>virgin goonette
Stopped reading there, bait used to be worth something.

>>85717585
i used to be addicted to gooning and i never had sex

>>85717573
There must be solutions here. Its grim to give yourself only these two options of situations. Its clear you can also attract dudes, but sometimes its hard to find someone you actually like.

>>85717573
If you don't feel attracted to your bf, then it's best to not try to force the attraction. It's the female curse to only be attracted to chad. If you feel like a good Samaritan, then have sex with your bf before you let him go, so that he has better chances with other women, as women in general are pretty disgusted by male romantic and sexual inexperience.

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>>85717603
Cant blame me, any guy with half a braincell knows this doesnt add up, and honestly any women pretending to be coy in this day and age after 18 is a bad faith actor most likely. Hate the game not the players!

>>85717573
>>he wanted me to stay and cried so i guess he liked me as more than goon mates

Funniest shit I've read today. Who said femoids can't be funny?

>>85717573
Do you want a big dick bf to make you preggers, I won't let you goon when we're together.

>>85717573
It sounds like you just enjoy big cock and he's not giving that to you. Why stay with him if he's not scratching the itch? You want what you want.

>>85717628
i just cannot seem to find a healthy way to connect with the male gender. i have a high sex drive and weak flesh but i also feel bad about being a degenerate. i wish i could have the sex life i want without having to feel guilt about it
>>85717646
>>85717675
you are right but i know my bf has more to offer on the long run than a guy with a big dick, right now i want sex because i never had it but once it loses its novelty i will probably regret not being with someone who adds more to my life. i need to make the right decision and stop letting gooning control everything
>>85717661
what are you trying to say
>>85717664
i wish. breeding could fix me

>>85717715
>i wish. breeding could fix me
I didn't read the bf part. Although I do have a hentai sized member.

>>85717715
How much work have you put into finding a man that you're both attracted to and like?

>>85717759
How are you supposed to know hes got a big dick if you dont have sex with him? feel him up and dip if its not big enough?

>>85717715
You're right, he might have what you need long term but it sounds like you also need a short term fix right now.

I don't mind dropping a contact if you'd like to remember what seeing a big cock is like.

The archetype you lust after doesn't exist.
There is no rapey werewolf monster.
The guy you like can roleplay once you get there.
>feel no lust for him
How could you when you're holding yourself back? You are training yourself to not feel lust for him.
You need to delete the texts and whatever else from the other guy. You don't need to become completely abstinent, just be smart about what you fap to and/or use imagination.

>>85717756
i really need to stop being obsessed with big dicks, please stop tempting me
>>85717759
i have no idea how to do that, i either don't find them attractive or don't like them. both at the same time i have never seen yet
>>85717769
my dilemma and i would feel so bad rejecting someone for having a small one but it is so important to my attraction, idk what my bf's size is but i think his probably isn't that big because that's the vibe i get

>>85717646
Do not pity fuck the guy for two reasons:
It may bond you to the guy which will suck for the breakup, and it also ruins your value as a woman.

>i have a high sex drive and weak flesh but i also feel bad about being a degenerate. i wish i could have the sex life i want without having to feel guilt about it
It's called marriage.

Yeah I can't help you I'm older and I have only had a couple doomed discord relationships with trans girls, I cried too

>>85717818
>i really need to stop being obsessed with big dicks, please stop tempting me
Its really really big, uncut with a lot of foreskin and oozes cum, its kind of gross actually

>>85717818
> i would feel so bad rejecting someone for having a small one but it is so important to my attraction
Well dont tell them that because itd be rude and make him insecure when you could simply say you dont feel the connection. Take the responsibility for being selfishly shallow so you can actually bring sexual attraction and emotional attraction. Or do as >>85717801 says if you submit to these extreme situations.

>>85717823
I completely disagree. If OP follows what she's attracted to, she will inevitably sexually reward chads and psychopathic bastards in the end. While "the good sweet guy" will of course get fuck all. What kind of environment is it crafting for men, where only being an evil psychopathic bastard is copiously sexually rewarded by women, while being "a good sweet guy" is completely disincentivized? It's terrible for the society on the population level. If she stays with the "good sweet guy", she will obviously dead beadroom him and probably just cheat left and right, as she's obviously not attracted to him. So again, the best option is to have sex with the guy and then go their separate ways.

>>85717869
The best option is to find her big dick personality match. She doesnt owe anyone sex unless she wants to fuck him.

>>85717573
What's the point of even asking, do you need people to convince you on what you should do? If you really wanted to commit to who you're with right now you'd delete the texts and remove the contact, but you don't because some part of you still clings on and wants to keep the ex as an option. Frankly that's quite a shitty thing to do, you're trash and you should feel like it. Either delete the texts or cut contact or commit to the guy, you already know this. If you want to rewire your brain then if you're going to relapse the very least you could do is to direct that pent up sexual energy elsewhere that's not whatever degenerate shit you're into, even if it's not as satisfying.

