What causes a momcest fetish and is there a cure?
>>85715400Growing up?
>>85715400I would posit its because they're treated badly by most women, but their mom is nice and caring and that feeling gets confused with attraction and then they can't stop thinking about sexo with their momThe cure is to grow up and get laid, especially with older women if thats your thing
>>85715400>What causes a momcest fetishHaving a mom built for incest>is there a cure?Nope, but you can find other fetishes. Just learn to live with it or have your mom help you out, idk.
>>85715400Probably getting groomed by an aunt or someone like that so they naturally go nuts and push it to the absolute extreme which would be momcest
>>85715400My mom has a big fuckable ass and also she used to touch me inappropriately when i was a kid
>>85715400An older girl molested me in kindergarten while acting as if she was my mommy, I was basically her real life doll, she was in elementary school I think, they were adjoining
>>85715492lucky bastard>she used to touch me inappropriately when i was a kidstory? what led to that, how did she touch you
>>85715539I was scared of the dark so i used to sleep on her bed a lot. >how did she touch youShe used to rub her smooth fat legs against mine. I loved how it felt, i was a kid so i didn't knew what to do, so i just kept rubbing her legs because it felt good, i was kind of dry humping her.
>>85715400I just like the fact that mothers modify their sons' genitals to fit their aesthetic preference. Mommy doesn't like foreskin so you don't get to have one. When she changes your diaper or gives you a bath she wants to see your pretty glans not an ugly little wormy.
>>85715437Not OP but I have and it doesn't help. There's definitely some magical, divine, demonic, hellish attraction loop I'm in where every woman I meet that's interested in me is older, married, and a ball of chaos waiting to explode and it doesn't make things any easier if I DON'T fuck them. I've had threats on my life for fucking hags and not fucking hags. It seems to work as some circle of confirmation in my perspective where the only woman that's safe and doesn't want to kill me is my mom.
My mom didn't care much about me and I don't find any of heir traits, physical or personality, attractive. I just want to be taken care of by someone warm and competent, really. It's not about motherdom in itself, a mother is just the typical person who would fill that role, so it's the most convenient kind of character for a fetishistic fantasy.
>>85715577Man, same.I wonder if that's something good mothers do. Sometimes it seems like too much love and affection can go really wrong even for someone as fitting for that as a mother.
>>85715400the cure is to date someone that indulges in those fetishes and then once she dumps you, you will associate all of that with her and it's going to make you hate it
>>85715400>is there a cure?The only real cure is trying to do it. 3 things can happen:-She shoots you down and you realize how badly you fucked up that the idea is completely bitter now. Bonus points if it permanently soured the relationship or fucked up your life.-You end up actually doing it by some miracle, congratulations. Then you either: - regret it to the point you feel like vomiting every time you remind yourself of it,- or you two end up fucking like rabbits until it inevitably loses its magic and you go back to second scenario where it makes you kinda sick when thinking about doing it again. Or in the best case scenario you just got your fill and just lose any desire to come back to it (pulling this from legit sounding confessions).Anything else is a temporary remedy.
>>85717440NTA but what if I'm not actually into my mom but an idealized version of her with bigger tits?
>>85717558then that's probably better. for you the cure would probably be finding a decent enough look alike and fucking her
>>85715419mine got worse as I got older though
>>85715437In my case it is more or less the opposite. And I'm confident a good proportion of others are coming from a similar place. My mom has some pretty severe mental health issues and was very abusive. She also had periods where she was sexually inappropriate and more promiscuous. And on my end, Im a fairly attractive guy currently in an LTR. I had 1 other LTR prior to this one as well as shorter ones and fair amount of hookups, so I've had experiences in different types of relationships with girls and don't feel I've been treated poorly by women etc. I don't hate my mom or even resent here that much though my interest could probably deduced to a sort of desire that involves a sort of inverse retaliation. Not literally to get back at her but subconsciously inversing the way she used sex to manipulate men back onto her.
>>85715419Is this the cause or the cure?
I think for me it was caused by having a deadbeat mom who abandoned me before I was born but growing up seeing all of the hot moms in media who were really caring for their sons. I'm not attracted to my real mom at all, that idea disgusts me. I just desperately want a tall gf who calls herself mommy and is really gentle and caring and runs her fingers through my hair and calls me a good boy and tells me she's proud of me.