The bar is in hell fellas. So why can't you get a girlfriend?
>>85716939Bar is in hell for anyone not white.
>>85716939chads who manage to be single tend to be shit enough to remain single, so it makes sense from her pov
>>85716939No one actually wants to date a woman, it's just a meme to generate engagement. It's an incredible burden to have a woman in your life, you basically can't do anything you want anymore.
>>85716939>>85716985>>85716963prophetic thread
I don't get any likes. I'm invisible a ghost.
>>85716939If the bar was in hell I would not get rejected. I have a house and a car and a job and I'm white and average height, and I'm not cruel or quick to anger. THERE WAS A TIME WHEN THIS MADE YOU A CATCH
>>85716994>>85717019why not date any of the millions of desperate women with incredibly low standards?
>>85717019Average height...hehehe
>>85716939>>85717031You dont have to post constant demoralization threads mister glowie agent I already don't pursue women.
Thing is I don't care about any of these women or their standards because they are not Brittany Venit. I'm Ventisexual. You all should become Ventisexual too.
>>85717031they don't try to meet me. I'm tired.
>>85716989>It's an incredible burden to have a woman in your life, you basically can't do anything you want anymore.oof
>>85717042I'm pretty sure the average is 5'9 and I'm 5'10>>85717031I'm not going on reddit
>>85717059You aren't even trying. Just go up to a woman, tell her you're a functional adult who can wipe your own ass, and that you're not an abuser.
>>85716948So untrue, being white is a passive debuff since you arent naturally violent and retarded which woman cream for.
>>85716939The bar is in hell for Chad, we as non-Chads pretty much dont exist to women, so they dont really take us into consideration when saying this shit
>>85717031I had over 2000 rejections on reddit, I mostly looked through doomer women complaining about no bf. Not having a job is below the bar it seems
>>85716939women are in hell
>>85716939The bar is in hell, but for femoidsA femoid can be plapped by several men and still get a husband
>>85717175>Not having a job is below the bar it seemsthis has only been observed in every single survey done about what women want from a man>but chad doesnt have to have a jobyea well
>>85717122"Bar is hell" means the standards are low, so that anon is saying standards are higher if you're white.
>>85717201Shit fuck that makes more sense then, my bad totally misread that. Crazy how it works for the priviliged class apperently.
>>85717019>I have a house and a car and a job and I'm white and average heightWell that looks good on paper, but you might still be fat, bald, wear glasses, dress like a dork, and/or have a very boring personality. Do any of these apply to you? If you can identify what is putting off women then you can work to change that. Or you could just sit here on /r9k/ with the other dateless virgins and whine that women have standards you don't meet.
>>85717278>FatYeah but I'm literally at the halfway point between what I weighed at the start of this year and the cutoff for obesity,just another 22 lbs to go, and I also work out.>GlassesYeah>Dress poorlyWaiting until my weight is good to buy a new wardrobe>BoringIdk maybe but I think that's a result of extended loneliness and isolation and general distrust of people. Oh and I'm also in my 30s but anyway, tell me more about how low the bar is
>>85717031These women dont want us. When they say the bar is in hell they want 6ft4 models who make 300k/year
>>85717194Having a job is not enough. You need a well paying, attractive job.
>>85717019>THERE WAS A TIME WHEN THIS MADE YOU A CATCH>>85717314>Why yes I AM a boring antisocial bespectacled fat guy in my thirties who dresses like a dork, but it's women's inflated standards that are the problem!Bro, there was never a time in modern history when you would have been a catch. Good to hear you're losing weight though. That's a step in the right direction but there's much, much more work you're going to have to do.
>>85717031everyone you know in real life is in a relationship whilst simultaneously everyone you speak to thinks the opposite gender is gay as fuck and hates them.pretty tired desu.
