for clarity, i am not autistic, but i am an extremely introverted guy. i might even have some sort of schizoid personality disorder. i am 20, and i work as a cryptographer (applied matshs researcher) at a university(i plan to save enough and start buying stocks and monero and retire, then spend all of my time on mathematics and knowledge)i have won several mathematics olympiads and the u17 national chess championship. my country is orthodox, but i go to the local protestant church every sunday and serve there as a mtm (my mom is serbian and my dad is hungaroan)so, there is a girl who serves in another team at the church, and i see her every sunday for about 6 months now. i think she has given me several signs that she likes me, but i am not sure if they were signs. one time, i was sitting alone, and she came and asked me some random question about mathematics (she studies finance and economics). in church's youth meetings, sometimes she would come and ask some questions about me and my projects, then give me compliments that everything will work for me.she alwyas smiles when we catch eye contact. we started takking a lot more in the last 2 months , but now she is starting to talk to me about other guys and i don t. like that , very weird? but she still tells me she likes me and says im really unique, we spend time together when i help her with maths i am extremely schizoid, paranoid, and introverted. i don't have friends and never had girlfriend, but everyone knows that i am some weird "genius" guy,but i am also kind of attractive and there were church girls who said that they like me ,i don't have ig,, fb, or any other stupid sn apps. i don't even use my phone.What do you think,if this are signs that she likes me and want me to make move should i do that??? she is very attractive,pretty,tall and smart girl.I am i am not sure that i need to exchange my freedom,my passions,my love to some relationships so i don't care too much. what dp you all think ?
>>85714850Never EVER help a girl with schoolwork.
>tl;dr a 20 yr old introverted, possibly schizoid cryptographer noticed a church girl's mixed signals for 6 months. she smiles, compliments, and asks for math help. but she also talks about other guys and wonders if she likes him and whether he should make a move. he's torn because he values his solitude, math, and plans for early retirement over a relationship.
>>85714850>>85714864Sharing this life with somebody is infinitely better than living it alone. If you are into her, and you think she is into you, you would regret not taking that chance for the rest of your life.
>>85714858why? im not a selfush person despite being introcerted, i don't mind it that much,,>>85714864thanks for tldring for people who don't like reading.>>85714883>Sharing this life with somebody is infinitely better than living it alonewhy? i don't know if she's into me, im extrmly paranoid and schizoid, but maybe she is?? what do you think? i thiugnt she waas until she started talking to me about other guys and showing me messages on ig between her and some stupid guys i know of, but don't talk to bcs i have no friends,,
>>85714850Aren't you the guy who doxxed himself on here a few months ago? Either way, just take her or leave her, your call. You should be glad you have the opportunity in the first place
>>85714898>why? i don't know if she's into me [...]Look, if you want to conclusively predetermine if she is into you without asking: you can't.Some of her behaviour is clearly interest in you, but there are mixed signals, too. You say you're paranoid yourself, so you do need clear and direct info. We can't really know if her showing you other guys is just her playing games, or just her being your friend.So, if YOU want to, go and make a move. Something casual that is clearly a bid for something more intimate, like a date. And a good relationship doesn't require you to give up math or chess or even your retirement plan. If she likes you for you, those things aren't issues. But if you do not want to compromise at all on anything, your own capacity for a relationship is the limiting factor, and not her.
>>85714939i didn't post myself, so meone else posted it, but yes im that anon from a few months ago, how are you doing??? have you been well? i don't remember who you are, but hopefully you're not that someone who posted those pictures, please don't do it againnn. i tried to take it, but then she started talking to me about other guys , so mow im xonfused
>>85714952how do you make a move? i think we had dates alreaaaady, ive been to her home and vice versa , but she never kissed me or anuthugn and most of the time her parents were home , too
>>85714850How about you talk to your fucking minister? Aren't you supposed to ask him for advice instead of some randos on the internet?
>>85714969What does she like?
>>85714980she likes math and cringe literature , it's so bad that i flat out told her i think those books were written for brainless coomers and that there's no substance in them. she doesn't know how to play chess and i hate it when she starts talking to me about other people, what do you think??
>>85714997Hmm, we need more concrete data.I think you should do a super simple little test: you touch her the next time you're sitting together privately, like when doing math. Just while casually explaining something, or listening to her, lightly touch her thigh, or put your hand in hers naturally. Her reaction will tell you all you need to know. You feel me?And yea, those books are very cheesy, girls love them.
>>85715018but what if she doesn't like me , then it's sexual assult?
>>85715048No, that's not sexual assault, she likes you. We are just trying to figure out how deep she likes you. If that feels too scary for you, then just go for a hug when saying byebye next instead, but going for something more intimate would give you conclusive data.
