Most ladies get dozens of msgs per day (and thats prob lowball AF) and if shes even taking the time to respond, theres prob something she found interesting about that guy My perception of this is she enjoys a little tension and trash talk with guys shes interested in (which is very common), or shes just tired of being pen pals w guys who dont have the balls to ask her out, and she put a playful challenge out there to see if this guy is like every other chode in her inbox, or if hes different If hed responded w something like ah I knew there was something about you I liked. 8ish at *bar/restaurant* is prob cool w me and work the logistics from there, theres a helluva lot better chance this had the outcome he was hoping for when he matched her. Instead, he got butthurt and confirmed to her that hes not a guy who shed enjoy hanging w Imagine looking for a job, you find one you like, and when you inquire they tell you the position is open and you can start immediately, and instead of taking it you get pissed off bc they dont want to read over your resume If you interpret things a lady says like that as being cute and amusing to you, instead of getting butthurt, things will go much better I promise
>>85708419Western dating apps are pure garbage, literally I would get 1-3 matches a month and they would be fat or trans. I use language apps now to talk to Russian cuties, seriously making me consider moving there.
Is it 2019 or something? We use dating apps as a culture?
>>85708419I would never meet up with a complete stranger no matter how hot and dtf she was, that's a massive red flag you're getting catfished anyway
>>85708419i hate foids so much its unreal>wahh men dont read my profile and just demand dates>wahh men talk about my profile instead of ignoring it and demandig a dateget me out of this hell
>>85708419>Ayo cuh this bitch ah hoe be getting dmed twenny fo seven so she a boss ah bitch when you talk like a normal person If you do this you arent really human.
>>85708419Honestly, I also wouldn't talk to someone that writes "anime's".
>>85708419You will never make it, if this is your mindset.
>>85708419What was the point of her responding? >You should've just told me where to meet you and made a planHe can't ask if you have plans first before doing that? retarded bitch
I ain't reading a whole paragraph of cringe rationalization. I can already tell your problem is that you talk too much. It comes across as desperate.
these guys are retarded, as soon as this chick disrespected me I would call her a fat cunt
>>85708419There are women who want to message for days on the platform, then message longer after exchanging numbers for meeting. There are girls who want to talk on the phone first before meeting. There are girls who want to FaceTime before meeting. And there are girls who want to not talk at all, and have you ask them out in the first message. Cause penpal'ing gives them the ick. NEVER go after the last type.
>If you interpret things a lady says like that as being cute and amusing to you, instead of getting butthurt, things will go much better I promise"Never get angry at women, goy! Not even then they continually disrespect you!"We see how's that going for you, OP.
>>85710318No, she's actually giving him great advice. Stand out offering something right out of the bat instead of dilly dallying with stuffHe's aware women get a lot of spam he should understand is no longer the place to try to have "rizz" or to start with simple questions. Even if men don't receive message you can tell they're also tired of that kind of stuff that doesn't really go anywhere, that's why we call discord people here friend collectors and such.
>>85710536>dilly dallyingHow is it "dilly dallying" nigger it's a simple straightforward question, from which he presumably would follow directly into something like "cool how about we do X"? "You should have already made a plan" makes no fucking sense, what if the dumb bitch had an appointment at the doctor or was moving or whatever on that weekend?
>>85708419The problem seems to be that you treat holes as you would a man. As anon above mentioned, tell the object where to be and at what time right off the bat.
Yeah no shit, its a game and u gotta know how 2 play it, personally its boring as shit and I cant keep on these apps for more than a weekend, enough to get a couple dates tho!The dude shouldve made a joke instead of making his best seething ' jak impression, fucking idiot I didnt read most of ur post sorry if I didnt answer ur question or smthg mate
>>85710669Us millenials have this concept of chatting based on slower internet connections where we used to believe all conversations should start with a polite hi, followed by a pleasantry like how are you and slowly build from there until we see if there's a connection or vibes, and then we ask for a dateIn the hyperconnected slop era of today, people simply don't have any time for that crap. A hi is a waste, a how are you might be followed by an invitation to download a scam app, a shitty invitation for a crypto shitcoin and any other spam nonsense. If you don't have a pic of yourself you might be a chatbot, if you have one, you're probably ai. In this era, the most respectful thing to do is to state your business clearly and leave all the vibes part in an area where it matters, real life.
>>85710897But the thing is that he wasn't even "vibing", he was taking an active step toward setting up a date, and she complained that he didn't have a crystal ball to know when she would have been available. Sorry, the bitch is just retarded.
