Have you truly accepted the fact that you're an adult?
>>85718868the moment I came back from Nicaragua.
Yes, but because I was born defective, I can never hope to achieve something akin to a normal adult life. Things may settle down once I'm ~35+. I don't know. Or maybe I'll die of a seizure at 25. It's coming. It's guaranteed. It's written down. Soon.
It's hard to accept that my physical prime years are behind me, I want to move on, but there is so many unanswered questions
>>85718868Yes, now I work at auditory for a big firm.Other than that nothing has really changed, but here is normal for the oldest son to live his whole life with his parents
>>85718868Yea. It's pretty great.
>>85718868I grew up fast and eagerly embraced adulthood responsibilities around by time I was 14, working full time and paying rent (to a friend's dad, but still). As the years have passed, forceful effortliving has netted me nothing short of catastrophically sisyphean life-failure. So I regressed. I'm less mature now than I was as a pre-teen. By a lot. Adulthood isn't worth it for certain people.
>>85718868yesoriginal comet for faggot board
>>85718868Shinji ended up with the psycho from the new movies? You just know she pegs him while slicing his back with razors.
>>85718868no.. i got asked how it feels to be an old hag my last birthday
>>85719155If you could be 16 again, what would you do differently?
>>85718868FUCK YOU, I'M A 90s-KID. I'm going to get back into skateboarding next year.
>>85718868I was more of an adult when I was in my 20s than now in my 30s.I had a future then. I don't now.
>>85719167do better in school, not talk to anyone online at all, start a class for a small college certificate for a stay at home job, start trying to get married at 18
>>85719282I'm sorry it played out this way
>>85718868No. I'm still as useless as a child, very runty so I don't look much like an adult either. I wish there was an easier way to grow up. I mean you can pretend to have your shit together, yeah, but its not the same as feeling comfortable with yourself and your position in life. I just wish I could be okay and be okay with being an adult.
>>85719294things will be ok time just passes too fast and things would just be better if i was smarter when i was younger. i'm not even horribly irredeemably old. the person who asked me was joking but i'm sensitive abt that topic.
>>85719323Sorry to ask but curious, if you had that chance to go back would you take it? Or do you want to stay here and try to fix things
>>85718868>Have you truly accepted the fact that you're an adult?I dont really feel like an adult. I have audhd and it stop me from doing things or makes me forget things. I get hyper and anxious along with being depressed. Idk im a mess these days trying to navigate life from the day to day work and not trying to blow my shit off from how overwhelmed I am all the time. Inside I still feel like I am 15 but on outside I am 32. If it wasnt for the hair situation then I would still look that young but I wear a hat all the time covering it up. I have to mask all the time but when I am by myself I run around and say and do a bunch of hyper crazy things at home. These days I cant help but wish I could go back and change things. Silly me for thinking that way and making myself upset.
>>85718868Yes, I'm okay with being an adult. Childhood was horrible since I was always alone and broke. Now I'm still alone but I have money now...
>>85719470>I cant help but wish I could go back and change thingeveryone does it, its ok anon
>>85718868I haveTook about a year of me moving out before it sinked in, like "holy shit I'm paying rent and bills now"I'm 28 years old, I just moved out last year
I don't think I will as long as I live with my parentsI don't regret my choice though, giving them a bigger place to live still feels fulfilling to this point
>>85719367i'm honestly not so sure because i did learn a lot during that time and i think i'm a bit mature for my age because of it. maybe if i wasn't i would be more likely to get into a bad relationship and i would still be atheist. and maybe if i wasn't content with socially inept for so long i would've been a whore. if i was given the option i think i would stay here.