>>85714850I think OP is one of these people
>>85715064I looked up the archive, this is what got him last time, I'm just reposting it. Don't ban me for nothing.
>>85714957I just read the thread back then. I kind of expected you to be more successful, but at the same time I'm not doing any better. >then she started talking to me about other guys , so mow im xonfusednow it's the time to upsell yourself, think of how a good salesman would react in this situation: He would make it sound like his product is the best one on the market, while at the same time doing everything so the customer does not talk to a salesman from the competitor. Don't take this information for granted though, i'm khhv myself.
>>85715075>now it's the time to upsell yourselfDo not do this, this is the dumbest most beta move you could take and it would instantly ruin any chance you have with her as a romantic partner.
>>85714850Wait OP, is this you and her then? Cuteeee
>>85715105Lmao hot friend OP I'd pump 20 kids into her
>>85715105He's about to learn why you never share anything about yourself online
>>85714850if u think its the play dude most ppl arent cryptographersmaybe get a career with more universal skills then she knows u can go to different jobs
>>85715243i used to be paranoid before figuring out i can survive being homeless and i figure out how to sell website and use linux and write game engines so i can basically get a remote job whenever i want one
>>85715105hawt can you get me a date with your friend since you're a cuck/gay/asexual?
>>85715513lmfao he can teach her math, i will teach her biology
Nigga, no 20 year old with plans after college ever sees them through. Start considering how you're going to pick yourself back up when god abandons you and your plans fall through.That's real grit.
>>85715537He's a Serb, god is a Serb, god won't abandon him
>>85715747KARADIZCU VODI SERBE SVOJE
>>85714850Well OP, if you've known this girl for over six months and never made a move on her, and now she's started talking to you about other guys then there is a good chance that she's "friendzoned" you already. That is to say she thinks of you as "just a friend", and not someone she would ever be interested in romantically or sexually. Six months is a long time to go without making a move, especially at your age. HOWEVER, it could be that I am wrong and she is mentioning other guys as a way to make you jealous, in the hopes that this will finally nudge you into making a move on her.The only way to tell whether she's friendzoned you or if she's still interested in you is to move things into a more romantic direction and see how she reacts. Instead of just going to her house to help her with her math homework, ask her if she'd like to go to a nightclub and dancing, or dinner and a movie, or whatever it is that young people in eastern Europe typically do on dates. At the end of the date when you take her home, MAKE SURE TO KISS HER! If she pulls away then she's friendzoned you. If she kisses you back she's interested. Simple, you see?
>>85715956Love these braindead guys that just post their own massive paragraph before even reading through the thread first
>>85715964I read every post in this thread, what part of my post are you finding fault with? I'm genuinely curious if I missed something or if you're just an imbecile.
>>85715105she looks so goddamn hot in a traditionally hot way
>>85715990>One hour later...It appears >>85715964 was just an imbecile
>>85716231the kinda girl everyone knew in school. op hasnt been around, ig thats really her
If she was interested on you, she would have made a move already.
>>85716383She kinda did several times
>>85714850There's no smoking gun, but there's certainly a lot of little bits of evidence there anon. What does she say about you to other people? Has she ever hinted that you should ask her to go somewhere? I suppose that would be your next logical step. Ask her to go to the movies/bowling/whatever your country culturally enjoys. Also nice one on no social media. That shit is like injecting turds into the brain.
>>85714850>but now she is starting to talk to me about other guys and i don t. like thatAnon I don't want to discourage you because I might not be correct, but this reeks of friendzone. I'm telling you that as someone who's been there a lot in my youth. When you're young it can kind of be difficult to differentiate friendliness and a girl being interested in you, so you need to figure out if there's anything going on there by being forward about being attracted to her.The fact that you're helping her with stuff only reinforces my guess that you're friendzoned, she's getting tangible benefits out of friendship with you and she's incentivized to be nice (and she might like you as a friend as well).I think the best thing for you is to find out if you're actually in the friendzone or not by talking to her about it openly and telling her you like her. Cuz if you are, you don't want to spend the next 5 years turning in bed thinking about her, while being unable to get anywhere.Anyway I saw your thread on /pol/ kek. Fellow Serb here.
>>85715105Absolute masterpiece
>>85716329it's the not having a bitch face that's attractive, she looks like a good person and most foids don't
>>85715105:O <-> .i. iykyk
I bullied OP away xD
>>85716413your giving him beta advice, chad rapes and doesn't care about any of that gay shit you just said
>>85714898women will try to make you jealous to see how you react. she might be trying to see if you like her.
