One of the things that bothers me about the concept of getting married is just the idea of everyone really expecting me to act super happy and emotional and being the center of attention for most of a day.I know its kinda a down the road problem as I dont even have a gf rn but it just kills me to imagine a whole crowd of people expecting me to break down crying or some shit. Id honestly want to just do a court house wedding but of course if I was to get married I would obviously care about my wife and knowing women shed probably want something bigger.I dont know guys its just depressing to think about can anyone else relate?
>>85723992I get it anon. It has bugged me for years.My hope is whoever I marry will feel the same, and just elope with me. I'm attracted to more independent, tomboyish girls anyway, so I don't think that's an impossible goal.
>>85723992What are you on about broIf you are a man acting stoic on all social occasions is perfectly acceptable
>>85723992Your wedding day is likely the start of the end of your relationship with the woman so idk why anyone would be happy about it. You basically have 1 to maybe 10 years before she divorces you once the ring is on her finger
>>85723992I can't see myself crying at my wedding either.
