Why are men extremely low effort these days?
>>85733323With how fast women swipe typing anything is pointless, if theyre at the point of reading they gonna wanna match you anyways.
>>85733332I read profiles. But to be honest men are like "where do you live, do you have Snapchat"Thats it, anything i say more is met with silence. I think men are full of shit
>>85733357Thats fine but its simply how dating apps are, normigoid pit. Tried it myself with zero success despite putting some effort it, Regardless you could always try to compare it with womans profile by making an Alt with different preference.
>>85733323I had a full bio, but i still barely got anything besides bots/scammers anyway.>>85733357>where do you live, do you have SnapchatWe have learnt to get women OFF of dating apps ASAP, and somewhere that you will hopefully be less spammed.knowing your location tells us if it's just going to be LDR or not.>Thats it, anything i say more is met with silence.Usually its the guy that has to jester to keep your attention.
>>85733377I see women on dating apps and i realise im ugly and will never be loved. Im a 4/10.And thats fine, i cant help being me, but no men want me, I went on a date with a guy, 5'5, i didn't care it didn't bother me, we go for food and he starts an argument with the guy serving, then starts an argument with me when i said it was embarrassing, i just went home lol.Im done with men, idek when im on the apps, boredom. Not meeting anyone, rather go to a restaurant alone
>>85733357>But to be honest men are like "where do you live, do you have Snapchat"I used to do this, mostly as a means to figure out if men are real and not some Niggerian trying to sextort and/or scam me.I'd rather not give them my number either. But yeah, in most cases it's just men are full of shit and trying to get freaky over Snapchat.
>>85733416Harsh, I dont even understand the point of "dates" nor i ever had them, but honestly the best way to do them would just probably get drunk for me at least, never had i had better times than just doing that and having a heart to heart talks with people. Not everyone is a passive drunk though.
Obviously this guy is attractive because you actually scrolled down on his profile instead of just swiping left instantly without thinking, and you will probably swipe right on him anyways despite how "low effort" his profile is because it's not like you actually care how low effort he is if he's attractive.
>>85733416how tf do these guys even get dates?fuck me
>>85733432Wrong, why do you assume im a masochist. Why would i humiliate myself just because a guy is physically attractive but a piece of shit. So fucking what.Thats the problem with the internet, its always an extremist position. You'll see posts from 18 year old kids trying to engage for money on tiktok and twitter, then be like yep all women are like that.Its so fucking stupid. Some women love serial killers and will write to them, whats the %, 4% of women do that? 2%? Some men like it when their woman cheats on them, again does that mean all men are like that. I hate the internet now
>>85733435He seemed nice. I was like oh, you can actually hold a conversation. Then he switched when we went for food. It was awful, two girls were like "are you ok, you can sit with us if you want".Anyways my advice is dont start fights on service workers, it looks awful. Im glad im wise enough to just walk away rather than argue
>>85733323>screenshot poster accuses someone else of being low-effort
>>85733435When women decide to give the manlet, the "nice guy", the incel etc. a chance they deliberately go for the worst one they can find so when it inevitable crashes and burns they can say "oh, but I gave them a chance" and use it as an excuse to justify going back to being exclusively Chadsexual.Don't fall for their tricks.
>>85733428The point is to see if the guy im talking to is a bad guy or a good one.Its dangerous to be immediately alone with a man, so going somewhere public and talking is important. Not doing that leads to bad things happening
>>85733456Yeah i deliberatly picked a guy who was aggressive and angry towards staff because then i can go on 4chan and say bad things because thats what i want from life, i hate how low iq everyone is
>>85733458Well im sorry i dont really know what to say since i never went on dates but i assume the other party isnt bad as a gesture of good will, parks and such are better for literal first meeting since theyre public and low investment on both parties and is purely for just i guess screening each other? I dont like that way of thinking as itd just inevitably will make you distrust everyone right away.
>>85733453I dislike drama, so i wouldnt cause a scene unless i was leaving as well and they really fucked up.If i ever get a date i'll keep that in mind though.>>85733456It feels that way, but ppl are good liars i guess.
>>85733450The fact that you exploded like this and started bringing up completely random irrelevant shit tells me I'm right.You don't get flak unless you're over the target.
>>85733471The world you live in and the world i live may as well be different dimensionsThis is literally male privilege, literally. You have the safety to assume that things will be ok for you. That is something i absolutely cannot do. I learnt my lesson the hard way about men, not all men are evil but enough are, and the consequences of meeting a bad man can ruin your life forever.How do i know i wont be raped, or robbed, or stalked?