>>85717392>There was never a time in modern historyI think 5 years ago when I wasn't in my 30s and so beat down by dozens of rejections and terrible first dates, when I would have been a catch. And I think if you're filtering guys out for wearing glasses your bar is not in hell, and not even low. If the bar was "in hell" I would still have opportunity
>>85717413>I think 5 years ago when I wasn't in my 30sYeah but you were still an obese guy with glasses though, weren't you? Your problem isn't online dating apps raising women's standards, you would have been considered an undatable nerd even back in the 1950s
>>85717019i've always had this theory woman prefer slobs like in that movie Leaving Las Vegas. you just have to resemble what they find attractive at the moment, and in 2026 its gonna be something stupid like K-pop idol, ghetto nigger thug, twink femboy etc all the types most men despise. Then they'd let you live in their home rent free, even if you're unemployed and doing nothing at all they'd bring you gifts and keep you like a pet dog that they can get fucked by.
>>85716939>So why can't you get a girlfriend?I don't talk to women
>>85716939three cats in a hat
>>85717514>K-pop idol, ghetto nigger thug, twink femboy etcThose are the kind of men incels find attractive? What about length and girth etc?
>>85716939i don't want a demon so i'm avoiding all the the "bar is in hell" girlies
>>85716939Not interested in 300+lb fat midwestern chics. Anyone that keeps their shape and is still single in their 30's has impossibly high standards, while not even the GLP-1 can save the fat chicks from having been fat so long they're now bags of loose skin.
>>85716939Cause I'm short and ugly. Next question.
>the bar is in hellwhat they're subconciously saying is you would be in hell if you dated one of these chicks
>>85716939No one my age goes outside anymore and most women can't clear a super low bar themselves anymore, it isn't just a man's problemif I'm making 6 figures, exercising, working on projects, cooking, cleaning and so on I'm going to want a woman who does more than just sit on tiktok and instagramMen need to be better, women need to be better. disappointed in everyone
>>85717784if you're making these 6 figs these women will just beta bux you, unless you're an athlete, a celebrity or some thugmaxxed black rapper
>>85716985What shitty looking women, no doubt they were awful to be around and that's why their tallchads left them. No one with selfies like those has anything going for them.
>>85717766thats what the OP image gives off too lol
>>85717792not a professional athlete but I do compete at a casual/local levelbut yes that's part of why I'm only going to date women that actually have goals and do things with their life. better than with someone who's just using me for money. I'm still in my mid 20s so not completely out of luck, but I imagine by 30 to give up.
Just a reminder what you see on social media is how all women feel. Even the nice ones. They all hate men and see you as subhuman, but most are afraid to say so irl because they might get beat to death. It's like how a lot of white people wont call a black a nigger irl but they will online. The dynamic right now between women and men is eerily similar to the dynamic between jew and Christian goy. One side absolutely loathes the other and want to destroy them and the other worships the side that sees them as subhuman
>>85716939>bar is in hellI don't want to date demons
>>85717837idk man, good for you you're doing well for yourself but you are giving off desperate vibes a bit. Mentioning how much money you make in context to dating is a massive red flag, if that factors into them dating to you, they're going to tear you a new hole.
>>85717854I wouldn't mention it to anyone I'm dating, I only mention it here as a matter of what I'm expecting for someone else, to be working as hard as that for their life as well (whether it's monetary or otherwise). I'm not particularly shy about how much I make but it'd be stupid to tell that to your date early on (probably even before getting married entirely).I have yet to date at all though, almost everyone my age has moved somewhere you get paid better and is more populated, or just stays online all day
>>85717889I'm broke, neet, a bit older than you and have dated a few times without apps, maybe try moving somewhere else.
>>85717031Reminder that the majority of people die living mediocre lives full of regret where they're too afraid to ever take risks and put their truest selves out there. That also means they never go to the places they want to go or meet the kind of people they actually want to be with because their bog standard outwards personality only attracts the lowest common denominator of opportunities. It's still complete luck, but these people are doing nothing to increase their odds. Though I reckon they're also taking comfort in shitting on people that are only slightly more mediocre than they are, so who knows if they'll ever change.