>>85717800
i really shouldn't
>>85717801
that is a more realistic way to look at it. i know the big dick rapey werewolf isn't real and no man irl will be like that. i know it makes no sense to hold real people to that standard. it's not like i'm a porn archetype either. maybe i really trained myself to not feel attracted to a normal person. i need to reframe how i think
>>85717823
i don't want to pity fuck anyone. i do like my bf but i don't feel attracted to him because he isn't like my gooner fantasies i guess. my brain says one thing my pussy says another. i know this is so rude to say but that's just how i feel.

>>85717874
Well, she can do that. I said that she should only have sex with the boring beta good boy if she feels like a good Samaritan. If she doesn't and she's completely fine reinforcing the "evil psychopathic bastard men get all the sexual rewards" status quo incentive structure and that it's not her problem, then she's free to do that too. No other woman has any qualms about doing so and is perfectly happy following what she feels like with zero consideration of how it affects the society at large, so I don't see why OP would be any different in that regard.

>>85717926
do you want pity sex anon? Also kind of fucked to bond with someone then leave

>>85717926
Do you really believe that only bad men have big dicks? Or kinks similar to op? That seems like a stretch. Are micros the most moral men to you? I think the resentment and bitterness of having a smaller pp is clouding your judgement anon.

>>85717933
>do you want pity sex anon?
Nah, I'm good, thanks

>>85717863
i want to stop being so shallow. i know it is not logical
>>85717869
i would never cheat. i would need to find a way to make our sex life work somehow. i know i can't get everything i want and life is about compromise
>>85717874
i don't think it exists
>>85717880
he is no longer an option. i stopped talking to him a while ago. i just can't stop thinking about him sexually. i don't even like him that much. i don't want him back. my sexuality is disgusting. it is making me never want to have sex. i wish i could be normal

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Yet another foid complaining about non-problems
Normally i would complain about you foids shitting up the board, but i am tired and in pain. Getting angry would only make my headache worse. How did I get this headache you might ask? Well I got it because i jerked off. So yeah. If you don't get headaches from gooning, consider yourself lucky
Another day, another cope taken away...

>>85717944
But it's not really only about a big dick, is it. It's about this incessant female lust for power, dominance, and psychopathy. It's very unhealthy for the society, when that's the overwhelming incentive structure for men to follow.
>>85717954
>i want to stop being so shallow.
You can't. You're a woman. It's in your nature to only crave chad. You can't change it. It's your curse. So it's best to just consider a few societal ramifications on your way out before you fully give yourself to chad in his harem.

>>85717954
Here could be an actuable solution then, if you simply stop cooming that isn't going to lead you to desiring something else. Remember that desire is also mental, so what's probably happening is even if you didn't physically coom you were fantasizing and mentally ruminating the whole time, and all that does is lead to you getting pent up and then releasing on what you've already conditioned yourself to desire, werewolf dick. So instead of doing that, re-direct the desire somewhere else, even if it's not as gratifying at first. There's an anon who's re-conditioning himself to become gay and if he can do that then you can desire something else besides werewolf dick.

>>85717995
actionable solution*

>>85717995
Basically you need to form new associations, right now you associate sexual gratification with big dick werewolves, you need to diminish that by replacing it with something else. You could try not replacing it, but the problem is you'll just return to the old habit if you're ever feeling horny.

>>85717988
nah most women want a gentle giant who is only capable of protective violence and animalistic passionate love making with her alone. Even masochists don't really desire sadists, because a sadist is not interested in actually satisfying the masochists desires. You need to hit ao3 and read more fanfic written by actual women.

>>85717975
what are you saying
>>85717988
no i don't want to be in chad's harem
>>85717995
that is honestly a great analogy. there are people out there conditioning themselves into changing their sexual orientation completely. meanwhile i cannot build attraction towards a normal guy because i'm obsessed with werewolf dick, something that doesn't even exist.
>>85718029
i need to fetishize my bf somehow

>>85718043
>nah most women want a gentle giant
Absolutely not. They want Christian Grey, not the golden retriever. Every single love interest in female smut literature is the exact same archetype.

>>85718048
>what are you saying
Read

>>85718048
You can start with watching completely vanilla hentai. It doesn't matter if you can't orgasm, just get the embers to start burning, create new associations that vanilla sex = sexual excitation. At a certain point of horniness it'll probably be possible to orgasm to anything, but you want to only orgasm to vanilla sex. As you progress along you can start imagining that the guy in hentai is your bf. This is just an example of what you can do.

>>85718063
You are proving my point, you only engage with the most generic slop you can glaze over. Do all men desire exactly Megan fox from transformers with zero nuance at all whatsoever? We both know you don't read books written by women and have never done so sincerely.

>>85718094
don't try to force it too much though, otherwise you'll start associating it with being too much of a chore. Just redirect the energy elsewhere to whatever degree you can.

