Regarding the latter, it really seems like you need an exceptional trans woman to match a mediocre cis woman.
I guess you're saying you're a lesbian but you're a foid so you're like I'm not a lesbian we're just complicated. Candace was a lesbian but then you want to be all trad, man fuck you.
>>85725778context:i have a cock.
Sounds like you have a toxic, meme idea of what masculinity is, probably because overzealous social reformers have "deconstructed" previously existing models but then not replaced them with anything worthwhile, leaving the void to be filled by lowest common denominator tropes of brutish dominance, callous aggression, and predatory sexuality which are ultimately deeply unsatisfying