>>85717889Just stop overthinking it bro.Either you're tall and chad or you're not. Simple as.Just try and find a chick into some freaky shit because you can get them addicted to your sexting or whatever. Otherwise don't waste your time. There's countless things to do before you die and being a jester for stupid fucking hoes is not a good one.
>>85717911>personalityOr they could be avoiding risks because every time they stick their neck out they get 1 inch away from being decapitated.It's not hard to imagine how many ways interacting with more people creates more opportunities for you to accrue enemies. We all know you can get divorce raped but you can simply be framed by a woman for regular rape or falsely accused of being a pedo and having your life ruined because courts take the foid side 90% of the time.
>>85717909I could, but I do like where I live and all my family's here, so I would like to stay nearby if possible. I have been considering it though, if it still feels like that in a couple years I'll probably consider leaving, but not sure where. It is certainly odd though, high school almost feels like the last opportunity I had to date (although I don't regret turning every girl down who came up to me) or make more friends (but nearly everyone went out of state, then covid lockdowns freshman year of college on top of that)>>85717921I'm only doing events/clubs and the like I already care about, not installing dating apps or doing anything else specifically for the purpose of women. it's just everyone is in their 30s or older, so not many options in terms of women or even just men my age to be friends with (not that you can't be friends with men older than you, of course, but still).
>>85716939>peaceful and content life>dealing with womenI choose the former, even if I die a virgin. I don't give a fuck.
>>85716939Because while women adapt to the current state of the world where men are shit, the bar men have for women has never and will never be in hell.They still believe the pics they see on instagram and onlyfans are real, for example. Despite women having to work now they still expect women to take care of everything around the house, despite women outearning men nowm they still believe they should control the finances. Men just need to stop being so deluded
>>85716939I am autistic and mid looking
>>85718042>Because while women adapt to the current state of the world where men are shit,who raised these men?
>>85717031Literal organic bots, god I hate women
>>85717911That's the typical shit nepo babies and junkies say.It only works if your parents are loaded pushovers who will rescue you from every single of your failed adventures.For the less fortunate is dying from overdose with 30-40 years
>>85718042You're so fucking deluded that's funny, especially on the doing things around the house, young women don't do things around the house at all, most men don't care about women doing things at house or not and it's women who demand men to do things in house how they see fit in which they show that they're delusional because they have no real authority over men.And don't get me started on women and finances because it's practically the same situation
>>85716985the bar is in hell but still above 6'2 somehow
i only have sex with animals. while it is 100% mental illness its not a "prison gay" type thing. i simply cannot get it up for people anymore
>>85716939These are just very vocal terminally online women. They're imagining some type of man and then getting mad at their boogeyman. The men above the bar aren't interested in them either, so their perception is no one good is around.I wouldn't worry about what they say or talk about. You'll never meet these people in person.
>>85716939"Hell", to women, is the bottom 80 or 90% of men
>>85716939Both romantic relationships and women have no appeal to me.
>>85716939im scared to talk to them
Now is your chance short kings!
>>85719111>By short kings we mean we will begrudgingly accept 6'1", but nag to you everyday because well feel entitled to because we showed such compassion and tolerance
>Le bar is in le hell1>>Teach men not to le rape1>> i pick le bear1>> I cackled1Just another stupid retarded foidismFoids bars are higher than everYour not getting anything out of unless youre Chad
>>85716939I'm 5'7 I'm below hell
>>85717497>broo the bar is in hell broo>just be a 6ft5 multimillionaire with no unattractive physical trait, no glasses, do surfing and bungee jumping as a hobby, own multiple houses ,cars, be really fit, be uberattractive>its soo easy bro
>>85719833>Women don't want boring fat slobs with glasses>NOOOOOOOOoooo why do I have to be a 6'5 millionaire??? It's so UNFAIR!! (shits pants)What causes this level of retardation?
>>85717748>single in their 30'sYou mean 30sPlease learn English before posting here
>>85717019>jackass thinks being white will get him a womanClearly your shit personality has cost you more than being white has given you.
>>85717392There was never a time in history where he was a catch in general, unless he was rich or powerful of course.
