mean. i am definitely a weirdo and i deal with a lot of hostility, but that doesn't mean i have to join the endless loop of negativity. sometimes you need attention from 1 or 2 people that will stick to you for a long time, rather than the attention of the 20 people you can get by posting stupid bait. i'm not sure, i don't even know why i visit this place anymore. but i can tell you, if you do care then that means you're not as bad as you might think.
>>85699100I'm probably not who youre talking about but if I don't reply it's because I don't know what to say
>>85699100Are you talkin about my thread bitch ass nigga, the one thats archived and i can no longer reply in?
>>85699448it's not evil to care, but it can be unhealthy or unreasonable, especially in extent. in any case, i appreciate what you say, though i don't know what to add to it. you may be more insightful or self-aware than i am. for me, social need comes and goes, and in great waves, so the quick though hollow and vapid fix is a more natural way to satisfy it than the steady friend. in fact i can not let people stick around me for a long time, or i feel too pressured by them (even if they don't message me), and i leave them. the urge to isolate is really overwhelming.visiting this place is for sure an addiction, and i haven't found a substitute to wean myself off it with. just now i found a post i liked that made hours spent feel worth it, easily demonstrating how i stay hooked. i also got some gratification through this thread. i can't speak for others, but to me it's simply lack of replacement. not just in terms of other sites, but also in real life.i recognize i'm just talking about myself. i suppose you should not reply, now, or i will likely feel like i owe it to you to continue.>>85699546>>85699562i'm not talking about anyone in particular, this happens all the time with different people