>>85718094
you have given the most productive advice so far. thank you. i will change my own sexuality and stop letting porn addiction control my life. it makes no sense to let shallow preferences ruin something good going on for me

>>85718095
>You are proving my point, you only engage with the most generic slop you can glaze over.
Bitch, the generic slop you're referring to is 99%+ of female smut literature. I don't give a fuck that Ms Wattpad is only aroused by the thought of a frog with antlers.
>Do all men desire exactly Megan fox from transformers with zero nuance at all whatsoever?
Men have a much greater variance in what they consider attractive, even though there still is a convergence in terms of what's considered conventionally attractive. Male sexual desire also has practically no bottom floor, while female sexual desire is extremely selective, which is why the gays all fuck each other all the time while in the hetero land it's mostly a minority of men monopolizing the vast majority of sexual access to women. This is why it's such a shame when there's such an overwhelming selection pressure for socially disastrous traits like psychopathy. But you can't help it. It's how you're wired.

>>85717661
I died at that as well.

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>>85717573
So several thoughts. There's nothing wrong with being a goonette, trying to force yourself stop is probably a bad idea. You should probably tell your BF that your a gooner apologize for pretending to be "pure". Breaking up with your first BF was a probably a mistake consider that you cried for weeks about it.
I'm an aromantic virgin gooner, so I can't really relate to being in love or in a relationship. I can't really give good advice on this, but generally lying to people, especially people that your always around, creates stress for yourself and can completely backfire on you.

>>85718048
>i need to fetishize my bf somehow
Honestly I think you just need to ask him how big he is. Guys don't really shy away from answering.
Then again I'm pretty confident as I'm in the top 1% size wise.

>>85718094
You're not wrong in theory, but you're wrong in the approach. Hentai and not real sex is what got her into this mess. Get worked up and then kiss the bf. You don't train for a marathon by pushups, you train by running.

>>85718158
I can tell with absolute certainty that you are not ugly enough to warrant being this much of a bitchbaby. You can cope all you want but ultimately your learned helplessness will keep you a pussyfree good boy martyr who never did anything wrong simply because you refuse to do anything at all in the first place. GG

>>85718280
Wow, what's with the personal attacks. I was just discussing Chad in peace, and you came out swinging like that. Not cool, man.

>even if you get a virgin gf who's never dated before she will still be hung up on her ex-goon mate
Brutal
>>85718048
>i don't want to be in chad's harem
Too late, you already are. You were in goonChads goonHarem and now you've ruined your ability to pair bond forever.

>>85718304
She spent a lot of time and energy being intimate with him, listening to his voice, feeling sexual pleasure while interacting with him. That she's a virgin is a mere technicality. She needs to frame it mentally as him being her previous boyfriend not just a "goonmate".

>>85718263
My reasoning that if you're into unrealistic cartoons then the next best thing in order to re-condition yourself is to go to more realistic, vanilla cartoons of the kind of thing you want to re-wire yourself to be sexually gratified by. I don't think the distinction between cartoons is as stark as running vs push ups though, at the end of the day even though it's an image it's still a representation of the real thing. The desire for werewolf dick is what made her desire the real thing in the first place, or rather however close you can get to in reality.
>>85718144
You've gotta be careful with announcing what you're going to do because it'll make you feel like you accomplished something when you didn't, just set out to do it, if you understand the theory you can come up with something to do.

>>85718316
I agree. Her jumping right into sexual stuff with him without doing any of the other dating stuff is worse actually. She should actually consider him more of a FWB Chad who picked her up at a bar and fucked her repeatedly without him ever having to put in the effort of dating her.

>>85718304
>>85718343
stop exaggerating
>>85718316
what are you talking about, if i never had sex i'm objectively virgin period
>>85718323
okay i know

>>85718367
You've engaged in intimate sexual contact with a man, repeatedly, and now you can't be with your boyfriend without comparing him to that experience.
Does this sound like a virgin, or just another hypergamous foid?

>>85718367
>>85718410
Men will say this shit then jerk off to women being pissed on and forced to vomit on penis you'll be fine nona. You're young and you're horny which makes you feel desperate and in a state of urgency to find love to justify how badly you want to have sex. Go vibrate your clit for a bit and reexamine your situation with post nut clarity. You should find someone you feel attracted to but can also stand being around when you aren't horny. It seems impossible now because you have a scarcity mindset. Make some real male friends in platonic settings and think about what sex with them would feel like. The one that meets both criteria is who you should actually pursue.

>>85718463
I haven't jerked off in a year and when I did I didn't do it to anything more extreme than swimsuit or naked models.
t. The man saying this shit.

>>85717756
>dude said member
:drooling emoji:

>>85717769
You ask for a dick pic like a normal person

>>85717573
anon i hate to be the one to say this but.....you're a man.....also show your cock in the thread faggot