I simply choose not to. Modern women are boring to be around and I only want them for sex anyways.
>>85720223You said only one of these traits makes him grossly unattractive including having glassesSo>broooo why dont you just magically become a 6ft5 multimilionaire model without flaws the bar is in hell broooooYoure either trolling or retarded.
>>85721436>implying being white gives you anything apart from being charged 10times more when visiting third world countries
>>85721597Don't forget being dispossessed in your own country. Also, having a propaganda machine tell white women to fuck non-white men.
>>85721589So what? Whats wrong with wanting apex males? It's not women fault that most len these days are trash.
>>85716939Bars are in hell and I refuse to attend bars.
tbqfh ive never even tried
>>85716939I do not perceive Anglophones as female, and I live in the Anglosphere. It's very peaceful and monastic, in a way, but eventually I will have to travel globally in search of an actual woman. Native English speakers just have something wrong with them that makes them men. Not knocking anyone with an Anglophone gf, it's just, you're probably gay.
>>85721602Nonwhites not only have their own ethnostates they can go to and be among exclusively their own, but they have no way of even conceiving what it's like to be white. They think you're joking or exaggerating. White people deal with something that literally could only come about after decades of your elder boomers in charge explicitly hating you and wanting you killed and humiliated. And so they don't even believe it when it's starkly in front of their face. Even if you frame it to them and asked them if they would fare well if their corporate, academic, and entertainment apparatuses in their countries had an ethnic cleansing agenda against them and you literally never got a break from it, they think it has only a marginal effect and doesn't offset your fantastical so-called "white privilege" It's a privilege to be broke, fat, stupid, hated, humiliated and castrated apparently
>>85717175A bf is a future husband == needs a job. Casual sex partners don't need one. You're conflating the two.
>>85716939Women decide the bar men have to cross.So if the bar is in hell, who put it there? Who put the bar so low?
>>85722432The answer is always men. When something bad, it's men's fault. If it's not by men's doing, it's because men made women do it. It's called patriarchy. Educate yourself.
>>85716939>Leave women alone!>Why are only the creepiest guys who don't care how women feel approaching me?
>>85716939One of you is Korean, One of you is Japanese. You're both Chinese.
I don't get why white guys say there is active discrimination against them. White chads are doing the best they have ever been with the global dating market. Meanwhile, ethnics are getting filtered out by their own women in favor of normal or tall white males. This is something I have seen with my own eyes. If you are white and compare yourself to Tyrone or Miguel, of course you will think they are doing better than you. But, that is because you are comparing yourself, an ordinary man, to the cream of the crop of another race. If you instead compare yourself to the average male or adult of your contemporary ethnic race, you will see that you are doing better than them.
>>85722908Absolute cope. White men are being wiped out of existence but they are doing "fine." Right.
>>85722916You are talking about birth rates and interracial marriage. One is an issue of women only wanting Chad and the other is an issue you will have to talk with Chad about. If the average white male is doing bad, what makes you think the average brown male is doing any better?
>>85716939Because satan is using it as his stripper pole.
>>85722929Because the average brown/black male has ethnostates. They don't have propaganda machines telling THEIR women to fuck some foreign group of men. 20% of their women are not breeding with outside groups. That only happens to one race. Quit coping
>>85716939Because women deserve nothing but suffering, addressing female suffering was societies downfall.
>>85716939Most men that are chad just aggressively hit on every single women they see. Women just need to start hitting on men more
>>85716939i can get tons of women, i just avoid western women.20 minutes with a hungarian girl is more pleasant and enjoyable than a deck of the best behaved western woman.ill never touch a westoid cunt again.
>>85719833Buddy, you have all the material things to get a decent women, but you're a self admitted fat slob. Would you date a fat woman with cat lady glasses that couldn't hold a conversation to save her life?
>>85722944>Because the average brown/black male has ethnostatesPoint to these ethnostates, because most of these brown countries outside of middle eastern oilless shitholes have been invaded and/or occupied by white western countries. There are no true ethnostates, especially brown ones.
