>>85736611
>early 20s
look for a gf to marry in your late 20s (27-29)

>>85736621
you look older btw.

>>85736611
It's good to keep your eye out for gf material but women your age might not care for that. Casual sex isnt worth it in the end, you'll feel nothing from it.

>>85736611
Be genuinely attractive

Both are nice. You can seek out both simultaneously you know. Obviously don't cheat while in relationships

>>85736634
>Casual sex isnt worth it in the end, you'll feel nothing from it.
I've heard this from other people too. Does it make you feel any different about yourself or sex in general? Or does it just make no difference at all and is a waste of time.
I feel like I should be a virgin and try to meet a virgin woman for the pair-bonding meme, but I don't know if thats true or not. Does that only apply to women?

>>85736629
What is the significance of this?

>>85736611
I'm gonna say the "casual sex" thing is done. Women have just gone absofucklutely batshit crazy. There is a BIG difference between now and thirty years ago. I'd say don't hook up with anyone, unless you are genuinely interested in them and want to get to know them better.

>>85736611
You can do both, you know. They're not mutually exclusive. Have some casual sex if you want, but also look out for wifey material and don't balk when you find her.

>>85736727
Mostly a waste of time, though it is a bit like sharing a secret with someone you don't care about or wouldn't normally really trust enough to tell that secret.
Idk enough about the pairbonding thing, I suppose it matters more to women but from what I've seen men get affected by it as well.

>>85736611
Both. One of your hookups will be hot and pleasant enough to keep, and she'll feel the same way. "Courting" is a spook.