>>85733472Its funny because that guy said he dislikes drama. Yeah just dont do anything aggressive, its an awful look lol>>85733474No, im just fed up with life. Im human, i have limits, im just sick of life itself
>>85733426Get a job and be a provider you womanchild
>>85733501>male privilege>never even had a date once let alone sex>can still be ganged by a woman working with men for my organs or whateverNot saying there are no differences, but this privillage sucks for the hike of the diffiuclty of getting any at all in the first place. Also im just very trusting not exactly a good tip if you live in bad areas or whatever.
>>85733512>Its funny because that guy said he dislikes drama. yes, people lie....on the internet as well of all places.>Yeah just dont do anything aggressive, its an awful look lolive been told im too nice. the most attention i got from women was when i tried to be an aggressive asshole.
>>85733323Because the juice isn't worth the squeeze so we're quiet quitting
>>85733501The reason I am able to feel safe going on dates is because I don't go on dates because girls don't date me. There's your "male privilege".
>>85733512>No, im just fed up with life. Im human, i have limits, im just sick of life itselfFor once, I find myself agreeing with a foid.
>>85733517Its mens job to provide. Also not forcibg myself to deal with ugly men
>>85733543Its still a privilege. Meanwhile women have to deal with men we're not even physically attracted to.
>>85733456It's literally called dating. You date to find someone you can be in a relationship with. If you have a bad date, then you move on.People now just fuck and watch a movie. They invest a lot into a stranger emotionally. When the stranger turns out to be a psychopath or a degenerate, they're like "OMG, I'm never dating again." Then they inevitably try again and fail because dating to them is fucking.
>>85733645>gender roles for thee but not for meeeee~Baiting for a beating again eh?
>>85733651What the fuck are you talking about? The mere fact that you might see a man your not attracted to is a systematic imbalance in society? What the fuck?
>>85733686You're arguing with a bored man pretending to be a woman for rage (you)s. Dunno why anyone would want to spend their weekend that way but it is what it is.
>>85733323Because it's degrading to be high effort for a woman who fucked some other guy for nothing.
>>85733683Gender roles are a male thing. Men should respect theirs. Women shouldnt be held by patriarchal standarfs like these.>>85733686Yes. Men acting like apes and hitting on every woman they see is creating an unsafe environment for women
>>85733702Alright dude I hope you get many (you)s today so you still feel like you've achieved something.
Women don't have the attention span to read anything except for ads, obviously fake product reviews, and porn. Also apparently effort is icky or something.
>>85733323Even if you put effort its not like you'll ever get your pick in women. Most guys just swipe on everyone and see what they get because otherwise its a wasteland
>>85733460>Yeah i deliberatly picked a guyare you implying you somehow fell and accidentally ended up in a date with a guy like that?
>>85733501>you have the safety to assume things will be ok for youFirst gf held a knife to my throat, last gf in HS lied about her cheating and her bf came to meet us on a date with a knife, last date I did had a woman lie about her ex who was about to be out of prison after he went back having nearly killed the last guy she went on a date withWomen can be dangerous as well. At least men that are dangerous are usually obviously dangerous, women will act sweet and then pull a knife on you because she wants to lick up your blood while she jerks you off
they know that only the pic is important on the app
>>85733763funny how if women want to be dangerous they still need to outsource it to a man
>>85733323No one reads profile descriptions in dating apps
>>85733323The only thing that matters in the profile is the first picture which should always be a close-up of your face in good outdoor lighting, sitting in your car.That's it. If a woman pauses after seeing your pic, then the next 1-2 shots should be of your body and some kind of social/active setting that's impressive. Or you and your dog if you want le wholesome gf instead of a hook-up.People putting in an essay into their profile are retarded. That's not how these apps work.
>>85733855>le wholesome gf>on a meat market appHuh?
>>85733861Hinge is the "gf" app. I'm not saying you'll find quality people there, but the likelihood is probably slightly higher than Tinder, kek.
>>85733323>Londonthats a british man, british men are specifically terrible at being soulless and boring to speak to
>>85733757Dont know what someone is like until you go on a date>>85733763Those are horrific, but prove my point. Safety is important>>85733879Hate british men so much is unreal
>>85733873That's like saying waddling through knee-high raw sewage is better than being thrown into the jeetpit. Doesn't say much when the women are all prosties no matter where you are online.
women don't want a complex manin fact deep thinking men threatens and unnerves them (can't control with pussy probably neurodivergent ick ick)meanwhile chad doesn't have to try