>>85723766I am not the anon you replied to. I'm not fat.>Would you date a fat woman with cat lady glasses that couldn't hold a conversation to save her life?I can do all of these btw. Yes i would date her without hesitation. Would she date me? No because she wants a 6ft5 wereworld bilionaire
>>85716948https://youtube.com/shorts/c3KrTcnPhfcBe more like Ross.If you want a number and date, ask for the number and set the date.Basicslly that SouthvPark dog wgisperer episode. (You) are going for a walk. She is lucky enough to come along.You should have a life which is interesting enough for her to enjoy being a part of. Not for her sake, but for your sake. An interesting life for you is likely more fulfilling. Do you enjoy they orchestra or some concert in town? Or are you a musician and the performer. Are you working on a vehicle? Invite her to help you work on your car. Take her for a joyride when it's ready. Show her th4 back seat kek.I genuinely enjoyed ballroom dancing. I'd have cslled that fag shit when I was 14 but in college I got good at it and was surrounded by babes who constantly asked me to dance with them if I didn't ask first. I eve had a falling out with two, but I still went to the same classes, and even brought dates of my own - much to the chagrin of my orbiters I'm certain. One LEO would walk across the room every time and ask me to dance until she finally broke up with her BF and asked me over for NYE.Have an interesting life she csn be accessory to.Do you fish or camp? Bring her along.Do you mountain bike or garden?Do you have a gym? Invite her for a workout.Do you like coffee? Okay sure, if you get a coffee or smoothee after your workout she can meet you then.If you shitpost online like I do these days, that's not attractive to anyone. What is she gonna do, watch you on your laptop solve captchas and post frogs to tire pressure IQ mother fuckers? Lame. You're lame.South Park episode for reference:https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0799356/You can humor a woman once in a while, as an exception, as a treat. But don't ever listen to a fish tell you how to catch a fish. Women are also liars - it is heir nature.
>>85716939Bar is in hell so if youre above a demon you get rejected and cucked
>>85723926Ross' book sucks btw. The Youtube short is good though.His drinking games are also good. The 'hand contact pressure' game to start and then I copied the 'hand slap' game from IG - the woman needs to slap your hand whereveer you put it, high, low, to the side, finally her forehead where you yank yur hand away and she smacks herself on the forehead.But yeah his books suck.
>why? Oingo Oingo - Only a Lad- Track 2
>>85717055based ventinonny
So there's some truth to what they are saying. It's never been easier to separate yourself from the average loser idiot that can't speak or act properly. But the thing these women are neglecting to mention is that they had a lot of offer they would have already gotten a man. They are 2nd rate females mad at the quality of 2nd rate males but and refusing to settle with their matches.
>>85723766Can she suck a dick gud?
>>85716948I'm not white and still can't get a gf, though I'm an entire generation separated from you tide pod eaters.
>>85717055Brittany is difficult, hypergamous, and idolizes "bimbo"ism.
It doesnt matter where the bar is.I cannot clear it. So I've given up
The final black pill is that you need overwhelming free time to date now. Work 60 hour weeks? Probably have money, but no time for working out to build your energy, explore creative outlets, explore third spaces, plan dates, hell it can be exhausting to just practice basic hygenine. Immediate disqualification due to lack of time and energy and inability to build either. So the solution is to either have a normal job that pays very high and is low stress OR just be born wealthy, allowing you to have the requirements or at minimum the ability to build up to the requirements. The exception is getting extremely lucky and landing a looksmatch when you're both 15 but even that goes sideways around late 20s early 30s, everytime. Good luck.
>>85725511This, bold and original flavor edition
>>85723921I'm a 6'5" werewolf billionaire and I'm still not getting dates, you don't get how hard it is.
>>85716939>>85716948Bullshit, the "bar" is on the floor of a small coffee shop in Agartha. Only the truly initiated are aware of this.
>>85716989>It's an incredible burden to have a woman in your life, you basically can't do anything you want anymore.When she broke up with me I didn't become happier, but I had so much calm. It's like I'm alive again.
